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recovery-is-brutal · 3 months
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To my fellow Self Shippers with any kind of Eating Disorders.
I hope you know that your F/O doesn't judge you. They don't comment on your body or your eating habits. Whether you're overweight, underweight, or at a normal weight. Regardless of how you feel in your body, your F/O loves you the way you are. They wouldn't "prefer" you at a specific weight. Your body is the shell you're inside of, so they are gentle with it and love it. Always.
Your F/O doesn't force you to eat more or less. They gently encourage you perhaps, but even if that's too much, they just want to make sure you're okay. They remind you to drink plenty, to rest when your body is struggling, and they ask you what they can help you with. How they can support you. That's what they want the most.
Your F/O recognizes that you're struggling. They don't blame you. They don't get angry or impatient with you. They don't try to scare you. They don't feel disgusted by you. Not even when you binge, not even when you purge, not even when your health suffers. Instead, they do their best to comfort you in the way you need it. They wipe your tears and stay by your side. They ask you to be gentle with yourself, for them, and for you.
All they want for you is to be okay, to be gentle with yourself, your body and mind. And maybe at some point, when you choose recovery, they want to celebrate with you and help you on your healing journey.
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crybaby-shaymin · 7 months
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Gush about your F/Os with me!
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gideongrovel · 1 year
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Whenever you create art / writing / ect. your F/O loves it so much!!! And they're in total awe of your skills and talent!! They're your biggest fan and always will hype you up and encourage you to keep at it! They get even more excited if what you created is for them or about y'alls relationship! They're so happy and will express that to you in their own ways! 🥰💕
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pro.ship.pers dni
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wheatleigh · 2 years
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To my aro viewers, being romantically attracted towards your f/o is completely valid
To my ace viewers, being sexually attracted towards your f/os is completely valid
To my lesbian viewers, being attracted to your male f/o is completely valid
To my gay viewers, being attracted to your female f/o is completely valid
You are so valid and loved by your f/os ❤️
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@myself for trying to collect f/o blogs like I’m filling out a Pokedex
(Also please reblog if you are an f/o blog, I may already be following you but just in the off chance I’m not I would like too!!!)
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ghostinspacee · 5 months
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I'm the anon who talked about my family and Friends find me weird for talking about my f/o! Thank you for cheering me! Can i be your 🐻‍❄️ anon? That way you can recognize me ^^
Of course, I'll cheer you on no matter what! The amount of hate I see other self-shippers get on here for just being happy and loving their f/o's makes me so sad, can't imagine hearing that irl. I'll always do my best to cheer others on!
And yes yes, I'd love that! I'll gladly accept a new self-shipping friend! :D
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sunflawyer · 5 months
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has anyone done this yet
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Imagine being "the exception" for your f/o. Being the one who they feel closest to, the one they confide in, you're the one they come to, because they trust you the most. Your f/o puts such loyalty and positive emotional energy into your connection, because you are that special to them. You make them feel loved, heard, accepted. And that is something your f/o will always be thankful for - the opportunity to be themselves by someone who gets it, who gets them.
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gogolsbf · 1 month
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you are your f/o's first choice.
whenever you feel left, alone, or not seen they do feel and see you.
it doesn't matter what your looks, personality, or even your flaws are like because they'll love you for that and just for who you are as a whole person.
how could they never choose someone first in place who loves them so dearly? (they love you just as much back.)
you are special, and you deserve to be someone's first choice.
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simonsboyfriendcof · 2 months
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nothing feels better than when another selfshipper says "your f/o loves you so much!!" or literally anything along those lines i get so genuinely happy
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gideongrovel · 2 years
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🎉 Birthday kisses from the F/Os 🥰
🎂 F/Os feeding birthday cake to me🧁
🎁 Special gifts from the F/Os 💌
🎈 All the F/Os gathered round singing happy birthday 🎊
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oracleact · 2 years
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I love reading about f/o experiences and other self ship related things so this is just a call into the wild to say that my inbox is always open for those rambles as well - even if it’s a character that I haven’t mentioned on this blog please do spill your heart out. explain them to me, tell me why you love them and what you both enjoy doing together! it makes me so happy.
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the-selfship-corner · 2 months
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Selfship Vocabulary Guide!
Selfship: To ship yourself or a self-insert with a character, whether it be platonic, romantic, or familial.
Yume/Yumeship: A different word for selfship. Short for yumejoshi (feminine), yumedanshi (masculine), or yumejin (gender-neutral).
F/O or Fictional Other: A character that you ship yourself with.
S/i or Self-Insert: A character you created that represents yourself in the world of a series, movie, book, video game, etc. They usually (but not always) have similar personality and features to their creator.
Romantic F/Os: Fictional characters that you feel a strong romantic attraction to. You may imagine yourself being in a relationship with them.
Familial F/Os: Fictional characters that you feel are like your family. This could be characters you consider your parents, siblings, kids, etc.
Platonic F/Os: Fictional characters that you consider to be your friends or feel a platonic love towards.
OC x Canon: Shipping an original character such as a self insert with a canon character in their world.
Canon x Canon: Shipping two canon characters with each other. This may be canon in the story or not. Many selfshippers feel uncomfortable seeing their F/O in these ships.
Y/N or Your Name: Mostly used in fan fictions, it’s meant for you to insert your name into the story like a self-insert.
Comfort Character: A character that can bring somebody comfort without self inserting.
Doubles or shared: F/Os that you and another person may have that are the same character
Sharing NG: “Sharing Not Good” this person is uncomfortable with sharing their F/Os or interacting with people that have the same ones
Let me know if there’s any I missed/should add!
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sunflawyer · 2 months
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once again, biiig big big shout-out to selfshippers whose f/os have a canon partner / popular ship with a canon character and are uncomfortable with contents of them or anything related to them. no, you're not a 'stealer'. your f/o ONLY WANTS you. you're their canon partner. no one can change it. you're destined to be with them, and no one else.
we're here for you. you're not alone, and we all know that your f/o loves YOU and YOU only.
hugs you. 💗
pr.o.ship.dni
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I want to reverse the role for my comfort character or f/o. I want to make them feel loved, special, and appreciated. I want to hold them close and tell them how much they mean to me. I want to spend time with them and allow them to open up and trust me. I want to support them when times get hard and celebrate with them when things are greater than they've ever been. I want to be my f/o's safe space, I want to show them true comfort and acceptance, because they deserve it.
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espresso-ships · 18 days
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To all self-shippers that struggle with mental health
I see you - and same <3
Here's some comfort content :')
🦋💕🦋💕🦋💕
Imagine...
Your f/o, being there by your side,
They call to check up on you, and when you tell them "I'm fine" they see right through your lie.
Your f/o, who almost rushes over to you - wanting to provide comfort. "You didn't have to-" "But I did." "But you have work and...-" "Do you seriously think I'll choose work over you?" Your f/o, that makes sure you eat and drink throughout the day,
Fixing food for you and bringing you water.
Your f/o, that runs you a warm bath or helps you wash your hair.
That wraps you in a fresh towel afterwards.
Your f/o, that puts on your favorite show,
Whilst holding you close to them.
Your f/o, that offers you a shoulder to cry on
That listens to your problems and lets you vent.
Your f/o, that holds you close, not leaving your side.
That does everything just to see your smile.
Your f/o, that loves you unconditionally.
Only you.
🦋💕🦋💕🦋💕
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