#like do not include urself i do not Like you

[honeytonedhottie]

exam prep⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🗒️

ik that its exam season and a lot of us girlies have exams coming up (me included) so i made a plan for how to prepare so that u all can SLAY your exams, so lets lock in 🎀

WORK WITH THE SCHEDULE ;

look at ur exam schedule and the exam that u have to take the soonest is the exam that u should be studying for the most. when ur doing exam day study sessions, study for all ur exams but give urself extra time to study for the ones that u have the soonest.

EXAM STUDY SESSIONS ;

put ur phone on do not disturb and lock IN. try and find a different place to sit and study because a change of scenery helps so much, plus ur like a billion times more productive when ur not studying in ur bed yk? find a place like a coffee shop to have a study session.

use bright colors to distinguish between topics and the main thing to remember when studying is what do i know already? what do i still not know?

study in specific time intervals (30 minutes of studying -> 20 minutes of downtime) that way ur not burning urself out too much. i have countless resources and posts about how to study, study methods etc on my blog so check those out if u dont know where to start.

FINDING IT DIFFICULT TO STAY FOCUSED? ;

when i find myself getting side-tracked and not being able to focus on my studying i make one of those sped-up study videos because i love to watch them. whenever i watch them i feel so motivated to study so to make my own forces me to lock in.

studying does not have to be boring! sometimes when im forcing myself to study i'll imagine that studying is a job and im working agreed hours. that gives me something to occupy myself with while i study.

lastly, if ur stressed about exams coming up just remind urself that you've GOT this and you're going to do amazing because you are smart and talented and absolutely glamorous! ✨🎀

#honeytonedhottie⭐️ #becoming that girl #self care #self love #it girl energy #that girl #it girl #dream girl tips #dream girl #dream life #exam season #exam stress #school #pink academia #academic validation #academic weapon #elle woods #legally blonde #princess #hyper femininity #dreamy #beauty and brains

[doctorwhoisadhd]

wait can someone make a manic pixie dream girl story where it turns out that she genuinely IS the post-transition future version of the main guy because that would be SUCH an insanely good lens to talk about self love through

#like you could do SO MUCH with like the question of 'Why is it easier for u to love other people more than urself' #which the trans girl like her objective could be to make her transition happen quicker / go better / be more endurable #(specifically WITHOUT directly telling her past self that she's a future version of him. bc u cant break the timeline etc.) #and she doesnt succeed like how she was thinking aka it doesnt change her past at all #but it DOES make her aware of all the things she took for granted (including stuff she hated herself too much to notice) #and therefore still manage to give her major peace of mind anyway even if she 'failed' at changing her own personal past #omg.. that would be so insanely good... #i need this so fucking bad now...... #ari opinion hour

[sophiethewitch1]

kinda wanna write a fic where the dog is literally the deus ex machina

#sophie speaks #dog backwards is god yknow it makes sense #me and my undertale bullshit back on it again #i have 3 fic ideas for it. one is a meta commentary one is just about a reader with a chronic illness and one is my love for desperate read #-rs returning in full blown massive fashion. and also identity issues but all 3 of these fics have that last one just has that. a lot lot #all include my weird DID metaphors and multiverse shenanigans #because honestly all sans/sans shippers do not understand the weirdness of loving an alternate version of urself #they dont lean into it #i mean im not gonna write sans/sans I'm an x reader till death because i love self love. also sans could not love himself look at that guy #but undertale itself has so many cool themes u can build off of that i just. i wanna grab and squeeze em out like juice #and i mean its not like i can do www at the moment I've written like... 9k this month it ain't going good #might as well just enjoy the depression spiral. i know that doesn't sound very possible but yknow. we rock w it #im just in pain all the time... ill go back to the docs soon and maybe just start taking straight up opiods #but until then i can only do things if i feel there is absolutely 0 pressure on me to do them #once again thanks school system i love these learned behaviors you traumatised into me they're really useful #what was i saying? did i mention im a little scatterbrained atm

[capricioussun]

