#gender make me uncomfy

[sans-serphim-cas]

i just saw a post by @swagmancer that had that ^ tag and now I'm thinking about it and I'm thinking about it and I'm like hmmmm

wait a sec I like this idea.

#you see #sometimes im like #gender make me uncomfy #my body make me uncomfy #and im like itd be nice if I could change it but I wont #(which is fine i dont want to I want society to change bro what can I say) #but sometimes in those times its like ooh the idea of someone else who I think is cool and very masculine having been through that #is a nice concept #what can i say #i liked this one nandor has vampire teeth shaped topsurgery scar marks post i saw once #uh anyways

[nedsseveredhead]

i think my biggest unpopular ‘problematic’ opinion is i dont mind genderbends. I dont think they’re transphobic, and I feel like they are fundamentally different from ‘just make the character trans’.

#i understand why it makes some people uncomfy tho so this is just a personal opinion for me #sorry the discourse is raging on twitter and god knows im not throwing my hat in the ring there #but i feel like a trans character is very different from a genderbend theres different nuance in a trans story and it needs to be handled #more carefully than ‘heres x character gender swapped lol’ #but again thats just my thought behind it! #im only one part of the trans spectrum theres a billion other people with a billion other lived experiences

[im-not-a-l0ser]

Okay, so I wanted to watch a starkid musical at school today, and I was planning on bindging all three Hatchetfield musicals today, but sine we have a 2-hour delay, I wouldn't have time for all three.

So I'm watching Starship.

And I knew that February and Bug would get together, but I thought that they would, y'know, avoid doing a Bee Movie, and wait until he'd an actual human to start the whole love interest plot. But no. Bug becomes a fucking human because he like February. What the fuck.

#also i think that i kinda ship bug and roach #is that normal? #and i don't really like february #but that's mainly because idiotic characters played for comedy make me uncomfy #starkid #starship #joey richter's voice for bug is its own gender #joey richter #starship musical #i like krayonder more than i feel like i should #why is up dressed like solid snake wtf

[scamoosh]

this is gonna sound whiny but nonbinary ppl can immediately tell when u just see them as their agab jsyk👍 its just frustrating 2 b surrounded by other queer ppl and even in those communities without fail if i make any comment abt period cramps or having worked in childcare or shit like that theres an Immediate shift to like oh okay ur actually a Girl got it . like . there was anothr nonbinary person i used 2 kno who had zero problem using the right pronouns for me until they heard how high my voice was on a call once ☠️

#this isnt targeted its just a vent #idk its just annoying. like i can get away w painting my nails but i feel like thats bc #its trendy in niche communities now for cis boys to do it #and i hate feeling like my masculinity is constantly being stacked next to like . the pillars of cis man and cis woman #like . idk im probably not articulating this v well #like . especially as somebody who thinks of themselves as transmasc but doesnt want top surgery its annoying bc that alone #means i lose legitimacy 2 some of the queer ppl i try 2 talk 2 abt gender stuff with #and beyond that #the stupidass responses ive gotten to telling ppl i dont ever rlly plan on coming out to my family #like girl.... i cannot be the first person uve met who doesnt have a safe or comfortable environment to be transgender jn???? #and beyond that i dont think its that big a deal that i dont ever come out like . officially #the ppl i care abt know and they see me the way i want so thats enough for me #but in like . largely lgbt online spaces thats where it gets frustrating #like we r supposed 2 b beyond defining gender solely on stereotypes and tit size #tw transphobia #like not rlly but jic it makes anybody uncomfy #thank u that is all #SORRY FOR BEIN CRANKY FIRST THING IN THE MORNING 😵😵 love and light etc #its not like a huge deal either its just smth that gets frustrating specifically in spaces full of ppl that u have some expectations #of understanding from #sorry if this is like complete nonsense LOL

[kneworder]

angry at the oscars barbie nominations but in an annoyinger way (i think nominating ryan reynolds makes sense but the best picture and best supporting actress noms are ridiculous)

