#im just fucking tired bro…….

[rapidhighway]

#okay sorry for venting but i’ve been processing that session for months #like im the one who fucked up that session because i couldnt make myself say anything and actually naming any problem i have #felt like im begging to have a bunch of excuses #and god that paychologist really made me feel like i imagined all of that for attention and now im back here again and im once again #realizing my brain is just fucked up and what do i do now because if i went to a session now #i would be in the same situation where i can’t say anything that actually bothers me #so i guess im in deep shit forever or at least until i stop having some fucking mental block or whatever #im just fucking tired bro……. #she told me everyone is a little bit autsitic and that’s it WHAT #bro if i had little enough symptoms of whatever that i could do stuff by myself anyway i wouldnt fucking be ghere paying 200zł for the most #ruining hours of my life thank you so much. #instead i have to use everyone in my life as a crutch because i literally just can’t function without help IUOUOUGHHH #god im so sorry okay im gone im just really going through it rn #vent

[surfacage]

can you maybe chill

#honkai star rail #blade #dan heng #trips and out falls 38275643985092 pictures of dan heng blade and jing yuan #i dont actually play this game #(yet) #(its downloaded) #dan heng internally: im so fucking tired bro #dan heng externally: :| #are we just going to ignore that #ignore what #the six foot five tall human rights violation #yes #dan heng we cant just ignore him like hes decoration #its fine blade is busy #busy with what #contemplating the 2746th attempt on my life

[transmascissues]

building off of this post, people love to say that “trans men want to keep going into in women’s spaces after they transition because they just want to have the best of both worlds!” but in my experience, there are four main reasons that a trans man might use a “women’s space” after they transition:

it’s an important resource that’s being arbitrarily gendered and we need to use it regardless of which gender is “supposed to” be using it.

it’s a public facility where we’d be significantly less safe in the men’s version and we have to choose our safety over our desire to not be misgendered.

it’s a social space that we’ve been in since before we transitioned and we don’t want to suddenly be cut off from our friends and support system.

the trans man in question is multigender and is also a woman, or maintains some other kind of connection to womanhood alongside their manhood.

do any of those sound like “evil men rubbing our dirty little hands together making plans for how we’re going to get male privilege without losing access to women’s spaces” to you? they sure don’t to me!

i think it’s pretty reasonable that we want to transition without losing the ability to access the resources we need, keep ourselves safe, keep up the relationships we’ve built, and express all facets of who we are. all of those are really, like, pretty basic parts of having good life and we shouldn’t be expected to give them up when we transition.

and honestly, if you claim to care about trans people, you should not be so attached to the gendering of these spaces that you’re willing to deny trans men those things for the sake of upholding gender restrictions. anyone who prioritizes the sanctity of gender segregated spaces over the safety, health, and well-being of trans men is a fucking transphobe. (yes, even if you’re trans yourself.)

and that’s what really gets me about all of this — the vehemence with which people are willing to defend those spaces being entirely and inflexibly gendered, despite how enforcement of gendered spaces has hurt trans people time and time again. gendered spaces have literally always been set up in ways that force trans people to break the rules; some trans men might break those rules in ways that don’t make sense to you, but that doesn’t mean it’s wrong for us to do so! it just means you might feel weird about it and that’s okay, discomfort won’t kill you.

“but using women’s spaces after transitioning to male defeats the purpose of transitioning! the whole point of transitioning is to be able to live as a man!”

and who are you to tell trans men what the point of our transitions should be? what if the purpose of us transitioning is just to live the happiest and most fulfilled life possible, and forcing ourselves into unsafe spaces or denying ourselves access to important resources or cutting ourselves off from important people in our lives or pushing down the more complex parts of our genders would “defeat the purpose of transitioning” for us? what if being able to go where cis men go is just one part of a much bigger journey, not the end goal?

if you really want to talk about “defeating the purpose,” let’s talk about how policing which gendered spaces trans men can access defeats the purpose of trying to stop cis people from policing which gendered spaces trans people can access, because it allows the policing of trans people in gendered spaces to continue in some form instead of eliminating it altogether. let’s talk about how using “evil men invading women’s spaces” rhetoric against trans men defeats the purpose of trying to stop cis people from using it against trans women, because it allows the rhetoric to continue in some form instead of eliminating it altogether.

the point of saying “let people decide which gendered space is right for them” isn’t to make sure everyone uses the one aligned with their “true gender,” it’s to let people do what’s best for them without punishing them for their choice. sometimes the best choice is one that seems wrong from the outside, and you need to learn to live with that.

i just think we as a community need to be more hostile toward people who think upholding the sanctity of a gendered space is more important than giving trans people the freedom to move through the world without being punished for existing in those gendered spaces. that kind of thinking is fucking dangerous and it’s weird as hell that some of y’all are so comfortable with it being directed at us.

moral of the story: stop giving so much of a shit about where a trans man decides to piss or see a doctor or hang out or whatever else. even if you think he doesn’t belong there, he probably has a good reason to be there anyway, and that reason is frankly none of your damn business.

