#i adore them so

[not-another-robin]

You know what? I'll post a bat-doodle. This is the only content my brain can produce

#dc #batman #bruce wayne #dc trinity #superwonderbat #i adore them so #dc: creates rich complex storylines full of tragedy #me: what if everybody lived and the broody one gets a blankie. yea #narsposting

[koifsssh]

no one really knows how much i adore this man. he's so funny to me... he's just a guy...

he keeps showing up on my fyp, and it makes me laugh every time! im taking a break from a few things, so i decided to lazily sketch out some silly things! (dark/evil wally belongs to @/krunnnnnch!)

to me, i dont think they get along very well. well, they tolerate each other at the very best! bwahaha!

violence... much violence...

#welcome home #welcome home oc #rainy dewdrop #wally darling #myart #welcome home wally #darkevilwally #dark/evilwally #welcome home au #my brain is gone but wally makes me giggle #Rainy is going to put him in the microwave #mmm violence... #he's going to eat all the strawberries and he's not sorry #i adore them so #they are so silly #rainy is going to run him over with a car <3 #VIOLENCE.

[nessa-is-bored]

#I adore them so #we’re all happy for Nick #heartstopper #nick x charlie #nick nelson #charlie spring #joe locke #kit connor

[haveihitanerve]

very bad and biased video description-

Interviewer: *french* thank you very much roland and curt from tears for fears for this interview

Curt: ...welcome

Interviewer: do you particularly like being a part of the festival or?

Roland: th-this is a fantastic organization i mean the fact is that we've come here a day early we've had all the time in the world to sound check and we-we're gonna go out for a meal tonight we don't have to play til tomorrow. So its great. so its not really- we’ve done-

Curt: *cuts him off* we’ve done other festivals where its nowhere near as organized as this

Roland: *looks at curt, nods* no. this is a walk in the park

Roland: *smirks, leans towards curt and holds mic away. Says something i don't understand*

Curt: *understands, laughs lightly, smirks too*

Interviewer: *french* for the majority of all people-

Roland: your- you in the

Interviewer: oh sorry. *moves hair out of way of mic and sits straighter*

Roland and Curt: *sit up straighter too, then laugh and slouch again*

Interviewer: for the majority of all people. Um, we've never. We'll never be able to know the sensation of being on stage in front of thousands of people. Do you think you could describe it?

Curt: *rubs arm as he sits up straighter, ready to give a bullshit answer* 

Roland: its um, its a bit like being-

Curt: *joins him, make eye contact* being on stage in front of thousands of people

Roland: its a bit like being on a stage-

Curt: *tries to cover laughter*

Roland: with one person in the audience, times thousands

Curt: *laughs*

Roland: *looks at him, grins*

Interviewer: ha. I guess so. Okay. *more french*

Interviewer: and what do you do just before going on stage? Roland: drinking

Curt: *at the same time* drink an excessive amount

Roland: i cant really- yeah he drinks i actually um-

Curt: *helps him out* you do yoga

Roland: yeah… yeah yoga. I do the yogi toe lock

Curt: *smacks lips, looks away and laughs*

Roland: with boots on

Interviewer: with boots? (sorry thats what your hung up on??? Wrong thing to focus on sweetheart)

Roland: yeah so. Thats- a lot of us sort of stretching, you know

Curt: *loosing it, has to look away to laugh*

Roland: *starting to laugh at his own bullshit* and you, trying to get our legs behind our heads *breaks, laughing*

Interviewer: *stone faced, even more french*

Roland: *laughing because he understands french*

Curt: *also laughing, i think he knows some french from roland* we are kidding tho

Roland: *hahaha* im not!

Interviewer: *you know the drill; french* okay and wheres the after party? Roland: in.. your…. Apartment

Curt: *laughter*

End of video

#roland orzabal #curt smith #tears for fears #roland and curt #besties #they are so dry and witty #i adore them so #dorks #Youtube

[dkbtho]

if you need a laugh

#dkb #i love them #this video never fails to make me laugh #I adore them so #nine cool friends #happiness lives here #as #my bb heart

[jstardoesthings]

Uh-oh the TV is buffering!!

#THE GIRLS ARE FIGHTING!! 🍿👀 #the song is fire it’s going to be stuck in my head for ages istg #I adore them both so much #fanart #art #digital art #vox #stayed gone hazbin hotel #hazbin vox #vox hazbin hotel #alastor hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel vox #alastor #hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel spoilers #hazbin hotel fanart #my artwork #hazbin spoilers

[applestruda]

the goobers

#MORE GIGS ART!! #I just adore them so much #team gigs #goodtimeswithscar #gtws fanart #impulsesv #impulsesv fanart #skizzleman #skizzleman fanart #grian #grian fanart #my art

[andthebeanstalk]

Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".

Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"

And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".

Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.

At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.

So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!

Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!

Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!

Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.

#hlep #original #mental health #my sympathies and empathies to anyone who has to rely on this kind of hlep to get what they need. #the people in my life who most need to see this post are my family but even if they did I sincerely doubt they would internalize it #i've tried to break thru to them so many times it makes my head hurt. so i am focusing on boundaries and on finding other forms of support #and this thing i learned today helps me validate those boundaries. the example with the milk was from my therapist. #the example with the towing company was a real thing that happened with my parents a few months ago while I was age 28. 28! #a full adult age! it is so infantilizing as a disabled adult to seek assistance and support from ableist parents. #they were real mad i was mad tho. and the spoons i spent trying to explain it were only the latest in a long line of #huge family-related spoon expenditures. distance and the ability to enforce boundaries helps. haven't talked to sisters for literally the #longest period of my whole life. people really believe that if they love you and try to help you they can do no wrong. #and those people are NOT great allies to the chronically sick folks in their lives. #you can adore someone and still fuck up and hurt them so bad. will your pride refuse to accept what you've done and lash out instead? #or will you have courage and be kind? will you learn and grow? all of us have prejudices and practices we are not yet aware of. #no one is pure. but will you be kind? will you be a good friend? will you grow? i hope i grow. i hope i always make the choice to grow. #i hope with every year i age i get better and better at making people feel the opposite of how my family's ableism has made me feel #i will see them seen and hear them heard and smile at their smiles. make them feel smart and held and strong. #just like i do now but even better! i am always learning better ways to be kind so i don't see why i would stop

