#neither ones i agree with or dont

[czowwlart]

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#christmas is herrreee #one of my roommates does NOT agree #but we dont care #and neither do vee and gus #I need more of this show immediately #toh #the owl house #the owl house fanart #gus the owl house #vee the owl house #hunter noceda

[arunneronthird]

wanted to come clean about something real quick, i am annoying about canon all the time

however, i will never tolerate fic slander, ive dropped thousands of fics at this point cause i dont agree with the characterization in the same way i dont agree with some artists' renditions, but thats people spending their time writing something they love so "this fandom has horrible fics" is a shitty thing to say always

#mischaracterization and poor writting are highly different #u can be tired and angry with hcs but u cant undermine someones work #ive blacklisted tags cause i dont agree with fanom hcs but i will never blame the artists abd neither should anyone #this has never been a problem before for me #the voltron fandom lived on fics and loved the authors #same for the bnha one though the ship wars are wild

[theitalianscribe]

Norman headcannons

In life, Norman was good at doing impressions. This carried over into his cyborg/android design with a program that lets him perfect replicate people's voices.

Building off the above point, Norman wasn't originally the one doing the company tapes. That person asked too many questions and thus were needed... elsewhere. Since he already was discreet and okay with all the shady stuff, Norman was put on voiceover detail.

Norman has/had a bird.

Norman having a bird probably works better in an au, but he has this bird, maybe a parrot, maybe a budgie, and it has a yellow head and its wings and chest are the same color. I picture them as pink or purple, but I'm having trouble finding birds with that coloring. When he meets the bird, Andrew/Morris is chuckling because Norman is wearing a jacket that happens to be the same color as the bird's and they look identical.

Just. Let Norman have a pet bird!

Also I have an AU where everyone is alive and in highschool. In that one, Watchful Eye Toys exists as a research company headed by Norman's parents and he is expected to take it over. (I wanted to ramble about this in the tags but I reached the tag limit so I am adding this back here as an extra bullet point.) He gives off heir to a big company and kind of sheltered vibes.

#welcome to Dreamworld #wtdw #welcome to dreamworld Norman #icy babbles #also i hc norman as demi amd pan #i have a storyline in my head where everyone is alive amd they are still in highschool #Sara and Norman start hanging out #amd people atart assuming that they are dating #Sara is like “well he's aesthetically attractions ve amd we get along and im supposed to be dating at this point #so might as well“ #or when she was younger and everyone was talking about crushes people asked her who she had a crush on and Sara picked Norman #because i dont have one and people think I should have one so ill have a pretend crush on Norman #but after they agree to be a couple both are waiting for the sparks everyone talks about to happen but they never come #amd neither tells the other that they dont feel anything #then Norman thinks “I think this is the situation where we are supposed to kiss” so he does #and Sara has a panic attack and doesn't know why #so she pushes Norman and runs out #she has a conversation with someone. Right now Dream and I are thinking Celio #and Sara realizes that she is aroace or on the ace spectrum #then she and Norman meet up and have a talk #They stay friends #then after a while of being friends with Andrew Norman starts getting feelings #and he is so confused #he vents to Sara about this and Sara is like “welcome to the aspec club” #also around the time Sara and Norman started dating #Wiatt and Andrew are having an adventure where they find an underfed shapeshifter #Andrew's parents work at a vet clinic so Andrew helps with the animal healing and Wiatt helps with the magic #(shinanigans with this universe's Litho cause this Au's Wiatt to have trauma and magic capabilities to help a creature that feeds on magic) #and by the end Wiatt amd Andrew have shared custody of a shapeshifting scrimblo they name Oddity #because i love the idea that Amdrew and Wiatt have joint custody over Oddity like two dads on an amicable divorce and Oddity gets two houses

[jewreallythinkthat]

Sometimes I genuinely wonder if we should go back to calling antisemitism "judenhass" to stop hiding what it actually is. And the only things that stop me pushing for this is 1. It's not fair on the Germans to use that as the global term (same idea as not naming diseases after places) and 2. It means the antisemites who are trying to redefine literal words to erase their meaning, win. Like antisemitism has a meaning and if you are pulling the bullshit like about "XYZ are semites too" then you're not just an antisemite, you're also fucking stupid

