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for-peace-war · 4 years

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No, really. Lovecraft Country sucks.

These are spoilers, but I also don’t give a shit because it’s a bad show and I hope you skim enough to fucking skip it. I took a few days to decide if I hated it enough to write this and well, I do.

I will try my best not to say “X is a bad actor,” but instead stick with the characters as they’re intended save for one particular issue.

The Story

It isn’t very Lovecraftian. And don’t take this as me saying Lovecraft was some kind of master of his craft. I think he was an absurd racist that used xenophobia as his guise for what truly horrified the sane mind. That being said, the element of the unknown is definitely the hallmark of his world and that in no way is represented in this show. It could easily be called “Goosebumps: The Black Version” and it’d be just as authentic--if not more so, really.

The story deals with the Bible (?) and magic that comes from uh, knowing the names of things. You speak a made up language and then you do some kind of confusing magic that has no real purpose or point. I sound dismissive of this because I am, to be clear. They could have just as easily had this language be something whites stole from Africans and then perverted into their own means of power (it’d be a pretty easy parralel to any number of imperialist issues left behind in Africa, huh.)

But anyway, it has a tentacle monster. I think we see a big scary octopus at one point. But the monsters are often in your face and it’s probably less scary than Stranger Things S1.

Honestly, the characters repeat “autumnal equinox” so much that I felt I was going to have a fucking breakdown. Just the writing is very empty and no one seems to really care about anyone else on the screen except for in a rare moment between the only two characters that make it far and matter.

Characters

They aren’t very good. There are tropes present, which isn’t bad at all, but the way the characters interact, speak, and in general move us through the story feels stilted, often nonsensical, and entirely reliant on the viewer assuming that the latest sentence spoken is the only one that matters.

Atticus “Tic” Freeman

A war criminal that derives his power from the white blood inside of him. Again, dismissive but true. We see this man struggle to connect pieces to a puzzle and eventually he pays the price for it, but not in the way Lovecraft would have someone pay for endeavoring beyond their realm. Rather, something about fate and a book. Look, honestly? Who gives a shit. Tic murders a woman in coldblood and it’s never really touched on. There’s a lot that could be said about militaries, oppression, etc, but we often see these characters enact violence and then the story skips merrily beyond it. So yeah, he summarily executes a Korean woman and then is later shown torturing another, but it’s okay because he feels a little bad and fucks the Korean sex demon woman. More on that later. I felt nothing for him. He didn’t have some deep animus over being a torturing war criminal. He was just kind of moving through scenes and having confusing fights with his girlfriend/baby mama.

Letitia “Leti” Lewis

This is what empowerment shouldn’t look like. It amuses me that the show claimed to subvert some kind of norms when the primary love interest (and ultimate heroine) remains the lightest skinned sister in the room. She is able to maintain the appeal of the ingenue while at the same time having the understood attractiveness of her complexion. As far as Leti is concerned as a character, she too seems to be a pretty shitty person. We hear that she has “transactional” friendships and she seems pretty much all about self-survival and rarely if ever puts up where others do. She’s a heroine in the sense that the story makes her be heroic, but it never addresses how her flaws are ultimately all self-inflicted and unnecessary. She could just not be a shitty person.

Hippolyta Freeman

Well. Hidden Figures was an excellent film, and I think that’s where Hippolyta came from. In a more serious series, perhaps she and her daughter could have had a very touching arc that would deal with survival and exceptionalism in a world that maligns you for your very being. Unfortunately, in reality she just comes off as a character that’s quirky in a world that’s also quirky and she doesn’t get to harness her power. There’s an entire episode dedicated to how she discovers who she is and the result is well, her hair turns blue and she makes robots? I think the character TYPE is great, but they misused her here in all ways.

George Freeman

Well, well. If the series had remained about George, Tic, and Leti adventuring through America and encountering sundown towns and monsters both human and otherwise, I think it’d have been okay. The issue is, they wrote this series by the numbers so George is immediately thrown away. He’s a wise and circumspect guy that has his own flaws (he has patrarchical notions built around protecting/babying his genius wife, clearly), but the flaws he has are understandable and well reasoned. George dies early on. Then he sort of doesn’t, I guess? But the fact he did was really the nail in the coffin for this series. The moment they did that, the rest just became empty strokes. A story where George witnessed the others dying and going back to his wife and daughter would have had so much more heart to it, but well. Uncle George is literally one of the few bright spots.

