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[stemmmm]

New 3ds update got cracked btw makes you wonder why nintendo bothered in the first place

good god. nintendo works hard but 3ds modders work harder. source tho?

#m.ask

[marsohthree]

outside of Ghost, what music recommendations would you give to people?

brother i love u but i am single handedly the worst person u could have asked this to

my spotify wrapped looked like i just hit my phone repeatedly while stimming, there's the most random stuff known to man

but i will always recommend I Don't Know How But They Found Me to everyone because i love him and his music and he told 14 year old me to shut up at a concert once which i can respect <3

#m.ask

[mosalahd]

Omg pls tell me abt the books youre reading. What are They about!!!

hellooo <33

so shalash the iraqi is an anonymous satirical serial novel about the US invasion of iraq in the 00s and also about iraq after the end of saddam's regime. it's basically "shalash" (the anonymous author) taking the piss out of various authorities, news, politics etc. in a bunch of blog posts. i'm a bit more than half-way through and i've really enjoyed every second of it.

and then the sound of waves is a love-story set in a small japanese fishing village. i just started reading it yesterday so i can't tell you too much about it yet lmao but i'm enjoying it so far as well! mishima tends to have pretty heavy/complex themes in his novels but from what i can tell this one is more chill boy-meets-girl? but who knows maybe someone will get traumatised soon and commit atrocities like his characters usually do

#yukio mishima is one of my favourite authors so #slowly making my way through his work 🌸 #when i'm done with these two though it's time for spooky books!! #m.ask #zac tag

[serpentarii]

I just wanted to say thank you for engaging with my works! I'm really flattered—you're an incredible writer and inspire me everytime you appear on my dash! Hope you're having a lovely day 💓

omg tyyyy 🥺👉👈 i was so excited to see a familiar face on my dash because back in 2020 you really inspired me with the quality of your work and what you post, so i'm glad to see you're active again !!

#m.ask

[teezmie]

Could never agree more, it damages

I mean- my hair's already severely damaged but...yeahhhhh?? teehee

#m.ask #wa:tookmyheartandsolditout #moots of mine

[monogramsalarm]

lavender and emerald!

lavender- BITING YOU BITING YOU BITING YOU

emerald- i'm really glad we're friends!!!

BITING YOU BACK >:3

#m.ask #thaaaank youuuu friendoooo

[meaningofaeons]

. . . ⇢ ˗ˏˋ ࿐ྂ majesty

hsr x f!reader // royalty manhwa au ⊹ outline — bereft of all dignity and cast out from your homeland after being accused for a crime you did not commit, you, the sole daughter of one of four great duchies and a known villainess throughout the land, find yourself banished and alone. however, just before you can be dropped off in a border town to start your new life, the terrifying duke of the north comes like a reaper in the night to take the remains of your life. now, however, you find yourself waking up in your room ten years prior to your supposed demise. with this new lease on life, can you correct your wrongs and find a way to the end of the line, avoiding your destined death ending along the way? ⊹ characters — sampo koski, jing yuan, gepard landau, dan heng, kafka, stelle, blade, ▉▉▉▉▉▉ ⊹ notes — this will be a series featuring the hsr characters in a royal-setting, reverse-harem style au, with a choose-your-own-ending feature at the end. ⊹ taglist — @xphantasmagoriax @thatweirdcheshirecat @sparkleasteroid @fluffy-koalala @chopid @just-a-fuegoleon-fangirl @bigbrain411 @koraneki @cupsof-pinkdrinks @anima-m @hoo-hoo @crazydreamcat @nayukiyukihira @lucensei @kurosin @liesatemyocean @the-dumber-scaramouche || reply to this post to be added to the taglist for this series!

˚ ༘♡ ⋆｡˚ ❀ masterlist

⊹ prologue. ⊹ chapter I. trepidation ⊹ chapter II. (coming soon)

˚ ༘♡ ⋆｡˚ ❀ important links

⊹ character intros ⊹ locations ⊹ families/factions ⊹ story notes ⊹

⊹ tag guidelines —

#majesty - indicates all posts related to this series #majesty: hsr - hsr-specific majesty posts #majesty: genshin - genshin-specific majesty posts #m.asks - asks related to majesty #m.updates - updates related to majesty

⊹ note (6/11/23) —

hi everyone! another quick update!

character intros have been updated to add some more minor characters!

locations, families/factions, and story notes tabs have been added! the story notes tab lists the age ranges for characters and other basic stuff about the world and storyline.

thanks for the support! hoping to have chapter I done soon!

（=´∇｀=）

#majesty #majesty: genshin #majesty: hsr #m.asks #m.updates #hsr #honkai #honkai star rail #genshin #genshin impact #genshin x reader #genshin impact x reader #hsr x reader #honkai star rail x reader #honkai x reader

[moriphile]

How do you define paraphilia recovery? People have differing views and I am curious on learning varying views.

That's a good question! I've done a lot of research in this area and am probably more cynical than most, but I'm definitely happy to give my view.