I wanna make a zine so bad but idek what the theme would be

#underfell papyrus zine /JJJ #id thought abt like...friendship in ut as a theme. including aus and whatnot #but id wanna do a collaborative one and i dont think i know enough ppl who'd wanna do smth like that. and it wouldn't be like a big flashy #thing w/ merch and stuff. just like. a free digital download or you could print it out and fold it up urself or smth yk? #just smth really casual and simple #but again. I'm dreadful at organizing things and don't think I could even really pull off smth like that </3 #sunny with clouds

[spinspoon]

AUGHH it makes me psychically hurt anytime any of my friends are like "well... i wanna make x but someone's probably already done it and probably better than me..." or alternatively "well.. i wanna make this but people have already done x better" like STOP!!!! MAKE WHATEVER YOU WANT!!!! MAKE THINGS THAT MAKE YOU HAPPY!!!!!!! "better" IS COMPLETELY SUBJECTIVE AND IMO AS LONG AS YOU ENJOY WHAT YOU'RE DOING THAN IT'S AMAZING!!! CAUSE IT SHOWS!!!! MAKE THINGS FOR YOURSELF AND THERE'S ALWAYS BOUND TO BE PEOPLE THAT WILL LIKE IT TOO!!!!!!!!! ESPECIALLY IN A TIME WHERE HUMAN TOUCH AND CREATIVITY IS AT STAKE!!!!!! EXPLODES EXPLODES EXPLODES

#spinspoon speaks #sprry this was gonna be more coherent but #i got 6 hours of sleep last nifht #but anyway AUGH #literally this stresses me out an Ungodly amount it's not even funny #and it happens so often like #I LOVE YOU BUT PLEASEEEEE LISTEN TO ME FOR ONCE #IM TRYING TO FREE YOU!!!! #imo anyone can do whatever they want for ever as long as it isnt detrimental to you or other beings #MAKING THINGS IS A HUMAN EXPERIENCE AND ITS LOVELY!! STOP LIMITING URSELF #ALSO i know for a fact there are plenty (me included) people that find something and are like “omg i love this so much is there anything #else that captures this exact thing“ #hold on wheres the cake meme

[sharlmbracta]

so maybe the point of living is of the one reason to live instead of the other reasons not to

#this is not a suicide post #just thinking stuffs #but like i don't really wanna glorify “living” as in “living is so great life is all beautiful :)” as well #especially when reality is like Right There. war still happening. genocide still happening. all sorts of fucked up oppression misinfo #chronic suffering generational poverty still happening. not even getting started on hate crimes shootings and the government #actively giving Not A Care as people literally die out all around. yet the same faces say “don't kill urself <3” or maybe not. #but the media does and they probably do be like that to save face #them + a lot of people act like they know shit outside their living environment when they Do Not Actually Know Shit #probably myself included #and think that they're Always Somehow Right #+ the inherently wealthier you are the inherently ignorant you are about needs that People Do Actually Fucking Need #and having really no idea how much resources are actually given to the people #because they don't know what it truly means to live just to survive #just because they were luckier to be born in a wealthier/supportive/resourceful environment #which is not a fucking choice you can make but i don't think they ever 'really' understood that #still the media screaming of supporting equity and diverseness even now #so in that sense i guess #the world is built on lies :) #eh #cw rant #cw depression #or something #not really #ok kinda

[unproduciblesmackdown]