#sorry but the more i think about it the more i really dislike the movie #ken was funny! he was silly and campy! i really did not care for the rest of the movie! #i just think the more you examine its take on feminism the more it falls apart! #it's inherently about a product! it's inherently personifying a product and making you feel sympathy for and relate to a product! #they are generating hype and engendering sympathy for something they are trying to sell you! #regurgitating second wave feminism without nuance doesn't make it groundbreaking it makes it like. fine i guess? #verilybitchie has a great video that put a lot of my feelings about it into words #idk it did not resonate with me at all and also made me kind of annoyed with how it contributed to the ongoing trend #of gendering things that aren't gendered and focusing on a segregation of gendered perspectives #tired of i'm just a girl! tired of girl dinner! tired of men are always thinking about the roman empire! #sure there are experiences more common to and relevant to women but i get so uncomfy with those kinds of generalizations #even when they're just jokes because after they get repeated enough they stop sounding like ones #just like. when you try to examine it in terms of any kind of intersectionality it falls apart #and i know it's not that serious but like come on. they literally do not once touch on any kind of intersectionality. #you can't be like 'it's a groundbreaking feminist movie!' because they said 'women struggle with misogyny' in 2023 #like i know it's barbie but i don't understand why there's this impulse to say that that's something that's never been said before #just because the president is black doesn't mean you've acknowledged like. racism at all. #just because you have two fat barbies with like four lines doesn't mean you've said anything meaningful about body image #and when you take an openly lesbian actress and give her short hair and make her strange and then have all the other characters #essentially socially exile her and still think she's weird after the resolution!!! #i would say that's like!! implicitly a pretty weird way to write gay people! #i don't want to rain on anyone's parade! it's silly! it's not that serious! i just also think it's not that good! #it's fine! it's fun! but i DO think ken is the best part of the barbie movie and for that i apologize

[femmeidiot]

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#Low key the word woman like makes my skin crawl sometimes even if it's not directed at me #either that or makes me deeply uncomfy when people would talk about attraction to women cause I'd be like oh not me I guess #anyway idk I got weird gender feelings in this chilis tonight

[supahstarrr]

maybe we should have less discourse and arguments about danganronpa ships, kokichi, nagito, (& chihiro and tenko to an extent) and be a littleeee more focused on danganronpa's racism issues, insensitive portrayals of darker-skinned characters, and be focused on altering traits & adding more depth to angie's character in fanon

#danganronpa #danganronpa 2 #danganronpa 3 #danganronpa v3 #drv3 #sdr2 #angie yonaga #don't get me wrong. i agree we can focus on multiple things but #it's a problem when the fighting about kokichi & nagito & etc. causes unnecessary arguments and accusations #it's also very much a problem when a couple of discourses (which may i add sometimes have very unnecessary arguments) overshadows #other problems. esp when the problems feel necessary to speak about despite them being constantly dismissed #also to clarify. i'm not talking about ''let's not argue if chihiro's story has offensive tropes and #if tenko's character is an offensive trope that targets wlw (but mostly lesbianz)'' #i'm SPECIFICALLY talking about: arguments about chihiro's gender headcanons and tenko's sexuality headcanons #this is the same with kokichi and nagito- the arguments if they're canonly gay is TIRING. #may i also add that i feel like there should be more nuance and less “okay pls die you're a bigot” when it comes to discourses??? #hmmmm you didn't hear it from me but. maybe we should talk about the danganronpa fandom's biphobia problem 👀 #yeah so i think we all get the hint that sometimes the danganronpa fandom (& the game) makes me uncomfy. esp as a bi poc person #sunny's thoughts #dr thoughts

[chocoenvy]

New Rule!!

The last one, atm I don't believe I can write anything strictly romantic.

I don't know what has changed, what's wrong with me, but writing things that are strictly romantic make me uncomfortable at the moment.

If this changes in the future, the rule will be removed, but for now please don't request anything strictly romantic. And if you have requested smth like that please understand if I change it.

(btw i lose my mind in the tags if yall want to laugh at my pain and maybe give advice only if u want tho)

#choco psa #aroace questioning yay (help) #ISTG I HAVE NOT ALWAYS FELT THIS WAY #I can't tell if its the gender dysphoria or if im genuinely romance repulsed #HELP YALL IVE GONE THROUGH SO MANY GENDER AND SEXUALITY CRISIS I DON'T WANT ANOTHER #i put away the gender crisis and now the sexuality crisis body slammed me and is currently kicking me repeatedly #anyways i'll post smth in a bit but it just came to mind #that writing something strictly romantic is a little yuck #LIKE. EVEN STRICTLY ROMANTIC YAE X READER MAKES ME UNCOMFY??????? #THAT'S NEVER BEEN THE CASE #I LOVE MIKO #WHAT'S HAPPENIGN???????? #i think it might be the gender dysphoria bc i would still write tsaritsa x reader x darling #but also that's a poly relationship?? but also if it was just tsaritsa x reader would I do it?? #I DON'T KNOW WHAT'S HAPPENING i might be on the ace spectrum #BUT I DIDN'T USED TO BE ON THE ACE SPECTRUM?? #I WAS NEVER QUESTIONING THIS #what the hell changed #THIS IS TRAUMA RELATED 100% BUT ALSO CAN ASEXUALITY/AROMANTISICM BE TRAUMA-RELATED #maybe im healing #maybe ive realized that my love for miko stemmed from trauma i had with my mother and im healing from that #but also men gross me out #which might be the gender dysphoria talking bc men don't see me as a man #but also women don't see me as a man #which might also be why romance repulsed #BUT ALSO WHY HAVE I NEVER FELT THIS WAY BEFORE #i think im just fucking stupid #its the scaramouche pfp. #im taking the kinning him too far yall/hj

