Does anyone have any information on how the whole “therapist is trying to sue Alec Benjamin” thing has progressed? Our boy worked so hard to get that song released and it’s AH-MAH-ZING! And he’s just so freaking proud of it; it would be horrible to see it get torn down 😔
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I will not believe that Alec Benjamin had a perfect opportunity to say
"I'm so fucked up I sent my therapist to therapy."
AND HE DIDN'T USE IT??!!
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am i actually doomed to just have permanent lower back pain or do doctors just not give enough of a shit to actually do anything at all to help other than say "idk have u tried stretching? ppl ur age don't usually have back problems"
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How I accidentally traumatized my therapist at the age of nine
A short and unfortunately true story from the time when I was still going to therapy.
I was nine years old at that time and my mom had only told me that I was going to a "doctor for the soul".
I usually went there, my therapist asked me if anything new had happened with my father, I replied no, and we played games until it was time for me to leave.
It was quite chill and until a few years ago I didn't really understand the whole point. But now, looking back, I see things a bit… differently.
If you don’t understand what I mean, maybe this example explains it:
Ms. Therapist: "Hello, KitCat (because of course I was already called KitCat back then ;). Today I have a very special game for you. Here's a stack of cards with questions and you and I are going to answer them together. Okay?"
Nine y.o. me: "Sure, why not."
Ms. Therapist: "All right, let's get started. *Takes a card* Ah, that’s a quite difficult one: What's the worst thing one could do to a child? Please think about it for a few minutes and then we'll discuss it."
Nine yo me: Hah, that's easy. But I want to do the task properly. *Remembers every trauma that was ever heard of.*
— A few minutes later —
Ms. Therapist: "All right, what's your answer?"
Nine y.o. me *grinning widely because I tried so hard and found the perfect answers*: "Lock them up somewhere deep down in the earth, never let them see the light of day, torture them, mutilate them, beat them, physically abuse them, and do everything I said before to their loved ones. *Small pause* Of course in front of their eyes, so that it has an effect on them."
Ms. Therapist *visibly shocked, or at least startled by my answer*: "A-ha. Well. Uhm. Are you sure about that?"
Nine y.o. me *disappointed because my answer wasn’t as good as I thought*: "But… why shouldn’t I? Is my answer wrong?"
Ms. Therapist: "No no, of course not! It’s just, well, not exactly what I expected, that’s all. I thought we would go more in a… passive direction?"
Nine y.o. me: "Well then, what's your answer?"
Ms. Therapist: "The worst thing one could do to a child is to… ignore it."
Nine y.o. me: "Ohhh, I understand. So you mean psychological abuse! I knew something was missing…"
Ms. Therapist: "That’s not what I meant with that- you don’t need adding it to your, uh, list. It is already comprehensive enough. But imagine; wouldn’t it be hard to always be ignored? Children need a lot of attention."
Nine y.o. me *tilts the head curious to the side*: "So you would rather be ignored than tortured? You’re a strange doctor."
For some reason, we’ve never played that game again. Sad, actually. I was having quite a lot fun.
Looking back, it’s one of my most embarrassing and funniest memories. Like- I really wanted to win that game. Although you couldn’t win because it wasn't a competition. I even discussed the whole "You truly think being ignored is worse than being tortured?"-thing with her for at least ten more minutes. Eventually, my therapist said "I guess you can look at it either way. It's probably a draw", just so that I would finally shut the duck up about it.
...I don’t know why, but my old me was so embarrassing and clueless I’m cringing and laughing every time I think about this.
(PS: Please don’t do anything I mentioned above. And to all who worry about me now: No, of course I didn’t speak out of own experience, I just gathered a lot bad stuff from the TV and books. Also not even my dad ignored me (and my mom is da best), I don’t know why the therapist brought it up. Anyway, have a nice day!)
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