#jumblr #antisemitism #one page of google results doesn't make you an expert #go outside touch some grass and talk to an actual jewish person #and not JVP or NK. stop tooenising people you agree with #life isnt fandom. people are dying so take it seriously for once #if its too much to listen to and read about suvivors stories then you arent in a good enough place to talk about whats going on. #i dont want to gatekeep but if you refuse to look at what happened and learn the history down to the gory details #then your uninformed opinion is neither wanted nor needed nor useful #if youre not actually doing what you can for sustainable peace then shut the fuck up

[tubapun]

She then ruined the budding romance by repeating the phrase "Chimicherry? Cherrychanga?" 69 million times

#mlp #my art #THATS RIGHT IM SHIPPING THE HORSES IN 2023 NO ONE CAN STOP ME #pinkity #raripie #i dont know what the agreed upon ship name is it may be neither of those!! #i just think pinkie throwing herself at rarity is a sign of something #and more importantly: its cute!! #that said im never drawing rarity's hair again #pinkie's is much more fun

[punkshitposts]

something I think is actually hilarious is that if you go left enough you start having more stances in common with (individual) conservatives, and if you go right enough you start agreeing with (individual) leftists. like i have a pretty close friend who's self described as "just far enough right that I hate politicians" , whom I hard disagree with his overarching political stances. but the finer details of it... yeah we agree with each other. gun control/gun rights opinions taxation opinions pro-small government opinions slight separatist opinions anti two party opinions anti-corporation opinion ect ect ect.

we stand on opposite sides of a standard political compass but I genuinely think if I were to count stats, I'd agree with as many of his stances as I would a liberals/democrats stances. my hs gov teacher described the difference in right vs left to us as "everyone's goal here is the betterment of mankind, they just think the best ways to do it are different" and that's literally the best way, to me, to describe what the difference in right vs left is regarding anarchism specifically. we got ESSENTIALLY the same opinion but the ways we think are the best ways to go about enacting said opinion are what makes us different. and something abt that is really painfully funny to me. envisioning a world where an-something is the major world thing, not capitalism.... and there's STILL right vs left... but The Anarchist Versions. christ.

sorry for the book i wrote in the tags. ignore typos I am NOT retyping any of that to fix them xoxo

#this is a controversial post to post here ik. however i think can we all agree that echo chambers and bubbles aren't... good. #and i think something that gets forgotten a lot by leftists is that there ARE anarchists on the right #yes we are EXTREMELY different but its important to like. remember that should The revolution come in our lifetimes their still gonna exist #and political disagreement on an individual scale CAN and SHOULD be civil so long as neither party is coming from a bigoted stance. #as in.. no i dont agree with a good chuck of what his stances but by disagree i just think hes wrong abt economics bros not like. a bigot. #in this same vain i also think (myself included) people shouldn't conflate conservativism with racists and homophobes. t #theres proud gay conservatives and conservatives who are poc... erasing those people means we cannot know of how the other side works. #i genuinely believe that if i were to go read every political theory book on right leaning politics id fine something uniquely republican #/right/whatever that i would agree with and then adapt into my own politics. im sure at least one of the unique-to-the-right stances has #actually standing and isn't a load of shit (again probably something economic rather than social). #and thats not a bad thing and if you think it is a actually don't know how to explain it to you! we MUST critically but civilly interact #with political opinions mirroring our own to 1 understand other people 2 fully understand and develope our own stances and why we have em #i genuinely find political conversations with that friend extremely enlightening even if we both walk away still set in unchanged opinions. #because it means i understand WHY others drift to those options but more importantly why /i/ drifted to my own

[strangersynth]

reducing mike and el's love for each other to something that'll make their relationship stumble and fall if not evaporate when they break up will never not be like emptying a room and then walking in and wondering why its empty.