no, More active effort, More conscious consideration

#boo we HATE your [the implicit perspective that anything taking less effort / less thought is Good / an Improvement] #and it's like Getting Good at anything. Some element does become easier to navigate successfully? #great so now you can forever move on to devoting more conscious effort to Another element / really further evolutions of the same process #build on whatever understanding. if you realize something you thought was Correct seems not to be? #congratulations: it was inaccurate / too limited all along but now You know that. Better #thinking about [effort] thinking about [communication] means emitting a psychic blast doing all the Languaging of honing ideas #and b/c interactions are two way streets you get no guarantee anyone will listen / put effort into considering what they're picking up #it's a delight when someone Does happen to feel you're worth effort but everyone could be doing that on principle. they are not lol. #some actually not [jfc] comment on an akd interview like #they speak w/such precision they're used to not being listened to or understood like #well we'd have to ask them ofc but i won't even argue w/that concept lol #having One Chance To Get A Word In Ever like but you don't really when ppl misunderstand you which is an inevitability #and then made more likely by any number of factors. including not considering you worth the effort of Trying to understand #if they misinterpreted what you're conveying no they didn't; that's just What You Meant. double empathy style #gotta be out here figuring out The Approach when the outlier is ppl who do Not [only think you're worth effort as An Obstacle] #alleging how when you like urself you will now Earn Friends like the more i respect myself the more idc if i'm Interpersonally Beliked #the interpersonal relationship that Is guaranteed relevant of ''we're both people in the world & so already in relation in just that way'' #i love to Socialize by being in public ''alone'' like clearly no i'm not & like getting to take up my bit of space / do my bit of a thing #while this fits into everyone else also having their presence; doing their thing; is >>>>> being with a group as its nth wheel for no reaso #the effort of what communication works w/what person in what situation #the effort of what navigation of the inherent mutual effect of your sharing [whatever System (like; physics style)] works out best / better #when ppl imagining this are still limiting it to Certain Interactions b/w everyone anytime as the ''ideal''.... #sesame street was out here like. sometimes there's people wanting to be alone / who are ''unfriendly'' & they're still part of things #once again it's like kermit thee frog knows what's up. mister macabee old timey barkeep what should i do #furiosa as well lmao i should watch fury road again. i can sense it #you can't have much of a chitchat with her. and yet

[cinnabargirl]

Neofolk bands will be like nooo we're not neo nazis meanwhile their names are like Blut des Vaterlands their artwork and concert decor includes black suns and iron crosses and they have songs called the death of europe or something

#guess what ironic fascism attracts irl fascists #neofolk is just folk with strong industrial and post punk influences why did you have to include nazi shit #like other folk genres arent like this pull urself together come on #obv i enjoy a bit of neofolk and neofolk adjacent stuff but im tired of having to do a background search on every artist before listening

[duodusk]

A-Z DSMP (related) Animatic Recs !!

needed an excuse to go back through my animatics playlist, sooo here's a list of some of my favorites limited by alphabetical order so i don't go on forever lol

make sure to check individual warnings on these!

A - All The Lonely People by ch00ks

B - BRUTAL by Dessa

C - Congratulations, You Beat The Maze! by jo_bilee

D - DICTATOR by GomiiDd

E - Epic III by tamato jam

F - The Fox by artlandom

G - GOOD IN ME by masyanajoy

H - Hayloft II Sam Animatic by LocalWheel

I - Innocence by Late-August

J - Just like you! by MelodyAnimation

K - Kwakiteeeee by Dice Shimi

L - Legacy by Ash

M - Memento by ToKtopus

N - new person, same old mistakes by qtiq

O - One Day [Lovejoy] by Poolbranch

P - Problems by SpiritBottle

Q - Quackity's spider ring by Cyburger

R - rat by Iridescent_Petrichor

S - SO BELOW. by RADIOCATIVE

T - Tubbo snaps at Quackity by ReddsMess

U - Under the Surface by Casserole :D

V - Villains by cobblecatt

W - what's a soulmate? by Kazuallyy

X - 6 x 3 by Kazuallyy [that's almost like starting with an X, right? bare with me]

Y - Your (Obedient) Servant by Linktoo

Z - Zephyrus by Jackie_Mae

(& honorable mention to L'manberg / Pogtopia | The Valley by Riley Ellis which has been unlisted so i will not be linking to it here)

#txt #dsmp #i think the tag doesnt matter because of the links so i will use it for organization >:) #mooost of them are dsmp anyway. theres a few others that are related though #in one way or another #i could gush about some of these for ages #tried not to include huge ones that i imagine everyone on earth has seen already also :] #i was SO FUCKING CLOSE #to having one for each letter that actually fit #but who the hell is gonna find a word starting with x for their animation you know. like you dont have many choices #it has an x in it and no other letters so im counting it #also the art is good of course #to be totally honest this post is kind of just me justifying the hour or so i spent watching my old favorite animatics to put it together #but if anyone sees it and finds something new to watch then good! happy about that #anddd if anyone does see this feel free to do it urself or add on obviously:)

[iloveyoumorethansoup]

Ok roommate update just bc she throws a tantrum doesn’t mean she gets her way! Housing isn’t making me sign off on a new agreement bc she signed the first one and had ample opportunities to say she wanted things changed as we filled it out

