#terfs dont even look at this post

[actuallytybee]

First beach day post-op!! So many good sensory seeking opportunities for me.

Highlights-

Playing in sand

Climbing rocks

Swimming bare chested for the first time

Exploring the crab nests

Finding the mangrove trees

Learning to do handstands

#happy tag #personal #my face #actually autistic #trans #transgender #terfs go choke #terfs dont even look at this post

[notahorseindisguise]

I'm so sorry you're hurting yourself like this. You're clearly an autistic young woman. I hope you get the help you need ❤️

thank you so much!! i really needed this encouragement. it means so much to hear you call me a woman, especially since im a cisgender male.

i will get the help i need! ill look into hormone replacement therapy and become the beautiful autistic young woman you see inside me!!

#corntent #i cant. i cant breathe oh my gosh #this is so funny #a terf found my acct ig #and im assuming they saw my face from the video i posted earlier today with my really fluffy hair?? #and ig they assumed i was afab and a trans guy #holy shit im gonna cry #this is such a major compliment ?!?!?! #i cant even tell what ur trying to say #so you think. i dont. pass. as a guy? #im too feminine to be a guy so i must be a transguy says the terf #also #i did in fact interact with a terf earlier today #only one #i liked one of their posts (by accident. i only realised i liked it looking at the acct who i think sent me this) #and im sure its them. theres nobody else it could be #idk why im not naming and shaming. @terven i know this was you #open your asks or your dms or something i want. i wanna know what u was thinking here LKJDSAFAS

[nerdyqueerr]

Was blocking a blog and saw they rbed some dumbass terf post abt the sancticity and anti-patriarchy victory of womens sports whatever whatever point is there were a few lines about rugby in it and. It was so instantaneously obvious that the poster didnt know shit abt rugby it was truly hilarious. And also keep rugbys name out of your mouth if anyone on my rugby team met you they would kick your ass

#''womens sports are a great place for lgb solidarity'' terf vs ''oh yeah we dont have any transfems on the team at the moment but #we play both with and against lots of trans women at Bingham (international rugby cup) every year. btw do you want trans pride flag colored #team socks?'' #which is. a genuine convo i had with a woman on my team #LGB no T? in womans rugby?? bitch the international gay rugby league is vocally and enthusiastically trans inclusive. die mad abt it #i just. oh my god #yeah rugby canada has shitty transphobic rules but the 'womens sports is the place for lgb solidarity (ie transphobia)' #bit. being next to RUGBY is driving me insane #like the equity VP started telling me the names of famous transfem rugby players i should follow on instagram #also im focusing on transfem stuff here bc thats like. the main target of this type of shit #but need i even mention the amt of nonbinary/genderqueer/potentially transmasc-dyke type people on the wolves W+ team. like holy shit #anyways i hope the op of that post shows up to a gay womens rugby practice looking for some transphobic lgb solidarity #and gets her ass absolutely handed to her #my teammates are down to fight!! they explicitly said so!!! #anyways. yeah. #my shit

[horce-divorce]

Love it when "dear God whats happening in there" is added to a post, and I click into the notes and I see precisely none of that shit. because I already have a bunch of those people blocked. 💅

#me #if you arent using your block button almost daily youre probably using the internet wrong imho #actually not even #i blocked like a ton of terfs and ppl who just failed my vibe checm #and i found that i dont have to block nearly as many ppl now #i still use the block button fairly liberally but i dont need to every day is the thing #also its absolutely wild how much quieter and more peaceful my experience here got #the day i went thru one (1) terf post notes and blocked everybody in the replies #just one post #that ONE post changed my whole experience on here #i think youll find that obnoxious assholes often post very frequently to make it look like there are more of them #im not at all implying you can avoid harassment by doing this btw. its not a fix and we shouldn’t have to spend this much time on it #but even if this website WERE moderated properly using your block button often would still be good for you. i think.

[clovenh00ved]

Oh god that one post about how "men dni tags are bad actually and are terf dogwhistles" with thousands of notes is circulating on my dash again. tumblr stop being lesbophobic for 2 seconds challenge.

