You know what
I don't support xenogenders.
But, if someone says their gender relates to forests and uses mud/moss pronouns at this point, I don't care about not supporting it. I'll use those pronouns on moss. Or mud.
Because, well, it is the social description for gender of each person, and xenopronouns are technically nicknames to use before "default setting" pronouns. I did that! Not with xenopronouns because I didn't feel that connection, but I used to tell some of my friends to call me by my nickname (Pup) instead of my name or pronouns.
Yeah, I don't like xenos, I have had debates about it even: I know social gender exists and that everyone can do whatever they want with their identites, but I decided to ignore (or to not support) that "social-gender-system"... in general, not just xenos, but, the thing is I know how to respect people and their beliefs! (?) And if their feelings tell them that they are Sharkgender, Sakura-Miku-figure-gender and some other stuff, whoa, good for them! Have a nice day, sharkpal! /gen
But yeah, just, thoughts, empty minded shark thoughts.
In summary: basic respect is not that hard, buddies. 🥰
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Cutegorefreak
[pt: cutegorefreak. end pt]
[ ID: three similar flags with seven stripes dripping into each other, the outer two flags being the exact same. The colors in order are black, dark almost black red, red, light red, red, dark almost black red, and black. The middle flag has a realistic brain and heart in the middle. End ID ]
—- A -freak [link] gender related to gore, organs, violence, graphic and disturbing things represented in a cute way and being a freak. Can also be related to cutesy gore and freaks, or any other combination. Freak doesn't necessarily have a negative connotation.
Tags; @the-mogai-archives
[ ID: A DNI box that says "Do not interact: basic DNI, anti alterhuman / otherkin / therian / etc, anti xeno / neo genders, anti-mogai, pro endo / non traumagenic systems, anti good faith / contradictory labels, proshippers and supporters." Next to the words is the xeno gender flag end ID ]
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Ghovampic
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"A xenogender related to somehow being both a ghost and a vampire, a vampire that is a ghost, a ghost that is a vampire, etc
This could be correlated with being alterhuman and being both ghostkin and vampirekin, or by being vampireghostkin / ghostvampirekin"
this is a very self-indulgent flag lol
coined by us!
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I want to talk about my identity as a queer person, because it is a lot more complex than what I usually present it as.
On a base level, I am a gay trans man. When people in person ask my pronouns I typically give them the answer of Xe/He/They.
However, my identity is so much more complex than that, so I wanted to take the time to talk about it.
Sexuality: I am gay, which in a basic form means that I am a non-woman, who is attracted to other non-women. I identify as a boy, and I am attracted to people who also identify that way, as well as masc leaning nonbinary people. Along with being gay, I am also greysexual, which is an identity on the asexual spectrum.
Gender: I am trans (FTM). This means I was assigned female at birth but am actually a boy. Whilst my gender CAN be dumbed down to just "boy", it is a lot more than that. Imagine a square, and what is inside that square is boy. My gender fully takes up that space, it is fully boy, but then a small bit of my gender overflows out of the square. Typically, this would fall into demiboy, however, I am not a demiboy. The part of my gender that falls outside of boy is so so little, that I don't feel comfortable using the label of demiboy to describe myself. So why is my gender complex then? I am a person that very much believes that gender as most people think of it is a human made concept, and that "true gender" is only experienced by the one experiencing it. My gender, as a boy, feels like a boy in the way that animal bones feel like a boy. My gender, as a boy, feels like a boy in the way that the concept of being dead feels like a boy. My gender, as a boy, feels like a boy in the way that frogs feel like a boy. My gender, as a boy, feels like a boy in the way that You Know What They Do To Guys Like Us In Prison by MCR feels like a boy. And more! My gender being a boy has absolutely nothing to do with what society deems a boy. My gender being a boy is ONLY a boy because for me, all of those things feel like a boy, and all of those things feel like me and my gender. I am also autistic, and my autism also wildly changes the way that I experience myself, and of course, part of myself is my gender. Due to this, I also identify as autigender.
But, that still isn't super complex. What I just described is an autistic boy who uses xenogenders, and that IS what I am! However, it is messier than that, because I am in a system (which typically isn't something I talk very much about online, but it is important for this post) and we all experience gender differently. Some of us are nonbinary, some of us are girls, some of us ONLY use xenogenders, and some of us identify in a way that I didn't list off. Some of us use she/her pronouns, some of us use auti/autis pronouns, some of us use he/him pronouns, some of us use they/them pronouns, some of us xe/xem pronouns, some of us use frog/frogself pronouns, some of us use fae/faeself pronouns, etc. Point is, we all have unique, complex genders, sexualities, and identities.
So why do we not say we are genderfluid and pansexual, as a way to make all of us feel represented and truthful in our identity? Because being a xenogender using, gay, complex identity boy is what describes us as a whole the best. Yes, we are absolutely separate people, but as a whole, this is who we are. We also label ourselves as a multipluralic boy, which is another way to show that we have different Identities whilst still having one whole identity as a system.
All of these aspects of my identity as a queer person intersect and influence each other in complex ways. It's not always easy to navigate, but it's also incredibly rewarding to be able to explore and express myself in a way that feels true to who I am.
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