#like it would be great if there was fighting involved im not gonna lie #mike and el being like lets break up <3 yeah okay :D makes no fucking sense okay they're both lost #and neither reacts well to that kind of stuff. mike is incredibly defensive and el is incredibly determined to getting the truth #and she could very well scream and he might very well scream too if he's still getting defensive like a yknow like an ass #im not gonna say 'neither is' like ik whats gonna happen in s5 but i will say neither /should/ be soft enough for a mutual breakup with #no sort of angst when they're both at the very least conflicted (in different ways) because of their relationship #but aside from all that fighting what i mean to say is idk that i agree with the fact that the biggest issue with mike and el is that they- #-have no foundation like they could never work even as friends #when at the end of the day that is essentially just an anti-mi/even rage that falls flat when this could stop at friends. #they dont need to bore the life out of each other and be in constant tension forever in order to go their ways #theyve done countless things for one another there is love there. and it does not cancel out mike and will nor el being free from mi/even #its givin ''mike said im not scared of u to el but he said what is wrong with u when she got lucas unconscious so he is scared of her!'' #big picture maybe #elmike

[cleaverqueer]

'IM NOT AN ANTI OR A PROSHIPPER IM SO ABOVE THAT I JUST THINK [decidedly proshipping stance]' is so fucking funny to me

#'THESE TWO ARE EQUAL TO ME HOWEVER I AGREE WITH ONE AND DONT REALIZE IT BECAUSE THE OTHER HAS OBFUSCATED THEIR ACTUAL MEANINGS TO ME' #might add examples because like #3 friends have come to me like #'im neither but i dont think people should be harassed over fiction :/' #like #babygirl

[curiouschaosstarlight]

Bounced back and forth, think I'll just make this post-

(Warning: Under the read more, if tumblr keeps the read more intact, is me, an aromantic/aegofictosexual person ramble-ranting about aroaceness in fandom. You're free to scroll past if you wish, or to disagree with me on whatever takes for whatever reason, this is just my one opinion on something I consider to be a big pet peeve of mine.)

(If you read this and go "but I don't do that!", then I trust you, and you're not the kind of person I'm talking about. I'm moreso referring to some things I've personally either witnessed or experienced in previous fandoms, and nobody this applies to will actually see this post unless it, like, gets a bajillion notes...um, hopefully.)

It is so. fricking. frustrating. having my only possible representation in media be like...[that one character] from DR. You know. the otaku or "geek" that's portrayed to be unattractive, "gross", and "weird", and will eventually express sexual attraction to "3D" people, because their attraction to and obsession with 2D was never a sexuality, but intended to be some creepy, incomprehensible thing, and a way to demonstrate their shortcomings and inability to actually court someone.

Characters who actually match my sexuality and experience will never exist unless I make them with my own hands, because both allos and other aces consider me "not ace enough".

This honestly plays a big part in why I'm really touchy about aroace headcanons; because often times they're blatantly used to say people aren't allowed to ship [character a] with [character b] -- and the person making the headcanon is usually 100000% fine with [character a] being put in a gay ship, but will loudly complain if they see them featured in the (usually het, usually canonically teased) first ship. Because it was never about actually writing an aroace character, it was about reframing "ewwww you like THAT ship?? gross uxu what's wrong with you??" into "uhhhmmmm but that character's aroace-coded" "sorry, I can't see them as anything other than aroace" (yeah, I didn't ask? Everyone else gets to talk about THEIR ships with that character and you enthusiastically support them...) And it's like... I feel like these types of headcanons specifically are always presented like, inherently, I'm totally, obviously going to agree with them, and if I don't, then clearly I'm just not aroace. (I wish that was more of a dramatization, but I had someone who I previously told my seuxality to go "oh. well. I'm asexual, so I see this character as aroace-coded, (and I'm right)" <- not outright said but very, very heavily implied, especially because they continuously insisted the character was "canonically aroace-coded", and I just had to sit there like... "...okay, but I'm aroace. (and I think saying that about a clearly het-intended character that's constantly being flirted and canonically shipped in extra side materials with is kinda hurtful)" <- I didn't say that part)

And the fact that no one respects if a character is canonically het or bi kind of plays into why I don't care when a character is canonically gay or ace. If everyone's sexuality is just "gay (MAYBE ace!!!)" or "okay but have you CONSIDERED they might be bi??? (stop putting them in het ships >:((( )" only when it's convenient, then why should I care for my downtime? It doesn't change canon. And I don't feel represented by people's on-the-whim, flimsy-as-fuck headcanons.