#housing just hates her so bad actually. and I mean. i was going to be like hey she signed off on it that’s on her #but housing did it for me! it’s amazing. she’s moving out after this semester #speaking of housing hates her. my 2 friends here r really good friends with a bunch of ras (mine included) and the other day one texts me #and she’s like. ur roomie is so irritating my group chat is going off about it. so she came to visit to show me the exchange #for context roomie called the ra on call to cry about her key getting stuck in the door #if the key isn’t flat it doesn’t come out of the door. she knows this. bc it happened so many times the first week she moved in #so housing knowing her says ok we’ll help but you’ll have to pay the lockout fee. and then the key magically works! #so later when me and my friend r home she rings the doorbell and I thought it was my ra #and then it’s her. and she’s like my key is stuck :(((( #and I look at it it’s on an angle. so im I give it a half hearted pull and im like call housing #bc I knew she’d have to pay a lockout fee and I (along with many ras) think she should pay a ’ur wasting my time fee’ #but my friend takes one look at it pulls it out to make her look dumb #which. in my personal opinion doesn’t do anything bc she plays dumb #and she’s like to me could u have gotten it out? and I’m like yeah I could’ve but I shouldn’t keep having to fix problems you can fix urself #and she gets all huffy and she’s like sorry for being such a burden to you #and it’s like. girl. you act like an idiot for attention. and the second there’s consequences you back down #but god knows not without trying to guilt trip someone! she’s draining the last bit of my humanity #i have never met someone so universally hated it’s crazy #i swear she’s only transferring next semester bc she burned every single bridge here #also? that little fit she threw a week or two ago? hasn’t spoken a word on it since. I’d wager it’s bc housing told her it’s on her #the other night she tells me. ‘oh by the way. you’re allowed to make noise tonight. I’m staying up all night’ and I’m like. allowed??? #what r u my mother??? I’m gonna make sound in my apartment. I’m soo sorry you call every available number every time theres a breeze outside #and the day my friend was over! ‘you’re allowed to stay past 1am if you want. I’ll be up all night’ my friend who cannot hold her tongue #goes oh allowed? are you my mother? thanks mom! #objectively hilarious but she probably shouldn’t have said it #u might think I just sound super mean but I have 0 tolerance for bs and she’s made of it #she’s drained every single bit of niceness in my body after her little tantrum #and also reading the texts she’s sent to my ra about me <3 #that’s the update bc I hit 30 tags 🫠 #soup talks

[rugretti]

🥺oliver stark

#i really like my buddie fics when they include the qhole discovering urself course #and the whole finding your identity between a closely knit chosen family and its so #its shit ill never be able to experience (am ace and will never be out irl) and its makes me so happy just thinking abt it #that people write these things and allows people to feel the emotions theyre tryna give and its so so #*imaginw heart melting* #and oliver starks comments on the interview? #i love that hes a good actor i love that he loves acting i love that he loves his job and i #love he loves the character he plays #and has the cofidence in gis skills and his chemistry with his coworkers and his artform that hes willing bring up and explore #different possibilities #and it also sounds like hes been wanting to pursue this route for a long time and im going insane thinking abt how happy #hes got to be to be able to do it #he aounds happy that hes able to do it but also happy that he knows there are people who he agrees with #im just #im so happy for him and for me and the people that were hoping for this #it wouldve been perfectly fine to not do jt too bc the fanworks qould still be here the characters would atill be here #experienxing media doesnt have to stop with the original work because yiur experiences are a heavy influence on ur overall happiness w the w #ork #but im so glad they did it #i love that hes got the support of his friends and coworkers too #i love you oliver stark #i love the evan buckley that you show us and i love your vision

[kiitchensiink]

idk if this is controversial, but the whole concept of dnis make zero sense to me? like if I don't like somebody, or they make me uncomfortable, I just won't talk to them. and the concept of disliking somebody over enjoying a piece of media seems like the most trivial reason to hate somebody who could potentially be really nice and cool and be a really good friend.

also, the ACTUALLY really bad, awful or abusive people in this world are not gonna be deterred from hurting others by a "uwu X abusers don't interact" bc that's the entire point. they can use that to identify victims, and it just makes you MORE vulnerable and unsafe.

