#enough with your daddy issues

[lovelydialeonard]

Red Election Episode 10 - Season finale (4/?)

#lydia leonard #beatrice ogilvie #beatrice ogilvy #red election #for fu*k's sake B #enough with your daddy issues #RUN!!! #lydia ruling 2022

[cupophrogs]

Does drew ever see pops or dogday having nightmares or the other way around. How do they help them

“We all do, on account of all the trauma, but we’ve got a bit of a system. Dogday is usually fine so long as he’s sleeping close to somebody, and physical touch usually takes his mind off a nightmare fast. Pops’ll wake up screaming sometimes, but a little bit of music or a small game calms him down; something to focus on. As for me, well…”

“By the time I remember where I am, I’m already distracting myself. And once the others are awake, I’ve forgotten. I don’t mean to hide it, but it just slips my mind. Besides, we have other things to worry about, like Catnap’s gangly ass.”

#Drew canonically has memory issues and executive dysfunction #because I said so #does anyone else get sleep paralysis after nightmares? #like you’re awake but your body and brain haven’t realized it yet #so you Jsut kinda lay there in purgatory until something stimulates your brain enough to to ‘oh wait I’m conscious’ #it’s really annoying tbh #like bRO am I asleep or not? #phrart #art #ask the three d’s #the three d’s #Drew poppy playtime #dogday poppy playtime #dogday #daddy long legs #daddy long legs poppy playtime #poppy playtime #poppy playtime chapter 3 #poppy playtime fanart #also for timeline things! #until I actually get to drawing the whole Catnap boss fight thingy #all of this takes place after the Playhouse and before the boss fight #Drew and the others have made a tiny Safehouse under the statue in Playcare since Catnap’s big ahh head can’t fit through there #Poppy and Kissy are there too but they’re not the focus of this #also Drew with his hair down??? #having it up so often gives him headaches :( #(yes even though it’s literally just a headband) #(sensitive scalp mfs)

[conanssummerchild]

me and my dad are like abed and jeff in the way that jeff always gets abeds references, theyre two characters that mirror eachother, they understand and relate to eachother in a way thats different from other characters relationships, but also in the way jeff fantasises about strangling abed, "you try to get him to do something normal without abusing him!", "youre a robot, abed". and still jeff goes in for two hugs before abed leaves.

#been trying to work through my feelings about my relationship with my father lately in a healthy way #(through my favourite media) #its sad because if my dad wasnt such a self centred thinks hes smarter than everyone else rude passive agressive dick #maybe we could have the best relationship #because we are so painfully similar #we are literally just like jeff and abed #but i mean jeff said it in the third episode “i dont want to be your father” #my dad wants to help me about as much as jeff wants to help #and yet in the first episode jeff is the one to tell abed “you have aspergers” #and in e3 “abed is not normal” #like hes the first to acknowledge abeds autism he just doesnt care enough to help #and all the sarcastic robot jokes god #those are practically taken out of my fathers mouth #alex says shit #alex is an idiot #community #abed nadir #jeff winger #tagging in case i actually said smth that makes sense but if not take this with a grain of salt its fully me projecting #nbc community #also sorry for familial relationship-ising ur jabed not tryna turn this into jeffannie #just tryna get thru my daddy issues

[bumblingbabooshka]

On the topic of Harry and Kes being proteges to Janeway and Tuvok respectively - both of them developing mommy/daddy issues despite having perfectly normal and healthy relationships with their parents.

#Janeway mommy issues (spontaneous development) vs Tuvok daddy issues (deepening problem) #Janeway will give you mommy issues regardless of your relationship with your actual mother #Tuvok will not GIVE you daddy issues but if you already have them? Brother. They're about to get worse. #<- Why Harry is immune but Tom is not #Tom and B'Elanna are double K.O'd by Tuvok & Janeway #I think Kes still has unresolved stuff with her father since he died so soon and she obviously still misses him #would be enough. #Tuvok just gives the vibe of someone who is not trying at all to be fatherly to others and yet somehow keeps attracting people who have #bad relationships with their own father. #Like 'And you can be my dad' (I don't want to be your father) 'Great! You already know your lines!' #Important: Tuvok will never IMPROVE your daddy issues unless you're a very specific type of person #Like for Kes I think she'd make it out fine but Tom would kill himself trying to gain Tuvok's approval #He wouldn't even know why #voy

[buglover77]

my dad and my partner both individually got me a pack of peeps with the eyes all messed up because I love when the funky little marshmallows have too many eyes. I luv the little body horror marshmallows!!!

all this to say, there will be people who love you and get to know you. there are people who will understand you. just give it time. you’ll be okay.

