I know I've said this and many variations countless times before, but just a reminder:
responding to fandom analysis posts of a show with "haha or it's just bad writing 🤣", "wow the writers must have written this by accident because they're bad 😛", or "wow one interesting thing managed to happen despite how bad the writing is 😆" is... grating.
I get it. You don't like the show, and no matter what happens in it, you'll never change your opinion of that. So why are you even interacting with analysis posts? What do you get out of it if you think literally everything in this show is written by accident? Why do you think the OPs of these posts want to hear about how much you don't care and don't want to even try to engage with it at all?
Make your own post. And tag it with the appropriate salt tags so I can blacklist.
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just an fyi, and it feels like it needs to be said here: your blog is your own space and you should be able to say whatever the fuck you want. if you’re sad? vent. get sad. maybe put it under a cut, definitely tag it, but get sad. if you feel like you need someone to talk to? drop a freaking message about how you’re feeling like you could use a buddy, or anything randomly engaging. if you’re having a hard time, you should feel safe and okay to talk about it in your own space. we’re writers and we’re people and while there’s a lot to be said for how engagement outside of oneself is necessary in rp (and really really needs to improve), i think there’s a lot that must be said about people reaching out to others. it’s become so solitary here — the whole ‘reblog from source’ thing when it comes to shit like about and musings is absurd. the whole refusing to like things is ridiculous. yes, curate your space, that’s important, but curating your space into a studio apartment only you live in doesn’t make this a community anymore, it makes it a studio apartment you live in.
just be yourself here. do whatever you want. but i’m always saying: remember you’re not alone, and don’t let yourself feel that way.
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Rant about Harry Potter and JK Rowling, stick with me here
Ok, so, I hate JK Rowling. I feel like that's a given, right? Like, she's a transphobic homophobic bigot who hides behind feminism and routinely denies massive parts of the holocaust, and I despise her in ways that I don't think words can even express. I can't stand her, but y'know what I also can't stand?
When someone implies that my mother, who is one of the most supportive people I know, and a massive part of the founding, organization, and actions of a local group made specifically to fight Moms for Liberty and school boards in our area trying to harm trans and queer people, is transphobic because she likes Harry Potter
Wanna know why my mom likes Harry Potter? Because when she discovered the series at 12 years old, she quite literally lived in a cupboard under the stairs and was in an abusive household. The magic of the wizarding world or whatever was her escape, it's the reason she's still alive, and by extension, the reason I was ever alive.
But, sometimes, not even often, when I try to express even the most minimal amount of appreciation of that, someone says to me "but isn't JK Rowling transphobic? Why would you support someone like that? Are you transphobic?"
Which pisses me off beyond belief, as one might imagine
In this situation, "separate the art from the artist" isn't exactly a good phrase to use, given the fact that the goblins or whatever run the bank are Jewish stereotypes and the house elves generally being happy to work under their masters being a straight rip from the whole happy slave myth, and those are very very important things to recognize and understand, among others
I feel like it's a lot closer to "separate the hundreds if not thousands of lives she's helped from the hundreds if not thousands of lives she's ruined", or even better, understand that the good she's indirectly done for people makes all the bad that much more horrid
My mother is the closest thing to a hero in this entire world and I will not stand to hear one more person accuse her of being transphobic purely because she thinks fondly of a book series that saved her life. I will not stand for people saying she's just as bad as a holocaust denier because she owns every book in the series. I will not stand for anyone going entirely against their point of not judging a group as if it's monolithic by saying all Harry Potter fans are bad people, including my mother. And, once again, it's not often at all that this happens, but it happens and I'm pissed about it and needed to rant
Anyways rant over JK Rowling sucks don't believe a single thing she says and don't support her unless you wanna support someone actively trying to make the existence of queer people illegal
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Its so hard reminding myself its ok to take a day here and there to do absolutely nothing im so used to the concept of productivity that i feel guilty when im not doing something
But im trying to force myself to take one day every two or three weeks where i do nothing idk if it will help me at all or if itll make me feel bad or smth but i hear people doing stuff like this and im like whoa wish that could be me
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No way I just saw someone on tiktok call Creek enemies to lovers, while saying Kyman is toxic and that there’s “nothing cute about it”. Honey the POINT of enemies to lovers is that they’re ENEMIES... it’s gonna be toxic. It’s not gonna be cute! Hence why creek is not enemies to lovers because they’ve never been enemies... They fought in one episode, remained casual friends after and then got together. They didn’t even want to fight in the first place!
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Idk if anyones gonna see this bcs i havent been here in 8 months but 😭😭 I got bored of qsmp and decided it just wasnt for me, its a great concept ofc and lots of hardwork went into it but its just not my thing. Im more into music related stuff now and draw mostly ocs and shit </3
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sometimes I forget that not everyone is as hot and intellectual and perceptive of nuance as I am when it comes to Billy and the importance of his character and why people might be disappointed and disgusted with how he as a character was treated by both the duffers and the fandom.
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I've been trying to draw these days but I really can't. After hearing "You do not have a talent though, and it is cringe of you to say you do and boast about skills you don't have, it is fine if you don't want to improve but your art is clearly only liked by people who can't draw" not only nothing I draw looks right, but also seeing other people's (beautiful) art works makes me feel more inferior and incapable. I just look and feel like 'This is what ACTUAL art looks like, I am not like this, everyone who told me I did not have it in me and should have quit and find another hobby were right'.
It just feels more like another creative crisis I have to recover from, now that my self-confidence has been scattered. It is harder than the time when someone whose opinion I valued completely trashed the way I draw Mico, because this is actually true. I know that some things ARE wrong with my art, and there must be a good reason why for years I have not been able to sell commissions for 30 USD per full height full color (robbery, basically). But it feels like it goes beyond just 'you have some issues you need to fix'. Art is basically my crutch and I am only able to recover from bad things that happen to me because "yeah this hurts but I have WIPs to finish, so I must go on", so when it is taken from me upon saying I have no talent I feel like an empty husk. Now even looking at good art feels like I am just sullying the fanarts pool in general with my ugly images.
I think maybe taking a break from WIPs to pick myself together would do. If I was able to improve backgrounds, details and colors - sure I will improve faces and anatomy eventually. I just can't now, those words hurt like broken bone.
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