#personally speaking

[magicalgirlmindcrank]

its kinda insane to me that we as a species went from not naming children until they reached a certain age because miscarriages and infant mortality rates were that bad to certain people considering a fertilized egg a fucking person

#I think we should go back to the first model #personally speaking

[palatinewolfsblog]

"Whether the wide world is really wide

is up to each person."

Ilse Aichinger.

Wondering...

(For my dear Friend @rubenesque-dollyd-93 .)

#quote of the day #quote of today #ilse aichinger #the world #our world #the wide world #width #people #persons #personally #personally speaking #horizon #perception #perspective #vision #life with a vision #make a difference #look and see #care #take care #watch out #what matters #art #watercolor fx #romanticism #surrealism #wanderer #wondering #caspar david friedrich #hommage

[enluv]

trying to see something…

#personally speaking #I was a bratz & monster high girlie #but also had a tremendous amount of barbies & a dream house #OOO and ever after high dolls ! #but you tell me which ones you had 🙈 #coco takes a poll?!

[mermaidsirennikita]

always wild to see people freak out over dark romance novels when you know they're also like... Spuffy shippers? or something along those lines?

I mean, I have no issue with that lmao, I've had ships that are on the same level, but I don't know, it's just like... are you romanticizing the thing you're shipping to the point that you don't recognize its own darkness, or are you fully aware of that and just knowingly hypocritical?

#romance novel blogging #every week twitter declares that society is crumbling because of silly dark romance novels #and usually not even the REAL dark shit lmao #and every week it is the dumbest moral panic i've ever seen #but yeah dude it when you can literally see people with the WILDEST ships handwringing that i get really confused #like okay so the books are undermining women #but the women falling in love with their attempted rapists onscreen... are not.................. #and to clarify to me it's just a quality of the work thing; the content itself there doesn't concern me #I MYSELF do not think spuffy as an example was handled well and the context of joss being who he is #retroactively makes it worse than a dark romance written by some random very normal lady keying into common fantasies #like mitzie or heather or whoever doesn't want to go out there and assault someone. probably #whereas joss..................... #wasn't allowed to be alone in a room w a teenage girl #and that isn't every showrunner ofc but a lot of visual representations of trauma #and romanticizations of these relationships onscreen are often written by people of the same gender as the perpetrator #whereas dark romance is often written by women--sometimes even women working out their own shit #and idk i'm kind of making that realization in real time as two why one bugs me more than the other #PERSONALLY speaking #and ofc that doesn't absolve women of handling SA whether it's romanticized or not badly #and CERTAINLY sa is not inherent to dark romance #which i think is a common misconception #dark romance in terms of genre is not 'rape and abuse as romance' it's honestly pretty broad #ANYWAY. thoughts over #just focus on the people who are actually preying on others plsthx

[daydadahlias]

wait someone was talking about a 5sos heathers au?? 👀 -💙

i had someone be like "i havent seen heathers and idk if u have either but if u have who would be who" and i was like. let's go watch the movie first and then report back

#pigeon #i assume this issssss megs #bc blue heart #but i also was in the tags like 'eehhh i dont think id do this for 5sos' #just bc i wouldnt really want a fic where they kill one another #personally speaking

[xskyll]

#poll #polls #cereal #personally speaking #i like dry cereal #i like cinnamon life dry best maybe #i also like various cheerios #and honey bunches of oats is okay dry #haven't had it in a million years but i liked cookie crisp dry back in the day #apple jacks is good dry #marshmallow cereals i don't care for dry cause the marshmallows are too chalky

[ponds-of-ink]

I am pulling out all the stops for this FNAF-Tober methinks.

Get ready for Purple Guy’s grand return.

#fnaftober #miiilowo fnaftober #day 8 #catching up #behind the scenes #william afton #personally speaking #its hype

[lewishcmilton]

how are they still replaying the crash this is disgusting

#if it was me id have made people sit through a lewis hamilton in singapore compilation #personally speaking

[comingyourlugubriousness]

Related to an ask you got about Idia last night: I feel like people confuse Idia with Leviathan from Obey Me. Both are shut-in otaku gamers but where I feel they differ is that Leviathan always felt like a gatekeepy fan and Idia seems like the kind of person who the second they get a whiff that someone is into the same thing he is he'd want to talk to them but would talk himself out of it out of nervousness. Maybe he'd hit them up anon though.

