#i looooove everything abt the sets and look of this

[calyxthenerd]

yo it’s the dude asking abt x reader teehee :3 um do you think you could do one with Cole from awae with a closeted trans male reader who is like quite friendly and extroverted? To his parents maybe he’s like “pretending to be a boy” for convenience of like doing jobs and farm stuff idk (💀) but to him he’s fully happy being a boy?? If this is too hard that’s fine ^^

So, If you want a one shot, just send me another ask, but I’m gonna do hcs, okay?

After wearing Cole’s clothes doesn’t cut it anymore, aunt Josephine takes them both shopping, when the reader tries to deny (because even the most extroverted farmers are humble) she’s like “nonsense, young man, clothes are a way of expressing yourself, so why would you wear something that doesn’t reflect who you are?”

The reader and Anne get along like a house on fire, which is just fine with Cole, because, surely his two favorite people getting along can only be a good thing, right? That’s until they almost set Green Gables on fire for the third time in a row while trying to cook together

Eventually when they find out Cole and reader’s correspondence, his parents kick him out for his “sins” and aunt Josephine takes him in, but she’s adamant of keeping them in separate rooms until a certain age

He loooooves to sew, and has the time of his life working with all the fine fabrics aunt Josephine buys for him, their outfits for her soirées look nothing short of exquisite, and speaking of the soirées, he has the time of his life in those, he’s truly in his element, asking people questions about their outfits, their lives, and everything in between

He and Cole spend hours sitting by the fire and sketching, they have to be reminded to eat, because otherwise they’ll both go hungry for days on end

He is the only other person, besides Cole and Anne, allowed to visit The Cliff Of Inspiration, as dubbed by said redhead (I don’t know if she ever gave it a name)

#cole mackenzie #cole x reader #anne with an e #thanks for the ask!

[sibelin]

hii ok what would your dream depeche mode setlist look like? you can pick a (fantasy) date or location too if you like...... actually i think we should make a tag game out of this, i'd be so curious abt everyone's 👀:D

oough that's a fun idea, let's do this!!

rule : just make your dream depeche mode setlist then tag a few people that could enjoy doing that :)

i'm keeping it short by guessing ten songs and two encores. for me it would probably be something like:

Black celebration. good opener imo. specially with the intro being played before they show up on stage.

Strangelove. soooo danceable, everyone knows it and everyone can clap along.

In your room. sexy song moment to break the rythm.

Stripped. second sexy song moment to get back in the rythm.

Suffer well. i'd looooove to hear something from playing the angel and i think suffer well is the perfect song from that era to be played live.

A question of lust. listen we can't have a set full of energetic songs. we need some emotional moments :')

Should be higher. actually one the song i'm excited to hear from their newer albums. it's good and it seems fun live!

Halo. just one of my favourite from Violator, i'd love to hear it.

Walking in my shoes. i'm probably crying at this point.

Never let me down again. last song. has to be. i am definitely crying.

Encore

Enjoy the silence. we can't avoid it, it has to be here.

Personal Jesus. same thing, unavoidable.

Home. a nice song to wrap an encore, very emotional and all!

Encore TWO

Everything counts. (the graph) (the graph)

Tora! tora! tora! it's fun and pop, it would definitely surprise everyone.

I want you now frankfurt 1990 version played just for me and for me only.

the fantasy location is my apartment and the fantasy date is tomorrow 9pm :^)

tagging a few modetuals (but not everyone so you can all tag someone too hehe) : @visible-disappointment @nettys-girl @inyourroomalbumversion @shadynightdetective and @thedevotionaltour !!!!

#all the credits goes to @itsnotgoingtotranslate for the idea #my setlist is all over the place i thought about this for around five minutes lmao #hope the modetuals enjoy :)) #depeche mode #ask

[nicolos]

The Nutcracker and the Four Realms (2018)

A true queen does what’s best for her people. And you were right, Sugar Plum... I am every inch my mother’s daughter.

