#like ​i have a relationship with my agab but i feel shackled to it rather than just the neutral facet of myself that it should be

[skylordhorus]

existing as nonbinary in society fuckin sucks like you can’t commiserate with a perceived binary gendered experience, particularly what is seen as a uniquely womanhood problem, unless ur willing to sacrifice any nonbinary perception of your gender from other people and get shoved into Binary Lite™️

#*deep space noises* #people just Do Not Like approaching lived experiences and gender with any nuance #ppl just expect to hear ur agab from u so they can check the ~validity~ of ur experiences and feelings #like ​i have a relationship with my agab but i feel shackled to it rather than just the neutral facet of myself that it should be #because other ppl cant switch it off #ughghgh idk how to explain it #its like imposter syndrome sometimes