#they’ve ruined me

[lemonleafxx]

Satosugu fanart I made :D +sketch thingy

I like to think that Gojo asked Geto to get matching hair with him only for Geto to refuse because he knows that Gojo would choose something absolutely outrageous LMAO

#artists on tumblr #jjk fanart #jjk gojo #jjk geto #fanart #procreate #they’ve ruined me #holy shit #satosugu

[princeisolde]

Supposed to be studying but HL ruined me. Some sketchbook Seb that I overworked in Lightroom for my fellow sufferers.

#my art #sebastian sallow #sebastian x ominis #hl #hogwarts legacy #sebastian #sketch #pen sketch #hogwarts #Harry Potter #Slytherin #slytherin boys #they’ve ruined me #ominis gaunt #hogwarts legacy mc

[ju-ji]

Hey no offense to anyone who likes it or the actors/writers/directors/etc. I’m just a hater but you couldn’t pay me to care about a boss and a babe

#the bar is just too high #I didn’t watch enchante so idk how good the actors are but I know some ppl didn’t care for them in it #so my expectations aren’t great #MAYBE if it wasn’t following back to back geminifourth shows I’d be more interested but now nothings gonna live up to them #they’ve ruined me #spoiled me for anyone else on my screen #tho to be fair I didn’t think anything could live up to choco milk shake and then we got msp so I could be wrong! #I don’t think I will be tho 🤷‍♀️

[flippyplush]

losers visit the aquarium for their birthday

#happy birthday to finn and fern! #they’ve ruined me. #finn the human #fern the human #finn’s stupid birthday hat lol #adventure time #my art

[jamiesfootball]

Actually I will say this in regards to Beard, Wembley, and James Tartt Sr

I think Beard After Hours really shows how much the tone of Ted Lasso is seen through framing lens of Ted himself. Even if Ted says the story wasn’t really about him, the thematic weight of the show is absolutely about Ted. And Beard After Hours may be a crazy hallucinatory version in its self, but it’s still basically our only glance into this world when it’s not actively being Ted’s World.

And i think it being Ted’s World is why at Wembley, we only see the implication of violence. It’s always been the undercurrent when Jamie tells people about his dad - that he pushed him to dominate, that he’s a dick - but in that locker room scene? Man. Despite the show avoiding using the word ‘abuse’, everything from the acting to the staging to the dialogue fucking SCREAMS the impending threat of immediate violence from the top of the scene onwards.

I don’t think I have ever seen anyone disagree on the reading of that scene. The way Jamie tells him ‘don’t talk to me like that’ — we all agree that that’s something he learned from Dr Sharon. We are all in agreement, after watching him punch his dad, that it was the first time he’s ever fought back. And we all believe it, that when James got up saying ‘you can have that one for free’ that the threat was immediate and very real.

But before it can reach that point it’s cut off. Beard pulls James away. It’s a tense, hard scene to watch, but the actual violence shown is very minimal.

And then we get to Beard After Hours, where James has followed Beard out of Ted’s world, and we see the actual violence that just as easily could’ve taken place, and likely has before, in a world where Ted Lasso was not the lens with which we viewed things.

#beard after hours #coach beard #james tartt #jamie tartt #ted lasso #special shout out to It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia because I think what they’ve done with the word ‘implication’ is the most subversive #aspect of that show #it has literally ruined the word for me it has neutered it’s ability to hide otherwise dark subjects #under the word ‘implication’. because Sunny made the word ‘implication’ as bad as the words it was hiding #but that is another essay for another time #abuse cw

[stuckinapril]

A major annoying thing about being in a male dominated stem field (chemistry for me) is you basically work w guys 99% of the time & they ALL think you have a crush on them if you’re even fleetingly nice. And so far I’ve refused to water down my personality to compensate for it but it’s so annoying knowing I’m inadvertently feeding into someone’s unchecked ego

#My approach is I’ll treat my guy friends like I do my girl friends #And I guess I have a flirtatious personality from the jump so people get the wrong idea #But idk sometimes I’m literally just friendly and some dumbass guy is like yeah she wants me carnally #Getting confessed to by one of my classmates last spring while taking some of the hardest courses of my life was so traumatic #Then being hit up by his friend right after 😭😭 #Please tell me what I did to make u think I was into you enough for you to be this bold so I can never do it again #This happens to me at parties too and guys get too touchy #Why does it have to be this serious #This is why I’m so glad to be avoiding guys rn like straight cis men are literally the bane of my existence #SO bitter ab these people they’ve ruined guy friendships for me forever #So many suppressed feelings ab this too I should journal about it probably