But it does still piss me off when people take a reboot or remake or continuation and flagrantly disregard a character's canon sexuality.

And it's upsetting that aroace characters 1. aren't really a thing for the most part, and 2. get written over when they are a thing.

I imagine that when I finally manage to finish one of my stories or games and, y'know, all of my characters are bi/pan/demi because that's what I tend to write...that's probably just gonna get changed to be "whoops everyone's gay lol" by the fandom, and I've already come to terms with that. (Well, by the part of the fandom that isn't populated by "ugh, everything is so WOKE now!" assholes, I'm just gonna pretend they won't even show up because they aren't worth it.) But then, it's also like...if someone officially continued or adapted my properties, and they changed my characters to be all straight or maybe one character gets to be kinda-sorta gay or something, I. I would definitely lose my shit.

-vague gestures-

I don't really know where I'm going with this, I just wanted to say my whole piece without having to worry about being accused of derailing/not listening to a post-

But basically if you're outraged whenever a gay character's sexuality is changed for any reason in any context, I better hear you be that upset about the rest of the possible orientations, and not pulling that shit yourself. I swear to god.

#not important #chaotic rambles #discourse #sorry for the vagueness about characters n stuff i just dont wanna wind up in any fandom searches #how to bridge the fact that im only attracted to fictional characters #with the fact that i have to be repeatedly made to realize i've never seen any character like me in fiction at all ever #only characters that are kinda sorta like me and also the unattractive loser butt of every single joke #also character sexuality is so...weird and not-solid to my brain y'all #i only have like...two or three characters that are full-on gay? out of the hundreds i've written? #about the same for het or ace or...you know any other combinations/other sexualities #it's usually more natural to my brain to have my characters shipped with basically anyone and everyone #and only a few times has a character effectively grabbed me by the horns and went “no. im not into that. and you cannot make me be.” #which creates a funny tidbit where two of my gay characters have radically different tastes in the same gender #so they both think the other one is “weird" and it's just really amusing to me #they also arent attracted to each other due not fitting into each other's tastes #it's just like...the only two men in a gay bar and they hiss at each other like cats #why did it turn out this way? genuinely no clue #i have a third gay man but he's got a third completely unique to him taste and he's just standing there #awkwardly sipping his drink like “oh god neither of these two ask me to agree with them please”

[jonny-b-meowborn]

I am genuinely so terrified of the fact that I have to find a job now. I'm trying to think of or look up a job that's suitable for my mentally ill autistic ass and I just. I don't know. Everything either requires some very specific qualifications that I don't have, or seems at best awfully exhausting, at worst literally putting me in danger. And I'm not even exaggerating, I genuinely think that working in retail, for example, could possibly kill me if I was forced to do that job for long enough. I sometimes get overwhelmed to the point of crying when there's too many other customers while I'm shopping, I can't imagine working in an environment like that. I suppose physical jobs could work, I've been to this blueberry plantation twice last week and mentally I was fine, but it was. So tiring. And you don't even make that much money a day, I don't think I could earn enough even if I did work there everyday, not to mention it's only a seasonal job. Right now it's fine for me to go there every now and then, but if I wanted to move out and become independent I'd have to get an actual day job. And that sounds impossible. The only job that sounds good to me is being an artist, it's not too mentally or physically difficult, and it's something I enjoy. But I'd have to get commissions constantly or start a small business or something like that to actually survive. And I'm not saying it's impossible, I know that people can live by being an artist, but it's so hard to get into that field. I wish I could do it but I dont know if it's possible for me. Makes me wanna cry. I hate this I hate that my brain isn't suited for this world and still I have to participate in all that shit that everyone has to do. My brain isn't made for working like that

