#unsafe safety

[m0thmancore]

hot take that should be much more lukewarm than it is: if your feminism doesn't have room for piercings and tattoos and dyed hair and collars and animal ear headbands and stuff like that, it's not really all that feminist.

people can just do what they want. if they want to get cosmetic surgeries or use different names or pronouns or dress "weird" those things are just allowed. cringe is dead. doing things that don't affect others in any meaningful way but make you feel good is good.

people can decorate their mobility aids. wear clothes with metal studs on them. go out in horrendously loud tie-dye mess clothes. we love that. that's bodily autonomy for you.

being loudly queer and gay and trans and a feminist and disabled and a legitimate animal and a furry is cool as fuck actually it's 2023.

use whatever swear words you want. the weird old WASPs giving you stares are because they're not as cool as you.

this also goes for kinks and those who (safely and consensually) practice them btw, even that one you find weird.

"bodily autonomy but only for people who make the same decisions as me about how to decorate and use theirs" isn't good feminism practices.

go forth and be safe ofc but above all be yourself

#feminism #radical feminist unsafe #alt fashion #bodily autonomy #kink safety #kink stuff #disability #transgender #lgbtq #lgbtqiia+ #trans #disability pride month #actually disabled #therian #otherkin

[ask-the-rag-dolly]

i'm going to be honest what you all have been doing is harmful to her wellbeing and will have considerable impacts going forward and yes i am saying this right as it's too late to change it , you're welcome everybody

#[ ooc ] #i've actually written down stuff on what Does help ragdolly and this ain't it chief LMAO #as much as i like watching things crash and burn i know some of you want her to open up more so . #the biggest hint i can give you is that she's literally under considerable amount of stress right now #and is grasping for any tiny bits of control and safety even if it means Denial and Avoiding Stuff Again #to put it simply - she feels unsafe right now !! make her feel safer ! how ? well taking away her autonomy and forcing her to #face her trauma even when she's Really not in the correct mental state for it is Not Those -

[rinqueraa]

lizard brain

#skk #soukoku #bsd #motorbike ride is great because they have an excuse to cuddle (for safety!!) and there is no eye contact #perfect for these touchstarved disaster gays #i spent the longest time thinking about how they should probably wear helmets but these chaotic mafia teenagers have survived far worst #a little unsafe motorbike ride is ok #dont try this at home

[zhuhongs]

I have a feeling I’m going to get ratio’d on my own poll given that tumblr consists of like. mostly white people but anyways! 

ALSO PLEASE ADD YOUR ETHNICITY IF U RB

#the correct belizean answer is you dont put it away. or you do if u purposely cooked a lot #bc like if it aint hot as fuck it will not spoil!!! i have leaft meat out for days! my friends came at me for this when we cooked on a trip #and i didn't put the chicken in the fridge and left it on the stove overnight like!! bitch!!! #it was 40 degres out #ofc i dont need to put it in the fridge. and before yall quote food safety at me. they advise u not to wash ur chicken #i dont listen to them. i lsten to my superior stomach and the fact that i've only had food poisoning once in my life and that was from a #vendor that did tell us to be careful #so!!! #and my friends were fine #some of them got sick from smth ANOTHER friend cooked that i thought looked unsafe for other reasons #so!! #actually wait the answer for me is depends on what. bc i'll leave rice out longer than i'd leave fish or tuna. or veggies #but veggies is just bc it gets bitter when its left out

[worrysomegus]

can't believe we got a car that completely disregards all safety regulations and it's the fucking cybertruck

imagine a modern version of ANY of these car shapes

#also I thought all cars look stupid and boring these days because it's illegal to make a car that doesn't follow the safety regulations #actual genuine question how was the cybertruck approved #and if that freaks legal WHY don't we have a modern very unsafe car following good design conventions

[jahsontodd]

Hello has anyone gone to a concert alone and how did it go/would u recommend

#I’m not so concerned about like oh I’m going alone #but more safety in a large group of ppl vibes? #like ig did u feel unsafe #hozier is coming to my city in a few months and prices aren’t crazy atm #and I don’t think I know ppl who are going or listen to his music #I don’t really listen too much either but sounds fun #concerts

[its-pluto2]

WOMEN'S SAFETY IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN MEN'S FEELINGS.

