#yell at them for an explanation

[ultra-raging-ghost]

Red team when blue clearly distrusts them and then they give them more reasons to distrust them <3

(that is to say this is in /rp and please dont fucking bring any sort of hatred to the cc's in any form, we are allowed to be annoyed but not to the point of toxicity or actual harassment)

#qsmp #team red neg #team bolas neg #bolas neg #liveblogging #qsmp discourse #discourse #fandom discourse #bullshit i have to put that disclaimer on but some people are. interesting #but like how the hell r u gonna break into their chests #steal their shit #burn their shit #yell at them for an explanation #and then kill bad when hes trying to offer u said explanation #like??? okay. no more explanation for u now. curse of ra.

[kris-mage-fics]

1,3, 4, 24 and 25 for Kyrahlise and Blade for the OCxLI OTP asks!

When I saw your ask I had to do a double-take, because I figured that you’d ask about Kyrah and Chase! But Kyrahlise and Blade are fun too! And so frustrating before they get together, lol! Now, without further adieu, here are the answers to the Romance Asks *dramatically gestures towards the answers*

1. What drew your character to their LI and vice versa?

Blade was drawn to Kyrahlise because she’s kind, hardworking, always trying to do what’s right, and keeps improving her combat abilities and magic. She also acts like she feels at ease around him and teases him. (Which gets to my headcanon that he likes it when people aren’t afraid of him and act normal around him.) 

Kyrahlise was drawn to Blade because despite all he’s done and seen, he’s still very kind and considerate. Also he’s incredibly fun to tease! He respects her abilities and knowledge, and she feels safe speaking her mind to him because he gives what she has to say due thought. What seals the deal is in Chapter 4 when he’s so angry about what happened to her. It’s been a long time since anyone has given a shit if she were safe, or wanted to protect her.

3. When they are having a fight, what is it about and how do they deal with it? 

The number one thing these two would fight about is Kyrahlise feeling like Blade is overprotective of her, and Blade feeling like she is too independent and reckless. Once Kyrah understands just how scared he is of losing her, and that he needs to know she’s safe, she’s going to take a long hard look at how she acts. She’ll agree to work on making her safety a higher priority, and communicating better before she runs off. When Blade realizes that she feels a little stifled and like he doesn’t fully trust her, I’m sure he’ll agree to reign in his protectiveness to some degree. Of course it’s something they both have to work on to find a balance, but they will eventually.

The silly thing about this argument is that she likes that he’s protective, and he likes that she’s independent and wants to tackle problems! They just both think the other takes it too far.

4. Their favorite physical feature on each other?

According to Lena, romanced!Blade loves MC’s eyes, hair, and lips (or just face in general), and we know he’s into a nice butt! I change my mind regularly as to which is his favorite, but right now I'm going to say her eyes!

Kyrahlise loves Blade’s smile! It fills her with joy to see him happy and relaxed enough to genuinely smile. She has an internal ‘got the stoic, ex-assassin to smile’ counter! Overall she thinks he’s a very beautiful and handsome man, but his smile is her favorite.

24. Is there any moment that happens between them that you know happens and just makes you melt? 

One time Kyrahlise sat on Blade’s lap briefly as he’s working to tell him something and give him a little kiss before getting up to read. (He’s a head taller than her, so she uses whatever she can to make it easier to kiss him!) But Blade doesn’t want her to go, so she’s like “fine, I’ll just read here” thinking that he’ll eventually get tired of her sitting on his lap. She severely underestimates how much he likes having her close. But he’s warm, and she feels very safe and cozy, so she falls asleep. Since he doesn’t want to wake her up, he stops working. And he’s probably having a hard time not staring at her because he thinks she’s very cute!

25. Share any headcanons about their relationship.

As soon as Blade lets her, Kyrahlise starts cutting his hair. She secretly thinks his haircut is atrocious. Though once she gives him a better haircut she realizes she played herself because now he looks even more handsome! (Kyrah’s been cutting her own hair since her mother died. Most people can’t be trusted to cut curly hair right, and she’s a touch vain about her hair.)