Ruby Baptise

Much like her sister, Leti, Ruby is a terrible attempt at showing empowerent on the one hand, and a masterwork on the other. The bad first: she’s a rapist. I’ve been called a nigger before and while it didn’t feel great, I don’t think I’d have been justified in just sodomizing the person that did it. That entire sequence was weird and they tried to hype it as her reclaiming something, when really it spoke to a disgusting and gratuitous tendency toward Ruby: she’s always too much. Ruby, IMO, should have been Tic’s love interest. In a sense. First, because Wunmi Mosaku was a very attractive woman with impressive acting chops (she’s where I’ll break my moratirum, sorry), but also because it wouldn’t be what you’d see in every other show now: light-skinned pretty sister, dark-skinned sexual eikon. And that’s the issue with Ruby there: she’s always too much. She’s sexual by existing and that isn’t necessarily to her benefit since Leti, the good one, is an actual virgin before her sudden period sex. So the narrative has already spoken as to how it views sex. Yet, because they tried to give Ruby these strange strokes, she comes out as an interesting character. She has feelings, aspirations, and dreams that she’s kept from and that’s very real. In a story about the absurd, a sense of realness is a familiar handhold to gather your wits. She’s all that, really. It’s why she has the best relationships in the show, which is AGAIN an issue, but well. I’ll say Ruby was never bad to have on screen though I was disgusted with how often her blackess (and Blackness in general!) became the source of grotesque horror.

Christina Braithewaite

This is where I get annoyed. My issue with Christina is that she should have easily been the most hated character, but they overplayed their hand with not showing how nefarious she was. In fact? Christina and Ruby’s relationship is the only meaningful, real, and understandable one in the entire series. I felt no joy during her downfall, because I didn’t really get to see her doing anything bad? Just, consider what the show is. It’s about Lovecraft’s lore, ostensibly, which treats all non (specific types of) white men like dogs. So Christina comes at it from the “white” but “woman” perspective and you know, she has moments of duality that you can say is she more white or woman here. But they don’t execute on how sinister she should be. She’s a little rude at times? Yet she is the only person to treat Ruby like she should be treated and she’s the only person that seems to have a goal outside of “the quest.” It really bothered me that she came out so well done, because either they needed to have her for two seasons and make her far more nefarious after the first, or to just make her less a force for good. She saves the characters more than a few times and pays for it by being killed when she’s at her lowest. Yeah, it’s... a weird take.

Ji-Ah

What can I say? There are depictions of sex in the series, and they’re all negative: most of Ji-Ah’s scenes, Montrose’s angry self-loathing sex with his boyfriend, Ruby’s morphic horror scenes. In the case of most of those, there’s something being said. Ji-Ah is a monster, literally, that could be seen as Lovecraftian in the sense she’s an exotic Asian woman that kills men that sleep with her. So, HBO was like “we’ll blow our tits and ass budget on her,” and she exists for a series of sex scenes and vague, inscrutable... shit, maybe SHE is the most Lovecraft of all the characters! Anyway at some point she joins the party after confusing drama with Leti because they both fucked Tic. It’s okay though, because Ji-Ah isn’t here for any of that now. She’s the one who had the best friend that had her teeth yanked out by Tic, and also who was there when he shot her other friend in cold blood, but they get over that and she’s now their friendly red panda pal or some shit. It’s fucking trash. Much like the Freemans (sans Tic), I think she’d have done great in another show. But they rushed her story and it felt less Ghost Nation (Westworld) and more Masturbation (Jordan Peele).

Diana Freeman

Confusing. A stock character (quirky kid that does art, is impetuous, and won’t take no for an answer) that is given a lot of screen time. When she sort of hijacks an episode when two ragamuffin girls chase her down and infest her or something because racist cops. Well, the story veers to her direction. What can I say? If you like 11 from Stranger Things but wanted her to have Mike’s attitude, well. Here you go.

Montrose Freeman

He could have been a good character, I guess. He seemed unnecessary and often was there purely for an x-factor of “uh?” Like, his infamous scene where he slits a two-spirit Native American’s throat after we learn that this indigenous person had just been restored after being raped by bad guys. So there’s that. Also I guess he was self-loathing so he beat his son (that may not be his son???) and also liked fucking dudes, which was I think where we were supposed to care about him. It’s like someone saw Omar was a gun-wielding desperado of drug theft and decided, “Well what made him okay is he’s gay!” But it didn’t add much. I get he was angsty but other than Tic calling him a “faggot” (one of the few good scenes between them in terms of emotion), it all seemed empty and kind of meandering. At no point does Montrose seem a part of the team. He just half-mumbles, gets angry, cries, and falls apart.

Captain Seamus Lancaster

He’s barely a character, but I need to include him for another point. He’s the “bad guy.” I guess? He uses the bodies of black men to stay alive, which is actually a really smart reference to black bodies fueling the American system, but it comes off as cheesy because it just never comes up. He’s cartoonishly bad in a way that he’s less sinister than a meme. Compare him to say, Ridgeway from Colson Whitehead’s The Underground Railroad. One’s a sinister representation of an oppressive system and the other’s well, a joke.

Racism

How could this not be a theme? The issue, as was shown with Lancaster, is that it isn’t even remotely handled with seriousness. The best scene of racism is in the first episode when Tic, George, and Leti are forced to leave a Sundown county before they’re lynched by the racist sheriff. The anticipation and animosity lead to some serious anxiety and it was a nailbiter.