[doll-elvis]

“he moved her chemically more than anyone she had ever met, all other men seemed pale beside him”

- F. Scott Fitzgerald

#the way that Elvis has ruined all other men for me #he’s just incomparable to anyone else #ofc I recognized him as attractive before becoming a fan #but that’s not what made me fall head over heels #this man’s personality & interests >> everyone else’s #every little anecdote I learn just makes me love him more #I even love him for all the ways that he was complicated #I’ve literally defended his infedilites before #I would never do that for anyone else😩 #there’s definitely a reason why everyone who knew him said he was unlike anyone they’ve ever known #he was just one a kind #and I don’t think I will ever has as much unconditional love for another man🤧 #elvis presley #elvisaaronpresley #elvis #elvis history #elvis fans #elvis photos #70s #70s elvis #f scott fitzgerald #quotes

[apocalyptichearts]

roman empire this, roman empire that…

WHAT ABOUT THEM!?

THEY ARE MY ROMAN EMPIRE, I HATE THEM (i love them sm they make me ill)—

#NO BCUS YOU DONT GET IT #ID’S ENDING DESTROYED ME #IVE NEVER RECOVERED #i kid you not i dyed my hair in emotional turmoil the same day #i stayed up to watch it the minute it release and didn’t sleep that day #i hate them (i love them) #claire redfield #leon s kennedy #cleon #platonic or romantic idc they’ve ruined me #resident evil #resident evil infinite darkness

[undead-queer]

I blame Dan and Phil for my inability to distinguish between romantic and platonic relationships. Am I actually madly in love with my friends? Have I never experienced love? I will never know because because of these two British men

#dan and phil #I’m joking kinda #Phan or no phan they’ve ruined me #phan #dnp

[paperlignes]

But what if we see an argument where both nandor and guillermo end up crying??? what then????

Will there be crying involved when nandor finds out? (yes it’ll be me probably)

I have a feeling this is gonna be devastating but I live for that shit

So, yeah I’m looking forward to it.

#I don’t know what to think anymore I’m just gonna let it all happen #but there’s so much potential for angstttt #but it’s a comedy a fucking comedy #but the plot that they’ve set for us is so??? #I know they can make it funny but there’s always the undercurrent of -this shit is devastating- i.e Laszlo and Colin last season #I try not to speculate about these two because I just never know what will happen but I can feel another nandermo moment #that will absolutely ruin me #wwdits spoilers #wwdits #nandermo #what we do in the shadows

[rooolt]

My parents watching d20 with me: it’s just so hard to believe Murph and Emily are married because she’s so much cooler than him

Me (has listened to every episode of naddpod and practically every short rest, gritting my teeth so I sound normal): it’s believable

#When my mom watches starstruck with me #Then she will see #Also they’ve always been married to me we know where my roots lie (Adam ruins everything) #My parents love Emily and love to dunk on Murph #And I’m like “he’s from jersey #he’s our people!!!!!” #Dimension 20 #naddpod #axmurph

[cassiopeialake]

every few months i remember ik-jun and song-hwa and i go a little bit insane like they are the definition of romance to meeeee!!! like love is about watching the rain together and making each other coffee and being in your 40s!!!!

#hospital playlist #iksong #like they’ve ruined all kdramas for me bc their relationship goes against ALL the common tropes (ones that were also in hospital playlist) #its kind of stupid but it reminds me of something cody ko recently said in one of his button videos #which i don’t have the energy to explain

[cowboyslikedean]

god the tory party just truly is absolutely fucking disgusting. a fetid heap of bigotry stitched together with the guiding policy of “if we can’t cancel it we can just make it really, really, shit.” a scourge on these nations. a party of people so overflowing with self importance that they believe all their ideas must be excellent, all their prejudices justified, because they were predestined to lead! they were meant to write these laws and give these speeches! ordained for it! they must be right! i hope they get so badly destroyed at the next election that they become a cautionary tale of political failure. i hope one day kids in history classes learn the word tory like they learn the word whig. “what a strange nickname for a party. i wonder what happened to them?”