WOMEN'S SAFETY IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN CODDLING MEN.

WOMEN'S SAFETY IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN CODDLING THOSE WHO WANT TO ERASE US.

#radfem #radblr #radfem safe #feminism #radical feminism #prioritize women's safety #end violence against women #women deserve spaces where we can receive care without feeling unsafe just to make others satisfied #feminist #feminists

[lewishamil10n]

by the way, to all the people still not understanding the point, esteban ocon's crash and his subsequent request to make the barrier safer is exactly what we mean when we say the jewelry and underwear rule seems silly compared to this stuff. no, on its own it's not a bad rule. yes, it becomes one when it's a) not equally enforced, and b) focused on instead of the bigger safety concerns like concrete fucking barriers. este is not the only driver to bring up safety concerns in miami regarding those barriers, carlos sainz has spoken about it too after a 47g crash, and yet watch the FIA do nothing about it while continuing to harass lewis over his jewelry (while others get to drive with their wedding rings on!) and obsess over the drivers' underwear. bet este felt real relieved that he might've been in a 51g crash but hey at least his fuckin underwear was fireproof and he had no jewelry on!

#im sure they'll feel so protected by their fireproof underwear next time they're made to race in an unsafe venue #or in danger of. you know. missile attacks #f1 #jewelry ban discourse #miami gp 2022 #naila.txt #f1 safety issues

[bookscorpion73]

I got one of those toys with a heartbeat for our new puppy to make her feel safe and decided to see how a simple heartbeat box inside of a stuffed dog really makes you feel more secure and I am not disappointed if anything I may have to buy another so the puppy can have one too.

#I mean I guess I didn’t think I felt unsafe? #Till the immediate sense of safety hit me? #scorpion.txt

[fluffydice]

I wonder if Kusuo can’t sleep sometimes at home because he feels unsafe and watched.

So I wonder if whenever Aren or Nendo are cooking he falls asleep in the kitchen because he feels safe and it’s warm.

He’d wake up if touched 100% but I think if he’s sleepy enough he’ll let them carry him off to the couch or their bed.

#at the end of the day kusuo is a traumatized kid growing up in an unsafe environment monitored by his abuser #and it doesn’t help that he can’t act like a kid at home because of his dad #the sleep and feelings of safety he gets with his friends is a novelty to him

[cepheusgalaxy]

"don't care about what people think of you!" is not practical advice when you're trans btw

#i mean #it has its time #its good to try to Be for yourself instead of trying to please others #but when you're trans its literally a safety matter #are they going to misgender me? #do i pass well enough to go into the bathroom? #am i going to/in an unsafe space where its dangerous to look ambiguous or trans? #transgender #they are cases and cases #but just a friendly reminder advice is not one-size-fits-all i guess #and that sometimes you have no choice but to worry about what people think of you

[lgbtlunaverse]

I've talked before about how I think Jgy's specific attitude to defending his actions comes less from a genuine conviction that he's in the right or holds no responsibility and more from a knowledge that any punishment he'd be given would be more because of who his mother was than anything he actually did, and a person with more power of a "cleaner" background wouldn't be punished the same way. Why accept "consequences" for his actions when that's just a smokescreen for what people really want to punish him for. Daring to stand before them instead of knowing his place.

