#habits we pick up

[wisedreamerreview]

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Yesterday while searching for the chimney brush my brother managed to walk through weeds ending up with Beggar’s Lice stuck to his work pants. For those who do not know, these are the seeds of plants. Hitching a ride being their method of transportation to other areas for growth.  My brother wondered where he had walked that he managed to get so many stuck to his pants. This time of year, all you…

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#Beggar Lice #cats #distraught #faith #family #God #habits we pick up #Jesus #live traps

[buckttommy]

christopher sneaking into chimney's room in fight or flight. he's so full of love, that's why his whole attitude in s7 re: dating is so callous and incongruent to who he is. like, this is the kid whose known chimney for all of half a year and decided he wanted sneak away from the adults/his dad to sit at his bedside and keep him company even though he was asleep/unconscious and you're telling ME he doesn't regard his girl friends feelings with the UTMOST care?????? get outta here with that. he really is a mini buck. feeling everything so deeply with absolutely no idea what to do with it all so he just smushes it down and creates different problems that don't need to exist. bless him.

#there's also something to be said about the whole nature vs. nurture of it all and the age old scientific question of #are we born or are we made #and there's something so. world defining. over the fact that christopher has spent so much time with buck he's subconsciously #picked up his worst coping habits. and it truly is a subconscious thing because it's not like buck/eddie are talking to their kid about how #buck used to be a ho (affectionate) so that introduces this other idea of christopher's subconscious processing #both of like. buck's relationships and why those relationships ended #blahblahblah anyway no one fucking cares jack i KNOW trust me i know i'm just talking to myself here but hm! interesting! #tv: 911 #jack.txt #christopher diaz

[thottybrucewayne]

The realest advice I was ever given? "Never trust Black folks who wanna be the only Black person in the room."

#thotty speaks #thotty rants #I hope she heals. I do. Like you talk about how Black people don't like you ah ah ah but then you do everything in your power to side with #Whatever white person is speaking it doesn't matter if they deadass wrong... #Also picking up that habit of calling every person who speaks about transness in an 'embarrassing' way a 'tenderqueer' when the 'tenderness #in question on display is someone criticizing a show you like for having bigoted jokes/themes its like... who's really the sensitive one? #Tbh I should have so the red flags when we was talking for that lil while but now that I know her whole story and who she runs with now? #Things are starting to make WAAAAAAAAAAAAAY too much sense

[lawzo-haven]

Law sleeping against a leopard + Zoro fighting against a leopard

#Lawzo #Zolaw #op spoilers #One Piece Chapter 1107 #Roronoa Zoro #Trafalgar Law #Bepo #Lucci #manga caps #chapter we see zoro again finally after months is the chapter we get a law cover spread coincidence i think not #and don't think i didnt notice that vodka bottle law picking up drinking habits from zoro

[nikolai-alexi]

Sirius: you absolutely cannot date my brother, James! No! Absolutely not! Literally anyone else!

James: …what about your cousin?

Sirius: sure, fine, whatever, just not my brother!

James: *with a shit eating grin* hey regulus go on a date with me? your brother said it’s fine

Regulus: wow never thought we’d get Sirius’ blessing, how sweet

Sirius: JAMES!!!

James: what?! You said I could date your cousin!! I just neglected to mention that said cousin was ALSO your brother

#this has def been said before #regulus black #james potter #evan rosier #barty crouch jr #marauders era #jegulus #barty crouch junior #sirius black #dorcas meadowes #marlene mckinnon #this is what happens when we let James hang out with Slytherins he’s bound to pick up some sneaky lil habits #Remus and Pete are desperately trying not to laugh #Barty and Evan are on the floor howling #this absolutely happens in the middle of the great hall #I’m sure this is a lot funnier in my head than it actually is

[cienie-isengardu]

Sub Zero: I've learned your secrets. Have the others?

Sub Zero: If your subjects learn your secret --

Tanya: "I almost lost Mileena because of you." Sub Zero: "Mileena? Shouldn't you call her Empress?"

#mortal kombat #bi han #sub zero #lin kuei #in mk1 are supposed to be earthrealm protectors right? during mission to eliminate threat bi-han #almost killed shang tsung #and now the intro dialogues show how he collects / learns secrets of other characters #with tanya more like picking up the clues of her forbidden relationship with empress mileena #and it makes me feel more and more #that lin kuei were the special force / blak ops-like clan and i wonder of they worked as spies too #as it seems bi-han has this habit #i really wish we could learn what jobs bi-han did in past for liu kang #especially since from lin kuei characters he is only one learning secrets of others while smoke & kuai are guarding their own secrets #from others not the other way

[mugentakeda]

important

#cornplate posting #i donot care. Look at tjem rigbht now #same facial expressions................. #we MUST discuss zuko picking up iroh habits. and iroh picking up zuko habits. its very serious to me okay

[baylardian-1]

Happy Threshold Day!!! :3

I love hyper-evolved Kathryn and her little babies!!! And Chakotay definitely took those kids home and raised them as his own hohoho!