Mm I can't really speak on characters from Obey me bc I'm not in the fandom, but I have seen people compare Idia to this character and make memes about their similarities! But for sure! I defineitly agree! I don't think Idia is gatekeepy persay. However, in canon has a bad habit of assuming people will downtalk his intrests/hobbies. Or even that they don't know anythings about it. (He does it to Vil a good amount of times and Others in Ch. 6)

(Though that is probably projection in my opinion bc he thinks his hobbies are something to be ashamed of, but we can't get into Idia's self worth issue rn.)

I think he can be very judgemental in that way. But when he's proven wrong I think its a pleasant surprise! Like you said, I think'd he'd be estatic and wanna talk their ear off about it but be worried he'd come off too strong or just be nervous talking to someone he doesn't know well in general! I have no doubt that Idia abuses the anon feature and has 70 alternatative acounts.

#the moment you realized someone your talking to has similar vibes and intrests as you and you dont have to hold back is like and instant #shot of sara tonin #personally speaking #idia shroud #pumpkintalk #twisted wonderland #disney twisted wonderland

[spindaonateaspoon]

It's very cool that hussie has developed a creative team made of dedicated fans that have put out multiple projects with direct ties to the narrative canon, but the fact that most of these projects are just glorified fanfiction with extremely personal biases written into them has done irreparable damage to people's ability to be normal about interpretations and headcanons

#homestuck #personally speaking #and no one is obligated to feel the same way about this #if it didnt happen in acts 1-7 #it's not canon #spinda tea

[palatinewolfsblog]

Hello, dear friends, followers and guests.

I need to let off some steam.

First of all, look at all these followers with no content at all, dozens of them.

Each and every week.

Well, let's say that's nothing personal. (Though the staff at Tumblr should should take a personal approach to this.)

But what sucks even more are disrespectful comments from real people out there.

Look at me. I admit, now and then i write on controversial topics. And expect some criticism. That's ok by me. Part of the game, sorta...

But when the response is something prosaic like "kill yourself" - I get angry and sad.

I am a fine arts enthusiast too and sometimes create art, that celebrates the beauty of women. When I am adressed as a girl (with little more to offer than some "tacky filters"), it gets really nasty and annoying.

I'm a man of sixty. So it's quite inappropriate. And would also be inappropriate if a woman of - lets say - twenty, thirty, fourty something was adressed this way.

But the big hit is when I get personal offers from dominatrixes or pictures that are really dirty or just downright misogynistic.

There comes a point when I say to myself: This has to stop.

Because if this doesn't stop, then I'll stop. Delete my account.

Tumblr is something I used to enjoy and if gets annoying - folks, I have enough of that in real life.

Guess that was a lot of steam. Hope you understand...

#in the light of certain events #thought of the day #thought of today #spam #blanks #tumblr #tumblr culture #tumblr today #good tumblin' #internet culture #internet etiquette #personally speaking #what to do

[fruitloopinbowlocheerios]

relatable

#personally speaking

[theemeraldforesthideout]

I don't know Which way to turn Other worlds with offerings of joy Watch the butcher's knife In his trembling hand The end of a species The shimmering veil Give me mercy Love will find you Give me mercy A new language

#The Cult #The Midnight Sun #Give Me Mercy #Rock #Alternative Rock #their new album #and therefore this song #was recorded at a studios not far from me #always gives it that extra layer #personally speaking #if I know it was created in and around Rockfield Studios

[jackalgirl]

I’m not mad at SCOTUS. I am mad at our legislators who have consistently refused to pass the Equal Rights Amendment and abortion protections on a federal level and keep passing the buck to the judicial branch.

(I will not be participating in the doxxing of Supreme Court people’s home addresses. But I encourage all of you to find the work contact information of your representatives and let them know what you think. They need to pass laws relating to the bodily autonomy of all people, and they need to do it now, and godsdammit, if there was any feeling that we didn’t need the ERA, I hope that feeling is well and truly debunked)

#personally speaking #your mileage may vary #I will not debate on any of this #us pol

[wellnoe]

i really admire people who use a lot of color variation in the lines of their art! it looks extremely cool and gives things a lot of like. life and dimension i feel.

#its also something i find very difficult to do #personally speaking #w.me

[ponds-of-ink]

Finally.

He’s back.

#harvey (delivered) #heart broken springtrap #delivered (fanfic) #rough sketches #okay #gonna be real #personally speaking #harvey being a cottage-core boi #best running gag I think I’ve made with him