But after that? White people say “nigger.” Then they get, I don’t know, raped or spit on or who knows. A lot of black people talk back to the cops anyway in the 50′s and that’s cool.

But the real monsters of the series are all black people. Let’s go through it:

Tic brutalized women in the Korean War.

Montrose killed the two-spirit person.

Ruby rapes the shop owner.

Diane crushes Christina’s throat.

Ruby literally sheds her flesh in repeatedly gratuitous acts of the grotesque.

Even Ji-Ah, who’s not black, is a monster in the literal sense. We do see the doctor that experimented on black people, but that’s about 5 minutes at the end of an episode that has a baby’s head on a man’s body so I was too busy laughing at the absurdity to take any real meaning from it.

The truth is, in Lovecraft Country, white people always should do their best to kill or keep black people down. It definitely doesn’t speak at all to any togetherness or what have you. Just, well. Magical negroes doing bad stuff because nothing can stop them.

The show misses the chances to show real horror in race. Hell, the Tulsa Riots are reduced to a backdrop for a confusing book scene. But then again, Emmett Till becomes a kind of empty reference point that we then see a white woman act out... for some reason?

Again, the only characters with any chemistry are Ruby and Christina, which is very unfortunate for any number of reasons. As far as a statement that racism is bad goes, I mean. I barely saw it. If I was a racist I’d be like hell yeah, Lovecraft was right they are dangerous.

Even when people try to indicate the horrors of it like, “Oh, the Korean War scenes are bad because we see how men are forced into the military complex!” We didn’t see a white officer say “Shoot her, boy,” it was just two black guys killing women with no care at all. And no compeuppance, so that’s cool.

The Music

Sucks. Thanks Peaky Blinders for making modern music over gif sets a thing.

Conclusion

I sure as hell would never watch it again. If I can get one other person not to, then maybe it’d be worth it. It’s not a good show. It’s not “smart,” and there’s no secret subversion in it. It’s just... bad.

I won’t post on it anymore. Please, in true Lovecraft fashion, trust me when I say that this show is so bad it cannot be comprehended.

#lovecraft country

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ser-yolomere-of-swagalore · 5 years

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Welcome, O life! I go to encounter for the millionth time the reality of experience and to forge in the smithy of my soul the uncreated conscience of my race myself, bitch.

James Joyce -- Ulysses (with some much needed editing)

I haven’t written here in a long time. In fact, after this post, I don’t really see myself writing here every again-- and no, before any of you (if there is, in fact, any one who will see this) jump to conclusions, this isn’t some kind of weird suicide note, or plea for help. What this is, is a sort of manifesto, or a summation, of everything that I’ve felt, and am feeling at the moment, and in a way, hopefully, purging myself of these feelings forever. It’s a goodbye, but also a new opportunity. A creation, as well as a destruction. A final litany of things that I have to say, or wanted to say, and a final exorcism of numerous antagonistic little ghosts that have been rattling around in my head for God knows how long.

I’ve always been struck by the concept of a sort of Joycean paralysis. Maybe because it’s true-- that Irish people are, in a weird way, struck with a sort of deep, abiding, spiritual malaise, a psychological and emotional paralysis, as a sort of weird, post-colonial hangover-- or maybe because it simply hits too close to home. The narrative of a sort of genealogical, archaeological torpor is one that is all too easy to believe, because it is something that I have experienced quiet viscerally throughout my entire life, but also in a way that is difficult to articulate. The sense that you’re fundamentally at odds with the world around you because of some fundamental, spiritual displacement resulting from years (centuries?) of imperialistic and religious abuse isn’t something that goes well over dinner, after all-- especially when dinner is a hurriedly bought Burger King and the sound of mopeds careening up and down the Cardiffsbridge Road muffles the sound of Coronation Street on the television.

But it’s a feeling that has stuck with me so long. Longer than I can really remember. This sense of being held back. By myself, by the world around me, by the people around me. Dreams of leaving, of emigrating, have been a consistent fantasy of mine. Occasional spurts of creative writing have always been characterized by the theme of a departure, whether through the realm of some childish Tolkien-esque fantasy or through a plane ticket that randomly fell into the protagonist’s (read: my) lap. That feeling of momentary, ontological vertigo, when the plane leaves the ground and you can feel yourself lifted in that miniature pocket of zero-gravity, is a sensation that I’ve craved and chased (either literally, or figuratively) whenever possible, with varying degrees of success. I even had, at one point, a bit of a miniature breakdown (you know those ones, where they creep up on you, where you have this vague sense that at any minute things are just going to collapse all around you, and nothing will ever be the same) and I started doing some pretty illegal things to get money (fill in the blanks there however you wish) in order to essentially run away, get a plane ticket to somewhere, and just start afresh. But that did crash down, either way-- I started having some viscerally severe panic attacks; I felt like I was going to be trapped here, forever, that I was going to die here, that all the dreams and aspirations I had of doing something worth while were just gonna be swallowed up the dull, plot-less relentlessness with which life here seemed to drive itself--arguably into the ground. I attended counselling, got a professional, objective perspective, and was able to get to grips with things. The anxiety stopped. The borderline insane drive to escape was lulled, and while the gnawing sense of there being a sort of hole, at the center of everything, dissipated, it didn’t quite disappear. I was, once again, able to manage, and plod right along.