And if I do envision a socratic dialogue with an imaginary nie mingjue in my head, a counterpoint might be that, well yeah at first, sure. But there's a point where punishment doesn't get worse than, y'know, death. And surely at some point in canon jgy passes the threshold where, even if he wasn't the son of a sex worker, he would... "deserve to die" isn't right here because I personally don't believe in the death penalty but basically that, within the moral framework of the world of mdzs where the death penalty is universally accepted, characters would, regadless of his background, rationally agree that the just punishment was death. The moment jgy crosses this threshold, then- and I have no interest in debating when this would be- it wouldn't matter that in reality his punishment was really for something else, because it'd be virtually the same as the "just" consequences of his actions.

And what I like is that the story FORCES you to ask that question, to entertain that argument, and perhaps see the flaws in it. Because it expicitly kills jgy for something he didn't do. Huaisang couldn't have said anything, and jgy would still have been taken prisoner, and the cultivation world would still have demanded his head. He'd have been tried for his crimes and executed. The story could have done that, and everything i said above would still have been true, but you could very easily wash your hands of it and say that justice was served.

Instead Huaisang lies, and Jin Guangyao is killed for something he never did. And the story asks: does that change things? Does it matter, that he died for something he didn't do when all of his actual actions were already enough to doom him? And if it does, what else does that change? Because that has always been the case. That was always going to be the case.

#mdzs #meng yao #jin guangyao #mdzs meta #questions lan xichen will inevitably be grappling with while in seclusion #if no just punishment is possible can we punish someone at all? #And if we can't- then what? #do we tolerate the harm he has done to innocent people just to avoid harming him? #Like... innocent people who could and would not hurt him have been harmed by him. that's a fact #the sex workers he used to kill his dad. the kids in the tingshan he clan. wen civilians. the juniors he kindapped as bait. etc. #the thing is that you can't easily put him in a situation where he will never harm others and yet be safe. #because that'd either mean exposing him (and lead to afformentioned unjust punishment) #or... fundamentally changing the world and class system so he will never be unsafe and therefore choose his own safety over others' lives #yeah. good luck with that. #all of jgy's violence is reactive even if not all of it is directed at the people he is reacting to (ie: violence at his father's command) #it's just. there is no satisfying answer!! accept unjust harm done by him or unjust harm done to him. #you don't get justice. it doesn't exist in this world. #it sucks and it's great #he's so fucking doomed by the narrative

[toytulini]

Okay i have yet to see a post about this that isnt filled with ppl being Annoying as Fuck on it, but,

theyve found wreckage of the submersible, it imploded (thank god, thats better than a drawn out suffocation over the course of several days, implosion means it was pretty much instantaneous) and the us navy have revealed they heard a weird sound on sunday from about where communication with the sub was lost, that was probably the sound of the implosion, [implied that they didnt say anything cos they didnt want to jump to conclusions without evidence of a wreckage, if there was a chance they were still alive.] no idea what the banging sounds were.

I do hope rescue efforts are extended to the migrants off the coast of greece, and am angry and horrified at their mistreatment, and that the media clearly cares less for their fates than that of the billionaires on the sub.

also, while i have you here,

The difference between a submersible and a submarine is not that one is safer. The titan was a submersible that was unsafe, but that is not because it was a submersible.

A submarine (or sub) is a watercraft capable of independent operation underwater.

A submersible is a watercraft designed to operate underwater, usually supported by a nearby surface vessel, platform, shore team or sometimes a larger submarine.

submarines generally dont go as deep as our deepest submersibles, but some can be down there for months at a time bc it is like. a self sufficient Ship. not all submersibles can go crazy deep, but to my knowledge, the only crewed vessels that can go that deep, are submersibles. (Alvin, deepsea challenger, limiting factor, trieste, fendouzhe or "striver").

