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so much good stuff in that article but i’m giggling over eddie going to buck because of his dating experience… my brother in christ you were married

#Eddie: Buck knows how to WOMEN #Buck: *was left by all three of his most serious GFs #Also Eddie: Had a whole ass wife #(although he had that weird secret affair with his own wife in s2 so maybe he doesn't know how to WOMEN) #911 #buddie #eddie diaz #evan buckley

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Christopher visiting Buck

while he's in a coma gave me alot of mixed feelings. Like, on the one hand I get they were making parallels between Buck and Shannon, just putting another layer on the Buckley-Diaz Family cake. But also, I have trauma, and had to go to a therapist, after visiting my bonus parent while she was in a coma.

There are two main differences that I will point out (aside from the fact that this is a TV show and he's not actually going to recive the long lasting trauma):

Chris had CP, it's mentioned a couple times throughout the show that he's had multple surgeries, so it's not like he's unfamiliar with hospitals rooms. (I spent alot of my childhood going to different specialists but I hadn't had any surgeries or extended hospital stays until I was 17)

Chris is older, I think he's 11/12 in season 6, I was 9. so not a big age difference but it's there.

With that in mind, like I said, I get why they decided to do this. They wanted to show how important Buck and Chris really are to eachother. But at the same time, seeing a loved one, especially someone who is always so full of life, laying in a hospital bed hooked up to a buch of tubes and wires is actually quite traumatizing.

(the third difference is that Buck bounced back after his coma. I've been without my bonus mum for 5 years now after she suffered for 6 years because she had an inoperable brain tumor)

#911 #evan buckley #buddie #eddie diaz #christopher diaz #christopher diaz has two dads #coma!buck #the buckley diaz family #911 fox #911 abc #hot take #no one asked #but i wanted to say it

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15 questions 15 friends

I never get tagged in these, but I saw it and decided to just do it myself.

Time to overshare

1. Are you named after anyone?

Yes. My mothers Grandmother and Great Grandmother. My aunt and I also had the same middle name.

2. When was the last time you cried?

Febuary 14th (and it wasn't because I'm single)

3. Do you have kids

Not offically. I'm 11 years older than my little brother so I'm deffinatly a bonus parent, and i consider him my first baby.

4. What sports do you play/have you played

I use to do Drangon Boating. I also did the usual Soccer & Baseball every summer. I did a couple years of Volleyball camp. Swimming lessons.

I am also dancer. Ballet, Tap, Jazz, Contemporay, I've done at least a little bit of everything over the years.

5. Do you use sarcasm

Sometimes, only with people who I know won't take it the wrong way.

6. What is the first thing you notice about people?

Their clothes. Not brand or things like that, but their sense of style and colour.

7. What is your eye color

Blue/Grey

8. Scary movies or happy endings

Happy endings. (Unless I'm in the scary movie 😉)

9. Any talents?

I'm a Singer/Dancer/Actor if that counts?

10. Where were you born

In the same place as North America's largest classical repertory theatre company. iykyk

11. What are your hobbies?

Photography and visual arts. I've also gotten into fashion design and sewing latley.

12. Do you have any pets?

Kind of? My older brother has a lizard, and his girlfriend (who loves with us) has a cat.

13. How tall are you?

5'7"

14. Favorite subject in school?

Music or English

15. Dream job

I am already perusing my dream career. I'm an actor.

#15 questions

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Don’t underestimate my desire to not wanna

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I totally get what you're saying, but I want to give you another perspective.

I don't think it has anything to do with the fact Athena is a POC. If it was any other actor in that same role, no mater their race/ethnicity, people would still potray her as "The Mom". Also, she's not "Everyone's mom". It's canon that her and Hen are best friends, and Athena and Chim don't interact much but they have a mutual love for their found family and that's all they need. People put Athena in the role of Buck's mom because of her relationship to Bobby (which makes her a seudo step-mom). It's the same with the MCU fandom and Pepper Potts. Peter and Pepper have very little on-screen interaction (if any) but because of the relationships between Peter and Tony, and Pepper and Tony, they get grouped as a Mother/Son dynamic.

Also, speaking from my personal experience with my own Found Family, I don't think it's done to undermine the platonic bonds, it's to give them the credit they deserve. I regularily refer to my little brother's Godmother as my Aunt because even though there is no biological relationship, it's the only word that I have to describe the love I have for her. "Family Friend" seems to insignificant. The reason people give their found family traditional titles, is because as a society we don't have the terminology to describe a non-familial bond that runs do deep the other person is apart of what makes you who you are.

Edit: I scrolled through the reblog tags after posting this and I want to say a few things before anyone bites my head off.

As someone is a similar postion as Buck/Maddie (There is 11 years between me and my brother) even though it is very much our parents raising him, he is my first baby.

I saw a tag mentioning that they never put Lena, Lucy, Maddie ect as Buck's "Mom". That's because: a) Lena was his replacement they are barley every friends in fics much less family. b)Lucy was Eddie's replacement, same deal as Lena, and Buck and Lucy kissed (as dubious as the consent was). c) Maddie is already Buck's family, there is nothing "Found" about their relationship, sure they've had to fight for it at times, but it was already there even before we knew about it.

