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freefolkfightorflight · 1 year

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Lol my pipes are frozen even though I did what the old mean man landlord said and he’s gonna lose his shit 💀🥺 I don’t have the capacity to deal with angry men in my life anymore. I just do not. Sob

#he told me he’d look at my leaking crumbling ceiling next week and then said merry Christmas #we don’t have anywhere else to go #kids are going to their dads tonight #I’ll be ok #but wtf #I’ll text landlord at 9 #don’t want to interrupt his beauty rest #SC plumbers gonna make bank this week #we rarely get cold 😂💀

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bigothteddies · 10 months

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get to go waterskiing tomorrow! really nervous really excited everyone (silently) wish me luck!

#unimportant thoughts #its a family thing my grandma waterskiied and taught my dad and he taught all his kids #(even though we dont and have never owned a boat)#but i dont do it very often #so im always worried about losing my skill #and on top of that #i have my shoulder issues #last time i waterskiied was after 1st surgery and mid-reoccursnce of issues #and it was nervewracking and stressful as hell even though i did manage to do it without incident #this will be my first time doing since surgery number two #and im very nervous #+ I really want to drop a ski and go slalom skiing again but i havent done that since i was like 13 #i tried dropping a ski last time and i fell immediately so :(#we’ll see !#sorry for stream of consciousness i just didnt feel like dumping it on people tonight #anyways #goodnight (probably)#im sending so so so much love to the people i care about tonight #if you feel warm and safe like youre being hugged tonight its from me

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bumpscosity · 1 year

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#I’ve been picking random sbsp eps to watch every night tonights was sailor mouth #the 40 lashes joke went over my head as a kid laughed out loud this time around #i like eps where mr krabs is everyone’s dad for no reason like yeagh go grandpa #sassy speaks #sbsp

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justanotherfanartist · 3 months

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#back on my super personal posting bs #last basketball game for the band tonight #augh and misery but at least it’s at Cool Big Semi Circle. Two hour drive at least tho. sigh.#if u from my state you know what I mean. actually wtv it’s obvious idfk Tacoma Dome moment lmaooo #man. last thing of band for the whole year kinda sucks ngl #our band is fucked don’t get me wrong but a part of me still loves it with a lot less cynicism than most of my friends n other band kids do #part of me is like yeah there’s stuff that sucks. but also this is where I’m meant to be and I’m having a good time #the reality is that our director sucks our band sucks nobody practices and we don’t really play well #but in my head #I’m doing well #i practice. a lot. because I like it #All my friends are here #I’m doing what my dad did in Highschool and being like him makes me really happy #which is especially why I’m switching to drumline next year to hopefully be on snare #I’m actually gonna kill myself if I get cymbals i fucking HATE cymbals I will fight my Director on this actually so hard #cus I don’t know shit about percussion #but my dad is a drummer and so is one of my senior friends who is sticking around after they graduate this year #and they’ve both agreed to teach me over the summer #so I’m gonna go fucking crazy hard into practicing so I can do percussion ensemble next year and do drumline too #I’m literally gonna dig in my trenches and fight tooth and nail to get what I want #and I’ve never really done that before #It really feels like I’m determined to prove myself worth of being a snare #not cymbals #not bass #snare #I feel like I was kind of always meant for this; I’ve just been putting it off yknow?#I’m the child of two divorced music majors #my dad is a drummer who was in band his whole life #he loves it. he loves it so much.#my parents moved to New York to chase their dreams and become musicians

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harmonizewithechoes · 6 months