[luaminesce]

Me, feeling uncomfortable by the emphasis of "feminine power/energy" and rigid interpretations of femininity in the female-fronted metal scene only to realise I was non-binary/agender:

#i feel like my egg should've cracked at that point #i disliked how much emphasis was put on (especially in symphonic metal) the whole 'delicate #soft gentle feminine energy' with women singers in metal #like the whole 'beauty and beast' vocal style and femme operatic vocals #(this is just me personally speaking #i get why other folks like that stuff #but for me the rigidness of gender in symphonic metal makes uncomfy as an enby) #nonbinary #metal #heavy metal #symphonic metal #female fronted metal

[mostbrilliantidiot]

Wow 🙃 I just 🙃 LOVE 🙃 how asking pronouns in supposedly progressive areas is just turning into "go in the gender box 2: performative edition"

I don't want the box and you can't make me go in it

#ramblings #i lived and worked in a red state that was more chill about my gender: whatever #a fucking red state! that likes to legislate transphobia into LAW #leave me alone i don't want to be in the binary #gonna start majorly fucking around eith my gender and just Make People Uncomfy. bc fuck you thats why #masc presenting day? oh no. strict she/her sorry! #feeling femme? yall better be using he/him #gonna throw in some it/its for fun and spice (also honestly probably some of the pronouns I like best)

[thatweirdguyinthebushes]

sometimes yall say "this couple is so t4t coded" and your only reasoning is the woman being taller than the man

#she is not traditionally feminine in her appearance obviously she is trans #i do not enjoy this #sometimes yall claim somethings t4t judt cause the couple is vaguely gnc and it makes me uncomfy #youre just doing gender roles on a different level #do you not see anything wrong with this #please tell me you do i dont know how go explain it if you dont

[itsmeimthedoldrums]

my androgynous swag is causing transgender comments in the midwestern manufacturing workplace

#i said Call me a boy. Call me a girl. I don't care yk? HaHa #im uncomfy and its my second day #also i think the comments was spurred by one of my superiors making fun of my outfit and saying i looked like a boy scout. which is funny. #you dont have to go SHES A GIRL NOT A BOY SCOUT #clearly. youre ruining the joke #you think im gonna be offened? #a theif assumes everyone is trying to steal from him or whatever #not my fault your concept of gender is fragile #shit dawg

[omegapheromone]

I'm the kind of an omega who logs on, posts some unhinged vaguely science-related hypothesis and logs right off again I think. The most reblogged/liked posts of mine are the depression nest post, and the flehmen response miscecanis theory post. My addition to the scent patch post might have some notes too but I'm not the OP so I can't see them if so.

I think I've become the resident aloof bigbrain scientist omega that is portrayed as kind of cold and introverted in every media ever. You know the one. The one who's "mated to their (science) job" and does not know how to interact with a child to save his life.

#no but I genuinely feel like the more I post/am active on this blog the more this becomes evident #it's like the... 100% an omega but just subverts the usual expectations for behavior/instincts for one #because I've never identified with any subdynamic or anything like. i know im an omega just. mentally? subconsciouslt? #buuuut i also don't have very strong 'traditional' or even 'modernized fiction' instincts/etc for the role #it's just a fun little gnc moment from me<3 #also please don't assign me any subdynamics or whatever #it kinda makes me uncomfy for some reason #to hear stuff like 'ohh that actually sounds like (insert greek letter niche subdynamic here) actually!! u might be that!' #because like no... no #I'm an omega fully #just not one that meets the usual expectations which is very sexy and cool of me #im already very gnc irl so my 'secondary gender' also being nonconforming just makes. a lot of sense #it just works yknow #gamietxt

[vampyrluver]

Sigh. My dad realized that one of my friends is gay (i mean most of my friends r gay they just dont outwardly present as queer to the straight eye but this friend did), nd hes been so weird about it. Hes like trying to tell me i shouldnt be friends with them nd how he automatically didnt like them when he met them nd just....its been rly bumming me out.