#found family #love #positivity #Being known #Weird kids grow up to be weird adults #There’s nothing wrong with that #If you live long enough you get to watch all the weird kids find each other #posting about my dad to heal your daddy issues <3

[quietwingsinthesky]

Lucifer->Chuck & Sam->John is driving me insane it’s. You’re his favorite, which means you must have earned it, means you’ve done something right and he considers you an equal because you see how he treats your brother, a soldier, a tool. And equals get equal say, don’t they? Get a choice in where you go next. So, Lucifer invents disobedience because no one ever tried to argue with God before, and Sam invents disobedience because John never considered it could happen.

You try and try and try, look up at your father as he casts you out and tell him “I won’t become you.” Cage or college, in the end, Dad’s not even got to be there to drag you back into the fight. He can send his soldier to fetch you instead, and a couple protesting words from you does not a rebellion make. Lucifer learns how to make beings who will worship the ground he walks on, and better, learns how to discard them. Sam learns how to leave everything behind to hunt, and better, how to leave all of himself behind, too, in a revenge quest for someone who didn’t ask for it. “I won’t become you.” There’s the problem, you already were.

#like. Chuck is the younger sibling in the cycle. Lucifer & Sam are meant to be him. #I can hold two conflicting headcanons in my head: Lucifer loses scenario and Lucifer always wins scenario #and the latter is like. that’s what Chuck wants. that’s what he always wants. he wants his underdog to win. #he wants to see himself win. because if he watches it happen enough times. it’ll feel like victory rather than betrayal. #but yeah fuck okay just. the fact that Sam & Lucifer are closer to BEING like their fathers #Michael & Dean do what their fathers wanted. they obey. they wear duty well. but they aren’t their fathers they just aren’t they can’t be #but Lucifer & Sam. it’s already there. #no escaping becoming your parents I guess. #idk I’m being rambly again. daddy issues and all. #spn #lucifer spn #sam winchester #chuck shurley #john winchester

[chappellrroan]

it's almost like if i dont let the whole world know about my new hyperfixtation i will burst into flames

#preacher's daughter both family tree songs #how she says in family tree “heaven hath no fury like a woman scorned and baby hell don't scare me i've been times before” #and western nights “i would hold the gun if you asked me to but if you love me like you say you do will you ask me to?” #the whole house in nebraska song UGH #the outro of hard times i am tired of you still tied to me bleeding whenever you want too tired to move to tired to leave #american teenager gracie's cover i love you so so so so much i do it for daddy and i do it for dale i am doing what i want DAMN i am doing #it well #ptolemaea that stop scream i am the face of love's rage blessed be the daughters of cain bound to suffering eternal through sins of their #fathers commited long before their conception that whole outro in general #i tried to be good am i no good? am i no good? am i no good?....i just wanted to be yours? am i yours? am i yours?...if i am turning in you #stomach and making you feel sick am i making you feel sick? am i making you feel sick? am i making you feel sick? is just SO AGH #also god loves you but not enough to save you I FORGIVE IT ALL AS IT COMES BACK TO ME #we know how it goes the more it hurts the less it shows but i feel like they all know and that's why i can never come back home and i spent #my life watching it go by from the sidelines and god i have tried but i think it's about time i put up a fight #and the instrumental songs their production is so so good #anyways yeah now i feel better if anyone is reading till here go listen to it thanks <3 #it's great for people with family issues #v.txt

[paintalyx]

it's not that deep but the ground is soft and all that jazz, so i desperately wish to do a loose rewrite of wyll's arc because there are so many little details that could be added to make it hit harder. just. agh. so many gaps. so much potential. angst and headcanon bait practically.

how were the first days of exile for him? who were his childhood friends and where are they now? how much does he truly believe some of the stuff he says, and how much is just for the show? how does he truly feel about his father in arc three and after the game ends (depending on your choices, of course)? what is his relationship with his body like after it's been changed? you can literally go so deep.

my man barely is barely given the opportunity to acknowledge any conflicting emotions that he might have about things from his past without player input, and i get that it's so that your special little tav guy can feel even more special by helping him, but i'd personally prefer to see him struggle without that kind of guidance

#my stuff #bg3 #wyll ravengard #i had a similar complaint about player insert characters playing everyone's psych in a couple of other games too #i feel like it takes away from certain stories especially without proper justification #like in my head that justification in-game could be wyll seeking approval from whoever is closest (daddy issues hello~) #but that seems kinda easy and not nearly angsty enough #i've seen a couple of amazing fics that rework certain story beads without tav and oh wow they live in my head rent free #but they're not wyll centric enough #he's my special little guy i need to see him pulled apart and pressure washed and wrung out and left out to dry in the sun #bah my thoughts are all over the place about this #also feel free to add your own thoughts and opinions i'd love to hear them #consider this bait for dropping all your hardest wyll headcanons and theories and whatever

