#valid in ur gender!!!!!!

[spaceyflowers]

hbu adri! what outfits would you like to see sinu wear? :-)

EEEEEE I'D LOVE TO SEE HIM IN LOOSE FITTED COLLARED SHIRTS (bc god knows its what he and every other man needs. ptj always giving them shirts that are too small for their size 💀)

also more long skirt stuff bc im still obsessed with ur idea of him in long skirts <33

I WOULD ALSO LIKE TO SEE HIM IN WHITE DRESSES!! i think white is a color that shits him :]

#answers #bigdealno5 #sorry i stole all these off from pinterest 💔 #anyways as i always like to say clothes dont have a gender and everyone should wear whatever they want without fearing- #'i wont look like [insert gender] tho :(' ive got great news!!! gender is a social construct u can look like whatever and still be so- #valid in ur gender!!!!!! #we've got a long way to go b4 that actually becomes a norm but god it should be one. #sorry pt 2 i got too upbeat im just a fashionless guy who loves self expression and self love whether that be thru art or fashion #IM JUST RAMBLING NOW RAHHHH #oh. forgot to tag my man #sinu han #ok ill shush now <3

[moomeecore]

a friend of mine is a huge fan of magical girl shows and knows a lot abt them, but i myself have.... very little knowledge... but they talk a lot abt magical girl designs and so i decided to try designing some of my favorite little guys as magical girls (with my friend's design input) ! @ magical girl fans what do you think? is this a good magical girl lineup lol

#this can be magical girls (gender neutral) or magical girls (gendered) #. depending on ur interpretation of simons gender lol #ik trans woman simon is a popular hc and thats valid as hell #my art #fan art #adventure time #magical girls #betty grof #bonnibel bubblegum #simon petrikov #marceline abadeer

[capfalcon]

im gonna be so fr: tiktok girls that got popular bc they're pretty who are like "i cant do anything, im just a girl" they're just untalented and boring as hell.

most women i know are incredible and amazing and don't let tiktok or whatever brainwash you about the whole "trad wife coquette cutesy stay at home listen to whatever men say and not knowing anything" thing.

like these are young women and actual children who aren't working, whose income comes from a phone app. they're not really the people i think should be speaking about the "feminine experience" as if its a monolith. most of them don't even go outside. most of them have probably never really travelled, or have friends from different ages, different life experiences.

anyway. just saying. I'm tired of trends around feminity and quotes about feminity coming from random women most of us have very little in common with.

#this isnt me attacking these women im sure their experiences are valid and fun etc but #this IS me saying that i hate the concept that these women get to define womanhood #or femininity. gorgeous gorgeous girls etc #im tired of people recreating rigid gender roles under the guise of internet memes #like the 'im just a girl' thing is fuckin #stupid #esp when its applied to things like cars or sports or literally anything #women can do things. when did we go from women can do anything to 'hehe im so silly and im just a girl i cant do anything omggggg help meee' #girl. #and i say theyre boring because i believe that #not in the personality sense. but in the sense that #like women have been explorers and adventurers and scientists and doctors and lawyers and so many amazing things #like annie fuckin oakley????? like cleopatra???? like empress wu etc #hedy lamarr was an incredible actress and she also helped invent wifi??? like #im over this shit. lets stop minimizing women just bc u dont leave ur bedroom

[quietwingsinthesky]

Trans Boy King Sam is very funny. Demons will do possession, torture, murder, all that jazz, and brag about it, but transphobia? Absolutely not. Not in their Hell.

Sure, Azazel will throw Sam into a demon blood hunger games, but he’ll use the right pronouns for him the whole time. He’s not a monster.

#obviously this is because Lucifer is trans and that spreads to all demons. even the ones he didn’t personally make #anyway. boy king as a weirdly gender affirming title. #Sam: yeah I don’t *want* to rule hell but. idk it is kind of validating that they want me as their king #dean (visibly alarmed): what the fuck are you even talking about???? #dean gets his gender validated by post-hell angel surgery. Sam gets his from his demon blood hrt. they’re so normalcore. #(fics where lucifer calls sam his boy king are already so. O_o but I mean add this and. O_o o_O O_o #when ur hell themed pet names are sooo gender…. #and I’m maybe he also calls Sam that during sex shutupdon’tlookatme it would be hot. getting railed by Sam’s strap and praising his king…) #trans sam winchester #spn #sam winchester