#im SO tired of this bro #like just shut up why are you so worried about this #i promise the big bad trans men arent here to hurt you. were just living our fucking lives #our mere presence is not a threat to you any more than yours is a threat to us #and even if you dont give a shit about us. this thinking leaves the door wide open for transmisogyny to join the party #so like. if you wont shut up for our sake do it for the trans women&fems who also get fucked over in the end #transandrophobia #transandromisia #transmisandry #virilmisia #virilphobia #anti transmasculinity #transmascphobia #trans men #transmascs

[reallygoodguacamole]

hey. don't feel bad about writing submas angst. gamefreak did that to them. exploring that space and playing in it is entirely reasonable. it makes sense to want to look at the twins' separation, and the different ways things could go after PLA/what happened to separate the two of them. just tag it, like you would anything else, and move on your happy way.

it does not make you ableist to explore canon. and hey, as an autistic adult? ive written a power fantasy where emmet gets to be unhinged with an axe! i have 5k of nonhuman ingo human emmet written up and not posted because when i was a kid i always hoped i was some fae thing and not human! my power fantasies encompass those things and so much more.

none of this is inherently ableist. emmet did not go apeshit because he is autistic- he went apeshit because the world stole the most important person out of his life and he would not let that stand. in any of the many aus i have where one twin or the other is nonhuman, it's not because they're autistic, it's because they're copying the other twin, and there's other people in the world that are also like that! it's my personal power fantasy, and I'm going to write it! it's not inherently ableist!

finally, certainly none of this is comparable to an extended hate campaign intended to wipe autistic people out of existence. don't feel bad about writing these things. tag them, make sure you're not doing it Because they're autistic. and then don't espouse any autism $peaks bullshit and you will be fine.

if you try to argue that your experience is more authentic/important than mine i will block you. please learn about competing access needs, and move on

#submas #im just. fucking tired bro. #a whole event got eaten in some kind of ouroborus apparently #the angst is canonical. #pre hisui? those train men arent sad #during? god i do not know what characters you're talking about if you think ingo or emmet are happy while separated #i am not going to debate this! im just exhausted of writing what i an autistic adult want to write #and then going to dig in the tag and seeing a brand new wave of remember! dont be ableist! #im not. thank you. #i am experiencing autism power fantasy moments #the guacamole mutters

[nyxi-pixie]

im rlly addicted to hoshikawa drawing skk like smushing their faces tgthr all the time. its ?? they do it so often ??? for why?????

? theyve never heard of personal space ?

#thank you hoshikawa for your service. #soukoku #in fifteen dazais just trying to kiss him like 3 times a chapter #and its like bro calm down u just met him. please. #anyway theyre literally five seconds away from fucking right there on dazais stupid armchair in beast #poor atsushi just watching them flirtthreaten e/o like 😨 #chuuya is literally in beast for like 2 seconds and its for this shit. im so tired of them. #like pls why do we have an intermission from the sskk angst fest w aku siblings misery as a side dish to deal with skk doing this. im tired

[cistematicchaos]

So many Black people have been talking about how holding all these Palestinians reporting on the genocide of their people on some sort of pedestal is such a bad idea, how they're going to fuck up because they're people and there's no space for them to do that if you shove them on a pedestal and now (mostly nonBlack) people are soooo surprised and pissed that Black people spoke up about antiBlackness in pro-Palestinian spaces and now they're throwing around accusations that Black people just want an excuse not to support Palestinians...

Like, no motherfucker. If you'd been listening to Black people, you'd know a lot of them have been expecting this. Some Palestinians are literally Black and have been talking about it for ages. If you'd been listening to Black people, you would know they're not speaking up to say "don't support Palestinians", they're speaking up to say "that's antiBlackness, don't preach that, its an enemy to all of us". But so many (nonBlack) people immediately think the worst when Black people speak up.

Like, so many non-Palestinians specifically are speaking up to say "you're just speaking from a place of privilege and even if it was antiBlack, Palestinians don't have time to deal with that right now, they're facing genocide" as if the conversation wasn't started mainly by Sudanese people who are literally also facing genocide right now.

It's so telling the way people respond as if Black people suggested abandoning Palestinians. That was not even the conversation. But so many of y'all are so used to misunderstanding and abandoning Black people that I guess you missed that, huh.