#goat rambles #terfs dni in fact k/ill yourselves dont even look at this post fuck off #rb if you want i guess idc #just dont clown on my post #lesbophobia #men dni #there was also a lesbian in the replies rightly so complaining about how us having boundaries is fine and then multiple people came in- #saying men can be lesbians too and i think i felt my eyes roll all the way back into my skull

[caffeinatedopossum]

People are so weird to trans people. Like beyond being straight forward dickheads, transphobes are just so weird

#even some people who arent necessarily malicious but maybe just ignorant tend to be so weird #i just saw a post from a lesbian (presumably a terf) complaining about trans woman #because 'i like woman. how am i expected to be attracted to trans woman if no look like woman??? hmm?' #maybe this is also just hard for me to understand as an asexual person trying to understand allosexual people but #but like wtf? idk who is demanding you to be attracted to ALL women but it certainly isnt me #you can be a lesbian who doesnt like all women...? some women is plenty tbh #you dont have to tear apart another persons (an entire demographics-woth of people actually) self esteem #to have the sexuality that you have #as a trans person who isnt cis passing i can tell you. we KNOW. We KNOW we dont look cis to you #you do not have to remind us that our bodies dont fit into your culturally conceptualized ideals for gender #it also gets really fucking exhausting to constantly hear people talking about something fundamental to me #as some sort of compromise at best #its something i can relate to with my asexuality too #either love me for who i am or leave me the hell alone

[homiro]

Dude how can I get rid of terfs literally ANYWHERE? These fuckers are like fucking roaches they crawl out of nowhere when you least expect it and there is never just the one. I was trying to ask for anonymous help on Reddit but some transphobe put the pieces together and started dissing this support group for queer and gender questioning people I'm in like it's the only place I feel safe and she not only immediately misgendered me in Portuguese but also started calling them perverts and pedophiles which is absolutely insane to me. I have been regularly going to these meetings for almost two years and they've been nothing but respectful, polite, and kind and they even make sure that everyone feels safe and isn't triggered by anything and when there are kids in the room everyone just tones down swears and sex talk like... What the fuck honestly? And she's in a bunch of subreddits for mental health giving dogshit advice. She's in the transmedical sub saying gender isn't real??? Like what in the name of the lord is going on and why is a triggering person like this on the loose out there pushing people off cliffs? I want to report to the mods because she or he or it since gender isn't real to this lunatic but I'm still in shock? And I'm scared that this deranged fucker knew what I was talking about and what it can do with the information? I kind of want to warn the support group honestly. They are very respected and are the ones on the frontline helping trans and queer people in need and here's the thing right? They're not even anti transmedical because they understand that some people have that stance and it's not necessarily a terrible person like this one seems to be. This lunatic even went as far as to say oh you'll feel worse than ever before because of these perverts and I'm like... Um actually these people have kept me somewhat afloat for over two years? What the hell? God this was the depression subreddit what the fuck is this lunatic doing there? And I saw the post history. Literally even going as far as diagnosing people with things based on their post history. Dude what in the world? I'm just completely flabbergasted

#anti terf #anti transphobes #transphobia #trans #transgender #queer #lgbtqia+ #anti transmedicalism #because after this I'm just fucking scared i didn't even say anything this lunatic just looked at my username #and i have been threatened with doxxing before #so i dont even want to cross this user but it broke the rules of the sub by pm'ing me so like... i should report #homiro said some shit #long post #this lunatic even called the group a 'cult' im just... what? you don't have to pay and nobody forces you to go or asks why you haven't been #going???? like?????????????????????? #what the fuck is wrong with this bitch

[fleshdyke]

uhhh kill yourself NOW!!!!!!!!