#toy txt post #titan submersible #if ppl start being annoying on this post. ill turn off reblogs and block all of you. make your own post. #reblog the other ones where people are already being annoying #yes i hate billionaires. but im glad it was a quick death. it was a horrific situation. hope those migrants are given support and help. #i hope oceangate is fined to hell and back and bankrupted and never gets to put anyone in any sort of vehicle ever again #especially not in the ocean. im a little glad that ceo is dead in his own stupid sub im just frustrated he was able to take other ppl with #him. the fact that he was able to operate that unregulated non safety standard meeting ass vehicle and charge people money to ride in it is #fucking insane and unconcioable however you spell that #and now i need to go shower real quick and try to get like. a little over 3hrs of sleep. which will suck but i did accidentally nap for #like? 2 hrs already so it doesnt suck as bad as it could. goodnight please dont be stupid on this post please please please #if you have a hot take on the situation im begging you to hot take it Some Where Else! thank you! good bye #im not gonna bother linking shit feel free to fact check just fuckin. google titan submersible. James Cameron is tossing his 2 cents in now #saw 2 separate articles on that already. thats fine i guess he has been down there in safer vehicles so i guess he can shit talk how unsafe #it is. anyway. saw someone in the comments of a post say it was a submersible bc it was too unsafe to be a submarine and i wanted to start #screaming. thats not what those fucking words mean! at all! god! #irl death #idk what else to tag #behave. bye

[anxiouspotatorants]

Oh thank fuck I have been locked out of my account for three fucking months

#why you may ask? #did I get hacked? no #did my account accidentally delete? nope #my country’s Internet provides just decided to deem the reset password page an unsafe website and refused to let me disable safety #to go to the site anyway

[a-and-b-snz]

It's a video game. You don't have to agree with J. K. Rowling, but a video game is not going to hurt you. Let people enjoy things.

Antisemitic hatecrimes are steadily rising. I don't know how it is in your country, but in mine, democracy is crumbling and descent into fascism has already begun. Anti-Jewish ideology is becoming more and more normalised in western society, and whilst that's due in part to the persistant neonazi presence, it's also thanks to the subtle, insidious nods to it in media for mass audiences to passively consume.

As a Jewish woman, I have a vested interest in not being scapegoated and dehumanised, because I'm sure you can recall the last time that came to a head. The very same antisemitic imagery that H/ogwarts L/egacy presents, of greedy, scheming, hooked nosed creatures who seek to bring death to innocent pureblood children, was immensely popular in Germany in the lead-up to the holocaust. And here it is, cropping up again! I can't speak for all Jews, but I for one am terrified for what the future might bring.

I'm so sorry that me being vocal about this obvious antisemitic analogy is of mild irritation to you. It must be such an inconvenience every time you have to listen to whiny, annoying Jews like me, begging you to show solidarity with our plight. You guys are real the victims here, you're so right!

H/ogwarts L/egacy is a kill-the-Jew simulator. If you still don't understand how that is the case, I'm happy to explain it to you again, but in the mean time, I will not be apologising for my stance on this. I am sick and tired of seeing goyim wallowing in self-pity over this issue right now. You claim to be allies to the Jewish community but you can't even boycott a fucking video game.

TLDR: Yes, a video game can hurt me. Fuck off.

#if you genuinely see no problem in people playing a fucking kill-the-jew simulator then please block me #you are not welcome on my blog #it genuinely makes me sick to think that this might be one of my mutuals who sent this in #i just wanna be safe man. i just wanna have a fun time talking about da snz #but instead i have to defend my right to feel unsafe when the people around me care more about their own fleeting interest in a video game #than they do about my safety and existance as a human being

[deservedgrace]

Actually it's hilarious that someone said that me being wary of xtians was "bigot logic" because it's their bigotry and abusive doctrine that makes me and so many other people feel unsafe in the first place

#ex christian #my bad for feeling unsafe around people who follow a group's doctrine that encourages my harm/death #you can't know who is safe and who isn't until they prove themselves #but sure I'll just go ahead and put myself in harm's way so i don't hurt someone's feelings #my safety is absolutely not as important as their poor feelings /sar #get over yourselves #you want people to trust you? do what everyone else has to do in any other circumstance and earn it #religious trauma #personal