They trade books of poetry with each other and then talk about which ones they like and why. It’s like a little book club with just the two of them!

Blade’s office stops looking quite so bare, because Kyrahlise makes him some art to put up. If anyone dares to criticize it or make any disparaging remarks about it in his presence they get his death glare!

#I really like Kyrahlise and Blade together because they are sweet in private but publicly they are a power couple #funny thing is Kyrah never sought out power but now that she has some she's going to use it to make positive changes! #but before that they are dumb! under normal circumstances she's dense and thinks “there is a platonic explanation for this” #so Blade's odd behavior removes any chance of her understanding how he feels about her! #it's very much an “unrequited requited love” kind of situation that makes me want to yell at them both lol #romance asks #blade bronwyn #oc: kyrahlise niriviel #shepherds of haven #shoh #sorry it took a while! the PTSD has been acting up more the past few days which made it hard to concentrate enough to answer #if this is a bit of a garbled mess that's why

[lakesbian]

Amy is white. That is not what "coded" means. You are bad at this. Read more.

you are disproportionately & somewhat comically angry about a relatively minor and straightforward opinion on the text--why?

#ask #i'm sure that's not indicative of anything! #it is for the record generally advisable to understand the point someone is making before seething at them about it #and stating 'amy is white' as if i'm not fully aware of this indicates that you did not in fact understand the point #the immediate rage instead of simply asking for explanation is very funny. its a post about a bookwhy are we yelling

[notquiteaghost]

all well & good to tell people not to pathologise themselves on social media but hey can we stop and think for a moment why so many people are needlessly pathologising healthy actions? why it might be comforting to be told yes, there IS something wrong with you? why so many people are going through their lives convinced they're broken?

it's the capitalism, to be clear. it's a lot of other things too but capitalism wants you to think you Have Problems because then it can sell you a solution. happy people do not want for things! happy people are bad consumers! it is not actually helpful to scold people for believing an explanation for their real problem. whole other can of worms to unpack the pathologisation of neurodivergence & who it's actually hurting to conceptualise yourself thru the framework of neurodivergence & self-diagnosis is not a problem misinformation and avoiding accountability are the problems & someone saying "no but im allowed to do this shitty thing cuz i'm adhd" wld only be using a different excuse cuz again the problem isn't They're Wrong About ADHD the problem is it is so much easier to make excuses than to improve yourself

but mostly: you are not going to help anyone by dismissing their feelings of isolation / incompleteness / brokenness. other people are already actively exploiting those feelings. something IS wrong! it's the way we've structured our society!

#yelling at clouds #psych #adhd tag #autism tag #i guess. kinda. #if you find yourself spitting mad at other people online for wanting simple explanations for their problems #you are using them as a scapegoat. you are falling for one of the oldest tricks in the book. #the problem is not people on tiktok saying having a song in ur head is an adhd symptom #the problem is that being told Yes There Is Something Wrong With You resonates so strongly with MOST people #it shouldn't. #but here we are.

[icejello]

Okay svsss fandom give me your thoughts

So i was thinking about that scene where sqq jokingly asks the system if it ever worked with the harry potter franchise before and got inspired to write a harry potter au for svsss. The characters that would be involved are bingqiu and moshang but i can't figure out what Hogwarts house they would be in so do tell me your ideas.

How the story would go?

Basically the system malfunctions and suddenly transmigrated the 4 of them into the Harry Potter world. They can only escape if they help protect Harry and figure out who's the evil person trying to kill him (it's going to be centered in book 1). The problem? None of them knows about Harry Potter and so they're in a panic trying to solve who the evil person is without realizing Harry practically could not be killed because of the prophecy.