#i dont care. youre not even a terf bc youre not a feminist LOL! #‘on a post with 13k notes too’ what does that even mean. i dont think theres a difference between telling you to kys on a post with 1 note #than a post with 10k. im not looking out for my reputation or some shit LMAO this is tumblr dot com #it is always ok to tell transphobes to kill themselves #rambles

[stinkrascal]

this is my most controversial opinion but you couldnt pay me to give lilith vatore those ugly short bangs

#back in my day they were called terf bangs #because the only people dumb enough to think those bangs are cute were terfs #and now theyre back in style :( stop it theyre so ugly #honestly i just dont like the way my lilith looks in bangs. it doesnt work for her #ive seen some ppls liliths look good w those awful bangs but mine just looks like shes gonna call you a slur #my interpretation of lilith is that shes very regal and eloquent and intelligent so i try to make her look simple if that makes sense #a huge style inspo for lilith was wednesday addams. but not the new netflix version the old version #i just love her simple style. it feels very lilith to me #i never watched the netflix version of wednesday so i cant comment on her style #but the original version has always had huge lilith energy to me #one day i’ll put lilith in those braids #i want the vatores to show up in straud legacy so bad :( but i feel like i need to post the backstory reprisal first #bc the vatores have SO MUCH history with vlad and brie. it’s important to show that first #otherwise they’ll be referencing events which have never happened on my blog and it will all be really confusing lol #theres one cc creator who remade those short bangs and actually made them kinda nice #i might give them to beverly even though im a short bangs hater i think their face is long enough for it f #but ea terf bangs are ugly we need to stop kidding ourselves you guys

[decolonize-the-left]

definitely not accusing you of anything but i was a little shocked to see you reblog from "sealwomyn" whos url is red on shinigami eyes. what happened there?

I don't have shinigami eyes, I don't follow them, nor do I check every single blog I wanna reblog from.

It happens sometimes.

#asked #answered #the fact anon went 'im not accusing you of anything but' has me upset LMAO #but you would if...? gtfo lmao #yall know damn well im not a fucking TERF if yall are gonna even almost accuse me of it over mistakes like this then just block me #like if youre gonna look at all my educational posts about terfs and dogwhistles and why its harmful but then still--- #---try and call me out over a singular reblog... i dont need you following me anyway ರ⁠╭⁠╮⁠ರ

[nongnaos]

Episode 4 liveblogging atots!

(I have lost all chill)

1/4

Wow, straight in with the "yes I changed your clothes, yes I saw your scars, wanna see mine 😏"

HE FOUND THE NOTEBOOK

Oop nevermind, that was very dramatic and the music was tense and the emotions were all over the place but that is how nightmares feel. Good to know he's feeling guilty at keeping it from them and also that his dream Chief is also very flirty 👀

Longtae is cute and reminds me of someone but I'm not sure who... maybe Sunghak from Bigstar, if any of you remember him.. it was a niche of kpop. (And I don't mean looks wise just something about him idk)

Seriously, Chief, you should know by now that Dr. Nam knows all your secrets...

"Don't tell me you've seen him naked" THE IMMEDIATE GAY PANIC. "Those are for menstrual cramps" I'm crying, it's ok chief we've all been there!! Love makes us all look stupid!

Teaching the kids so their families don't get scammed!! Making them paper airplanes 🥰

Oh nooo Chief being cute with the kids!! Tian really becoming the kids' big brother by swatting their hands away when they try to get him in trouble 😂

This looks like a very long motorcycle ride, I hope they brought snacks. (No, not you Chief, you're a whole meal)

Tian immediately jealous of Dr. Nam being there 👀

2/4

Oh god no, they're acting couple-y in front of Tian, pls no, he's too fragile for this. (Sidenote, that market lady selling the spinach, absolute milf, would buy more spinach than I reasonably need)

Dr. Nam has no time for your jealousy, Tian, he is here to be your wingman!

Honestly, Dr. Nam being like "oh you want to know something about someone? Ask them directly!! I will make you communicate if its the last thing I do.." A+

I can no longer type, this trio is killing me, Dr. Nam has 0 chill when it comes to their romantic entanglements, Chief is constant gay panic and fondness and Tian is just bewildered and burning the eggs. I am a husk of a human.

He bought him a new mosquito net!! He cares about your health and wellbeing!!! He wants to kiss youuuuu!!!!! I'm so fine about this.

Chief's getting jealous of Tian/Longtae and I live for the mildest of drama.

"Dog howling night" thats every night in the countryside tbh.