#chaos is speaking #antiBlackness #like im TIRED yall come on #its ridiculous #and the wild thing is! motaz literally apologized #bro was like 'yeah i was fucked up n wrong sorry for the ppl i hurt i wont do that again' #and it could've been THAT EASY #but people just took it as an easy way to harass Black people instead #like christ #go tf up #keep eyes on sudan #free sudan #Palestine #free palestine #racism

[guardian-angle22]

#911 lone star #911lsedit #paul strickland #nancy gillian #tk strand #mateo chavez #its the subtle way that this is hilarious as fuck lmao #paul says 'how dare you think my girlfriend would betray confidential information like that' #then immediately goes 'yeah no i tried to get her to crack SO HARD bro and I got no where wtf' #amaaaazing #also i have never heard the phrase 'tighter than a drum' and i just-- i had to google it cause i thought i misheard #my gifs #tw: food #im too tired for a caption today #episode: s04e16 a house divided

[moeblob]

Karen has four older brothers and this is Ross! He's the second oldest and he looks rather polite and smiles a lot and when he's at work he can behave most of the time... but he really has such a foul mouth it puts Right to shame.

And Karen when she was a kid couldn't pronounce S's and they sounded like Z's. So when her brothers would be leaving for school she would say "enjoy zool" and just. Could NEVER say Ross's name correctly so he told her to just call him Oz. And it stuck but only with Karen. She's the only one to use it and no one else is allowed.

#my characters #also fun fact she has decided to legally rename him for when shes mad at him #so instead of yelling his full proper name #she will yell OSWALD THOMAS WILSON which is the fake first name but actual middle/last #and its just thats a guy that she wouldnt want to admit to knowing if she saw him in public #hes actually p short so yeah hes a short king #the oldest bro and the second youngest are both taller #the middle middle is basically the same height as him so karen really is just the wittle bab #and all her brothers are super protective of her bc thats their baby sister #she does however have a strong sense of I GOTTA PROTECT THE MIDDLE GUY #so she is kinda used to standing up for older guys just bc of he #but it comes into being a problem when she meets rick and is like fuck it he may be older but #he is too kinda for this world and also theres no way i can love him hes basically a baby brother #and she will pick on him but also would absolutely throw hands for him #and and i know the tags are long as is but eventually karen and rick move past the whole youre like a brother vibe #and they become very good friends - still zero romance involved - but she starts to treat him less like a family member #and it makes him feel less awkward and in turn he feels more open to joke sometimes #cause for a long while rick is just this is really awkward and i wish we would stop matching on dating apps but she wont leave me alone #so its rude to turn her down when she offers a friendly drink to check up on me #but its actually karen being protective older sister mode despite being the youngest of five #this is the most i have managed to draw in like two weeks i think #now im super tired bye

[redysetdare]

every time i see a post that is like "ughh why cant we have aspec characters who aren't aroace for once" I have to do a double take like "is the aroace rep in the room with us right now?" because genuinely....where is all this aroace rep y'all are complaining about? Why cant i find it yet it's apparently the only aspec rep we get?? You admit that TV never says the word aromantic so where is the aroace rep. So far I've pretty much only seen canonically asexual characters and not much else buddy.

#text #half the time i think these ppl see other aspec ppl saying that x character feels aroace and then they take it as canon rep #instead of an interpretation of the character which likely was never meant to be written as aspec at all #because majority of people don't even know what that is #this isn't me saying that we shouldn't have aroallo or alloace rep btw #this is me complaining about people throwing aroace ppl under the bus because apparently we are 'hogging' all the representation in media #and it just reads as people being aphobic towards aroace people specifically and it drives me insane #you can ask for more aroallo and alloace characters without complaining and shitting on aroace characters???? #like bro we are all on the same fucking team. we are all trying to get seen and understood. we all want to see ourselves in media #stop fighting like one of us is somehow way more privileged than the other because 'you have x rep' #we all have crumbs my guy. just because someone else is getting crumbs doesn't mean that its your crumbs being taken. #idk i see so many posts like this and it makes me feel so unwelcome in the aro and ace communities #im tired of aroace people being used as a scapegoat that you can target to pretend like you're punching up #when in reality you're just committing friendly fire against people who are on your team #i miss when the aro and ace communities used to like... work together as a big aspec community #now ppl r way too focused on separating them and acting like they have nothing in common and don't have the same goals #and both communities now tend to put a lot of blame onto aroace people because of stereotypes we never had control over in the first place #it's exhausting #like the aphobia is coming from inside the house #i didn't go through the ace discourse on tumblr to deal with this shit.

