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#woah this rant got rlly long sorry lol idk if anyone will read this far π
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thatβs not very cis of you
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It's complicated alright ππ
#a lil personal story about this now that the topic came up:
#some time ago i started questioning my gender identity but i didnt like the spanish they/them pronouns on myself
#they just didnt sit right lol
#so i tried using gender neutral language (ig yall know spanish is one of the many languages that is VERY gendered
#even fcking objects have their own 'gender' lmao) so yea if it pas possible i phrased what i said abt myself in a pronounless way
#but when it was not possible to do that id use male pronouns to try how i felt with them. the thing is that every fucking time i did that
#some dude in a gc i was in said 'dO u hAvE a DΒ‘cK????' and it made me really uncomfy as if i needed it to be able to use those pronouns π§
#LITERALLY EVERY TIME so eventually i gave up because i thought what's the point of finding my identity if it wont be respected anyways?
#so yea im resigned to be seen as the same I was born with the same i've always been and the same everyone knows me
#dont get me wrong i dont always hate being a girl but sometimes it makes me curious how would it be if i wasnt
#and i dont mind what pronouns ppl use with me most of the time as long as it's not with a bad intention
#I've wondered if maybe i'm a she/they? idk i just gave up thinking about it
#at least for now. i have my whole ass life to find out what or who i am so i don't feel there's a need to rush tbh
#woah this rant got rlly long sorry lol idk if anyone will read this far π
#btw it's not only about that guy but he made me constantly remember that most people at least here in latam are very closed minded
#just like him so if i ended up finding an identity i was happy with it wouldnt be respected by most people irl anyways
#i'm not in that gc anymore tho
#i hope i was able to like explain well what i mean? i don't wanna seem like i gave up that easily just because some dude was being a jerk
#it's just that i'm kind of an overthinker
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