3/4

Dog howling night is NOT every night in the countryside, I take that back, whyyyyy are they doing this 😭😭😭 its weird when you're on your own but as a group activity??? Go have an ice bath.

Tian actually saying thank you without being prompted, thats growth. Chief looked back!! They're gonna kiss so hard one day.

Drake has never played a straight character in his life.

Playing the spinning top game... the flirting rituals... are intricate.

4/4

Besties taking the piss out of him for looking nice for a date. Standard.

He bought a new outfit AND shower gel, boy is thirsty 😌 glad you wore your slut jeans for your hike 😵‍💫

We have unlocked the "tragic backstory atop a mountain" sidequest.

God this is filled with so many of these sussing-each-other-out flirty comments. OH. It's a full on "do you want to ask me out" Chief is no longer playing around (was he ever?) wow... I honestly feel like I rarely see characters flirt this hard or this well? Especially not gay characters who can say "no, I'm not interested in a lot of people, there's no one else and I'm not playing around". It's very refreshing.

He likes her as a sister and Billie Eilish's "I just kinda wish you were gay" plays gently in the background.

Fuckin' monogamous hornbills 🥺🥺

#HAVE YOU EVER LOVED SOMEONE SO MUCH THAT WHEN YOU DIE YOU BECOME A GAY MAN FOR THEM??? #ill never love this hard tbh i dont think i have the capacity #also I'd fear the terfs would murder me however the remote thai countryside is probably out of the way enough they wont find her #atotsrewatch2022 #atots #liomsa #atots spoilers #look we are very much in danger of me binging this whole show and just scheduling posts bc i AM IN LOVE #we're on ep4 and this is already feeling like a top 10 maybe even a top 5 kinda show... its hitting hardddd #its just so warm and sweet and i love it so much so far

[p2iimon]

why does nobody on the internet know what being a fucking terf is. terf doesnt just mean transphobe or wed just call them transphobes. that alpha male on twitter isnt a fucking terf you arent going to argue effectively to your audience

#i know it sucks to do but you cant talk on what terfs believe if you only know secondhand #unfortunately you do actually have to read their side or youre only helping them #the more people misrepresent terfs the more they can go ‘we dont do that’ and look better #and read DIFFERENT sources. read plenty of sources!! theyre real people and have different opinions #and you and your 6 active followers arent going to be able to actually harass them off the site with stupid fandom drama block and leave #it bothers me so bad you claim to be awesome and supportive and educated but ur education is all ‘terfs dni’ on tumblr posts #you send a ‘trans women are women 😎’ ask and you think youre owning them like theyve never seen that take before #oh shes!! mildly annoyed!!! got her!!!!!!!! stupid stupid stupid trans people are losing rights every day and ur busy #not even!!! harassing someone online!!! god!!!!!! targeting random tumblr blogs isnt going to effect systematic change you idiot!!!! #simons spouting #rant >:( #um. summary: challenge terf ideology after you do research #supporting trans people and especially trans women comes before hating terfs #and dont interact with them youre doing absolutely nothing by doing so

[ars0nism]

cis allo queers (terfs) throwing hissy fits because i, an aro trans person critizing them, said cis allo queers throw hissy fits whenever aspec/trans people criticize them is just. so funny. youre achieving nothing youre just proving my point. arent you embarrassed fighting teenagers on tumblr in 2022. arent you embarrassed being a terf in 2022. have you considered closing your blog.

#im not deleting the post or my blog no matter what #i MIGHT close anon for a bit #im literally 18 all these 30 year old women in my inbox telling me to kms on anon like ur not hurting me. youre just embarrassing #tumblr report system work i beg #go out. get a job. meet real people #and yeah !! im getting fucking tired !! but im not backing down !! #im fighting terfs so that younger trans kids looking for safe spaces dont have to. #im fighting terfs because ive been in that rabbithole. i was halfway there and i came back. #im living proof that even if you start falling down the radfem rabbit hole you can come back from it and become a decent human being