#I've talked about this a lot with my sister who is also autistic #and were both like. on a similar level of autism i dont know how to properly explain it #were functioning in similar ways i guess #and we both agreed that we're in this awkward spot of being autistic #where we're not suited for living in this world the way we're expected #but we're good enough at surviving that we can't really ask for help #like from the government or smth #im not sure if im making sense #but like neither of us ever had a normal job for longer than a few days #she's incredibly lucky bc her boyfriend (also autistic lol) has rich parents #so he's able to have a small business where hes making youtube content and games and merch #and he gets financial support from his parents. so he can have the job he feels comfortable with and enjoys #and my sister is now able to work with him. theyre both making their silly little games and trinkets and are able to live normally #which is just so great for her i love that. im also so jealous lmao #and then theres me who also is made for creating art and not much else but im not lucky enough to be able to do that and survive #idk. my mom is great and doesn't put too much pressure on me. she was the one to take me to that blueberry job #and she really supprts my plans to be an artist full time #but still. thats really difficult to do. ugh #sometimes i wish that i either wasnt autistic at all or was 'less functioning' so at least i could get some help with living #bee buzz

[wetslug]

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#ALSO autism and adhd are such an interesting case study in how to describe and categorize mental disabilities #because neither have been linked with one specific gene mutation..or one specific risk factor... or any agreed upon organic difference #(though im aware asd has been correlated with less synaptic pruning and larger brains)... or any definitive or defining symptoms #i have such a tough time categorizing people into ''autistic/adhd'' and ''allistic/NT'' because its like. wheres the cut off point #plenty of people who live neurotypically have symptoms associated with adhd but might be under the diagnostic threshold #idk i just see it as a large continuum where u could fall anywhere on the scale and i want people to understand that its completely #arbitrary where doctors have decided the cut off point/standard deviation is that warrants a diagnosis #for this reason i always encourage people not to fixate on labels if they dont NEED one and just use whatever resources or language works

[mihai-florescu]

"Humans are inherently good" "humans are inherently bad" humans contain multitudes, hope this helps

#im just full of opinions tonight idk man #ask me about the diet and fast food industry next that ones smth ive been thinking a lot about lately #dont ask actually. my answer is a lot of ppl will criticize one to prove a point and ignore the other. they are both harmful #caring about your health and body will never be a bad things. sometimes losing weight is necessary. sometimes gaining weight is #neither side of getting upset that a celebrity loses or gains weight will be productive cuz you dont know whats the best for them #&more but id just like to make a better formatted post if i wanna say everything i think #basically just assume that at all times i disagree with elements and approaches from both parties that talk about a subject #while i may agree with the bottom line sentiments i just dislike the ways theyre expressed

[corvidaedream]

henry pelham 🤝 john gray

loyalist-leaning residents of my city in the mid-to-late 18th century who i find very compelling but when i try to research anything about them, i have to wade through articles repeating the same information about the boston massacre over and over.

#messages from the ouija board #sadies day job #cant keep johnny down 1771 edition #i should have a weird tag like that for henry also #i dont agree w like. monarchism. or the political leanings of 1770s english parliament. but #theres so many boston tories who were just like. specific sons of liberty suck so bad and i hate them. i want them to stop. #and i get it! i understand how one could look at sam adams and john hancock and be like #i dont want these guys in charge and i cant fucking support them #neither of them were even at the massacre btw. john gray's employees were involved in the original brawls earlier that week #and henry pelham drew the original image that revere engraved thats like. the one in all the textbooks #so theyre each mentioned like once in any given article #squirrel boy