#svsss #bingqiu #moshang #harry Potter au #does this makes sense? i hope it does #will i be able to finish it fast? probably not seeing as i have 2 other wips that are still uh in progress #but i want to write them panicking in Hogwarts so bad #binghe and mobei would be the confused ones like what just happened??? what is this system??? #while qinghua and qingqiu are losing their mind yelling at the system #cue a very confused binghe going 'shizun? what just happened? do yk what this system is???' #cue mobei just staring at qinghua hard bcs he can see that qinghua seems to know what the system is and wants explanation #cue cumplane panicking about two things #1) how tf are they gonna figure out and save the kid by the end of the school term #2) how tf are they gonna explain to lbh and mbj about the system without outing themselves #they won't be part of the first years there #I'm gonna make them get isekai'd into some random made up senior students bcs i think it would be funnier #bcs then we also see them trying to figure out how to fit in their new character #also cue a confused lbh and mbj questioning the language that they're hearing for the first time #but for some reason understand it #does lbh stop calling sqq shizun? no and it complicates matters for sqq to explain to ppl who thought it was his nickname and calls him that #would sqq and sqh ever read harry potter? idk tbh but i think of them as someone who mainly reads only webnovels here so take that

[kideternity]

#spiderman #spider man #marvel #spider-man #negative posting #<- general tag if you want to blacklist like more negative or controversial posts #from me #dinu yells into the void #the abbreviation is for the spectacular spiderman (cartoon). i can elaborate on any of these if needs be #also obvious disclaimer im not trying to claim otto or tssm or whatever is Bad i dont care if you disagree or think im a lying loser #this is all just for funsies this is for me being a little hater okay? okay #btw some of these suggestions were from my mutuals or friends im just taking the bullet for them #edit: i rewrote this a bunch of times so other abbreviation explanations- JMD is J.M DeMatteis #KLH ks Kraven’s last hunt #so on so forth

[neasura]

Time to post art of my dnd’s characters true form

#digital art #my art #dnd #willow #dnd character #dnd druid #changeling #well changeling in the way of her origin is unknown but shares the abilities of one with more of a plant based connection #shes such a fun character to play and i honestly has so many sketches of her #might try and work on a future character explanation for my dnd oc's because i like to think about them a lot #did i forget to mention my dm was the one who surprised me with how tall this girl is? #he just mentioned in her intro she was 7ft and i immediately had to be like woah dat tall ok i can roll this this #the rest of her part is so small and squishy compared to her #(her part is a rogue #bard and warlock) #and she has the highest strength stats #she is strong compared to them but its such a squishy squad i love them #but yes she is very strong and very sweet and will pick you up mid fight if your being reckless and walk out of the room with you #she is currently in her i have no more fucks and will yell at the rest of my party #while still giving big youngest energy #she monster baby #chaotic baby changeling #monster girl

[puppyeared]

footnotes arent enough I need you to talk to me like im fucking Amelia Bedelia

#this isn’t about anything in particular btw. I just have to add a lot of memos when I’m doing things because some things are done a certain #way and it isn’t explained well in the instructions. like my mom has instructions on her baking recipes right #but when it says stuff like add dry ingredients to wet ingredients it also means you don’t dump it in one go you add it slowly by portion #this is probably why I find videos and demonstrations the most helpful when I learn something. like I almost always ask someone to show me #how they do it because there could be something they do that’s already second nature and wouldn’t really be considered in an explanation yk #I don’t think I’m an exception either. when the rice is done cooking I divide it into 4 quarters to bless it #but there are a million ways to divide rice and it makes me think that one persons way of doing it or not doing it all is just as valid #theres also technically no wrong way to divide rice afaik. this means either all ways of dividing rice is safe or valid until we find some #universally terrible way of dividing rice. until that happens nobody really thinks about specifying HOW you divide the rice #source: I have anxiety starting and doing things for the first time because I got way too many people yell at me NONONO WHAT ARE YOU DOING #THATS WRONG while I’m in the middle of doing the thing. I would rather have people think I’m either very stupid or overly specific #than go thru the panic inducing fear of ‘YOURE DOING THIS WRONG OMG WHY DIDNT YOU ASK AHEAD OF TIME THIS WILL BE FUCKED UP FOREVER’ 🧍 #nothing wrong if you don’t give something a second thought because you’re so used to it. but I can and will ask about it and I don’t think I #really should feel bad about it if I don’t know enough to dispute it. idk #the other way around I try to be as specific as possible and word things in a way that people who might not get where I’m coming from will #understand. but the problem with that is my explanations tend to be lengthy and I lose them either way 🗿 #Im. trying to work on that using examples and stuff because they seem to work the best #but if I could write everything down on a word doc and beam it into your melon that would save both of us time and embarassment #im rambling the short version is I have adhd #yapping