Over time, I’ve come to terms with the fact that my sense of malaise is not, in fact, the result of some kind of literarily prescribed sense of paralysis-- or, at least, not entirely. It is the result of years, perhaps arguably even decades, of mistreatment. By a family and a home that is so deeply dysfunctional that it is, legitimately, tragic. By an early upbringing so neglected and isolated that, to look back and take an earnest look, is genuinely pathetic. By a mindset and by people who see who I am and see something to laugh at. I’ve slowly come to terms with the fact that my family have never quite seen me seriously, as someone incompetent, flowery, soft, and not worth paying attention to. Years, again, potentially decades of subtle gaslighting, invalidation, negation, criticism, patronizing, condescension-- all compounded by shitty, so-called friends, who were all too happy to take advantage of my desire to please and turn it around on me-- had resulted in a person who had so much self-doubt, such a negative self-image, such a horrible sense of failure that, to further disappoint, would result in self-harm. Decades of having my life dictated to me, taking up responsibility and accepting the burden of my family’s terrible choices, of having my potential and my opportunities circumscribes by what seems to be the endlessly unfolding soap opera of my extended family’s self-inflicted pain. And the worst part is that I simply thought all of this was normal. The concept of Joycean paralysis was able to help me understand, in a vague sense, what was really wrong, but only hindered me in truly understanding its origin.

I worry that if I go on like this I’ll only end up sounding like some kind of serially self-pitying asshole, one of those people that advertises their personal trauma and tragedy as a means to win the Sadsack Olympics, or obtain sympathy, or blame their lack of success and fulfillment on their past. But in the end, that isn’t what this is about. That isn’t the reason why I’m writing this post. In fact, the reason why I am writing this is far more joyous, written with a deep smile spreading across my face. I’ve spent my entire life orientating around myself around other people, of pleasing other people, and I’ve gotten very, very good at figuring out what is that people want, and giving it to them. What I’ve learned, an what I’ve finally gotten the balls to do, is do what I want. I’ve learned to say no. I’ve learned to pursue what I want, to accrue self-confidence, self-love, self-esteem. I’ve learned to deny people, to put myself first, and tell people who need to be told what for. I’ve learned that to be “good” is to give in, to do as I’ve told and take it all on the chin, and I’ve learned that to be “bad” is to pursue what I want, and to rebel. And, fundamentally, I’ve learned that when I am good, I am very, very good, but when I am bad I am FUCKING FIERCE.

So I am leaving. In fact, I’ve been planning on leaving for quite some time now. Since March, roughly. I am moving to the U.K, getting away from this place, to spend time with people who I have chosen to spend my time with, that I have build up relationships purely of my own choosing and initiative, and whom I trust. To build a life that I choose to build, for myself, and shirking off as much of the trauma, pain, insecurities and self-doubt as I can. Psychiatrist Harry Stack Sullivan believed that the core motivating force in all human behavior was anxiety, and not just anxiety, but the creative and ornate ways we go about avoiding or managing it. According to him, a personality was simply a collection of habits and strategies people gathered over time to “avoid or minimize anxiety, ward off disapproval, and maintain self-esteem.” What I’ve learned, personally, is the sheer liberating power of identifying and deconstructing the aspects of my own psychology that are life-limiting, and taking great joy in completely and utterly destroying the ones that are build up anxious defense mechanisms. I would be lying if I said that it wasn’t scary, because when these mechanisms fall I’ll be thrust, head first, into facing the things I am most deeply afraid of—social rejection and abandonment, unworthiness and failure, unlovability and isolation, to name a few. But it is liberating because I’ve come to realize that, yes, our defenses serve a function, but no, we don’t actually need all of them to survive-- and then, suddenly, an entirely new life is possible. I’ve come to realize that I actually CAN tolerate anxiety; I CAN live with not being liked, I CAN be misunderstood, I CAN make mistakes, I CAN feel bad. And let me tell you, it is a relief. God is sometimes understood as a creator, but he can also be understood as a destroy-- And I am choosing to be the God of my own goddamn life, and taking great pleasure in destroying that which I don’t like.

I’ve ended up prescribing some great, symbolic significance to the act of me leaving. It is me righteously striking back at all the things that had made me hate myself in the past, because they couldn’t simply tolerate hating themselves and needed to destroy me in order to feel better. And so, to them, I say:

Fuck my family, who have done nothing to actually foster and cultivate who I am as a human being

Fuck the people who have turned my own kindness against me and made me doubt myself

Fuck the people who have made me feel as though my command of words is a weakness-- I am a fucking fantastic writer, and I dare any of those people to challenge me, because I’ll write them into the fucking ground.