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#so it’s late and I’m intoxicated and interested in sharing a secret that sober me would prefer I not share #but she needs to be more vulnerable and right now in this time the alcohol helps #just as a precursor- I’m a lightweight so I really haven’t had that much and I’ll be fine in the morning and also #my partner has a weird schedule and once or twice a week we like to have a drink or two and play video games or watch a show together #lately it’s been baldurs gate but tonight it’s coop stardew #anywayyyy~#sober Becca is too shy to say that she’s struggling a lot right now #I’ve been hiding myself away for a LOT of reasons for quite a while now and focusing on being the best mother/partner/homemaker I can be #but this has been detrimental to my friendships and spiritual life #as far as friendships go I feel like since I haven’t had the capability to be a really good friend to anyone since everything happened with #happened with dad*#that I shouldn’t be allowed to have friends at ALL #because if I can’t put 100% effort into my friendships even when I’m struggling I don’t deserve friends at all #but I have 3 very little kids and I’m pouring every last ounce I have into them #so maybe I can kind of have a pass and maybe I can have a friend sometimes?#as a treat?#because I love my family very much but sometimes I don’t feel like I’m a person within the family #especially during the holidays I feel like I’m merely playing the role of ‘mother’#idk…#this is rambly and doesn’t make a ton of sense #basically I’m wondering if I’m allowed to be lonely sometimes because being a mom is hard and lonely #or if I have to suck it up and wait until my kids are older to get to be a full person outside of them again #btw- this has nothing to do with them #my kids are my sunshine on the most cloudy day #they are so beautiful and wonderful and I am so happy I get to know them and guide them in life #it truly is a privilege #apparently I’m too long winded lol I just started talking about each of my children and what I adore about them #but it was too many tags and tumblr said no lol #oh well jsyk I’m crying rn because they are my pride and joy and even if I never have another friend again they are so so worth it

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pussymasterdooku · 8 months

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#told my mom about the Bombshell my dad dropped on me & my brother 16 years ago tonight #only for him to call us shortly after to be like Um You MUST Be Misremembering. I Have a Good Memory And I Would KNOW If I Told You That #but. he has a terrible memory. he has memory problems that he refuses to acknowledge and gets VERY defensive about but like #my brother was there and we’ve talked about it…it’s also True Information that nobody else has EVER mentioned to me #(one Allusion from my mom’s stepbrother but he made it clear he would not tell us anything we didn’t already know.#but that was my first Genuine Outside Confirmation and that was only in 2021 lol)#huge weight off my chest it was not something he should have handled the way he did and then i just had to Know #but he DID NOT FUCKING REMEMBER!!!!!!!!! one of the defining moments of my adolescence him turning around in the fucking driveway saying #you kids know that [redacted] right? that’s why i sold the business #and then getting out of the car. like that Changed Me #anyway now that my mom knows we know she’s going to finally give us the further information i have desperately wanted for uh #more than half my life lmao #god bless #i’ve been working up to telling her for a few months since i finally worked through my anger @ him but it just suddenly. Was Time #nerve wracking but then nobody could get mad at me because he DIDNT EVEN REMEMBER TELLING US!!!! it was about his memory problems instead!!#alhpd

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my-chemical-rot · 10 months

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Do you know how unnerving it is to wake up abruptly in the middle of the night finding yourself involuntarily muttering aloud “before it gets better darkness gets bigger the person that you’d take a bullet for is behind the trigger…” or “there’s a room in hotel New York City… shares our fate and deserves… pity…”

#The only waking up experience more unnerving is when you’ve been sleeping with your eyes open #Waking up without having to open your eyes is just. OOF. All around. Plus your eyes are so dried out #But it’s just everything is black and then BAM you’re awake with no like little moment of moving your eyelids to ease into the day first #It just hits you like a brick. AND YOUR EYES ARE SO DRY.#Not an intentional thing I do sometimes I just accidentally open my eyes while fully asleep my uncle does it too it runs in the family #Me & him also sleep talk a lot so you can imagine how fucking creepy that is #My dad shared a room with my uncle when they were kids & he’d come home late from baseball games #To find my uncle fully asleep but with his eyes open talking complete nonsense. And like obviously when someone’s looking at you and talkin #you immediately assume they’re talking to you. But if someone’s talking to you in the middle of the night and making zero sense #then it kinda feels like there’s a demonic possession going on or smth #These tags have less than nothing to do with the original post ignore me #I’m so tired I sure hope I keep my eyes closed the entire time I’m asleep tonight #Also hope I don’t wake up muttering fob lyrics for the third time