I just don't understand the concept, other than telegraphing the type of people that someone either considers subhuman, to be morally superior, or a misguided attempt to keep oneself safe that ultimately puts you in MORE danger.

I may be totally wrong ab this and this is not to hate on or disparage people who do have a DNI, I just personally don't like or understand it, n think it's an unsafe concept tht shares a lot of personal info. if I'm wrong lmk but yeah it seems like a security risk.

#this especially goes for if it includes your triggers or details of abuse you experienced #don't share that stuff!!! please!!! it'll only get you hurt #keep urself safe online n don't share personal info I beg of u #if someone posts smth u don't like avoid them and don't talk to them bc it's much safer than telegraphing the abuse u experienced m #it could potentially rlly get u hurt #I am a really private paranoid person tho and I'm scared of my trauma being used against me by weirdos #so yea I hope at least ppl can respect my feelings on this n not get all huffy ab it #I do believe in making trigger warnings tho! like I tried to make mine as detailed as possible #because anything I post here I am ok with people knowing but I also wanna b considerate of people who may not like certain things #I also try to tag everything bc I wanna b respectful of others and catalogue my posts properly #but yeah thats my feelings on it #pls don't treat this like a ~hot take~ or me trying to purposefully generate anger and outrage or smth

[altfire]

hey just a reminder for anyone who wants early access for starfield (which starts tonight at 8pm est!!!) but doesnt wanna pay the $100 for the premium edition on steam

you can get the pc version of xbox gamepass (which is $10/month) to get starfield "free" and then the premium upgrade is ~$40. like obvs then you have to keep paying for gamepass to keep the game but idk it's just something to Consider if dropping $100 all at once is intimidating

#PLUS the upgrade isnt just the early access. it also includes the future story DLC and some cosmetic stuff i think #my brother's bf is doing this and it's not a bad idea #like if youre only playing starfield you'll have spent More than the $100 if you keep paying for gamepass and like #if you buy the base game later it'll be more Overall #but short term it saves money. so its sthg to consider #if ur playing More than starfield on the gamepass there's (i've heard) many games 2 play on it so. weigh the value urself #not telling anyone to do anything its just an option not everyone knows abt #(i didnt know abt it til i asked my brothers bf how he's playing bc i thought he was on console) #watch your feet #to be clear tho i did get the steam version. much simpler

[oversharer-that-overshares]

Did u REALLY not notice i ignored u sometimes??????? What????

Like. Are u really not aware of how BAD a friend i am? I am tremendously AWFULL and like. We’ve known each other for at least a decade, wdym u do not realize i’m Not Worth it?????

#friendship #friends #bad friend #personal #and like. u urself just said i’m indifferent #and we’ve already established a million times that i do not feel as strongly as you #what about it is a surprise??? #i don’t love u but i enjoy ur company and i can spend hours with u no prob #which is Not True for Other People. including family and ‘new friends’ #what else do u want me to do? #i’m gonna tag #arospec #bc i genuinely have no idea of what’re my feeling rn #although rom-feelings are not involved. are they?

[strangersynth]

bc you have things to say doesn't always mean you needa say them let alone it also doesn't always mean it's your place to say them kwim