#been watching a lot of otter vlogs with bestie hahaha #their poses???? and habits????? INSANELY inspiring for threshold lizards lol <3 #like i think we headcanon she laid them as eggs but ooooohhuhhuhughghhghghggh my gosh #THIS IS CRINGE BUT THE OTTER BIRTH VIDS MADE ME GO BANANAS WITH INSPIRATION HAHAHA #they just...... they just put their lil hands on their tumby.......... #and clean their babies when theyre born........... SO CUTE U____U <3333333333 #they like hold them up to their face and lick!!!!!!!!!!!!!! #the triplets would be so immobile lololol theyd get picked up and carried a lot #or put in the water theyre fine #My Art #Threshold #Star Trek: Voyager #Kathryn Janeway #Chakotay #Edward Janeway #Philippa Janeway #Amelia Janeway #Human #AU

[the-dist-ortionist]

I'm so happy my phone finally fixed the automatic sorting of my photos❗Now I can see the right things in the right sections❗

#pabit #s4m pabit #s4m #smile 4 me #smile 4 me game #smile for me #smile for me game #dr habit #dr boris habit #boris habit #puppet habit #there was also a bottle of lucozade in this section for some reason #the flower section has literally everything but flowers #we have MULTIPLE saved images of just flower patches #why is agnes the only thing you pick up

[sethcoart]

uhhh i tried drawing an older adora

#my art #spop #she ra #she ra and the princesses of power #she ra adora #spop adora #adora #digital art #i wasn't going to post it #but i decided oh well i already finished it anyways #might as well stop being a perfectionist little bitch and just post it already #so here we are #adora for sure starts smoking when she gets older #I just feel like she would eventually pick up some other nasty habit

[dark-elf-writes]

I was going to have Naruto give them the bottle of bear blood I mentioned in the first part for the “wtf” moment, but I decided it would be so much funnier if Naruto accidentally gave Shikaku a healthy outlet for his stress drinking. Yoshino’s just glad her husband is now less likely to die of liver failure and will fight anyone that speaks badly of Naruto in front of her. As far as she’s concerned that boy saved their clan head.

Naruto: Big Shikamaru?

Shikaku: I told you you can call me by my name

Naruto: Big Shikamaru?

Shikaku: *sighs* Yes Naruto?

Naruto: Do you want the recipe for the smoothie?

Yoshino, slamming a hand over Shikaku’s mouth: I buy it from you! Hell, I’ll set up a monthly stipend for you if you set us up with the recipe and show me how to make it too.

Naruto: 🦊? Okay?

#the elf talks #naruto #feral naru #foxy naru #yoshino suddenly has years of nightmares that her son will pick up his fathers drinking habit disappear all at once #also handy loophole aroudn the ‘not helping Naruto order’ #‘no lord third he is helping us. it’s a new Nara family secret and we have to pay him for the rights’

[chl3borzoi]

You should never feel dread about intimacy. It should be a pain-free and enjoyable thing. You should feel held by your partner. Your partner should defend you to others and make you feel wanted, in many more ways than just sexually. If this clicks with you, i encourage you to leave. Heartbreak and being alone is sad, but it's better than bad.

#i feel like too many people taking dating way too seriously. #if things are bad and youre not comfortable or happy #and if you do indeed try to voice yourself and address things. to not be heard or understood. or respected. LEAVE leave leave #leeeavvvveeeeee regain confidence recognize your charming character qualities take care of yourself. #you should never ever ever put up with feeling scared in the bedroom #because apologies cannot fix that level of trust breaking #p #yeah i slept through therapy yeahh im binge drinking again lmfaooo. love yourself because i don't love myself. #OH a liar is something we don't entertain. #if youre partner is a liar ESPECIALLY a pathological one RUNNNN AWAY #wrong your oh look i picked up a bad habit lmfao. god. have enough self love and worth to date someone whos fucking literate. #feeling [REDACTED] Today may record vocals for my friends album later

[kennys-parka-jacket]