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mrfoox · 2 years

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I'll probably never know if I actually don't want kids or if I'm just too scared about passing on bad genes and have them suffer and that's sad

#miranda talking shit #Idk i cant ever seperate it bc if i ever think id like to be a parent at some point i immediately think #About how big the chances are of me passing on my deppression/anxiety. Like i have asd and add and i think they cause a lot of problems #I still thinl my major anxiety and depression issues is my biggest concern. And the fact my mother have family history of bpd and #Schizofrenia and the unknown factor of my dads dad family history like mmm...#Bc i kinda wish i wasnt born in this world bc of my mental problems making it so hard. I dont think id ever forgive myself if #I had an child which had the same view as me bc of mental illness. Idk how high the chances are to pass on stuff like this #But like since i have so much to 'choose' from i feel like its at least 20%. And thats just with my gene pool #If the other parent also have mental health problems that would go up...#Yeah in my mid 20s and many of the girls in my age group is or have gotten kids and im like yea #Part of me would like to be a mom. Like id love the shit out of the kid and try to be the best parent i can #But i can never escape the real possibility of bringing a child into the world with same or similar mental issues i have #Im a guilt driven person and like that idea by itself makes me want to jump off a cliff lmao #So im uh... Maybe i want kids but i probably wont go through with it bc im terrified of the possilites #Idk how commkn it is to think aboht this. Any guy friend i have either really want kids or are like 'well yeah getting a wife and some kids #Is the plan i guess' and girl friends its either i dont want kids i hate them or the same 'yeah an husband and some kids is the plan'#If i ever did have a kid ill have to be with the most caring and calm guy lol. Otherwise id be too scared and deppressed about the #The idea of the worst happening. Its 3 am no idk why this is tonights subject but it is apparently

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transboykirito · 2 years

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i still hold onto the idea that when kirito has bad nights he’ll either sleep in with suguha or, if minetaka is working, midori. sugu gives the best comforting hugs and midori just has Mom Comfort that makes him feel super safe

#headcanons #yes i still headcanon he calls asuna etc but sometimes she won’t be available #and also kazuto is a mama’s boy and you can’t convince me otherwise #midori would probably pat him on the head and cuddle him and let’s him cry or vent #sugu is slightly more awkward because she doesn’t really know what to do but she cuddles him and he cries a lot #i headcanon kazuto had a lot of nightmares as a kid and used to go sleep in his parents bed a lot #so i imagine the first time after maybe the death gun incident?? when he has a nightmare #he kinda just stumbled down to his parents room and knocked on the door and when he asked midori if he could sleep in her room tonight #she just like. tears up because all these years passed and he still thinks of her as his mom and his support system #and he still needs her. and i feel like she’d get very emotional over that and cuddle him and like. nearly break his rib idk #kirito #sword art online #sao #also this is nothing against his dad i just feel like his dad is very much ‘you’re too old for this shit drink some milk and go back to bed’#y’know?? like. not in a mean way. just a ‘you’re a Man you need to deal with this on your own’ way

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silverislander · 1 year

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i really fucking hate that at 21 i still have strict rules abt shit i can and can't do but more than that i hate that i don't do anything about i

#my friends are all sleeping over at one of our houses tonight so i asked to go #i am still not fucking allowed to go to sleepovers apparently. and i still dont know why #i spent all week worrying abt when and how it would be best to ask and arguments i could make to convince my mom #and when i finally asked her she immediately shut me down and instead i just fucking. rolled with it and said nothing #so i guess somehow at 21 fucking years old were still doing the 'you can go until midnight then come home' thing that 8yr olds do #levi.txt #vent tw #and theres NEVER going to be a better time than this to let me do it. its my friend of 5+yrs mom knows her parents and trusts them #hell her dad was a police chief. were not going to do Anything that were not allowed to do in his house #but no i still just get 'you know i dont like sleepovers' and 'youre not taking the car overnight'. no explanation no debate #and i didnt say ANYTHING to defend myself bc i let my family say fucking anything and get away w it every time #at this rate ill be 30 w no backbone still living in this fucking house istg #and its not even like ive ever once given her a reason to put restrictions like this on me! ive been well behaved my entire life #i have never once broken a major rule or disobeyed her in any meaningful way ive Always done what she wanted. no matter what #ive literally been almost perfectly behaved other than normal kid stuff i have tried so fucking hard to make them happy #my parents are just insanely fucking overprotective and always have been #not being allowed to do these kinds of things is exactly why i never had friends growing up #bc how are you gonna be friends with someone who never shows up outside of school and cant watch anything with cursing in it