#and for that matter i hope they all get bedbugs #lucys ramblings #i apologise for the rant it’s conference season and also i went campaigning yesterday and some guy shouted at me with his young son #next to him about the ‘’evils’’ of immigration #tories cw #uk politics #tags for ppl who don’t wanna see this stuff #most of all i hope there’s enough of the state left functioning that we can fix most of their mess. and that we don’t forget what they’ve #ruined beyond repair

[lavampira]

:c

#god i wish tumblr had circles so i could be melodramatic into the void. anyway. just need to vent about parent stuff #trying not to let the week’s build up finally imploding before i got in bed ruin the otherwise fun night i’ve had tho #my home life is miserable and i feel so stuck but i also feel guilty and ungrateful for it #i love my parents and they’ve done sm for me that i don’t have to deal with bc i moved back in to help them #but things with my mom are getting harder and idk how to live like this. and there’s nothing i can do. lmao #the life and times

[laniemae]

Kinda need to vent here but I really have to talk about how the fandom has completely ruined Mikoto for me. Like, I really like him as a character and I know I shouldn’t base my opinions off the fanbase but it’s just really hard. Mikoto’s the most popular character and I’ve seen him everywhere so much to the point it’s almost sickening to me. Like, normally I’d like it with “oh yay one of my favorite characters is popular” but the fandom interpretation of him is just so different than how he actually is it’s really diminishing my view on him. I want to like Mikoto as much as I should but it’s really hard having to see all of this stuff.

And besides that whole general fandom thing, even what happened at the start of the year which I don’t even need to explain anymore also very much ruined him for me and sometimes looking at him I just think about that and bad memories keep flooding in. Also around a month or two ago I saw a maintagged nsfw post which made me really uncomfortable as I hate seeing that sort of stuff of my favorite characters and I still see the person who posted it everywhere and I can’t stop thinking about how it made me feel. And it’s to the point where it’s one of my most common intrusive thoughts and I really wanna yell at them for that but I think they deleted the post and said multiple times how they were worried of making people uncomfortable but that’s exactly what happened.

yeah the last paragraph was very personal stuff but I just feel so bad that I cannot like Mikoto how I want to and everything about him has been completely spoiled for me and it’s so painful.

I just wanna know if anyone else feels the same way as I don’t think I’ve had a character ruined for me as much as Mikoto and I feel like I’m stuck between hating him and loving him

#milgram #mikoto kayano #I guess one of the main reasons why I like mikoto in the first place is John is my 2nd favourite character #So naturally when analysing him I’d have to think about mikoto which lead to me appreciating him more #But as I said it’s so hard to like him with his overwhelming popularity overshadowing everyone else #And even the popularity just focused around a watered down version of him #And because of that I can’t really count him in my milgram blorbo list (amane john muu kotoko) but he’s still one of my favorites #It’s at the point I feel really bad for even liking mikoto at all for the impact he’s had on the fandom and I feel bad about myself #John hasn’t been as badly ruined for me as mikoto but since his fandom interpretation has completely changed his personality #It’s kinda hard to like him fandom wise as much as I do generally and it feels empty #If he’s not being badly mischaracterised he’s only reduced to a ship tool and never viewed ss an actual complex character #Which has lead even 0909 being spoiled in my mind even though I quite like it despite not being a ship person #Because I love their canon dynamic but it’s never portrayed how it is #I just really don’t wanna feel alone in how badly mikoto (and John to an extent) have been ruined for me #But I just hate hate hate everything about how they’ve been portrayed by fans

[eilidh-eternal]

So I had every intention of writing Swans Upon Leda as a soft, fluffy, slice of life piece…. Yeah, it’s definitely not that anymore lmao my brain is rotting with thoughts of morally gray morally pitch black Johnny and Simon and the good ole forced proximity trope.

Sooooo yeah. This is your warning that chapter 3 of swans is gonna get a little twisty where the guys are concerned. Reader will still be blissfully ignorant to their intentions but Johnny is down bad for reader and Simon tries and fails to be the voice of reason

#I’d say I’m sorry but I’m not lol #you can blame Charlie and Ceilidh tho #they’ve ruined me with their thoughts on morally gray 141