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no one can tell if your lipstick is Chanel or Tom Ford, no one can tell what brand foundation you’re wearing, no one can tell what qualify your eyelashes are.

but they can tell if you’re out of shape, unfit and unhealthy. they can see the quality of your skin, the thickness of your hair. how your body jiggles with each step and isn’t toned.

work on your base, then decorate yourself 🤍

#facts

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I am watching the Gossip Girl reboot for her and no one else

#gossip girl #preppy black girl #love her #style

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Current favorites: lacquer stiletto heels, dark cherry lipstick, satin blouses.

#classy #elegant #feminine

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Education is not just engineering, law, history, science

You can be educated in beauty, fashion, languages, hospitality, gardening, horticulture, gemstones, art, luxury sales and so much more. There’s plenty of intriguing and glamorous(still intensive) fields of education you look into. Always sharpen your skills and knowledge! 

Who knows, maybe you could start a perfume line from home. Or educate your peers on your understanding of interior design or flower arrangements.

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Education

No matter what anyone says to level up in high society you need to have a degree. We have all have seen the movies where a regular girl with no education and a boring personality was able to pull some rich guy but in the real world it doesn’t work like that. People of certain background and social status tend to be surrounded with like minded people. I can’t sit here and say that I want a highly educated men while never been to school. It is very unlikely for me to meet that person. Your education and social circle for the most part determine the type of people you end up with. There is nothing wrong with aiming higher or wanting more. You yourself have to be on a similar path. I genuinely feel like a degree is entry level for marrying a wealthy man. Even if you want to be a housewife you need to have a degree. It doesn’t matter where you are in the world. High value people put a lot of importance on education. Rich people are literally bribing, donating and cheating just so their children can go to the top schools. And also having a useful degree keep you protected. If things don’t work out with your partner you need to be able to pick up and go and fend for yourself.

PS. this is not about people who wants to marry rappers or ball players

#feminine #hypergamy #education #traditional feminity #level up #realistic #women

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Ava Gardner

One of my favorites old Hollywood actress is Ava Gardner. She was beautiful, seductive and the embodiment of the femme fatale. She was also funny and  charming. People love to be around her. Every men that met her wanted to to be with her. She carried herself like a goddess. She was mysterious and unattainable which made people desire her more. She was just Fascinating  

#ava gardner #femme fatale #feminine

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https://www.instagram.com/p/CF7GW9cjqPX/?igshid=zyz8a34y2ddu

#feminine #black women in luxury #hypergamy

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#facts #hypergamy #feminine

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I want to do a streak challenge. Like don’t break the streak.

50 Days of Fitness starts now 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

#2021goals #weightloss

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Why do you always say that girls with less education can't make it into the most exclusive circles? I'm sure that at least a few women with no college education have married really rich or married up into royalty.

Here are six examples.

Emma Weymouth was head girl at her private school, graduated with honours, went on to University College London and got a degree in Art History, went on to study Art History, and was raised by a Nigerian billionaire and English socialite, is an heir to her father's estate and will be worth billions when he passes, and had a career in modelling far before she married and became the Marchioness of Bath.

Meghan Markle attended private school, graduated with honours, got accepted to Northwestern, joined Kappa Kappa Gamma, worked for the State Department, interned at the American Embassy in Buenos Aires, and graduated with a B.A. after having double majored in International Studies and Theatre.

Duchess Kate has a B.A. in Art History, she worked as an accessory buyer, she graduated with honours and was involved in a wide variety of activities and did a number of summer jobs, she fundraised for UNICEF, and she took a gap year to go on a study abroad trip. She had a career before, during, and after she met Prince William and married into the BRF. This is an absolutely indisputable fact.

Mary of Denmark graduated with a Bachelors of Commerce and a Bachelors of Laws and went on to complete a graduate program. She attended the University of Tasmania and had a successful career long before she married into the Danish Royal Family and had solid plans. She had an accomplished life.

Queen Rania has a degree from the American University in Cairo in Business Administration and worked for both Citibank and Apple before she married into the Jordanian Royal Family. She now advocates for causes like education, health, community empowerment, youth, cross-cultural dialogue and micro-finance. She was accomplished.

Queen Letizia of Spain has a B.A. in Journalism, an M.A. in Audiovisual Journalism, and partially completed her PhD. She worked for various news outlets and was extremely successful, she worked for CNN+, she broadcast from Ground Zero after 9/11, she did journalism from war zones, and she was absolutely beyond accomplished in her own right before she married into the Spanish Royal Family.

See what I'm getting at?

Flat out, It's not possible to marry an extremely wealthy and extremely high class man without higher education. It just doesn't work like that. This isn't even my opinion, this is pure knowledge. I know a Prince of the Emirates extremely well, almost in the biblical sense, he roomed at Eton with my older brother who's Saudi and one of the legitimised Grandsons of Ibn Saud. Anyway, the number one thing he always looked for in a woman was her education because he couldn't bring a woman home who didn't have an educational background. It just wasn't done, she needed to have something going on for her upstairs for her to be able to succeed in life.