#.txt #my dad says he not judgemental but then is the most judgemental person ever #he said he was shocked that id be friends with 'someone like that' #ive been so bummed out about it since he mentioned it bc it makes me rly depressed knowing tht he feels that way #its gotten to the point where he doesnt feel comfy letting me go out nd stuff #i mean he cant do anything abt it im 23 but he sure will make sure to let me kno how hes uncomfy #it also makes me sad bc i know already i have to forever stay in the closet #but i kinda didnt realize how homophobic he was until recently #i at least thought he wpuldnt mind interacting w gay ppl #but unfortunately hes anti interacting w gay ppl #it also sucks bc this means he can never kno the genders nd sexualties of my friends #:( #im sad basically #bc my favorite pass time is being queer #nd hanging w other queer ppl #thats all i do #all day every day #all this nd during pride month too #i rly wanna move out tbh i kinda wanna try nd get government assisted housing #i genuinely feel so uncomfortable here

[vazaez]

that’s not very cis of you

BYE🛌

It's complicated alright 😭💀

#a lil personal story about this now that the topic came up: #some time ago i started questioning my gender identity but i didnt like the spanish they/them pronouns on myself #they just didnt sit right lol #so i tried using gender neutral language (ig yall know spanish is one of the many languages that is VERY gendered #even fcking objects have their own 'gender' lmao) so yea if it pas possible i phrased what i said abt myself in a pronounless way #but when it was not possible to do that id use male pronouns to try how i felt with them. the thing is that every fucking time i did that #some dude in a gc i was in said 'dO u hAvE a D¡cK????' and it made me really uncomfy as if i needed it to be able to use those pronouns 🧍 #LITERALLY EVERY TIME so eventually i gave up because i thought what's the point of finding my identity if it wont be respected anyways? #so yea im resigned to be seen as the same I was born with the same i've always been and the same everyone knows me #dont get me wrong i dont always hate being a girl but sometimes it makes me curious how would it be if i wasnt #and i dont mind what pronouns ppl use with me most of the time as long as it's not with a bad intention #I've wondered if maybe i'm a she/they? idk i just gave up thinking about it #at least for now. i have my whole ass life to find out what or who i am so i don't feel there's a need to rush tbh #woah this rant got rlly long sorry lol idk if anyone will read this far 🏃 #btw it's not only about that guy but he made me constantly remember that most people at least here in latam are very closed minded #just like him so if i ended up finding an identity i was happy with it wouldnt be respected by most people irl anyways #i'm not in that gc anymore tho #i hope i was able to like explain well what i mean? i don't wanna seem like i gave up that easily just because some dude was being a jerk #it's just that i'm kind of an overthinker

[startoothed]

41. 59. 88. and 94. for this ask game

41. top ten favourite songs !! these have got to be my favourite of all time

▪︎ the sea is a good place to think of the future - los campesinos !

▪︎ sober to death - car seat headrest

▪︎ me vs your friends - the flat stanleys

▪︎ joanie - the front bottoms

but i like. So Muvh Music !! its insane to pick only 10, so some songs ive been listening to a lot are

▪︎ everytying blue fosyers ever written /lhhj

▪︎ all of pigeon pits music /gen

▪︎ loose lips - kimya dawson (listen to this please bc its so real so tru n i care abt u dude)

▪︎ it's only sex - car seat headrest

▪︎ liquid courage - mccafferty

▪︎ cocaine jesus - rainbow kitten surprise

59. do you smile for pictures? it depends on the situation n how im feelin tbh. i have a pretty awesome picture smile tho ngl ngl B]

88. do you like it when people play with your hair? yes. Yes. Yeah :}} its so nice :]]] its like a system reset /pos (though it rlly has to be a person i trust otherwise its v much. why the fuck r u touching me. i have curly hair, so my whole childhood ppl wld touch my hair w/o asking which is LAME but :]]] now ?? if smn ik & trust does it its so nice)

94. favorite lyrics atm? UHHH. ajj's lyrics of People Ii: The Reckoning (your parasympathetic nervous system reacts etc rtc) + most of blue fosters stuff (re eating problems and ocd KFHSJ)

#DICE !!! #dice my beloved #ty for the ask :]]]]]] #i hope its ok that i called you dude ! its gender neutral /gen but lmk if it makes you uncomfy please #:] the ask made me smile