[kerryweaverlesbian]

Dean drunkenly bragging about being best best best friends with Cas to someone at a bar and he's like "here look I'll call him, I'll talk to him" and proceeds to call him with no answer 50 times in a row and the other person keeps trying to gently be like "maybe he's busy?" "are you sure you're actually friends? Does he know that you're friends?" "Maybe you should stop trying" And Dean is like "no no no we are we are best friends he's gonna pick up" like this is a totally normal thing that happens between all friends

#he keeps trying to get them to listen to Cas’s funny answerphone message and they're like yeah okay I heard it the first time #but dean is so charming they stick around anyway part bc he's adorable and part to see how long he's going to call

[skullndaisy]

Betrayal.

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#cat owners can relate to this #forbidden tummy pats #i love them so much #and i adore stray #Momo for life #stray #stray game #stray spoilers #stray 2022 #cat game #stray video game #bluetwelve studio #momo stray #stray momo #stray fanart #drippy robot momo #stray game spoilers #clementine stray #morusque stray #stray cat #stray the game #untitled goose game #goat simulator #digital art #comic #web comic #fancomic #digital drawing

[citrenecult]

hehe frowg

Close ups:

#cult of the lamb #cotl heket #silly doodles #go look up frogninja on YouTube it’s so adorable #SO STUBBY AND ROUND AND FAT #I COULD LOOK AT THEM FOR HOURS #my stuff #my art #EDIT: SORRY MY BAD ITS NINJA FROG WHOOPS

[dindjarism]

20 years on and the love for the wizard is still strong. @/ianmckellen

DOMINIC MONAGHAN via Instagram on September 21, 2023

#lotr #lotredit #lotr cast #lotrcastedit #lord of the rings #ian mckellen #dominic monaghan #tuserhan #usersansa #southfarthing #tusercora #useraurore #*mine #this made me so happy ❤️‍🩹 #i adore them #needed to post it on here!

[stuckinapril]

I love Tumblr because nothing matters here truly. There are no influencers. Having followers doesn’t mean anything. It’s just a site where people post their sporadic thoughts and rb pretty pictures. Anyone who thinks any of this matters is woefully missing the point

#I joined tumblr for the aesthetics and now I’m here bc it’s the most low pressure social media to be on #Instagram is ppl’s highlight reel but Tumblr is where u see their pure thoughts unobstructed and I adore that #It’s very nice to have people to relate to and is def the main appeal to me but I don’t think there’s much more to it than that genuinely #Monetization on tumblr isn’t a thing and probably won’t be so it feels stupid to put more stake than necessary in it. Like you’re in the #Trenches over tumblr of all things. Embarrassing #I know chronically online people exist bc I have seen them in my or somebody else’s inbox but imagine waking up at 70 one day and the #Realization hitting u like a freight time that u wasted all ur time thinking tumblr. TUMBLR. This dying website. Has enough weight for u to #be sending anon hate or reviewing ppl’s blogs like they’re some kind of product. Brother this is licherally tumblr #I choose to laugh at this behavior than take it seriously bc absolutely no one is driving me crazy on my OWN blog. On tumblr dot com. #I refuse #I will do whatever I want forever etc

[livelovecaliforniadreams]

#Ryan & Oliver Whenever They Say Something They Shouldn't About Buddie

#its the same picture #so many of you kept pointing out that its the same #so here is a side by side #i love them #they are both manaces #911 abc #buddie #buck x eddie #eddie x buck #evan buckley #eddie diaz #ryan guzman #oliver stark #its such a mood #i adore them #never change men #never change

[egophiliac]

C'MON TO THE THEATER!

I love these guys so much. forget NRC, I want to attend their terrible disaster school for disaster children that might actually be plastered on top of the smoking remains of an actively sinking ship. I may or may not actually learn anything, but I will have the time of my life.

#art #twisted wonderland #twisted wonderland spoilers #stage in playful land #stage in playfulland #unique magic posters #so it was fellow after all and not gidel? whoops #i was merely overthinking it #me? overthink fictional characters? surely not #god though #i can't not love a guy who gets the cutest most adorable power #and instantly goes 'i shall use this for Crimes' #also every time he was like 逃げる! my brain auto-translated it as CHEESE IT! #accompanied by twst's running-away sound effect which is just the quintessential sound of someone cheesing it #if i could have (1) twst spinoff it would be the adventures of these two idiots trying to do an education #they would have a stodgy bureaucrat antagonist who keeps trying to catch them in their sleazy corner-cutting ways and shut them down #(OF COURSE there would be a bit where they are trying to host an unforgettable luncheon but egads! their roast is ruined!) #and all while they're trying to evade being hunted down by the playful land investors #the hijinks would be SO wacky you guys #i've made myself sad now because this will never exist #it's real in my HEART

[redundantz]

brain worm crew

#bg3 #baldurs gate 3 #astarion #halsin #minthara #shadowheart #lae'zel #gale #wyll #karlach #i adore them all #been having an artist crisis so had to practice some faces to make myself feel better #my art #redundantz art #sketches