#the nutcracker #the nutcracker and the four realms #mackenzie foy #keira knightley #tnatfr #mine #mine. #minegif #movies #moviesedit #nutcrackeredit #i watched this yesterday finally and honestly? #i like... fell in love w the aesthetic of this l3 #the colours! the details!! the elaborateness of the sets!! #i looooove everything abt the sets and look of this #also...keira....miss knightley.... #fire emoji #anyway reblob this pls n thx! #*100

[ansonmount]

How do you feel about people self diagnosing mental illnesses? I’m in a debate with my friends about it bc I don’t think people should claim to have a mental illness such as; PTSD, OCD, bipolar disorders, depression, anxiety, etc... without knowing what it actually means. I’ve been diagnosed with all of those by a doctor btw so nobody call me out for not knowing abt mental illnesses.

I think it’s a personal thing. In my opinion, I knew deep down there was more to me than just anxiety and depression. Normal depressed people dont try to kill themselves over a video game. (i got kicked out of my guild back in like 2014/2015??? and i self-destructed). I’ve self-diagnosed most of my issues because some of them are rare autoimmune diseases - like hidradenitis suppurativa. My depression and anxiety I self dx’d. I self dx’d my bpd. Everything did get confirmed as time went on and when I could deal with an issue. I had to have a cyst lanced at one point and the surgeon looked at me in shock because I knew what HS was. My GP refused to talk to me about bpd, so i had to take it into my own hands and see a psychologist for the first time. I love stigma. /s

I was “diagnosed” with bipolar after no antidepressants were helping me but my hypothyroidism was hiding a lot of my other symptoms because i would spend 20+ hours asleep every day. LOLOLOL. so that went out the window. as soon as I got my thyroid meds (a long shitshow honestly), it sorta let my cfs and bpd out because i was functioning more. So yeah I’ve been misdx’d which isnt surprising because not only is bpd common to have with bipolar but they can get confused with each other easily. 

In my experience, most of the people i know/myself did/with a self dx did it after a lot of research and self-reflection.

The sheer reality for myself, and this is my personal experience; doctors aren’t always right. Doctors can have their own biases and stigma. I went to my GP at the time when I was 19 about CFS and he told me I had sleep apnea, well I don’t. I’m much heavier than I was then and I still don’t have sleep apnea. I’ve had doctors shrug me off. I’ve had doctors be SO RUDE to the point I’ve walked out of appointments. It’s at the point my psych has said me that my anxiety about doctors isn’t just anxiety, it’s a downright FEAR because of how I’ve been treated by them in my life.

People are so quick to just believe their docs and take whatever pills they get handed without even knowing what’s wrong, that at this point in my life, I do question my doctors because I’ve been fucked around so much. So yeah I support “ethical” self-dx, because for me, i’ve only ever done it when I needed help with it. I’ve never self’dx’d to be like “ohoho look at me im craazzzzy i love being borderline, i love being the manic pixie trope because boys looooove me” or whatever. 

Are there people who self dx just to be in with a certain community? yes. Do I personally give a shit? No, because I don’t have the spoons to police other peoples illnesses. Are there times when you can tell someone is faking it? yeah, and I would call them out, but for the most part? Self dx means we can target things that can help - like mindfulness and dbt therapy for bpd. Sometimes people can’t get a formal dx. My boyfriend is autistic and adhd, his is a self dx because getting him a dx will cost us near $4000. Some people don’t have supportive families, hell I only got my depression and anxiety dx’s when I could go see the doctor on my own during the day without my mother hanging over my head. She knew I was depressed because she made the doctor test my hormones. Did they do anything about it? Nope. So i suffered till I could get meds on my own. 

Self dx is a personal thing and sometimes theres more going on with a person than their tumblr can tell you. 

Fakers will always give health communities a bad name, but it doesn’t mean the rest of us should suffer because of them and not get the self help or professional help we need. Self dx made me understand my body more and eventually led to getting help. Wanna know the ironic thing about HS? there’s no cure or pills for it. So it’s not like I can even get better from it. My skin is literally eating itself and barely any doctors have any idea of what it is because no one talks about it. Sometimes self dx is a coping mechanism to feel like everythings okay. I’d rather self dx than suffer from an unknown illness, because if anything is going to set my anxiety off, it will be that. 

sorry, i feel like i have a strong opinion on this lol 

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