[pastadoughie]

many people were confused about some of my previous posts, so for the sake of clarity i am condensing everything! tumblr has extremely transphobic moderation practices, often flagging completely innocent posts as explicit, solely for containing trans women in them or mentioning transgenderism. while letting untagged porn in sfw tags (ive literally seen porn tagged as "sfw agere") and blatent hatespeech, especially twards trans people (just look at the "gender critical" tag) go completely unchecked recently the CEO of tumblr had a big public hissyfit about people (rightfully) calling him transmysogenistic, going into random trans womens dms to harrass them, and saying that predstrogen saying she "hopes he explodes with hammers and then explodes again and hammers fly everywhere" is a death threat and saying he is calling the FBI on her (repeatedly misgendering her and calling her "it") and many bloggers, apon speaking out about it or even making harmless jokes (one trans woman posted a picture of a car and a hammer with the caption "reblog to scare matt" and got nuked for it) and many are very very angry (rightfully) about this whole affair and tumblr in general. if you would like to look into it i reccomend scrolling the "predstrogen" tag as she is the case most people are talking about at the moment. So, what can we do? this is clearly an ongoing issue, and, dispite having lost a lawsuit about their transphobic moderation in the past (see : https://www.documentcloud.org/documents/21274288-tumblr-nycchr-settlement) its clearly not gonna stop with just user complaints, as staff members are perfectly content to just go scorched earth on users who even so much as lightly poke fun at them well if you want to help you should contact the human rights commision (i will give clear details further down) ! you dont have to be in the US, nor be an adult to file, and it only takes a few minutes. this is the best and most effective method to fix this, because it hits tumblr where it hurts. human rights acencies have a lot of legal and financial power and tumblr CAN NOT just ignore them, and given that this will be the seccond time this is happening, the commisions shouldnt be playing nice anymore eaither. its really important that AS MANY PEOPLE AS POSSIBLE FILE, and with different examples! while maybe your case might not be enough to prop up a lawsuit on its own, we need to prove a general trend. so every little bit counts! to respond to another question abt this ive gotten, as for what exactly to report, you should a) write about an act of discrimination youve recieved on tumblr that was eaither administered by a staff member OR that staff refused to give adequate moderation action in for example : a terf posted some blatent hatespeech targeted twards you, and you reported them, and staff looked at the issue and refused to persecute it. example 2 : you were unfairly flagged, deleted, or otherwise punished by a staff member and you are queer ( AND the post they banned you for has some kind of tie to your gender, ex : a sfw transition progress photo ) OR b) if you have not personally recieved something like that, please look for other peoples stories (THEY SHOULDNT BE HARD TO FIND, within the last couple of hours trans people have been being banned LEFT AND RIGHT for trying to speak on this. i would reccomend checking some of the tags related to what happened with predstrogen) and you should describe that incident as best as possible (be sure to disclose that you are speaking for someone else, ideally you should tell the story of someone you know, if possible.) you can also mention any reports you have made twards people posting blatent hatespeech that, opon reveiwing tumblr refused to prosecute dispite it being very obviously against terms of service. just so nobody gets confused about the filing process, im laying it out in more plain languadge!!

first you should email the SF HRC (san francisco human rights commision), at [email protected] and say something along these lines :

Hello, I am [full name] from [country or state] and I am filing a complaint against Tumblr, witch is owned by the parent company Automattic Inc. located at 60 29th St, San Francisco, CA 94110.

Tumblr has had previous issues with the NYC DHR for their moderation being unfairly biased against trans women (see : https://www.documentcloud.org/documents/21274288-tumblr-nycchr-settlement).

Despite a legally binding agreement with the NYC DHR, staff members still regularly harrass users based on their gender or sexual orientations. For example : on [date of most recent infraction] [describe incident] (if you are describing an incident that did not happen to you specifically, say something like) This incident involves the user [username] who I am not affiliated with (or/) who I am filing on behalf of.