[sinhasfluffyheadfur]

the oc doodles I promised<3

top two is my lovely lady Minha and the third is Chaewon at different ages n the last one is Chaewon getting hugged by his mentor but I didn’t draw any discerning features for Chaewon

#grim draws #these are fandom ocs!! I’m gonna write about them >:)) #maybe I’ll give more explanation #currently I still feel a wee bit cringe so I can’t bring myself to explain anything whoops sorry #Chaewon and Minha are married but the meet in their 30s #the thing I am writing is about Chaewon as a teen and his mentor 👍 #HAHSHAHHDHA I’m saying mentor as if he isn’t recognizable .heyyy #I sound deranged I’ll stop #if anyone wants me to explain if you yell at me in my inbox I’ll have no choice but to (if I’m shown interest I will do it very willingly) #ANYWAY LOOK AT MY PRETTY BABIES

[driftingballoons]

Mom: “God why do you give up so easily you can’t expect to be perfect immediately”

well you see mother when I’m not perfect immediately you burst into flames and bite my head off

#Angery #Ranting time but I’m getting yelled at for missing an “easy” mcat question #For misunderstanding how it was written/what it was asking #Like I’m looking at the answer explanation which was basically “it’s correct bc it’s the right answer :)” #And no one’s talking abt it on the internet #So made the fatal mistake of making an off handed comment abt how subjective some of these answers can be #To which she demands to read it and try to “help” #Then is getting angrier and angrier when telling me why it’s correct in a progressively louder voice doesn’t make me instantly get it #Like HEY! I KNOW I made a mistake! If I was perfect at it I wouldn’t need to practice! #That is the WHOLE POINT #But yelling at someone abt it isn’t going to make them ~better~ #Also side note but bringing up a creative writing award I won in 10th grade as evidence of how I should be “better than this” is like wtf #Yes I won an award bc the teacher liked me and I wrote some bullshit #It’s not exactly reading an mcat level psychology/sociology passage #once again remembering why I hated those few years of being homeschooled

[lildoodlecat]

imma be real i forgot that emotional dysregulation was part of my disorder laksjdfl

#me having negative mood swings (unaware): the only explanation is inescapable despair #me swinging back to 'huh' (positive): actually nvm i'm good. time to indulge in Self-Imposed Projects #jay yells #what is this webbed site for if not tagposting my random Bad Feelings and then having to see them 2 hrs later when im chilling again #perhaps it is a sign that these usually happen later #yknow. when my meds wear off #where are the wise words of don't trust bad brain feelings after sunset when i need them smh

[morgana-pendragon]

do you guys think it’s time to send my parents the audhd symptom master doc i made a month ago

#woke up to my mom on the phone arguing with my dad over whose week it was to have my brother and then bc they’re both going to the states #for thanksgiving who’ll keep him & somehow the convo seemed to shift to where i would be (stay at home or go to the states) bc we talked to #my dad about it the other night and he said i wouldn’t go with him so obviously my mom wants me to go with her #and then she got quiet and then kind of defensive and started saying shit like ‘of course she doesn’t have a job you would know about that’ #and more stuff alluding to my lack of employment and inability to drive & im assuming he said something like i don’t deserve to go away ig #bc she was like ‘i don’t have those thoughts or use that language’ and i just know how he thinks so i assume that’s where he was at ugh #and i’m just so done with both of them like no matter how much i explain it to them they don’t understand #why i can’t drive or work and a month ago they both yelled at me for those & other things i do that are common symptoms #so i made a doc with the symptoms with cited sources and everything and then an explanation but i’ve been sitting on it #bc i don’t want them to think i’m just trying to excuse my way out of getting a job but they just don’t get #how much the thought of a mon-fri 9-5 that i have to drive to would kill me. ugh #anyway sorry for the rant i think i’ll send it #stop talking abbie

[riense]

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Hey there! I’m having some technical issues with tumblr (and waiting for support’s response). Direct messaging and replies aren’t working for me at the moment. 