[1-7776]

girl...why did u think this was ok

#like this is so clearly just going to make fun of nonbinary teenagers from 2014 like why are you doing that who does it help #isnt ur audience queer why are u giving validity to the idea that nonbinary genders are silly #also if thats not what the vid is actually about sorry! but a thumbnail is created to send a message too

[hiddenfolk]

I dont necessarily ship them, but I AM of the firm belief that lied and beeber did have a casual fling at one point because you have to admit, the idea of your friend, who is notoriously unlucky in love, casually dropping the fact that they've dated an international pop sensation is hysterical

#m!ik #welcome to demon school iruma kun #mairuma #shax lied #For clarity theres no like drama #Lied is like so yeah im a guy? At least 50 percent of the time idk im kinda still figuring it out gender is confusing #And beeber is like wow ur gender is so cool lindy :-) #Something something they casually date lied explores femininity in a relationship outside his main social circle and its kinda liberating #Beebers p easygoing so he's like v validating #or smth idk thats my entire headcanon #Genderfluid lied btw

[boimgfrog]

blessed 2 have so many wonderful, accepting men in my life <3 now if they would stop coming into my room and talking about their nipples they would be perfect

#'ur a guy now this is guy talk' on god i will detransition #jay says a thing #friend came into my room on vacation and started STRIPPING?????? #'ur a guy why would i care' BRO I APPRECIATE THE GENDER VALIDATION BUT SURELY THERES ANOTHER WAY #like gen cool that theyre comfy around me 2 do shit like this even tho im afab and hella gay but like. please. #just a little transphobia. just a bit.

[thedragonagelesbian]

i know in my heart of hearts that garak would tailor all of my mens clothes to make them look good & help me achieve my butch dreams

#garak validates ur gender asmr #ds9 #The Lesbian Is Projecting Safety Onto a Fictional Man #elim garak

[skylordhorus]

existing as nonbinary in society fuckin sucks like you can’t commiserate with a perceived binary gendered experience, particularly what is seen as a uniquely womanhood problem, unless ur willing to sacrifice any nonbinary perception of your gender from other people and get shoved into Binary Lite™️

#*deep space noises* #people just Do Not Like approaching lived experiences and gender with any nuance #ppl just expect to hear ur agab from u so they can check the ~validity~ of ur experiences and feelings #like ​i have a relationship with my agab but i feel shackled to it rather than just the neutral facet of myself that it should be #because other ppl cant switch it off #ughghgh idk how to explain it #its like imposter syndrome sometimes

[dead-lesbians]

Hate when ppl say autistic ppl don’t understand gender. I understand gender 1000 times more than anyone who says that shit.

#if your autistic and ur talking about ur OWN experince thats valid! #but if ur just saying that shit because you misunderstood what autistic ppl have been saying about their understanding of gender #stfuuuu

[hauntedol]

people say fuck terfs and thats the end of their critiques of transmisogyny and it shows. many of yall "gender weird" ppl are spitting the same vile rhetoric as miss joanne rowling but think its fine cause u put a hello kitty banner at the bottom of ur posts about seeing trans women as sex objects that says "terfs don't interact!!!"

#i aint a trans woman so lmk if this is out of line #just. the broader conceptions of transmisogyny even among trans ppl who are not women is insane to see play out in real time #trans ladies if u need a friend or mutual aid or whatever hit my line #disclaimer before i get called transphobic for the gender weird comment: it is obviously a valid identity (it is my identity) but it is #deeply hypocritical to say ur a gender anarchist or whatever and then turn around and police trans women #winniepost

[janokenmun]

honestly i dont get the "bi lesbian" discourse in particular. like obviously any and all exclusionism in the Be Yourself Regardless Of What Society Thinks community is dumb and stupid but that in particular i dont get

since like. to me (obv u dont have to agree), labels are meant to be *useful*, to convey information. the best labels make a useful statement that can be used to act in a more informed manner; "i have autism [gives information on potential behavioral patterns and needs]." "i am a straight man [gives information relevant to sexuality; both who you're attracted to, and gives information on whether the audience is likely to be attracted to you]." "this is a hill [this area of land rises above the nearby land]"

and to me, "bi lesbian" does that; it expresses a lot in a very concise and relatively intuitive phrase! to me (obv u dont have to agree) it expresses "i am (approximately) a woman who is attracted to both men and women, but ESPECIALLY (approximately) women". and that's useful information!