Fuck the people who made me doubt my intelligence; I am more than smart enough to figure things out for myself and smart enough, at least now, to see them for the self-hating, jealous troglodytes they are.

Fuck this place that has made me feel that who I am is wrong, and lesser, and subordinate-- I am worthy, and powerful, and capable.

Fuck this country, and its backwards, stagnant, repressive culture

FUCK

YOU

And that’s it. There’s my gigantic, theatrical display of radical self-acceptance. In a way, what I want to do is leave, and never come back. To delete all my social media, and start afresh. But I know that’s not realistic. I know I have to tether myself to “home”, as much as I disagree with the idea this place is truly home. I will say this, however-- there are parts of my experience here, and my life thus far, that have been wonderful. I’ve got a handful of genuinely fantastic friends, and I’ve forged some very important memories with them. To burn those bridges would be unforgivable, and I would never be able to do that to them.

It’s 2:16am. I was already exhausted but I had to write this and get it all off my chest. But this is it-- me signing off, forever. Let this be a testament to everything I want to be, an will be, from here on out.

-Ian.

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michaelandy101-blog · 3 years

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How you can Use Surveys to Faucet into Trending Conversations (and Construct Hyperlinks)

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How you can Use Surveys to Faucet into Trending Conversations (and Construct Hyperlinks)

The writer’s views are completely his or her personal (excluding the unlikely occasion of hypnosis) and will not all the time replicate the views of Moz.

While you’re making an attempt to construct high quality hyperlinks, probably the greatest methods to try this is by creating fascinating content material and pitching writers to safe media protection.

However with a purpose to achieve success, your content material must be newsworthy.

One of the frequent newsworthy components is timeliness, which means the data is both model new or related proper now.

Most manufacturers aren’t working full newsrooms and don’t have the capability to cowl breaking information, however there are nonetheless methods to take part in related, newsworthy conversations — and surveys are a fantastic possibility.

I’m going to stroll by way of how one can make the most of surveys so as to add worth to conversations, and earn the curiosity of writers at prime publications.

Step 1: Figuring out the traits

Saying “trends” is actually too broad, as a result of a development can final for hours, days, months, and even years. Clearly, the shorter the development, the more durable it’ll be to contribute in a well timed vogue.

For the aim of constructing hyperlinks, I are likely to ignore Google Developments, Twitter traits, and different quickly altering pursuits, since you’ll want at the least a handful of days to place a survey collectively, and there’s no assure the subject will nonetheless be common by the point you’re finished.

As a substitute, I search for traits that final within the vary of months, as they accommodate longer-term conversations and provide the room to discover new angles and views with out racing towards time.

Listed here are some methods to establish a majority of these traits:

Key phrase analysis: When key phrases and subjects have a excessive quantity, which means there’s a substantial amount of curiosity; typically these instruments use historic knowledge to tell their quantity estimates, so it’s secure to imagine these subjects didn’t simply begin trending.

Exploding Topics: The purpose of this website is to assist folks establish traits earlier than they peak so you possibly can contribute whereas the dialog is turning into increasingly related. Maintain tabs on subjects associated to your business to get concepts.

BuzzSumo: When utilizing this device, take a look at the Content material Analyzer and sort in your area of interest. However don’t simply have a look at the tales which have gotten probably the most engagement — see if there’s a narrative or sample within the first couple of pages of outcomes. Maybe there’s an underlying development there.

Be part of communities: See what subjects are being mentioned the place your viewers connects with others. Are their Fb teams, Slack/Discord channels, Twitter chats, or anything the place these conversations are occurring? Be sure to concentrate.

Writer tales: Maintain tabs in your goal publications. What are they publishing tales about? What do these tales have in frequent?

For instance, let’s have a look at a mission we did for our shopper Indicators.com known as American Mask Mandates. As you understand, COVID-19 has been a really unlucky “trend” that’s been thrust upon us, and since it’s a once-in-a-lifetime occasion, the scary novelty of it has generated numerous information tales. However you possibly can go even additional than that — what else associated to COVID-19 is trending?

We knew mask-wearing debates had been showing continuously within the media, nevertheless it was laborious to inform precisely the place most of the people stood on the matter separate from all of the noise these sensational tales stirred up.

After we recognized this development, we determined to survey 1,00zero folks to get their ideas on the difficulty, and we framed the timeliness and trending facet of the story in our mission’s introduction:

After getting a couple of traits like this in thoughts, you possibly can transfer on to the following a part of ideation.

Step 2: Take into account new views

When folks talk about subjects that aren’t cut-and-dry (that are generally probably the most fascinating subjects), they typically depend on their very own expertise to know it.

Due to this, there are views that aren’t being absolutely represented within the dialog, and that’s the place a survey can present a ton of worth.