Long ass post below the cut.

Firstly, not all paraphilias require recovery (think objectum, urophilia, coprophilia, dacryphilia, etc.), unless they cause psychological distress. In which case, the recovery portion would be learning to accept those feelings. Whether that ends in acting on the paraphilia in some sort of kink scenario or simply accepting that it's there depends on the person.

For paraphilias that would infringe upon consent (think the big 3, somnophilia, biastophilia, exhibitionism, etc.), it also really depends on the specific person and their goals. I'm a firm believer in the fact that a paraphilia can't be "erased," so there's entirely no point in trying to*. I will always be attracted to what I'm attracted to, whether I want to be or not.

For paraphilias such as those, the most important thing is harm reduction. Learning that your attractions don't make you an inherently bad person or more "dangerous" than the general population. Whether someone fully accepts their paraphilia or not also depends on the person, but I believe it's extremely important to teach people with those paraphilias that their attraction is not synonymous with predation. It does not make them a predator. Otherwise, you're contributing to a self-fulfilling prophecy (i.e. "if everyone thinks I'm a monster even though I've never acted on it, what's the point in fighting it?"), which is harmful to the paraphile and the people around them.

If they need to learn it, teaching impulse control tactics can be very helpful, even if just teaching them to divert it to something else (i.e. reading or writing instead of acting. Journaling can be GREAT. Even if it's erotic journaling). I, myself, have a lot of problems with maladaptive daydreaming which has been taken over by my paraphilias, and I'm still working with my therapist on how to stop it from being maladaptive, so I can't say I have much on the topic of intrusive thoughts or fantasies. If mindfulness works for them, that's awesome. It does not work for me, it does not work for everyone. I do find that journaling them helps, though. Not a whole lot, but sometimes getting the thoughts out of my head helps me let go of them (with the added fear of someone finding those writings, but at this point I'm just happy for them to be gone for more than an hour).

I also believe that fiction and kink are great outlets. Fiction is rather obvious, but with kink, this can include things such as CNC, nonhuman toys, ageplay (though that likely won't work for everyone), bloodplay, roleplay, consensual somno kinks... the list goes on. I have complicated thoughts on fictional visual depictions, so I won't get into that particular thing unless you'd like me to. But other than my thoughts on that, I fully believe fiction and kink are very healthy outlets for paraphilic desires, despite what some like to claim. Fantasy does not equal desire to act. I have more to say on that, but this post is long enough already.

Not engaging with your paraphilia in some way or another if you truly feel the need to can result in even worse internal stigma and shame. This is actually one of the largest predictors of offending (along with ASPD but I'm not a particular fan of demonizing personality disorders. Especially one that I literally have). Feeling like you've been ostracized from society for something that you can't control can break a person. No matter whether it's for a paraphilia or not. It's an extremely dehumanizing feeling, and feeling dehumanized can cause a lot of aggression.

I guess, all that to say, I don't believe eradication of paraphilia is possible. But I do believe that they can be healthily controlled. Recovery, for me, is being able to accept one's paraphilia without shame, though I don't believe pride is required (and believe it can be harmful in some instances, as well). As long as someone can control themselves (which most of us are actually pretty damn good at. You get good at it yourself when you're scared of seeking help) and has a healthy outlet for their desires if they need one, I believe that's a "recovered" paraphile.

I hope this helps! If you have any further questions or desire elaboration on any points, don't hesitate to ask!

* There is nuance here! Sometimes intrusive thoughts and fantasies can be mistaken for attractions (they aren't always synonymous). Sometimes trauma responses can result in pseudo-paraphilic thoughts. POCD is also just... a thing (which I thought I had for a while! But I do not, much to my chagrin). All of these things can be treated, and while the paraphilic thoughts may not always disappear entirely, they can be minimized. In these cases, it's more important to treat the underlying cause than the paraphilic thoughts, unless they're at risk of acting on them. Then harm reduction comes first and treatment of the underlying cause comes second.

#pro para #pro paraphile #paraphilia #paraphile community #para safe #paraphile safe #big 3 safe #big three safe #paraphiles please interact #pro recovery #anti contact #minors dni #m.beingpissyagain #m.para info #m.big 3 info #m.asks

[karamfilmare]

SAW YOU IMMEDIATELY LIKE MY JJK POST LMAO it's sooooo so tempting

DO IT, I ALWAYS SUPPORT MORE JJK WRITING DO IIIIIIIIIT

#~) m.asks (~

[cinnamonstroll]

Motorsport is such a small world, Daniel is dating Heidi Berger who happens to be the daughter of a race car driver, who is friends with Lance’s sister, Chloe Stroll. And now Chloe is marrying Scotty who is Daniel’s best friend. Also, Daniel has ties with Tiffany who I believe is sponsor or ambassador of his winery and is dating Valtteri. Daniel man, wowww.