it also doesn't help that, like *any* attempt at categorization, there will be edge cases and fuzzy boundaries. the definitions between a lake, pond, pool, and reservoir are fuzzy. the distinction between a mountain and a hill is fuzzy. the distinction between a river, creek, stream, and brook are fuzzy. all of these have vague differences, like a river is generally considered to be bigger than a stream, but the cutoffs are inexact and subjective, because nature doesn't like categorization. human gender and sexuality is a lot like this, there is no objective cutoff, people are going to disagree on what exactly counts as what. and that's okay! you don't need to have the exact same definition of river vs stream, or hill vs mountain, or lesbian vs bisexual, because the boundaries are always going to be weird and subjective there; just don't try to force your definition on others and gatekeep things based on subjective cutoffs

#also just let people identify how they want #im not a fuckin cop and you shouldnt be either #adding rules about sexuality and gender to the Breaking Rules About Sexuality And Gender Community is.. a bad idea? #and generally very unhelpful #if u wanna have weird af contradictory labels go for it. thats not my problem #if u wanna have labels that are just DISTINCTLY unhelpful for communication then like. go ahead sure why not #i find it weird but if you're defining what is valid and what's not based on the opinion of one random guy on the internet ur doing it wron

[skittlewaffle]

everyone going bonkers coo coo bananas for spanish moon’s voice;; hot take but he sounds too he/him for my liking, I prefer the he/they voice run through a cheese grater all raspy and a li’l bri’ish n stuff i’m sorry 💀

#ALL I CAN PICTURE IS A RANDOM MAN WITH A BEARD WHEN I HEAR HIM IM SORRY THATS NOT MOON 💀💀💀 #not in my mind at least. I refuse to think abt spanish moon in any other way than Kellen Goff speaking Moon’s lines in spanish #or Corey Wilder #these are the genders of moon: kellen and corey #I think Moon is too much of an androgynous twink man to have a masculine voice ;; just my opinion tho #at least THAT masc #hrgrhhrhdjdjk anyways #also sorry idk what accent he has ???? i’m really dumb with accents ?? it’s like he’s got a HINT of british or something i’m not quite sure #he seems to soften his R’s and pronounce his T’s sometimes but not always ???? hmmm #plz this is /lh ur valid if you like spanish moon but . I do not 💀 #sounds like a different person entirely #k rambles #moondrop #dca #fnaf security breach

[craycraybluejay]

I really really want to be a cis guy in an action comic who gets to beat up bullies in HS or go on a revenge quest or try to become the best fighter or something T.T

#action comics #action genre #gender envy of this random korean dude kicking mega amounts of ass all over #i dont even need to be a protagonist i just want to be a character that fights T.T #broke: trans person who gets gender envy for cute characters/magical characters #woke: trans person who gets gender envy of just regular real people #bespoke: trans person who gets gender envy from action and horror/thriller characters #(this is a joke all gender envy is valid and i hope you all can reach your goals in gender presentation :3) #yk what would be kind of sick #me an action gender envy trans man meeting a horror gender envy trans woman and we become besties and rant at each other #about the latest horror/thriller and action comics and shows and books and movies #and i try (and fail) to help her do some freaky makeup and she tries (and fails) to help me with arm wraps for boxing practice #i just want trans friends with cool hobbies and gender vibes similar to mine DX #and i rly rly want to get into martial arts again-- hoping when i get a good stable job i can take a class #there is nothing in the world quite as simple and fun as 2 people beating the shit out of each other and then patting each other on the back #for a job well done #honestly sporty guys in general are also just hella chill to be around and at least where i am wont be a dick especially if ur new #and im cis passing i think but even when i wasnt not a single guy out of the group singled me out or was weird to me #i just got to play with the group that had a small height advantage bc i was younger and therefore shorter than most of them #idk broh im not very athletic but sports are kind of the shit

[breadsticckk]

can't believe my gender just got validated by denied participation in a study because i wasn't the gender they required for the study (which is my agab)

#i was initially like.... nah im not gonna do it #dont feel like getting misgendered tonight!! #but then it was 1.5 credits for research credits i needed and i was like #omg thats kinda a lot of credits lemme see #and then in big ol letters i get told #NAH LMAO U CANT BECAUSE OF UR SIGN UP OPTIONS #i look at the eligibility #its my agab. #so i sat there like... damn my gender was validated. but at the cost of 1.5 research credits #i can't stop cackling about it LMAO #breadsticckk chats

[vampyrfag]

ppl who hate the use of the word transsexual name one tangible way in which it negatively impacts the trans community challenge

#this post inspired by me getting downvoted on r/traaaaans a few days ago bc i called myself a transsexual #tenderqueers will be like dont police gender identity ur all valid uwu and then have a meltdown wjen u call urself transsexual