I can be reached for further inquiries about this incident at [email you want to talk over] or [phone number you want to talk over]. (if you would like to be anonymous) However, In the event of legal prosecution against Automattic I would refer to be kept anonymous, where possible, in court proceedings. alternatively, you can also call the SF HRC at : 415-252-2500, you can use the above text as a starting point for this as well, next you want to fill out the form for the NYC DHR (new york city department of human rights) here : https://www.nyc.gov/site/cchr/about/report-discrimination.page for company you wanna put : Automattic and/or Tumblr for address you wanna put : 770 Broadway, New York, NY 10003 for phone number you wanna put : [phone] and for category of discrimination you can put : Discriminatory harassment and basis of discrimination you can put : Gender; Gender identity you can then use a similar script on the written section of the form. when describing a specific incident, you should attach as many screenshots and links as possible! (for links, include both a live link and an archival link, so take a capture with the internet archive and have that as an alternative, incase a staff member gets petty.) this should only take a few minutes at most, and it helps alot! you can fill this out if you are a minor, and you dont have to be a us resident, please please take the time!!! and, just to clarify because there are many posts going around that are confused about this tumblr moved offices to san francisco recently, so their main HQ is at : 60 29th St, San Francisco, CA 94110 they DO still have an office in new york city, and thats where their PREVIOUS HQ was, the address is : 770 Broadway, New York, NY 10003

#art #my art #mspaint #rowens liddol guys #mspaint animations #the beast speaks #important shit #transgender #trans #predstrogen

[clovenh00ved]

I had a creepy old customer make a sexist comment at me AND a guy 12 (?) years older than me ask for my number on the shift. Why do heterosexual men-

#goat rambles #vent #kinda #sexism #the second guy mentioned (the one who asked for my number) gave me the most saddest puppy eyes before asking and i just said no and he- #defeatedly walked away #terfs dni in fact k/ill yourselves dont even look at this post fuck off #rb if you want i guess idc #need to beam in these mens brains that i am a lesbian and also fuck off im a young adult yall are like 10~ years older than me

[euniexenoblade]

since we're talking about call outs lately, i've been called out many times, most of which are made from lies and sometimes by altering screenshots, but the most effective call out i ever got was like, in early 2015 there was a tumblr user everyone knew was a terf, but she would say "actually i support trans women" this was before crypto terfs were as talked about so the language wasn't really there to say "hey this person is a crypto terf." but yeah some people put posts of this woman on my dash and i made a random post on my blog "why do yall reblog her shes a terf" and of course she searches her own name daily, found my post, and replied to it that me calling her a terf was racist. that was it. no other interaction. but she went on all night talking about me being racist and just making things up as she went "oh i bet she says the n word all the time irl" kind of shit that had, like no basis? But her follower base took it 100% and i literally had thousands of anons telling me to kill myself, trying to goad me into being racist (didnt work), and the most concerning thing was i got hundreds of anons being like "what was the point of doing hrt if you still look like that, you should kill yourself." It was like, violent and overwhelming. and on top of it I'd get random young teenager trans people who followed her and bought into her bioessentialism showing up in my messages being like "you give trans people a bad name" "you're why transphobia exists" etc etc it was fucking crazy.

but i lost like, no followers because everyone around me understood, this woman was a terf. this all set up the real one though.

later in the year a teenage "communist" trans girl made some snarky comment about me being racist on a post of mine blowing up. i ignored her cuz like, who cares it's just some random teenager. but i guess people were looking for a reason to hate me cuz that blew up, lots of people just took that at face value no need to investigate. when someone finally did send the girl an ask being like "hey how is she racist" she replied "I dont remember but I know she is" and even more people just took this as 100%. the thing is, i do remember her being one of those "you make trans people look bad" terf following young trans people, it's not that she didn't remember, it's that she didnt want to admit she followed a terf and she believed a terf just saying shit. I lost like 3/4s of my followers, i had a lot of people i thought were my friends just stop talking to me, and going forward every time i got a call out there would usually be a line of like "also she's racist, everyone already knows this" all cuz this girl needed to make a snarky comment cuz she just loves terfs.

the thing about the "i dont remember" bit is it made some weird game of telephone. "I dont remember" became "oh she's racist, i think she says the n word" which became "she called black bloggers the n word" like people just made shit up about me and connected it to this call out. and when id be like this isnt true id be met with a "this is just known, youre a known racist" and it's like, to this day i will still find people be like "hey good on you for growing as a person and not doing that any more" and its like I NEVER DID IT TO BEGIN WITH

#ranting