[goldenhour-s]

sockets in my office room just got fucked up so theres no power in them 😐

#it’s this small room i only use for my pc and storage now lol so this isnt a big deal #but also… big deal because i cant reach sockets outside to power up my pc aasdjckdk no sims for me #universe said: this is enough you need to spend your free time in other ways too #my dad used to be an electrician so he will help me with this 🥹 daddy’s girl back at it again #he was so unphased when i told him this suddenly happened like wtf so you tell me electricity outlets can just stop working like that #i was confused and he was just so chill about this… very heteronormative n stereotypical moment #i’m worried anyway because the electricity in my flat is fucked overall? theres been so many issues in less than a year of me living here #it’s an old apartment building but at the same time my sister or bf also live in such and never had issues like i do 💀

[bpdamandayoung]

my father told me i'm like him i'm gonna rip my hair out pull out my teeth rip out my internal organs and throw them against the wall to see what sticks

#depression and stuff #girl you literally made me into this fucked up thing you see now #i'm your daughter!! you were supposed to protect me from everything that's bad not to hurt me #gonna vent in the tags bc i'm fucking done #he said he doesn't remember hitting me well good for you bc i can't forget that #i told him about when my depression started and how i remember him screaming at me bc of my grades and said 'yeah i remember you weren't #studying enough and got bad grades' motherfucker i the lowest grades i had were c i wasn't close to failing a subject even once back then #now he said he wants to fix our relation. girl. you're the reason for my bpd. you made me into a shell of a person. #you gave me (and i hate this term bc it sounds so unserious) daddy issues so bad i can't have normal relationships with men. #yeah i know your father wasn't shit either but god you could have tried to be my dad when i needed you #i had nobody around. no adult person to talk to bc mom wasn't interestedin me too but at least she tried you just never did #i hate how my life will always be marked by all those things you've done

[milo-is-rambling]

I forget how much I hate the taste of vodka but the whipped cream vodka is so much better my god

#make a drink sweet enough that you can’t taste it when it’s in ur mouth and then all u get is the whipped cream vodka in the burn #makes drinks more tolerable #also this is the fastest I think I’ve ever chugged an alcoholic drink #we are gonna get fucked up tonight bc we have daddy issues and fought with our mom this morning slayyy #smoked a cigarette at the lake now getting fucked up in my room while home alone #life is so good and it’s all bullshit forever #literally we could all die and it doesn’t matter and life is weird and crazy and I am happy it sucks and I am so fucking thrilled to be aliv #at all #life is good regardless of death but I wish death would just like wait patiently for my family #dad I miss u I hope you had a good four twenty where ever you ended up. im sorry moms acting like this. I hope my brothers okay at school. #I hope he’s having a good time and isn’t completely overwhelmed with everything. I was right and apparently he’s gonna come home after grad #uation and im excited to have him home again but my mothers all upset. I know it sucks that you’re dead but it’s nice knowing in a weird way #that you’re the reason me and hunter got close again. so thanks I guess for that. and smoking made me and mom grow closer. idk. you’ve done #a lot for us and most of it had to do with weed. today hurt worse than my birthday. or the six month anniversary. today sucked. and no one #else seemed to be torn apart by it and it made me feel like I was going crazy and no one could even tell #you would’ve noticed if I was acting different. I love you. wherever you are I still love you. and I’m sorry. I’m sorry I was such a bitch. #and I wish I took better care of you. but you were my father I wasn’t supposed to take care of you. you should’ve been there for me. we shou #have been there for mom and hunter and your parents and I’ve been thinking a lot about grammie actually. I don’t know how I feel. thinking #about her makes me cry now. I don’t have the heart to make her cry talking about my childhood but I miss her. and I miss being young. I miss #you coming to my Father’s Day dance recitals and coming back from bike week in Laconia and bringing me flowers always wearing your grey #Harley Davidson jacket and you’d have flowers in your arms and you’d be bored but so proud and you’d hug me and you’d smell like weed and #your beard was always scratchy when you’d hug me and I just miss you a lot. I miss you and I fucking hate you for it fuck. #note to self. ​don’t be pmsing and then get drinking and smoking and thinking of your dead father. you will cry

