i might get some hate for this depending on where this post goes but i think lesboys are so valid and the discourse about them is so ridiculous. like you guys shouldn't have to deal with all that and it frustrates me that people throw hissy fits over an identity that literally does not affect them at all.
"but men cant be lesbians-" wrong. butch lesbians and trans men have a really closely connected history with each other that practically intersects and you should really do some research on that before you make blanket statements, not to mention that gender and sexuality is weird and wobbly and fluid and a very personal experience. it means a different thing to each person. being a man can be something completely different and saying stuff like this ignores people like demiboys, demigirls, genderfluid and genderflux people etc. these people will really preach "demolish the gender binary!! love is love!!" until someone's relationship with gender and sexuality is a little too freaky for them to handle and be challenged by lmaoo
"ohhh but what about the cishet men who say they're lesbians to prey on women-" YEAH WHAT ABOUT THEM????? THIS AIN'T ABOUT THEM BRO!!!!! this argument also REEKS of terfy "trans women are just predatory men!!!111!!1" rhetoric and it grosses me out. yeah some men are gross and do try to pull this but that does not negate someone's entire identity completely just because of a few bad actors, you know that right? actual black and white behaviour.
queer discourse is silly and i don't know why it's a thing. just let people exist. it isn't that hard. we have worse things to worry about than whether someone calls themselves a lesboy or not. i think we need to unplug our ears and yank our heads out of the sand and remember that the queer community is what it is because of our unique and amazing diversity. arguing over labels like school children isn't gonna help that. damn.
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Radfem and terf ideology is just nazism for cis women
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AMERICAN AUTO 2.05
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So I got a letter from my surgeon that basically says like I got sexual reassignment surgery for gender transition to female and I can change any legal documents to reflect this (you need SRS to change your birth certificate in North Carolina) and it made me realize how many different letters I've had to get from medical professionals during my transition. I got one from my therapist to get hormones, one from my endocrinologist to change my driver's license, one from my therapist and one from my psychiatrist to get my insurance to cover my surgery, and now one from my surgeon to change my birth certificate. That's five documents saying I'm a girl. Does that make my gender more valid than like cis women? I mean how many signed letters do they have? It's one doctor against five. I have become the most girl.
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In case you haven't heard: A set of signed, first-edition Harry Potter books DID NOT SELL AT AUCTION. FOR CHARITY.
And this twitter account is quietly but desperately trying to justify that OTHER copies have sold just fine a few months ago.
I AM LIVING
"But Gayle, Rowling wouldn't have gotten any cash from the sale."
Who fucking cares. The message is clear. A bunch of people who showed up to support a charity STARTED by Rowling for the promotion of not institutionalizing children said, "Nah, we don't want that." A bunch of people showed up for a good cause and found a way to tell her to go fuck herself.
In other news: Quidditch leagues are changing their name to Quadball because they love the game but don't want to associate with Rowling.
Today's a great fucking day.
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“Trans gender aren’t real bc of your chromosomes” I have more chromosomes than you could possibly ever imagine
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Honestly "erasing woman-centric language" people can shut the fuck up. How do you think the trans guys who are pre-transition or pre-OP feel? How do you think the nonbinary folks feel? Are they not exempt from being affected by this? And don't act like I'm "not focusing on the issue" since you all [Terfs] want to focus on trans folks trying to get recognized as being affected by this decision instead of actually helping those who need it.
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it makes me wonder why so many amber heard apologists are TERFs and such. one literally dragged trans people into the conversation like “trans ideology is misogyny! we can’t even say the word WOMAN anymore without including males!” like oh boo fucking hoo you can’t say a word anymore because you have to be inclusive wow you sound like you say slurs
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I'm hoping that terf I saw who said that men can't experience racism is having an awful night
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Tumblr just recommended a radfem TERF account to me and the op admits they have a shit fetish. Tumblr really does suck with algorithms huh.
Also watch out for terfs.
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hey just a reminder because i keep seeing this garbage pile up in the lgbtq+ community: people are not inherently bad for being a man and being masc. it is not a bad thing to identify as a guy and do masculine stuff and present yourself in a masc way. the view that being a man somehow makes you bad/abusive/creepy/bigoted hurts so many men in our community (gay men, trans men, literally everyone actually) and it's just a ridiculous statement in itself. gender does not equal morality, belief or action. people are not predisposed to badness because of their gender. that is a silly idea and i thought we as a community progressed past this but apparently not.
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Home-made Halloween-style impossible whopper
A few weeks ago my wife tried making something similar to those cool spicy Halloween Impossible Whoppers Burger King had during October, and the result was quite tasty so I wanted to share the ingredients!
sandwich ingredients:
Hawaiian hamburger buns
impossible burger patties (cooked, of course)
La costena nachos pickled jalapeno peppers
Ruffles jalapeno ranch chips crushed up
Colby jack Kraft shredded cheese
sauce to put on the burger:
Canned Frito mild cheddar chip dip mixed with ghost pepper sauce from Penguin Eds restaurant.
(also, sorry there’s no photo, we already ate them all weeks ago! But if we make some more perhaps I can add a photo here 😋 )
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I remember a few weeks ago when my sister was hanging out with her friends and they genuinely didn’t see how anyone could support Amber Heard… and God I wish I was them
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i saw a terfs eat shit sticker today :3
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On my fuck terf shit rn
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Some TERF piece of shit thinks I am not aware that my biological sex affects my body.
Hilariously, same TERF likely defines 'womanhood' as 'being able to have children,' which has been impossible for me since I was 31. When I had a hysterectomy. Because my FEMALE SEXUAL organs were defective with endometriosis.
Endometriosis only affects people like me. People whose bodies produce endometrium. Which is only produced when you have a womb.
Having a womb makes you biologically female. Being biologically female does not make you a woman. Trust me. I know. I'm an enby with huge, rocking tits and no fucking baby-growing parts.
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