i can confirm as a narcissist we lose our eyebrows in the vicinity of dark empaths
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thank fucking god
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Peak NPD behavior is inserting yourself into other peoples’ vent posts to cry about how cruel and unfair it is to you, personally, that a stranger on the internet used the term “narcissistic abuse”.
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I don’t know who needs to hear this but no mentally ill person is capable of evil that you are not. We are capable of abusing others, yes, but so are you. Our capacity to hurt people is the same as yours because to abuse is to make a choice, it is not something out of your control.
Narcissistic abuse isn’t real because pwNPD are not capable of abusing others in a way that people without NPD are not. If you have been hurt by one of them, well you’re capable of doing the same things as them. You are not better than them just because you don’t have a certain condition. You may tell me ‘a narc will destroy you to your core’ but so will you.
And I have been hurt by someone with BPD. I should have kicked her to the curb sooner than I did. I shouldn’t have let her hurt me like that. But you know what? The things she did to hurt me? People in my past who didn’t have BPD did the same things to me. Why would I blame her disorder for what she did if it’s clear that she didn’t need it to make that happen? She chose to be like that.
You are working in the favor of your abusers by blaming their behavior on mental illnesses. You’re handing them a get out of jail free card on a silver platter. Worse, you’re burning vulnerable people who did nothing wrong at the same time. Don’t absolve your abuser of guilt. Acknowledge that they chose to be the way they did.
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believing in narcissistic abuse is ableist and hurtful as hell because it demonizes a personality disorder caused by trauma.
believing in narcissistic abuse is ableist and hurtful as hell because it demonizes a personality disorder caused by trauma.
believing in narcissistic abuse is ableist and hurtful as hell because it demonizes a personality disorder caused by trauma.
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what a fucking clown LMAOO I should turn this into a copypasta
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me: i'm sad
the open bottle of vodka sitting in my pantry:
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I need people to shut the fuck up and get to the point more often please!!
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“It feels like every time I take 1 step forward I take 2 steps back” it feels like I do 4 quadruple backflips backwards every half an inch I take
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Yo real quick it is perfectly possible and OKAY for people with NPD (narcissistic personality disorder) to want and have healthy relationships.
Contrary to popular belief, NPD doesn't inherently turn someone into a "master manipulator" or an abuser. NPD is a disorder created by trauma. Traumatized people are not inherently threatening.
If someone is abusive, that doesn't mean they have NPD.
If someone has NPD, that doesn't mean they're abusive.
If any of my followers (or others who see this) have NPD, you are not a bad person for wanting healthy relationships.
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Excuse my lack of response, you just said something that my brain decided is an attack now I hate you until further notice and I'd rather not talk to you because if I do I might say something hurtful and I'm trying to convince myself that I'm a good person
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why am I so silly (thousands injured, hundreds dead)
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I’m tired of failing to meet the expectation of being a good person.
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Reminder to everyone that I’m always open for asks to clarify my own NPD traits or generally anything else you’d need to know about the disorder.
My journey of self discovery with NPD from a while back was a great experience that expanded my views
While I’ve come to know I don’t have the disorder, I do know what it’s like to never feel/be understood by anyone(something I rarely express)
All and all I support all pwNDP that may see this post and if you don’t know much about the disorder than please check out @narcissisticpdcultureis and @hiyoverload
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I think it’s pretty ironic how my own stepmother would be someone people could armchair diagnose as a “narcissistic mom.” But really she’s just a fucking asshole.
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I’ve been listening to the Dresden dolls on loop for like a month straight now
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