I am once again thinking about The Poor Kid

#(Also actually watching the source material can change your opinion on it. Shocking; i know) #Anyway. As i make my way through season 9 i see just *how* prop-like kenny is #It puts a few things into perspective #1) the 'at least you finally get to do something' line in The Jeffersons #2) the sheer presence of death whenever kenny is used in merch; advertising; and media outside the show- Often that's his only contribution #3) in The Poor Kid we take a look at the McCormick household for the first time in a while #Stuart and Kevin are yelling and beating each other up. Carol tries to intermediate but just adds more noise to the situation #Karen clings to her mother for comfort; including herself in the chaos. And kenny quietly sits on the sidelines to avoid getting involved #And it seems this is nothing new #I always knew kenny was quiet at school and didnt initiate most of the trouble his friends get into #But already there's been a lot of episodes where he might as well not even be there #I've seen with my own eyes just how badly he gets reduced to almost background character status when he isnt suffering a painful death #And it's made all the more tragic to know this was likely a habit he picked up in order to keep himself safe from his own family

[cruelsister-moved2]

that thread i rbed like ages ago about men's urge to disagree/object to/obstruct women for no reason has seriously reset my brain its so crazy but i think actually one of the rare things that actually might represent a way forward for how men engage with women. like there's always going to be the rightwing ardent misogynists who don't care that they're doing this but for all the men in the middle that do on some level want to be better it represents 1. fairly confronting evidence that your position in the patriarchy actually affects how you relate to women much more than you realise it does even if you think of yourself as self-aware and 2. a genuine example of something that makes us all suffer because the fact you niggle on every single issue like what flavour of ice cream to buy is unhealthy for relationships (of any kind) AND introduces unnecessary amount of background strain to your life for no real gain. maybe im being an idealist but i love the idea of a man experiencing a certain amount of horror upon recognition of this as a catalyst to other more meaningful recognitions and changes both in how he evaluates the competence of women but also in recognition of the subjectivity of he perceives things i.e i think one of the biggest barriers to confronting the housework gap is often that men don't SEE how much women are doing and also don't SEE things that need to be done, to the extent that ive seen men argue that the solution is just for women to not care about being surrounded by mess. anyway no conclusion but i cant stop thinking about that thread both super horrifyingand also kind of hopeful

#i absolutely think it applies to other forms of marginalisation as well #but can take different forms e.g a man assuming he will make better choices than his wife even about something really minor and stupid #vs an abled person assuming they have more insight on a disabled persons' experienes/condition #but i think its the same fundamental urge going on #but yeah like personally i find disagreeing with ppl really unpleasant when it builds up that its like you need to pick your battles for #when it matters. of course you can go to far and avoid conflict but like as a perfectionist autist i have to constantly address my tendency #to like. get annoyed about someone pouring milk wrong or something. like even when they are actually wrong. sometimes it doesnt matter. #and i think the fact that this is how you treat people you LOVE and in many cases would probably say you respect #should make it liek especially wounding to realise #i also dont think women are immune to this behaviour as i said above and after all we pick up communication habits from the people we #communicate with. but i think it stems from patriarchy in pretty much all its iterations #and theres also an answering affect women can develop where you just shut down and learn to give in on every issue/devote your energy to #avoidit coming up in the first place #like you stop saying what flavour of ice cream you want at all. which i think is the end goal of this behaviour whether thats actually what #the person doing it desires or not thats what it seeks to achieve

[appropriatelystupid]

I'm reporting animal abuse! (😉)

don’t let this focused look fool you, the only people food my boys care about is cheese

#still such a funny habit that he managed to pick up since we don’t have counter stools at home #this is a grandma’s house only behavior #appropriatelyfeline #ostropest #appropriatelyasked #stupidlyanswered

[writhe]

i applied for this job (that i feel a little overqualified for. it isn’t work i’ve specifically done before but i’ve done enough that is similar & have kept a comparable job for years & also it’s listed as entry level with pretty low pay) and i got an email that i didn’t even get an interview 

#finding work that doesnt force you to compromise on values is hard #and its wild! i have a lot of relevant experience and meet all their qualifications and nearly all of their additional desired ones #i guess it wasnt meant to be but woof #i applied for something else i think id be really good at but i have way less relevant experience so tbh im expecting rejection there but #thought it would be good experience #jobs are weird. i think there is a world i have a career and i am extremely passionate and good at what i do #i like being able to take pride in work #but like. i really have yet to find that in work i'm not making for myself #i do wish i could go back to being 21 at the sawmill. i was fucking going through it when i worked there #and if i wasnt going thru a breakup and deep in grief and the menagerie of bad habits id picked up i think i wouldve excelled #but yknow i got a lot of chances and learned a lot and i look back fondly. really couldnt have had a better boss there NGL...just wish id #done a little better yknow? #we didnt vibe politically but we really got along otherwise and i think we shared the same values for work and craft and stuff and id love #to find that again