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aloftmelevar · 1 year

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this day has been absolute ass

#i had a really bad gut feeling through this morning #and then come afternoon i learn about the schaffrillas stuff #like that shit gutted me....#i'm also having cramps #my professor cancelled class tonight because of the ice storm. i should be happy but like...i'm just in a sour mood #then to top it all off i hear my dad in the next room ranting about how tyre nichols 'would still be alive if he complied'#my dad is a piece of shit bootlicker cop who's also a transphobic and homophobic pig.#and yet he loves me. and i struggle to love him sometimes.#like yeah he provides for me and cares for me. but good lord he has shitty opinions.#when i heard him saying those things i wanted to burst out of my room. i had such vile words i wanted to say but i kept it in.#instead i let it out with hysterical crying in my room. which i guess is better than verbally attacking my dad.#i'm lucky to have two married parents that love me and my sister. that is exceptionally rare today. i don't have a single IRL friend with #married parents in a stable relationship.#so i'm grateful.#i just get so sad and empty inside when i see folks online talking about their parents who are accepting and progressive.#like yeah. i'm happy for you. i just wish i had that y'know.#i don't plan to have kids. but if i end up changing my mind i'm going to give to them what my parents never gave to me.#vent #rant #personal

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theearnestonion · 2 years

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(warning for christian parents being supremely weird)

me: galumphing around the kitchen at 1 am taking a break from hurriedly assembling a mothman cosplay for my first comic-con tomorrow

my mother, at the top of the staircase in the darkness: "come here to the bottom of the staircase. listen to me. satan is a live and well in this world, and god protects you, but if you let the devil in, he will take advantage of it. I want you to remember this"

me:

me:"... what??"

#JUST #OMINOUSLY SAYS THIS IN THE DARKNESS #HELLO?????#the satanic panic is alive and well in this household and regrettably always will be I think.#for context. she said she heard from my aunt who teaches at the christian school I used to go to that my aunt heard from a student's parent #that they weren't gonna take their kid to certain areas at the con cause there are quote #''bad things.... like. I don't know. Wicca maybe.''#anyways. so much happening tonight #the mothman cosplay is looking sick af btw #shout out to my dad for surprising me by ordering red glasses off amazon cause he knew I'd procrastinate it till the last minute

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harmonizewithechoes · 8 months

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#would I be a coward if I don’t go to a family thing tomorrow because the baby is having a hell of a time with teething #and I’ve gotten very little sleep the last few nights and it’s looking like tonight will be more of the same?#I’m super run down and I won’t have the energy to appear as my normal self #well my normal self that pretends everything is perfect the whole time anyway #I still want the kids to go because they deserve to have that time with their family but I’m probably going to ask my mom if she can take #the bigger two so I can have a nap with the baby #I don’t have what it takes to go to any family gatherings without being 100% positive that I can mask the entire time #I can’t deal with the repercussions of appearing vulnerable in any way #and I’m so so tired #also I don’t have anyone that can watch the miserable baby if I do go because she’s not gonna be able to handle it #my partner works tomorrow so it’s all on me #idk typing this out it doesn’t seem unreasonable to duck out #but I feel like a coward because since dad died every gathering feels empty and impossible #and my brain tries to find ways out of everything even though I usually end up going #it’s hard to tell what a reasonable excuse for missing something is

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bahrmp3 · 6 months

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