[conanssummerchild]

so long london but its about my father

#why do you make everything about your father alex #idk trauma probably #ANYWAY #and you say I ABANDONED THE SHIP but i was going. down. with. it. #my white knuckled DYING grip #HOLDING TIGHT TO UR QUIET /RESENTMENT/ #and my friend said IT ISNT RIGHT TO BE SCARED #every breath feels like RAREST AIR #when youre not sure if he WANTS to be there #so how much sad did you think i HAD IN ME #HOW MUCH TRAGEDY??? #just how LOW did you think ID GO #before id self implode before i had to GO. BE. FREE. #you SWORE THAT YOU LOVED ME but WHERE. WERE. THE. CLUES??? #you sacrificed us to the gods of your bluest days #and im just. getting. colour. back into my face #im just mad as hell cause i LOVED. THIS. PLACE. FOR #SO LONG #london #yeah #im from london too so extra effect owie #ok thats enough daddy issues talk for today i think #tune in tomorrow for more /j #alex says shit

[bagheerita]

"Cloverdale" is an episode that I can't decide how I feel about it. It reminds me of SGA's "Home" in how it uses a landscape of unreality to explore and develop characters in a different way, and I really like that concept... I just wish it was about anyone other than Lt Scott, because he's not a character I find interesting.

I do really like the insights that it does give. In casting Eli as Chloe's "brother" it reveals that Scott understands Chloe and Eli's relationship entirely from Chloe's point of view. Which makes me so sad for Eli, that of his (theoretically) 2 closest friends, the complexity of the way he feels about Chloe isn't something he can talk about with either of them.

And while Scott casting Young as he "father" in the dream is not at all surprising, he casts Rush as the justice of the peace, which I think is very interesting. Because while Scott might listen to, respect, and look up to his father figure, he's cast Rush in the role with all the power in his dream scenario, as the "wedding" can't go forward without the justice of the peace's approval and cooperation.

But the whole "wedding" metaphor is insanely heavy handed, like I don't need that much heteronormativity in my fictional blood transfusions thanks, and then they completely drop it an episode later. The refusal to commit to making Scott part alien makes the whole wedding thing worse. You could have just read Donne's "The Flea" and been done with it.

#stargate universe spoilers #eternal stargate rewatch #stargate universe cloverdale #stargate universe #if anyone cared enough about scott as a character i feel like #whole papers could be written about the fact that apparently scott and chloe will be spending their wedding night in his father's bedroom #move over john sheppard matthew scott's daddy issues are WAY bigger than yours

[transmascnepetaleijon]

i have to stop psychoanalyzing my parents NO i have to read every psychoanalysis book in the PLANET and then diagnose them with FREUD DISEASE or something

#biggest hobby of mine is trancing back from which parent a habbit/personality trait i habe came from #its unhealthy its bad for me but its soo funny ill be sitting here thinking about why i cant form a stable emotional connection with my mom #and being like ''maybe its her daddy issues or some shit '' like im her fucking therapist #mother have you considered that your **** ** ***** ** *** is because of the *** ****** ** **** ** ? #txt #enough about this i have a sociology assignment to finish brb

[bleuberrygliscor]

If I see g*nshin imp*ct shit outside of my like, two mutuals I allow through my filters so I can keep up with Ateru, I am reporting it as spam.

#rem rambles #i tag very fucking thoroughly. and tumblr is typically not my issue. #what is are these fucking videos that are ads. #killing and biting you. i am smearing your face on the pavement. #i do not care for your game or the petty ass drama that comes with it. go away. #this is my autistic boyfriend's special intrest. i am oversaturated enough just from him telling me about the new waifu of the week. #sorry if you like gensh*n *mpact. get well soon frfr. #don't take my hate personally. i mean you should have higher standards for yourself but we all have moral lapses. no ones perfect etc. etc #I'm just very pissed that i had to watch ONE (1) video from him to understand a new fucking waifu and now YouTube thinks im a teenager with #mommy's credit card to buy primogems so i can use one of the characters that are TOTALLY not the same thing copy paste. woth the price. #'wowwie this OTHER white man in his late 20's also spent 300$ and never got the Banner eith their pity? oh they just like me for real.' #'im gonna watch EVEN MORE white men in their late 20's pull the slot machine. god i wish my daddy would let me use his credit card again.' #'cant he see how much i NEED the loli zombie on my team! my parents dont understand me like these streamers and youtubers do.😒' #all of you are being flagged as inappropriate content. i am shooting you in the back of the head like you deserve. get out of my feed.

[doublemegative]

tori spring unhinged character bingo

the x on they just like me is smaller bc i am not even 30% as brave as her

#almost checked daddy issues but i felt like the scene where julio tells her to try harder isn’t enough evidence #it felt a little unfair to call out jane but like. yeah #ask #answered #evenstarfalls #unhinged character bingo #my goal is to be as michael holden as possible #which is to say know your worth but be able to handle being lashed out at #and be peppy but only if it’s sincere #love people too hard #be reliable #have a passion that is powerful but not all-consuming #etc etc