#some ppl rlly think they have a little too many rights to decide what's okay for someone to do at what age #like shaming people for what they do with themselves n their bodies in movies in socials in works in their Lives bc age this age that #go touch some grass come back when ur ready to accept u dont have a say on anybody else. not a minor and much less an 18+ person #like that one cancelling attempt over noah liking a video about his own body. or that one scene in wyfstw that had people going like; #':o oh my gawd how can he do this. how is cinema not 24/7 tame and extremely family-friendly always?? he is like 10!' and it's a 20yo #or like millie getting engaged because they're in love and ppl being like but but but she is 19!!!! well. she is also Not You and Not Yours #she and her fiance made a choice to marry. bitch you made a choice to talk and i wasnt complaining when u did it was i #/ like people's choices with who they fall in love with. like people's relationships that very much do Not include you #/ also very important; like shaming sex workers for whatever the fuck ur reason is im about to grab you by the ear and rip it off #NONE of that above and More is there for u to be without anyone even asking u all like Okay here's my veredict- girl No #ur freedom of speech hand it over.jpeg #this other day i saw this thing abt this married couple that met cause he was a 21yo teacher #and she was 18 and she liked him and he knew and was like wanna go out or sum and now years after theyre literally married making a family #and ppl were like sorry but that mortified me i cant be the only one thats so disturbed and girl #i know you aint shaming a happy couple rn because of age difference #people turn their heads and gape like it's illegal when they hear age difference and i think yall getting a little too comfy with judging #people for who they love. for judging what u personally dont understand. if u aint been thru it u literally just dont get it #just using someone else's ongoing relationship to victimise urself get out pls and thanku #like i Know the risk that comes thru age differences no matter how big how small but risks come from many more places than one #grooming is a Very real thing and that doesnt mean you get to stamp it on everything. dont talk about throwin or not throwin words around i #ur gonna throw that one around all the while. #guilt-tripping an older person and victimising and infantilising a young person both in a relationship they want to be in #when said people aint even /you/ dont make you hero. #then again ppl tend to twist 'younger people need to feel safe' in so many ways but thats another story #like im not gonna get into guilttripping people that want to portray real feelings wants and acts onto fictional characters that make You s #mortified you start throwing Real srs allegations that you should Not be allowed to have in your vocabulary if thats how you gon use them #u Know what im talking about #sense the level of seriousness. try and be conscious of what people go through regarding said dangers #stop pointing fingers at people that have made it so far just because they could have Not made it #n stop pretending conversations/visions about fictional characters n storylines that you

[honeytonedhottie]

hyper femininity⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🎀

im super excited to write this post because my relationship with my femininity has been something that i remember rly well and im super grateful for. i feel like embracing my hyper femininity has made me grow and glow so i wanna share ways that i embraces and strengthened my femininity 🎀

TRUST UR GUT AND INTUITION ;

we have gut feelings for a REASON. most of the times when we have gut feelings about someone or a situation we are nine times out of ten RIGHT. something that i've learned to do is listen to my body and my gut intuition more.

and to add onto this, TRUST UR OWN JUDGEMENT. a lot of the time we are used to being preached to about how we should feel and respond to certain things, and something important to always prioritize is discernment.

but please trust ur gut and trust ur own principles and judgement because no one knows u better then you. at the end of the day u know whats best for u and u are responsible for doing whats best for u so dont put that responsibility/power in the hands of others.

HAVE WOMEN TO LOOK UP TO ;

having women that u look up to is so so good for u because it gives u a role model. some women that are my role models include ; kimora lee simmons, jang wonyoung, bella hadid, megan thee stallion, jia song, alexa demie, paris hilton, and SO much more.

also having lots of female friends, watching female influencers etc i think all contribute to my girlyness. my absolute favorite female influencer is manifestelle because shes so smart and wise and AMAZING to listen to.

BUILD A STRONG SELF CONCEPT ;

know ur worth and own it. as a woman, make sure that u keep company that uplifts you and keeps ur confidence high because in this world everyone is so obsessed with "humbling" women.

do lots of confidence and self concept work to the point where absolutely NOTHING can phase u because ur so secure within urself and ur femininity. confidence is important for everything but especially important for women.

BE SOFT ;

being super in tune with and aware of my emotions has helped my femininity bcuz i used to have a bad habit of repression because i thought that being sensitive was something that i had to be ashamed of. but i learned that its NOT true and i learned to embrace it through doing lots of journalling and shadow work.

SELF EXPRESSION ;

i found that my femininity was strengthened when i allowed myself to express and be creative. doing things like dancing, song writing, journalling, keeping a blog etc has just been so good for my girlyness as a whole.

being able to express urself in how u speak and advocate for urself is also immensely important because no one is gonna speak FOR you so u need to speak for you and express urself clearly. you can do so by starting to practice saying no and saying when u like something and when u dont like something.

#honeytonedhottie⭐️ #it girl #becoming that girl #self care #self love #that girl #it girl energy #self concept #advice #hyper femininity #girly #girl blogging #princess #dream girl tips #dream girl #dream life #femininity #femininity tips #feminine #divine feminine #bratz #intuition #confidence #girly support group