#parafonian

[icannotgetoverbirds]

so many mlm yearning blogs, so many of them single. WHERE ARE YOU PEOPLE. I'M LONELY TOO. CAN WE AT LEAST BE FRIENDS. FOR THE LOVE OF GOD CAN WE AT LEAST BE FRIENDS.

#mlm #gay mlm #mlm positivity #trans mlm #bi mlm #ftm mlm #mlm concept #mlm love #mlm post #mlm pride #mlm textpost #mlm thoughts #mlm yearning #t4t mlm #nblm #parafonian #FOR REAL. WHERE ARE YOU PEOPLE #I HAVE SEEN MULTIPLE OF Y'ALL THAT ARE EVEN MY AGE #for the love of GOD can we PLEASE at least be friends #i need queer friends so badly it's not even funny #this is all /lh btw but very much /gen #/gen #blease #also if you're in arizona please talk to me #please for the love of GOD

[gnc-culture-is]

gnc culture is experiencing attraction to other gnc people but having no specific word for it. my gnc-loving ass got so fed up with not having a proper word that I made up an entire new sexuality label and flag because im the kind of person who brings an object lesson to every other one-week school presentation - that's hyperbolic but not by much - and now there is a word for it! parafonian!

Oh that’s beautiful!! i’m asking very politely for you to share the way you got that word and if you have a flag, we’d adore that too 👀👀👀

#parafonian #gnc culture is #term coining

[just-barely-awake-thoughts]

god WHY do i have such strong Feelings™ about soft, well-dressed men with glasses and a mustache???

#they're just. so soft and sweet #just barely awake thoughts #jbat #it's the parafonian #parafonian #feel free to send me more examples lmao #edit: yes there is 1 (one) irl person who fits the bill but i don't want to b weird abt irl ppl #i mean it's not even just like physical/sexual attraction it's 'my heart is melting' romantic attraction #but yeah WHY is it so SPECIFIC #THREE TIMES #being tall helps

[icannotgetoverbirds]

Please for the love of god infodump at me

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Writing Sideblog

I go by Byrd for short. I'm an intersex autistic trans man, I use it/he pronouns (unless it's funnier or gayer not to), I'm plural, and I'm over 18. I'm also an ex-mormon. Do not fucking proselytize any fucking religion at me. You will be blocked.

I mostly reblog about random shit, but sometimes I'll make original posts and/or respond with my take on a situation - those should be mostly tagged as #byrd chirps.

My exmo tag is #byrd is an exmo. Sometimes, my moot @twiggyfrogblog sends me birds, sometimes other people do too, so if you're looking for fantastic bird posts, the tags #byrd's birds and #ty twiggy! should take you there. Ask games are tagged #byrd's ask games. Transparent gifs are tagged as both #transparent gif and #transparent gifs.

I also have some new tags - #byrd's silly art, which is for my artwork (currently just me tracing photographs to try and wrap my head around concepts like shapes and shading), and #byrd's writing, which is how I tag any posts about my writing.

I am currently writing a fanfic - I've started to try and tag that as #stt and #byrd's silly little fanfic - once someone finds the fic on AO3, I'll put a link in here.

Some of my posts/reblogs contain triggering/heavy/nsfw topics. I do my best to tag these, but I'm not perfect. Let me know if I miss anything. I don't generally tag swearing, and I do use the word queer as a self-identifier unapologetically.

I have a few sideblogs - some of which are currently inactive. I won't link them here - see if you can find them!

I'm friends with Kea, a writer who distributes his work under a pseudonym, and I have his permission to post his writing. Here is my favorite of his, The Model and The Letter.

Lots of links below the cut, including resources and ask games.

Current ask games:

Not Like The Other Ask Games™

Who Am I To You?

Gentle Cottagecore

Iconic Tumblr Post

Vibe Check

Why Do You Tolerate Me

What am I the patron saint of?

Colors

Character Opinion Bingo

what 3 fictional characters do you associate with me

?????

Another Character Opinion Bingo

????? 2 electric boogaloo

Another Colors

Pokemon types

Literally anything (I make no promises of answers, however)

❤

send me a shitty summary of my blog?

want me to pick a sentence from one of my WIPs to share?

the blorbo blingus (character ask game)

litcherally just ask me anything about my ocs

who am i to you?

toss me a gender, why dontcha

polyamory asks

squishmallow character ask game

In addition, I really enjoy helping to name things like fictional characters and whatnot. I have a method that I use that creates original names with meaning - it's not foolproof, but I've come up with some great names through it.

If you need help naming someone/something, feel free to send in an ask at least giving me a few words you'd like associated with the thing - more information is better, though! There's no cost, either - it's a fun exercise in creativity on my end. These will be tagged as #byrd's name game.

DNI is in my bio.

Other links -

Resources:

My ex-terf/ex-radfem blog

Everything you know about obesity is a lie (tw minor healthism in the article)

Body Neutral/Positive Recipes Base Post (feel free to contribute!)

