can't stop thinking about poor Ruby having to improvise song lyrics to a great big goblin king and just coming up with 'it's good to meet you, good to greet you... good to say "how diddly deet you"'
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opinion on rosie? 🎤
i personally love her
she's very neat. Very very nice. Auntie vibes.
I was not a fan of her voice. But I got used to it very fast, I love her interactions with Alastor. She's silly. I'd be buddies with her.
I was looking forward to this episode specifically because of her (I mean. It had her name on it.)
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I was just looking into the notion that widowers only had to mourn for 1 year after their wives' deaths, during the Victorian era, while widows had to mourn for two. because I've heard that a lot, but it seems to jive more with the Pop History version of the era where mourning existed because Imposing Rules On People Is Fun and All Marriages Were For Money than with the real version, inhabited by real people who idealized love matches and theoretically practiced formal mourning to show that they were going through something and needed gentle treatment
what I've gathered from a brief search for period sources seems to be:
one source from 1839 mentioned the "widows = 2 years; widowers = 1 year" thing
every other source I read (about 7, from various points in the era) implied or stated that the minimum normal period of mourning for widows and widowers was the same
That's a small sample size, but I still think it's significant
men's clothing could often be harder to visibly alter to reflect mourning, relying heavily on things like black cufflinks and collar studs that could be trickier to notice at first glance than. you know. a bonnet with a black veil over someone's face
a lot of sources talking about mourning clothes were fashion magazines aimed at women, and thus would be more likely to talk about women's mourning attire than men's
so my takeaway is that while some people at some parts of this 60-year period felt it acceptable for widowers to mourn for half the period of widows, many others at other times expected any bereaved spouse regardless of gender. obviously, in a highly misogynistic society, women's adherence to ettiquette could be much more scrutinized than men's; a widower who married six months after his wife's death would be looked askance at, but probably not subject to as much censure as a widow who did the same. and obviously, things don't go according to plan and the formal mourning system could of course backfire- forcing a woman into months of social seclusion for an abusive husband, for example
but.
the overall goal was to convey "handle with care" to the outside world. for many people, widowers were expected to need as much care as widows- and therefore to mourn for the same length of time
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Ah drat. I just found a live mouse in the pantry--not a surprise, in a 120 year old house, and very much not a surprise since Vice has been paying an unusual amount of attention to that area lately--but if it's in the food I have to do something about it, and unfortunately, given how far mice will go to get back where they came from, I can't really catch and release them.
I really like mice, but they're not safe to have in the pantry and they're disease vectors for the cats. Apologies to the memory of my lovely late pet mice, Nimbus and Numa, but...well...needs must.
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The current (active :'D) family in my "Nice Eclipse" dimension. Selene, Helios, and Earth.
This also falls under my Silly Celestials AU, which as an "everyone lives and joins the family" au it was getting crowded over in the main dimension. So I've decided to put Earth with Helios! Not only does it make more sense for her to be created with their main dca out of commission, but it also gives me a lot more room to do Earth justice and explore her in this lil family.
It's... rough rn for them, for obvious reasons. Selene doesn't hate Earth, or is upset she exists, but they are stressing over the fact Fazbears has noticed Eos isn't running and decided to make a whole new animatronic in response without informing them.
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