#if anyone brings up this post as being anti-kink at pride or homophobic i will kill you myself

[redysetdare]

I've yet to find someone who can ever give a good answer as to what places repulsed people have to go when it comes to pride being unwelcoming.

"Just go to a different pride!" how many pride do i have to go to until i find one? Some people only have 1 pride nearby and if there are more some of us cant drive or travel long distances to get to them.

"just don't go to pride then!" Then where am I supposed to go? where can i go to celebrate my identity and part of the queer community?

it's all "There are other places you can go!" ok where? I cant go into queer bars. What if there are no queer groups or programs? what if those queer places are not supportive of aspec people let alone repulsed people?

"we should make a tent for people who dont want to see sexual stuff" so basically relegating us to the kiddy table? not allowing us to enjoy the rest of the event? we are forever stuck only in a roped off area, away from the rest of the queer community?

Do you get what I'm getting at here? do you see what the issue is? do you understand how there is no place to repulsed people? do you understand?

#text #if anyone brings up this post as being anti-kink at pride or homophobic i will kill you myself #I need you guys to understand that repulsed people have no place to go #and us expressing how little space we have in the queer community - hell even in the aspec community IS NOT AN ATTACK OF YOU OR UR SEXUALIT #if your response to a minority asking for space is to tell them to shut up then maybe you should reevaluate urself #it's all “the queer community is for everyone” until it is repulsed ppl #then it's “lol just dont exist in queer spaces!” #aro #ace #aromantic #asexual #aspec #aroace #sex repulsed #romance repulsed #queer #pride

[pirate-kid2k19-blog]

Positivity for the mogai community! Because so many ppl in this community are constantly negative and we need positivity

If you try out dating and realize your aromantic lster on, thats ok!

If you try out sex and realize its not for you snd thst youre asexual, youre valid, even if you regularly hsve sex to keep your partner happy, you are f u c k i n g v a l i d

If youre a straight guy wnd date a guy to experiment and realize youre bi, thsts ok!

If youre a straight guy wnd date a guy to experiment and realize youre still straight but you and the guy had developed romance with ezch other despite being straight, thats ok!

If youre a straight guy wnd date a guy to experiment and realize youre gay, thats amazing!

If youre a straight girl wnd date a girl to experiment and realize youre bi, thsts wonderful! Good for you!

If youre a straight girl wnd date a girl to experiment and realize youre lesbian or just had developed tomsnce with the girl over the many years you knew each other, youre fucking valid.

Pansexuwls or bisexuals who have only dated one gender or prefer one gender to another despite still loving others, youre valid.

Pan or bi ppl who have been eith every gender theyre attracted to? Perfectly valid and NOT sluts, whores, or anything of the sort unless they call themselves thst and thst is something they decide not you.

Pan or bi ppl whove always been single bc theyre aromantic or asexual as well wnd they have a hard time finding domeone who accepts them, im sorry thst happens but youre so vslid!

Transfems? Fuck yeah slay, queen!

Transmascs? Aw hell yeah work, king!

Trans enbies with or without dysphoria? Still fuvkingg valid you assholes.

General trans ppl with or without dysphoria yall r valid and i support you and even though all the informstion i knew about being trans was from k*lvin g*rrah and i used to be like that, im trying my hardest to unlearn all of that. Im on your side, even as a dysphoric af trans dude!

Anyone lgb or any other sexuality who is also aro or ace, no matter how many people hate you, i support you! In fact i prefer gay asexual men because of trauma due to sexual abuse throughout my childhood, i will have a panic attack right then and there if someone else fucks me no mstter if i asked for it or no, i only trust myself with this kind of thing, but while this part is a bit personal already i just wanna say even tho im hella kinky, even as an adult the most i would do related to it is wear black and leather bc im a punk and not becaus3 of kink. If yall wanna bring your kinks to pride, stay away from the children, especially if youre doing generally obviously sexual acts. "But furries are there!" Beingg a furry is a hobby not a kink, and kids see you as scary and see furries the way they see santa or the easter bunny at the mall.

If youre a furry and wre in any way conforming to the stereotype of furries being lgbt, thats ok! And cishet furries are valid too as long as youre not homphobic and hurting people in any way.

Being told your gender and pronouns are made up because of tumblr sucks, but i support you as best i cwn with the little education i have on this subject. If i knoe your pronouns, i will use them. If not? I use they them pronouns for you unless you say otherwise or are by some chance wearing a pin that says your pronouns anywhere on your outfit.

EVERYONE WHO IS NOT A PEDO, MAP/NOMAP OR SUPPORTER, HOMOPHOBE, TRANSPHOBE, EXCLUSIONIST, TERF, ANTI VEGAN, PRO PETA, OR JUST GENERALLY AN ASSHOLE OR A BAD PERSON CAN INTERACT. TRUSCUM, TERFS, GENERAL ANTI TUCUTES THAT HAVE SOMETHING TO ARGUE ABOUT CONCERNING THIS POST OR ME, JUST GTFO. IF YOU WERE LIKE ME AND BROUGHT UP INNTHIS COMMUNITY THINKING NO DYSPHORIA MEANS YOURE NOT TRANS AND WANT TO UNLEARN THE TRUSCUM IDEOLOGY, I WILL MAKE A POST ABOUT THAT AND LINK IT BELOW.

⚠!!! ⚠FAILURE TO RESPECT THE DNI WILL RESULT IN ME REPORTING YOU FOR BULLYING OR SOME SHIT AND BLOCKING YOU. IM NOT HERE TO FIGHT, IM HERE TO SPILL FACTS OUT OF THE FACT JAR⚠!!!⚠