Body Neutral/Positive Recipes Main Thread

Free Online ASL Lessons

Planned Parenthood's sex ed tab

help getting out of medical debt for usamericans

Masterlist of Native/Indigenous products

Good picrews for fat people

literally every animorphs book for free

Alternative search engines

The distinction between hating men and being a feminist and why it's so important

Pi-Hole

Piracy Subreddit

Drawing Tips Masterpost

Visual Snow Syndrome

If you need a smile:

Get a random birb

No Notes Bungus

Handmade ball python plushies

Good news: COVID-19 edition

The world's cutest alligator

Good news: Climate Change edition

A Different Aftermath

An important reminder

an absolutely buckwild idea i had

Tumblr writers

The Model and The Letter by Kea (if it gets 420k notes by the end of the year I'll read Animorphs and maybe write an essay about it)

Kea's Chapbooks on Ao3

Tumbleweed by Kea

Tumblr's Folk Tales

Misc:

The origins of parafonian

Kissinger Death Tontine

#pinned post #kea #resources #parafonian #exmo #byrd is an exmo #im feeling very exmo in this chilis tonight #exmormon #ex mormon #exlds #ex lds #ex religious #apostate #apostake #avian apostate :> #byrd's ask games #byrd chirps #tw o word

[icannotgetoverbirds]

Hi!

What's that in your profile pic?

Thank u for asking! It's the flag for a term I coined, parafonian! As it turns out, a term had already existed, but I prefer mine over GNCsexual as it's much easier to pronounce, and I do prefer the flag I made since it's easier to reproduce.

That said, I'm definitely biased and anybody can use whatever terms they like! I colorpicked it from the GNC flag, though, so that's pretty neat.

Basically, what being parafonian boils down to is being attracted to gender non-conformity. For me, that's masculine women, feminine men, and enben whose vibes are Very Gender™!

Thanks for the ask, by the way!

#parafonian #byrd chirps

[icannotgetoverbirds]

What is the flag in your profile pic?

It's the parafonian flag, a term I coined myself!

It's essentially just a less clunky term for being gncsexual, but I like the flag that I came up with a bit better than the original one. I am, of course, biased in this.

Basically, I'm attracted to gender-nonconformity: masculine women, feminine men, enben whose vibes are Very Gender, etc.

#byrd chirps #byrd is parafonian #parafonian

[icannotgetoverbirds]

What the fuck is parafonian.

The link is in my pinned post, but it does happen to be buried in with several other links, so I understand if you had a hard time looking for it.

This is coming across as hostile, but I'll answer it with good-faith assumptions or whatever-the-fuck the term is asgkljlakdgjadkgj

Parafonian is a term I coined referring to attraction to gender nonconformity! So basically feminine men, masculine women, and enben whose vibes are Very Gender!

I just happen to find the breaking of gender norms to be incredibly attractive dshgdsjgfkgk, be they binary or not.

#parafonian

[icannotgetoverbirds]

What is "parafonian?" (Genuine question, and I don't really trust Google to give me a satisfactory answer.)

I'm so glad u asked! It's a term I coined a while back in this post here. Basically, it's attraction to gender nonconformity - masculine women, feminine men, and enben whose vibes are Very Gender™! As it turns out, there was already a term and I'm just shit at finding stuff, but the term is GNCsexual - it feels a bit clunkier than parafonian, but I'm not about to police labels lol. It's probably gonna be hard to find online because of how recent it is, but I'm really proud of how it turned out. Lmk if u have any other questions!

#parafonian #byrd chirps #fun fact! the term is derived from the greek word for dissonance - parafonía! #as in like harmonic dissonance #i mean idk the connotations of the original word in greek tho #anyways #ty for the ask!

[icannotgetoverbirds]

your pride flag looks like estonian flag

estonian flag for context.

yknow i do kinda see it! that's a fun little tidbit - I colorpicked it from the GNC flag with an additional white stripe at the bottom.

#parafonian #asks #pomegrranatte

[icannotgetoverbirds]

Hey, do you mind if I ask what "parafonian" means? I couldn't really find much on a quick google search.

here's the original post! it's a term some friends and i coined to describe attraction to gender non-conformity - v broad and also able to be used in conjunction with other terms.

basically, attraction to masc women, femme men, and enbies whose vibes are very Gender™!

#parafonian #im so glad u asked! #there was already a name and flag but i prefer parafonian and the flag that i made is easier to replicate #i don't blame u for not being able to find much lol this is relatively new

[icannotgetoverbirds]

hi! can i ask what parafonian means if youre comfortable? it's not a term i could find online :)

that's probably because I coined it myself! It basically refers to attraction to people who are gender nonconforming, aka gncsexual (although I personally would like parafonian to encompass all types of attraction to gnc people and I prefer it regardless because it's easier to say)

#byrd chirps #byrd's inbox #parafonian #byrd is parafonian

[icannotgetoverbirds]

i keep seeing you comment on things and i cant figure out what your pfp is. is it a pride flag? i cant find anything online about it

JSLAKJLKGSDJKLS yeah i keep forgetting that it's literally a microlabel (/flag) that i made up. it's for parafonian/gncsexual.

#byrd chirps #byrd's inbox #parafonian #byrd is parafonian #no worries anon! 'sall good!

[icannotgetoverbirds]

what is parafonian

I'm so glad you asked! Parafonian, also known as GNCsexual (though parafonian isn't necessarily always sexual), is attraction to gender non-conforming individuals. Here's the post where it originated - masculine women, feminine men, and enben whose vibes are Very Gender™ are the people for me!

#parafonian #anon ask #im parafonian #just fyi

[icannotgetoverbirds]

okay poll time

Reply if you'd be willing to send an ask to a parafonian-culture-is blog (parafonian being attraction to gnc people), and feel free to throw an example in there if you want

Like if you'd follow a parafonian-culture-is blog

Reblog with the name you'd prefer if you think it should be named GNCsexual-culture-is or GNCsexual-Parafonian-culture-is, or just plain reblog with nothing if you want to see the post reach more people

#parafonian #gncsexual #poll #yes possibly a new blog yet again #y'all can't stop me i have become too powerful #the intersection of queerness and autism makes me unstoppable #except when the lights are too loud ): #anyways have fun