[skylilac]

i love talking to her but we are so bad at talking

#and its not even our fault we’re just doomed by every fucking force ib life #its like i respond to her message trying to start a convo and thats EXACTLY when her moms calling her #ive been free all day but the second sue tries to text me oh fuck i literally have to go #were like okay well are you free in an hour to ft?? and both of us agree and then we FORGET #AND DONT EVEN get me started on like actually talking as in seeing each other as in hanging out #the days shes free im not and the days im free shes not anf the days both of us are free neither of us have a ride etc etc #i just want. a text conversation with her. that is all #i cant keep responding six hours later bc my phone accidentally didnt show me the notif like what even is this #convinced the universe hates us both bc WHY CAN WE NEVER ACTUALLY TALK YO EACH OTHER #AND THEN. she got a haircut like five days ago and she wants me to be the first to see to judge #and she wont take a pic so we HAVE to ft but we literally NEVER GET THE CHANCE #so she literally wont meet up or video call like any other friend like literally no one else knows she got a haircut #bc she refuses to reveal it till i get to see slash judge which is SO. why does life hate us #I JUST. wanna talk to this ONE PERSON god give me a moment when we’re both free at the same time #avery rambles

[guinevereslancelot]

is there any worse feeling than when you feel like someone is mad at you bc they literally are mad at you

#i came into the living room and my dad was yelling abt how he basically hates everyone in the whole family #bc nobody got around to reqding the latest chapter of his book yet #but he was really upset and mad #i get being hurt by that but it literally is not a personal rejection people are just busy idk #he didn't let on he was upset at all until he completely flipped out #now he doesn't want anyone to read it anymore #he's really hurt tho bc we all always read my mom's stuff #and my brother and i talk abt what we're writing together all the time #and i get there's a special kind of hoy sharing your writing with someone but only when they're really interested and engaged #unfortunately the two people most likely to care abt hia book are my two oldest brothers and they dont live w us #so they cant really give him that feedback #he did send hia chapters to them but they arent around to talk abt it and havent responded yet #basically nobody actually cares abt his book #he's been talking abt writing one for like ten years or more and only started in the past few months #its a zombie book and full of his really weird and controversial political and religious takes tho sp its a stressful read #i dont really agree w him on certain issues and we're ok abt it usually but it makes reading it more stressful #anyway #he's really upset tho #and he can only express unpleasant emotions through anger so i shut down and cant interact #and he specifically said he doesnt want people do do the thing he's so hurt that we didnt do #so there's no real way to set things right to alleviate my anxiety #he's a very difficult person to love with sometimes but he's really generous and has done a lot to help me #so i can live my dream and start a business and he's not really pressuring me abt my job seaech and rent and stuff #so it does make me feel guilty that i basically didn't care abt his book #it wouldnt be as bad if literally everyone in the family hadn't also done that #when he does to much for everyone #he's mad at everyone but im the only one having a panic attack and im the only one he didn't yell at #he's not handling his emotions well but neither do i so we usually just dont acknowledge things like this until everyone is over it #but i hate that i literally need conflict to be resolved immediately or i go insane

[paralien]

Hey, I accepted responsibility over 1 cat. why am i takong care of 3 cats w 0 communication from the owners of the other 2 cats?

#fanya.txt #my brother snd his gf have 2 cats. and theyre currently staying in an empty room at my moms house while they #get settled into their new apartment b4 they bring them home #thing is. they were supposed to be picked up on friday i what i was told. by mom #its now Sunday. the gf said she'd pick them up this morning and its now 11pm and she hasnt talked to me all day #and their litterbox is fucking overflowing rn and need to just be emptied 100% and that is not my responsibility #like i feel awful for it bc theyre just in a room by themselves rn alone all day but i did not agree to this #and also the room stinks like old litterbox shit so. i really dont wanna be in there either #Mika and Lily (the cats) are sweethearts bc im not going in there to throw up no matter how many pets Mika wants #bc i didn't agree to watch over them for more than an evening and theyve now veen under my care for 2 days too long #and its not that i mind per-say. but its the fact that no one asked this of me. they jusy assumed like hey. #your watching a house w a cat anuways so whats 2 more cats yeah? w/o saying anything to me #mom said theyd be picked up friday night the same day they left #and its now sunday night and ive still got 2 cats that arent mine and 0 updates or sny kind of communication from neither my bro or his gf #anyways TLDR: didnt sign up for this and im mad that i feel resposible for these cats when no one asked me yo care of them #they just assumed it was ok w/o communicating that to me