Ask your self these inquiries to establish hidden views you possibly can faucet into:

What does the final viewers take into consideration this matter total? (Observe-up: Are folks afraid/unwilling to share their views publicly?)

What’s the sentiment round sure factors made on this dialog?

Are all teams being represented right here?

At this level, you must have a stable brainstorm going about 1) who you must survey and a pair of) what you can ask them that may unearth new insights.

For the Indicators.com instance, we knew this was a contentious matter, and we wished to get a way of how excessive the views had been in most of the people (moderately than the few which can be the loudest). However we additionally made positive to have a pattern measurement of individuals from the totally different political events for insightful demographic breakdowns (extra on that later).

Right here’s an instance of one of many property we created:

Regardless of all of the controversy, our survey revealed a overwhelming majority of individuals mentioned masks ought to be worn in public. And whereas child boomers had been extra prone to suppose masks had been pointless, it was nonetheless solely about 5% of surveyed child boomers who felt that means.

By taking this attitude, we had been capable of get nearer to the reality about perceptions of a trending matter. And the media was : we earned protection for this mission on Washington Examiner, MarketWatch, MSN, and extra.

So how will you draft a survey with comparable outcomes?

Step three: Drafting the survey

A information on survey constructing may very well be a whole separate post, so I’m not going to undergo this step-by-step. I’ll, nevertheless, present some finest practices on how you can get probably the most fascinating takeaways out of your survey — whereas eliminating sources of bias.

First, you’ll need to make an inventory of potential inquiries to ask. A good way to spark concepts right here is to think about what you need the ultimate outcomes to seem like (which is able to in fact change based mostly on the info).

Think about how the takeaway or eventual article headline would learn. If we use the Indicators.com mission for instance, a principle we had was that we (the general public) aren’t truly as in-conflict as we’re led to consider. From there, we imagined what the headline (that truly ended up featured on MarketWatch) may very well be because of our survey questions:

The advantage of doing that is that will help you visualize whether or not the potential outcomes of your survey will truly be newsworthy or fascinating sufficient to publish. It additionally helps you body your questions in a approach to get the format of solutions you’re searching for.

For instance, the headline on Washington Examiner and MSN is: “New consensus for mask use and $225 fine for refusing.” While you’re capable of think about a possible headline like this, which cites how a lot the general public says folks ought to be fined for breaking masks guidelines, you understand to ask a query about that in a particular means. In case you’d requested for ranges moderately than offering a fill-in-the-blank, for instance, that may have meant a a lot clunkier headline.

Nonetheless, you need to watch out to not deliver your hypotheses into the survey within the type of bias.

The way in which you kind questions can positively affect the outcomes you get and make them considerably extra subjective in case you’re not cautious. Take into account the next:

Are your scales biased? Are you asking, “How annoying is this?” moderately than one thing like “Do you find this acceptable or unacceptable?”. Offering each side of the size makes for a less-biased query.

Are all potential choices introduced? In case you pressure somebody to decide on the solutions you present, you can be pigeon-holing them into selecting one thing they don’t truly need to select. At all times embody an “Other” possibility in addition to a “None” or “Not applicable” possibility.

Does your query faucet into social desirability bias, the place folks really feel like they should reply your query in a means that’s socially acceptable? For instance, somebody might not need to admit what number of drinks they’ve per week in the event that they’re heavy drinkers. (You may maybe transfer ahead in case you phrase issues in a non-judgmental means, ask respondents for trustworthy solutions, and remind them their enter is nameless.)

Typically it’s finest to simply ask for a fill-in-the-blank. Have a look at this perception we received from asking respondents how a lot they suppose folks ought to be fined for not following masks laws:

Whereas generally ranges will help get an perception you’re searching for, fill-in-the-blank choices enable you see extra particular insights. Right here, you possibly can see Democratic respondents would love the next effective, a end result which can have been misplaced if finished with ranges.

Lastly, be sure to’re asking inclusive demographic questions (and later break down your outcomes by demographic). Doing so would possibly reveal traits you could not have found in any other case, like that millennials fear about one thing child boomers don’t, or that girls have a distinct opinion than males on a problem. It is a good approach to illustrate the opinion of teams who will not be effectively represented in a dialog.

After we broke issues down by technology and political affiliation, we noticed that, whereas there have been some variations, they weren’t almost as dramatic as some would assume. This is a vital perception we might have missed in any other case.

Step four: Selling the outcomes

Our technique when doing surveys is to do all the evaluation and create photographs like those I confirmed beforehand within the article. The pictures ought to depict the info in simple graphs, and takeaways ought to spotlight the important thing elements of your report. We construct an accompanying write-up round these insights, after which we pitch the whole lot to writers.

Do not forget that tip about imagining headlines? That’s going to turn out to be useful right here, too. Now that you’ve the ultimate knowledge, ask your self: what’s the most stunning or impactful data you possibly can glean from the outcomes?