I understand that it's frustrating to have the relationships seemingly undermined by "Traditional Structre" but many people are lucky enough have a traditional family, and so they have never had to build and fight for a family the same way the characters do. Nobody is trying to make these relationships less significant by giving them a traditional title (mom, sister, brother, in-laws). They are just using what they know.

is it controversial to say that while i LOVE the found family dynamic of 911 i cannot stand the way the fandom has forced traditional familial structure onto the characters. like buck is bobby’s son i get because it’s canon that the characters perceive it that way, buck and chimney being brothers is just their literal family dynamic as in laws, this much im fine with. but the hen is bucks big sister, athena is everyone’s mom, ravi is everyone’s little brother…. like just chill out. it is first of all just annoying, second of all undermining to the deep platonic bonds, and third of all sometimes feels a little insensitive (placing the black woman in the motherly role to people whom she is not the mother of nor does she have any responsibility towards)

#My kids with refer to by best friends as aunt and uncle #because she is my sister in all but blood #and he is my platonic soulmate #society hasn't given me any other words to use #911 abc

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#shoutout to all my uterus people #we all know its not the p*nis people complaining about the reproductive system #although i could also do without my urinary tract #Would be nice to stop with all the damn kidney infections

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no see the thing is I think he has a point

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My favourite part

of 9-1-1 fanfiction is when the author uses Buddie instead of Buddy.

Like, when Buck is talking to Chris and goes "Looks good Buddie." It makes the happy juice flow a little faster.

#fanfiction #911 #buddie #eddie diaz #evan buckley #christopher diaz #buddy #please do this more #its so cute

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Part 5

Finally

Part 1 Part 2 Part 3 Part 4

It's time for Bobby, also known as Mr "I didn't sign up for this sh*t".

#1 Coach Bobby Finstock

Damn, those teenage werewolves put this man through it. He just wanted to coach Lacross and yell at Greenburg, and here he is getting shot at and watching piles of chains fall out of lockers.

#2 Bobby Singer

The man just can't catch a break. He's just trying to fix cars and hunt the SOB that killed his wife and now he's playing babysitter for the biggest danger magnets known to mankind.

#3 Captian Bobby Nash

He's got Trauma okay. He just wants to go to work and forget his dead family, but this dumb*ss golden retriever of a sad grown child showed up and suddenly he was a father of four (and that's before he had step-kids).

Honourable Mention: Robert Philip

This man was just trying to be a single father and somehow got swept up into a Disney Musical. But hey, he got the girl.

#911 #teen wolf #supernatural #enchanted #bobby finstock #coach finstock #bobby singer #bobby nash #captain nash #robert philip

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My roommate is currently on the phone with her BF giving him a play by play of the Super Bowl… She did not watch the Super Bowl… it’s actually kind of adorable.

“They’re wearing the shouldery outfits and Taylor Swift is there for some reason.”

“The guy threw the ball to the other guy. And he dropped the ball but that’s okay for some reason.”

“I’m making it up, it’s called fantasy football.”

#super bowl #taylor swift #football

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waiting for my turn to speak in a conversation and trying not to interrupt literally feels like I'm trying to jump into a game of double dutch

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Me: I saw a movie last night, you should go see it.

People: Really? What's it about?

Me; No clue, but it was great!

having short-term memory is like. this book profoundly affected me. that show bared my soul. i don’t remember a single thing about it. but it did

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tchaikowsky donating his skull to the royal shakespeare company in the hopes of becoming yorick is the most dramatic ass dark academia shit ever and you can’t convince me otherwise 

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can we do this for pretentious theatre kids who think their high school drama class did better than the classically trained professionals?

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i leave my mark wherever i go (loose strands of hair)

#This is so real though #My hair is currently mid-length and pink #but sometimes i find random long blue hairs from 10mths ago

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Y'ALL!!!!!!

I love the song "The Village" by Wrabel.

(For anyone unfamiliar, it is basically about an FtM trans boy and how they are not the problem, society is.)

Anyway, I love the the song so much, and sometimes when I listen to songs I will change the lyrics to something that fits my personal situation (or my little neurodivergent imaginary situation) better. So even though I am an AFAB She/They, I like to imagine a MtF version, because it's fun.

I was just listening to the new Spotify DJ thing, and WRABEL WROTE AND RECORDED AN OFFICAL MTF VERSION AND THAT MAKES ME SO HAPPY. IT'S LITERALLY THE SAME LYRICS MY FUNKY LITTLE NEURODIVERGENT BRAIN SINGS!!!!!!! It makes sense because it's just the reverse of the original FtM lyrics, but it still made me very happy. :-)

TL;DR The Village by Wrabel has an MtF version and I love it <3

#The Village #Wrabel #MtF #FtM #Music #Trans Rights #Trans Pride #lgbtqia #Spotify

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need a boyfriend except he's not my boyfriend and is just some weird guy i drag around with me everywhere

#I have one of those #He's my best friend #I call him my little gremlin man #and I am the pretty princess