It's completely delusional to assume that any man who's in certain circles or knows certain people would want to date or be able to date a woman who has no formal higher education. I mean this in the most brutal way possible, you can't be fucking stupid. Someone needed to tell you. There's a reason why all of the European sugar babies and trophy wives have degrees from like...Saint Petersburg State University and the University of Montenegro at Kotor Bay, it's because they know the facts and they want to better themselves educationally. There's nothing worse than not being able to have an educated conversation with someone because you're in different places in your journey towards education.

Hope you understand.

L <3

#i truly believe that #hypergamy #high value #education

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Relearning to love myself have been on of the best things that have ever happened to me. when I first moved to the states I was living with a family member that was extremely toxic and I lived in that toxic environment for 7 years. when I turned 18 I was living on my own and providing for myself 100 percent and at first it was overwhelming but over time It got better. Even though there were times when I was stressing about rent I still preferred that situation better than where I was before. Without having this person around me constantly tearing me down I became a lot happier. I started doing things that I enjoyed. My interest broadened. Overtime the world became a lot bigger with so many possibilities. And now I know and understand myself and love myself. And  everyday I work on being the best version of myself. It’s a working progress but I’ll get there. 

#happiness #loving #self esteem #self love #toxic family #toxicity #feminine

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All my friends are High maintenance and I love it. I love being surrounded by pretty girls who are smart, hardworking and educated. I love being around women who have their lives together or working on getting their lives in order. I love people who motivate me to be the best version of myself. I love supporting my girls with their dreams because they always support me. we are each other biggest cheerleader  

#hypergamy #pretty privilege #high maintenance #frienship

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#my inspiration #hypergamy #feminine #2021goals

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looking fine miss

#jennie #blackpink #my wife

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Confident or Conceited?

I am someone that someone might describe as a bit dramatic. The people around me always describe me as that. I’m the girl who always “overdress” for a simple gathering. I always speak highly of myself because I think highly of myself. ( I was over praised as a child tbh) I am outgoing and I love to laugh and people always complimented me on my personally and how much they love being around me. It wasn’t until my weight lost journey I noticed that some of the people in my circle start having problems with my personality. Before I was confident and outgoing but now I am extra and conceited. My personality did not change just the number on the scale. I literally had a cousin tell me that I’m making her insecure because I’m loosing weight. This journey really opened my eyes. some people are only friends with you as long as they remain in the spot light. For most people I’m still the same girl. My personality didn’t change. I always been confident why should I stop now that I’m getting smaller and looking better. No one should have to shrink themselves to make other feel better about themselves.  

#2021goals #weightloss #feminine #pretty privilege #self esteem #self love #hypergamy

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Raised to be beautiful

I was about seven or eight years old when I met my aunt for the first time. we were at a family gathering and I remembered when she walked in the room how the atmosphere changed. she had three daughters and they looked phenomenal. not one hair out of place, their clothes were perfect fit not one winkle on site. their nails were well polished. I remember just staring at them, Admiring their beauties. they were very polite. I remember the husbands looking at them and some of the women being uncomfortable. This was the first time I had met women who wasn’t my mother having that affect on a room. I spent the whole evening staring at them. even though they were my cousins I was too shy to speak to them plus they were way older then me. During the event I had over heard other family members bad mouthing them saying that it was wrong the way my aunt was raising her daughters and that she was raising them to be slut that only cared about their looks and men. The next day I told my mom what I had heard and asked what they meant. my mother simply told me that the my aunt was not doing anything wrong and that she just understood how the world worked. For the longest I wasn’t sure what that meant. It wasn’t until I was older and I started to pay attention to my appearance and polishing my self that I knew what my mom meant. The country where I am from have very limited jobs and resources and its a lot worst for women. My aunt was privileged enough to had given birth to three beautiful daughters and she raised them to use their beauty as a way to advance in life. and my mother did the same way. she had used her looked to make sure she get to places in life. She understood the world around her. She never judge my aunt once because they were similar. All of my aunts daughters went on to marry affluent men. 

#beautiful #pretty privilege #thin privilege #female privilege #hypergamy #levelling up

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Trophies

I grew up with a competitive nature. I was thought that if you are going to do something you need to give 100% and be the best at it or don’t do it all all. I grew up putting a high price on trophies. I believe that it the best way to see your accomplishments on display. Because I put so much values on trophies I never felt degraded or disrespected if a man saw me as a trophy. I believe that some women are the prize and if you put time and energy in being the best version of yourself and to be the kind of women that a man would do anything for then you are the prize. You are a trophy. I like the idea of a man feeling like he accomplished something great by being with me. Maybe that’s a little vain or conceited but I have nothing against vanity. 

#vanity #femine #trophies #hypergamy #accomplish your goals #2021goals #level up