Have this in thoughts when writing your pitch electronic mail, and embody the important thing fascinating info in your pitch. Primarily, you don’t need writers guessing why they need to care about your survey.

Maybe you possibly can even reference the development you’re referring to and a time when that author or publication lined the development differently. How does your survey complement that story?

Conclusion

Surveys offer you entry to a wealth of public opinion. While you’re studying content material, be conscious of what you’re questioning about. Are you able to affirm or deny the assumptions you’re making by launching a survey? How can tapping into different folks’s views add extra context and worth to a dialog?

Sharing your survey outcomes cannot solely enliven a dialog and provides it extra depth — it will probably show you care in regards to the matter and are prepared to do the work to contribute in a significant means. And in case you create the content material and use an earned media technique to get it on the market, you will get the twin advantages of constructing hyperlinks and model authority concurrently.

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honeygrip · 7 years

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Let it go.

For a greater part of the last few years I had been miserable. For a myriad of reasons. My job made me miserable, my love life made me miserable; my finances, my relationships overall. Everything, it ALL contributed.

To depression, to addictions, to abuse, to unhappiness, to mistrust, to misanthropy. All of that. I had so many expectations of what my life was suppose to look like by this point that I was angry and frustrated by the unexpected circumstances that were put before me. I was working so hard for all these things in my life that weren’t working for me.

I started to take stock in a lot of shit and studied my own actions and behaviors. Funny thing about being around- stuck with yourself- for 4 decades. After a while, if you’re paying attention to yourself for real- the patterns emerge.

I realized that I had approached life like a perpetual victim. Treating life as if everything was happening TO me instead of understanding that life was happening FOR me.

Adversity in life is not meant to make you a perpetual victim- it’s meant to make you a stronger person. If you are experiencing the same episodes of heartbreak, misfortune or drama- at some point you have to stop blaming those around you and start acknowledging that YOU are ultimately in control of YOURSELF.

If you feel you are being taken advantage of- ask YOURSELF why you keep allowing people to take advantage of you.

If you feel people are always disrespecting you or the boundaries you set for yourself- I’d ask you why you are allowing yourself to constantly interact with said people?

If it’s not making you happy or making you better, why work so hard to hold onto it?

I’ve learned that a lot of us love drama because drama gives us something to do with ourselves. It gives us PURPOSE- and without purpose- who are we really?

Most of us believe we are nothing. And knowing that we are nothing- crushes our fragile egos. So we invent drama in order to help ourselves feel important- And that’s okay- if that’s your bag. But for me, I don’t want to be the nucleus of drama anymore. I’m tired of being exhausted by it and I’m tired of merely complaining about it. I don’t even want to be where the drama is.

I took stock in all the things in my life that were making me miserable and began to work on how I could change them.

I knew at the start of 2016 that I was at my wit’s end with my job. I knew that no matter how hard I worked there, I was never going to be really recognized for my efforts. I was tired of paying the “black tax”, tired of working in a nepotistic borderline racist environment. I was tired of living in fear that I couldn’t go out there and find a job that would at least leave me feeling more fulfilled. So I continued to work, because I had believed that was what I HAD to do. I was complacent there and complicit-and that was a dangerous combination.

Then one day- it all came to head; the moment I had fantasized about and prayed for and feared came: I got laid off. After 9 years of working at a job I absolutely HATED- I finally got escorted to a conference room, got handed a folder with a severance package that suddenly became the keys to my freedom. A moment I had dreamed of and prayed for- was suddenly my reality.

OH SHIT.

I had never been so scared in my life. But I was scared for the less obvious reasons. It wasn’t just the questions like: What was my next move going to be? It was: can I finally be happy?

I knew I wasn’t going to be able to last another year there but I wasn’t really ready to walk out at that moment. Or was I?

Ya know, I had never had a dream come true before and now that it had happened, I felt an awakening. I had finally had a dream fulfilled, yet I was too afraid to be grateful and too afraid to celebrate my victory.

This had been all I wanted but I couldn’t see the forest for the trees…

I plastered a “this is great” smile on my face and pretended to be happily unemployed for the first time in 9 years. I tried to stay upbeat, but it wasn’t long before anxiety set in and the truth is I was already exhausted from being miserably stuck at a job that had made me so unhappy in the first place.

I had let misery take up a permanent residency in my life. I didn’t know how to pack it up and move it out.

So, instead of enjoying my new-found freedom, I worried about going broke. Worried about having to go back to work in ANY environment. Worried about getting rusty. Worried about growing bored, growing despondent. Worried about giving up.

I was even afraid to burden my friends with the pressure.

I realized I was tired of complaining about the state of my life and more importantly, I was tired of never having a positive update.

I was desperately ready to change the narrative.

For the first time in my life, I had the opportunity to create a brand new reality. To start from scratch, I had time to rewrite everything.