Asks work perfectly fine (at least something :’’>) so if you have a question or expect me to respond, use them. I hope this problem will be solved soon 

Also i feel bad and want to apologize to some of my mutuals/followers I used to talk to via DMs. At first, I wasn’t active for some time. And I had no idea about this problem, until ahem… few days ago? so if you got an error trying to send me a message, don’t be mad at me pls. I didn’t block you! ❤️❤️❤️

#seriously #the thought that someone could think I blocked them without any explanations #right after we nicely chatted about idk… FICTIONAL CHARACTERS #(oh yes probably about fictional characters) #this makes me yell in my head

[cherryzenith]

noticing things. watching... looking... seeing....

s2 ep1 will goes to the hawkins lab for a check up about his episodes, we get a close up of the number on the side of the machine

s4 ep1 we get a very similar close up when 010 is with brenner right before the whole murder incident happens and oop! its the same number

something something the story folding in the middle (s3) thus overlapping s2 and s4..... something something all the s2 references and parallels in s4.....

#byler #has this been pointed out already? probably. #is the explanation most likely that they only had one machine like this in props? also probably. #but im delusional and honestly they didn't need to close up on the machine number at all.... #anyway im an idiot so idk what this could mean #but if you have ideas please feel free to yell them at me

[teaxbunnii]

haha I've been off all day sorry lmao

#txt #i have a good explanation though so hear me out #my dad decided to get me and my sibs to clean up the whole house... #like basically like spring clean the whole house #(like wiping down the walls #and we were working for about 3 hours #and my dad would always yell at his gf because she wouldn't get off her ass #and it kinda took a mental toll on me JDJJDJDKDK-- #anYwaY....i had to get some comms done so... #and i finally finished them today #like god im so exhausted and fucking tired #i just hope that things are better tomorrow hhhhHH

[zemnarihah]

ooooo just got to tell this HUGE asshole at work that he was wrong i am going to be riding this high for a week

#i wish my job didnt require like a thousand layers of explanation to tell ppl abt stuff that happens but basically #someone this guy who is like coworker adjacent but is like at a seperate company that we work with . and would technically outrank me #asked me to do smth and i was like sure but then the system wouldnt let me so i was like oh yeah sorry looks like the system isnt set up to #do that #and he got super pissy and condescending and told me to have my manager show me how. and i even told him i was like i mean i can ask but i #think theyll probably say the same thing. and he was like yeah have them show you bc you can i just had somdone else do it (ya rite..) #so i ask a supervisor.n they spend ten minutes checking to see if like maybe we were wrong bc the guy was so insistent abt it. and then the #were like yeah we cant do that. so this guy waited on hold for over ten minutes for me to come back like. Hi:) yeah so actually I spoke #with a supervisor and looks like we arent able to do that:) sorry about that:) #and the customer we were supposed to be helping together had disconnected bc i had to have them on hold too #and he was like can u transfer the customer to me now and i was like oh so their call disconnected:) sorry about that:) heres their phone #number you can go ahead and call them back:) #which he has to do bc thats his job lmao. what an asshole lol he doesnt even work for my company literally trying to mansplain how shit #works on our system which he definitely has never fucking used bc its specific to my company! #not even to like use mansplain as a buzzword bc i think thats so annoying but i rlly dont think he would have been as rude and condescendin #if i was a guy like i rlly dont. it was actually so condescending he was like telling me 'ok so do you see this button in the bottom left #of the screen? youre going to go ahead and click on that-' like trying to walk me through some shit that he has no clue abt. #anyway. hope the customer yelled at him for keeping them waiting. i doubt it but that would be some good karma since it actually was #his fault