[cynicalundead]

if you have a problem with who we've introjected as a traumagenic system , I WILL lose my shit. fuck off with ur "oouuhh but it's problematicccc" shit . you know what's problematic? ableism , such as telling a trauma survivor their involuntary trauma responses are problematic. explode

#did system #traumagenic system #system things #did osdd #osdd system #osddid #syscourse #im honestly just so fucking sick and tired of shit like #YOU INTROJECTED A RAPIST?????? AN INCESTUOUS INDIVIDUAL???? AN ABUSER?!?!!???!! HOW COULD YOU!!!!!! #bro. die

[piki-miki]

rick on a tuesday at 6 pm (unemployed mf)

#he's so fucked up LMFAO #i spent 5 hours on this istg #rick and morty #rick c137 #rick sanchez #rick sanchez art #rick sanchez fanart #rick and morty art #rick and morty fanart #aro rick is just my hc cuz im aro so yk i wanna feel special #bro even dyed his hair #I'M DOWN BAD #how many tags is too many tags #i'm so tired of pretending like his hair makes sense #everyday i pray that digital footprint is a myth

[internetmisfitsworld]

Ort-Meyer: “This is your gift. Your gift and your curse. Touching lives only by ending them.”

47 & Lucas: how bout no? *proceeds to become girl dads* 

#hitman #agent 47 #lucas grey #olivia hall #hitman victoria #victoria #hitman absolution #i just think the biggest fuck you to ort meyer is the fact that they both managed to become a dad #and i think that's a hella power move #good on both these bros #also im mad that they don't make olivia and lucas share one hug #HELL EVEN ONE HUG BETWEEN 47 & LUCAS #ok imma stop before i turn this into a rant post #also as you can see im too tired to make a nice gifs so yeah

[anxiously-sidequesting]

Sorry to be polluting this fandom even further with my bullshit but seeing Dasein stand up for himself to those world heads was hot as fuck bro...

#dasein wouldnt want my ass on novus just because of how i am LMFAOOO #wallaru spoilers #wizard101 spoilers #THAT WAS SO FUCKING HOT BRO LIKE YALL GOTTA HEAR ME OUT OKAY YIU JUST GOTTA LISTEN TO ENME #real talk tho im so happy dasein got the support and wisdom he needed from us and the other bros in the walkabout thing #havent finished the stream yet i rushed to tumblr as soon as dasein said “no i dont think they will.” LIKE HELLO?????? #a multidimensional eldritch GILF who threatens colonizers with the threat of world destruction is so sexy........ #ladies gays and theys. get you a man who will kill the rich #i.... really am built incorrectly LMFAO #wizard101 #wiz101 #w101 #dasein #text posts #one day you all will tire of me. i will keep pushing my limits. /j

[king-krisu]

Everyone else:

🥺🥺🥰🥰🫶🏻🫶🏻baby is SMILING getting his makeup done!!✨✨💫☺️☺️

Me making subs:

Bro can you talk any fucking slower HOW DOES A 7 WORD SENTENCE TAKE 25 SECONDS WHAT IS THIS JUST SAY YOU MISS BOJAN AND MOVE ONNNNN

#bro im as tired as he is in that video #you dont jnderstand how fucking slow he was #maybe im just used to his rambling idk

[synthshenanigans]

a WIP of the recent fit that I hope I will finish later & color.

also smaller doodles i miiiiiiight do more with eventually?? v

#im real tired atm [like I usually end up bein lol] so im passing out after this posts #pray that i get the inspiration/remember to finish this cos im kinda likin it #well the main art at least #the doodle are chill too but they meh #i like the bottom 2 & middle one mainly but oh well it be like that #anyways im tired and I've been staring at the same fuckin photo for like an actual like 3-5 hours for a reference #all i see now is blue an pink hel p #the bisexual is forced to see in bisexual lighting/j #anyways² bro is rlly rlly pretty and fun to draw especially in this outfit #i already had some doodles planned of hms in diff outfits but SOMEONE decided to make me lose my mind this weekend #fuckin bastard/lh #okay im just ranting about inane bs at this point #do i main tag? its only a wip so... #ah fuck it why not #chonny jash #moss post #-atlas art-

[pavlovers]

the jjk leaks...

#jjk 219 #gege akutami try to write a female character without including the most nonsense contrived thing youve ever read challenge (impossible) #no cuz girl died 5 seconds after MEETING sukuna?? really?? #and that was enough for her to do all of whatever this was 💀 #and she needed tsumikis body because... yes?? #im so tired of taking so many Ls for the girls... like we literally only have maki nd even she gets sidelined as a toji clone constantly 💀 #the way i cant stand sukuna anymore too bruh... not just bc of megumi crying but like he literally lost all flavor 💀 #like hes not even cunty in a fun way anymore like he used to be hes been so fucking bored this entire fight 💀 #actually begging gege to go on break so i dont have to see this shit on my timeline every week bro 💀