I tried to change my perception. Change my energy. Change the people I interacted with. Limit my social media intake. Meditate. Focus on what I wanted out of my existence and what was positively working in my life.

I began to count each and every blessing and I slowly began to understand that I didn’t have to live in strife or struggle.

For more than 7 months I was blessed to be able to maintain my lifestyle, take care of myself and my children financially and never once “lost it” (all the things I feared) It was then that I realized that I truly did have the power to change what wasn’t working in my life. I got to do things that made me happy. I had the freedom to work on things that would work for me.

I realized that I didn’t have to be miserable but I also recognized that misery IS my comfort zone. It WAS so because it was consistent, it was predictable, I KNEW misery well. I knew pain. I knew depression. I knew struggle and I knew drama- so much so I let these things define me.

I thought about how often, we as black women feel we have to go through struggles to be defined. We’re told we have to go through some thangs in order to get to some sacred promised land. We’re told that we have do the necessary “work”.

We’re told that the struggle makes us “strong” and we (especially as black women) are often measured by our strength. This belief is the by-product of generational curses, passed down from our mommas and grandmommas. Somewhere along the lines, it became our “birthright”. It’s how we earn our stripes. It proves you’re tough, it validates a lot of us, but none of us have to own the patent on pain. None of us have to corner that market.

Do you know how many Beckys are out here living happily and not struggling? Not making shit harder on themselves that it has to be?

So why do we as WOC feel so compelled to be in the struggle and the drama that has become our day to day?

For a lot of us, anger is our go to emotional reaction to LIFE. Instead of admitting hurt or disappointment or fear- we get angry, and we use our anger as our conflict management style.

For some of us, It gives us definition, it gives a lot of us motivation, it gives a lot of us- purpose. It fuels our aggression and it’s corrupting us.

So I wanted to come here today and say:

Girl. Whatever it is you are going through, please know- It’s okay to be happy. I want to stress that it’s okay to be vulnerable. It’s okay to make peace. It’s perfectly fine to forgive, let it hurt and then let it go and move on.

We don’t have to stay in a miserable situation, no matter how familiar it feels. No matter what our elders taught us by their examples. No matter how comfortable we are there, no matter how much we’ve been programmed to believe we deserve it or we must go through it or how much we’ve been told it’s apart of our makeup.

We don’t have to accept heartbreak, misfortune or drama as our norm. We don’t have to take perfectly normal situations and create chaos in order to make ourselves feel validated or important.

If anything in your life is not working- please remember that you can change your narrative. And you don’t have to use anger and destruction to do it. You don’t have to burn down all the bridges that surround you, you don’t have to give everyone a piece of your mind on your way out.

Sometimes you can just walk away with your peace of mind in tact.

Yes, it will be scary, yes it will be challenging but YES, you can change your approach. You don’t have to do it the same way, you don’t have to use the same tactics of pain, anger, resentment or pettiness. You don’t have to react the way you’ve always done.

You can walk away from anything that no longer serves you. THAT is your birthright. You don’t have to settle for maltreatment in any form as apart of your reality. Not Toxic friends, negative energy, stagnant relationships or shitty jobs. You can abandon what you no longer need and not feel guilty or disloyal.

I know how hard it is to give up on certain beliefs, things or behaviors, I had a girlfriend who I watched go through the same argument with her then boyfriend for months. Whatever wasn’t working- wasn’t working and no matter how hard they loved, kissed and made up, lectured and broke down, I could see that it wasn’t making either one of them happy.

Whatever the breakdown in their relationship was- one thing that was apparent to me was that both of them were spending far too much energy trying to fix whatever it was that wasn’t working and that wasn’t happiness- that was work!

She said to me one day, “I keep telling him the same thing over and over and he just isn’t getting it”. And I told her- maybe YOU aren’t getting it.

She was stuck working to save a relationship that wasn’t working for her.

If it’s not working- maybe that’s because it doesn’t work, maybe it’s not meant to be, maybe it’s been what it was and now it’s not that anymore and it’s time to move on. But to invest in having the same argument for MONTHS sounds like misery.

I know too many women who are holding on to some sort of dysfunction because they are afraid of the “unknown” in letting it go. If it no longer serves you, and you walk away- it’s not a sign of failure. It’s a sign of bravery, a sign of strength and a sign of faith.

You don’t have to be “stuck” wallowing…

When something stops working for you. Stop working for it.

Whatever it may be; Your shitty ass job (that you think you need), your unreciprocated relationships (that you think you can fix), or your negative ass attitude (that you think is cute).

If it’s not working for you, sis, Let it go.

Do not be afraid of the unknown. Do not be terrified to go it alone. Honor yourself enough to know what doesn’t work for you. Honor yourself enough to be determined to change what isn’t working, or what’s making you miserable- even if that is yourself…

Honor yourself enough to change your own narrative, and to work for what is working well for you.

Because you deserve it.

#women #blackwomen #selflove #selfcare #career #depression #personal #HONEYGRiP

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