i love you femmes.
i love you plus size femmes who feel like their body pushes them out of feminine spaces.
i love you femmes with weird genders.
i love you black femmes.
i love you femmes of colour.
i love you femmes who don't shave.
i love you femmes who like indulging in masculinity.
i love you femmes that experience discomfort around their breasts and vaginas.
i love you asexual femmes.
i love you autistic femmes.
i love you femmes who constantly have to defend your identity (we are right beside you <3)
i love you single femmes who feel as if their femme identity is only valid as being 'queer enough' when with a butch.
i love you femmes who have 'masculine' personalities.
i love you alternative femmes.
i love you all femmes.
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Reminder that femmes don't have to be skinny weak white women!! Femmes can be strong!! Femmes can be fat!!! Femmes can be any skin color!! Femmes can be gnc/genderqueer/nonbinary! Unlike terms like twink/hunk/bear, your body type doesn't determine whether you are butch or femme. Don't let anyone tell you you can't be a femme because of how you look! Love you all <3
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Long live femmes who aren’t women. I love you all so much
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Because every day is lesbian visibility day, I’d like to take the opportunity to appreciate my fellow femme lesbians. You all are so wonderful and fierce and beautiful and add so much value to the lesbian community and to the LGBT community at large. Femme lesbians are what helped me to realize that I am a lesbian and feel comfortable in that, they were quite literally my introduction to the lesbian/LGBT community when I first came out as a lesbian and I owe my entire heart and soul to them, they are what helped me take pride in and embrace my identity and my femininity. Femmes are so sweet and adorable and kind and also so fierce, badass, and protective, and the way they embody femininity is so unique, powerful, and revolutionary, in a way that I just can’t help but admire. You are seriously the most powerful creatures on the planet and truly take the world by storm, from one femme lesbian to…well, every other femme out there, I adore, appreciate, and salute you. You are so valid and awesome and strong, and no matter what any ignorant person says, your femininity does not make you gender-conforming nor straight-passing. Even if others don’t see you, I see you! So keep being your incredible, unstoppable, lovely selves! 🧡🤍💖
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this is for femmes who love being super girly, being super soft, dressing delicately, angels, collect porcelain figurines, vintage lace, cute boxes, ribbons and bows, frills and ruffles, romance novels, period dramas, being kind and sweet, feeling like a princess, heart shaped anything, pink pearls, stuffed bunnies, canopy beds, silk sheets, pretty lamps with pretty lamp shades, vanity mirrors, fairy lights, mini skirts, tea parties, smelling like strawberries, cream, and roses, pretty quilts, pretty makeup, quilts, thrifting vintage, wearing heels, hello kitty, baby’s breath, bunnies, creating super sparkly adorable art, fashion, rose water, lilac, ballet, ice skating, baby pink, valentine’s day, unicorns, being a lover girl, feeling like a fairy, heart shapes purses, Sanrio accessories, lace curtains, victorian design, art history, peonies, angel themes, pretty post cards, taking yourself on a lil date, getting yourself a lil treat, vintage picture frames, sewing and embellishing, wedding decor, renaissance art, pink and white baskets, art museums, love letters, poetry, fantasy books with magic and fairies, holding hands, matching nail polish with your butch/stud/masc, couples skin care, diy fashion and jewelry, floral scented perfume, mini candelabras, pink candles, wearing skirts, vintage heart soap, tea, fluffy sweaters, gardening, tiaras, glass figurines, little trinkets, classical music, bows on everything, wearing ditsy floral or pointelle knit, making flower crowns, swans, flower crowns, candles, vintage art of flowers, ornate framed mirrors, playing dress up, rose scented body wash, and vintage strawberry shortcake,
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femme lesbians' femininity is unique and beautiful and refreshing and claiming that it conforms to heteronormativite gender roles discredits it so much. it's not a performance of femininity catering to men and it's insane to even claim that. it's a complex, nuanced identity that reclaims feminity in a way that it doesn't conform to heteronormativity. it's genuinely so sad to see people not understanding the label and misconstruing what it means
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