It's really really funny especially since Gerhard Berger is a long time friend of the Strolls, so yeah Chloe and Heidi probably have known each other since quite a long time. Another hilarious thing is that Lance is basically the reason Scotty and Chloe are dating. He had met Scotty somewhere and then called Chloe to tell her he found the perfect guy for her AND HE WAS RIGHT. (Lance can you find someone for me please🙏🏼) And the thing with Tiffany and Daniel is that I believe they are ambassadors for the same brewery. TINY WORLD

#answered asks #m.asks #lance stroll #daniel ricciardo

[stemmmm]

They named thistle sissel in the anime??? That just makes me think of putting him in ghost trick

someone else already went to town with this joke

#m.txt #m.ask #dungeon meshi #though i think they corrected the post to have their real name :0c #im pretty sure i saw a version of this image before that said 'sissel' #it took me like. AN HOUR to find the post again btw oops lol

[marsohthree]

MARSY IM GONNA EAT YOU WHOLE <33 EEEEEEEEEEEEEE :D !!!!!!!!!!!

AM GONNA GNAW ON U LIKE A CHICKEN WING :333333 !!!!!!!!!

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[mosalahd]

Heyy,

I’m currently planning an F1 art collaboration/big-bang

The goal is to draw as many drivers in different styles/by different artist as possible

Basically everyone chooses a driver and once everyone is finished the drawings get collected and put on on massive canvas

So I wanted to ask if you’d be interested to join?

Here is an invite link to the discord server (it’s still a bit in the making)

https://discord.gg/yaKSrEPQ

Feel free to invite other artists as well! (Also non artists are welcome obviously)

hello!! i’m very very honored that you asked me to join but i don’t think i’ll have enough time to participate 🥲

but thank you for reaching out!! and i look forward to seeing your project when it’s done ✨🫶🏽

#m.ask

[serpentarii]

do you have any advice for growing your writeblr?

i don't know how qualified i am to answer this, but here are some of the most helpful things i've learned over the past 3+ years of being on writeblr 🫡

engage with other writeblrs

if you see someone rb an ask game, send an ask ! if you see a tag game with an open tag, do it ! if you see a post actively asking for wips like yours, rb it ! it might seem a little hard to put yourself out there at first, but when people are offering a chance at engagement you should take it. if you find yourself drawn to certain people (and maybe even become mutuals 😳) ask them if they'd like to become critique partners or even just a friend to bounce ideas off of in the dms. if that still seems a too extreme, here is loml maddie @veneritia's posts on starting your writeblr & writeblr etiquette, as well as hottie @helioselene's crash course for navigating writeblr.

post consistently

by my standards that could mean bimonthly (twice a month or once every other month) but yes, consistent content for consistent projects is the place to start. even if i'm working on multiple projects simultaneously, i only ever post about 1-2 at a time to keep things less confusing. it's also generally a green flag to your taglist that the thing they are interested in is being actively worked on.

post quality

"it's writeblr, not graphicblr" iykyk 😮‍💨 i'm not saying you have to immediately learn graphic design, digital art, etc. in fact, when i started out, i literally had no idea how to make any fancy graphics. a good moodboard can do just as much, but imho presentation matters. there can be a bit of a learning curve though, so i'll link some of the free resources i use:

photopea - it's like photoshop but on desktop

canva - has a bunch of free assets, fonts, & templates without watermarks. very beginner friendly 💞

unsplash - high quality, free-to-use photos

dafont - tons of free fonts

psds - i've linked @cavalierfou's resource navigation page, since they have a lot of free, beginner friendly templates to help you get started !

but quality content isn't all smoke and mirrors. make sure it has substance to it as well. if i post a last line tag, i am not going to ping my entire taglist just so they can look at three out-of-context lines. if i make a character moodboard on a whim, i'll be sure to add a relevant, decently-sized piece of writing/information to go with it. not every post has to be a party, but it's super important to not abuse your taglist 😤

make friends !!!

yeah ik, my intp ass hates having to say this, but it's really the most important point on this list. join discord servers ! join @welcometowriteblr ! (#notspons) slide into those dms (respectfully) ! it can be hard, it can take time, it can even seem impossible, but having a creative, supportive, & super hot friend group to hype and get hyped by really makes all the difference.

aight, that's all i've got for now. best of luck to you anon 🪄

#soz for using so many emojis but they look rlly cute on my browser LMAO #m.ask

[teezmie]

But, bestie~ I was gawking at how good he looks

LOL, when I saw it, I couldn't think straight to a point I forgot what I was supposed to write for my assignment...like ma boy deadass distracted me but I'm not complaining😌

#m.ask #wa:tookmyheartandsolditout #moots of mine

[himedachi]

btw killian's jp va is m.iyano m.amoru and he mostly sounds like this

#���┊ beneath the mask. ( ooc ) #i swear this man is so iconic i love him... #alternatively i think he sounds more like s.etsuna from g00 or s.weet m.ask from o.pm #but absolutely not d.azai lol