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absolutebl · 9 months
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Top 10 Cozy BLs!
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Our Dating Sim made me realize we have a new sub genre of BLs happening right now: the cozy BL. 
I decided to invent/identify/name this new BL category because... I can. I crowd sourced (here in the hellhole) opinions of how to define it and what should go on it. The collective brainstormed and elected the following qualifications: 
low angst 
low stakes 
high domesticity 
a central relationship that is more cute than anything else
extra points for found family
AKA BLs that make you feel happy and comfortable. 
These BLs leave you feeling warm and safe, like a hot water bottle. I will list them in order of my personal preference when in the mood for “cozy.”
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1. Our Dating Sim 
(Korea, Viki) 
Did I create this list for this show? Yes I did. It defines this category. It is a very low stakes, high domesticity, extremely warm and gentle second chance at love office romance. 
This is a fuzzy blanket of a story that perfectly suited KBL’s short-length tendencies. The pacing is... muuuuuah... chef’s kiss. 
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2. Seven Days 
(Japan, grey in 2 parts Seven Days: Monday - Thursday | Seven Days - Friday - Sunday) 
 Popular first year Seiryo has a policy of going out with any girl who asks… for one week. On a lark, third year Yuzuru tests to see if that policy also applies to boys. Seiryo agrees that it does. Along the way they accidentally fall in love. Possibly my favorite BL of all time. It’s very gentle with us and its characters while still having that Japanese emo edge to it. 
A master class in quite yet riveting cinema. 
What, you doubted me? OF COURSE it’s on the list
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3. My School President
(Thailand, YouTube)
GMMTV gave us a classic high school set Thai BL with tropes like messy boys singing their feelings that made this one Love Sick for the modern age with all the gentle sweetness and pining ache, but none of the dated damaging tropes or issues. Yes, we’ve seen it all before, but I still ADORED this, and that’s partly what makes it so comforting. Who let my BL be this wholesome and funny? 
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4. See You After Quarantine?
(Taiwan, Viki) 
Be you never expected lockdown to be comforting? This under appreciated gem is Taiwan’s answer to Gameboys and is just as charming and adorable yet still as quintessentially Taiwanese as one might hope. It features a Japanese love interest and the cutest most confused disaster gay. Slow burn because the two have almost no actual screen time together and yet manage some truly amazing chemistry plus sweetly caring and earnest. Honestly how does Taiwan do it?
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5. Ingredients 
(Thailand, YouTube) 
At the time (during lockdown) many of us referred to this as our “emotional support grocery store advertisement.” If all you want is two soft boys being domestic, cooking together, cuddling on the couch, cat sitting, and babysitting - just put this on and be comfy.
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6. What Did You Eat Yesterday?
(Japan, grey) 
Basically the grown up version of Ingredients. Emotionally repressed, grumpy, salary man shows his hair dresser husband his love by cooking amazing meals. That’s it, that’s the whole show. There some queer fam drama, and blood-fam coming out drama, but mostly is husbands cooking and eating together and it’s great. Is it BL? Not really. Do we care? Not really. 
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7. The New Employee
(Korea, Viki) 
This one is queer comfort, explicitly. If you aren’t queer you might not find it as warm and engaging. A near pitch perfect office BL with conflict derived from that setting. Also featuring found family and a lesbian bestie. Sweet & innocent (and out) Seung Hyun scores the office internship of his dreams. On his first day at work he gets into it with his cool reserved (and also v gay) boss. 
As you do. 
But things get romantic pretty darn quickly. 
As you gay. 
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8. En of Love: Tossera & Future the series
(Thailand, YouTube) 
Tossera = Younger boy wants to court older boy and does and… that’s it. No really that’s the WHOLE STORY. There is actually no angst, drama, or, indeed plot. But are they the softest bois ever to BL as a main couple? Yes, yes they are.
Future is... exactly the same thing. 
Are we mad about it? 
Nope. 
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9. Oxygen 
(Thailand, YouTube) 
Softest seme in the universe sings his affection to the older boy at the cafe. Let the slow burn courting commence. Oxygen uses every BL trope in the playbook for one of the gentlest lowest angst BLs ever made. It’s a hyung romance (younger boy courts older boy) but very very earnest about it. Am I biased? Sure. This is probably one of my biggest comfort watches. 
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10. Our Dining Table 
(Japan, Gaga)
Lonely salaryman and talented cook gets accidentally adopted by a college kid and his little brother. It’s a quiet cozy little parable of found family alleviating loneliness. Possibly too slow for some but definitely high up there for me with the best of what Japan can do (like Restart After Come Back Home), it’s only flaw (if I dare say such a thing) is that it is not really “romantic.” Lovely & sweet but the romance beats are being used to build a family relationship, not just couple intimacy, it’s OK with me, but not totally BL.
For me one of the hallmarks of cozy BL is that as a chronic rewatcher I find myself starting to rewatch these ones even as they are still airing. Oxygen was an icon of this (also my first watch-along and the reason I realized I really had a passion for BL)
Shorts
Summerdaze - Singapore & Korea, YouTube
The 8.2 Second Rule - Japan, YouTube 
A First Love Story - Korea, YouTube 
Some More - Korea, Gaga 
Quite a few other Strongberry offerings.
More like this?
Top 10 Most Romantic BLs for Valentine’s Day
Top 20 Softest Couples in BL
Top 10 Cutest BLs
Fluffy Sweet Soft Thai BL
10 BLs Best Enjoyed with Hot Tea & a Roaring Fire
MOAR RECS?
From the blog comments. If I agree I gave it a description. 
Boys Lockdown (YouTube) - actually on this list because it go so many votes by everyone else, I haven’t watched it. 
My Ride (GaGa) - Thai BL grew up with this pulp - a truly lovely and special little show featuring the extremely rare pairing of sunshine/sunshine AKA a cinnamon roll couple. Mature explorations of relationships using one of the softest, sweetest and most innocent friends to lovers vehicles. Kindly, overworked doctor meets broken-hearted motorcycle taxi driver in an “other side of the tracks” slow burn romance. The support cast is excellent, making for great friendship groups and family dynamics. With honest queer rep that adds to, but doesn’t impede the story, and genuine conversation about the nature of class, wealth, and classism, not to mention communication, honesty, and respect for boundaries, you can’t go wrong with this show. In other news, I am a sucker for a single dimple. Full review.
Takara-kun to Amagi-kun (Viki & Gaga) - yes, high school angst but so sweet about it. Review here.
2 Moons 3 Ambassador (grey) - I love this odd little pulp, it’s oddly satisfying for all it’s awkward cheese-fest. Maybe that is why I like it. Review here.
21 Days Theory (YouTube) 
About Youth (Gaga) - A truly lovely little coming of age high school BL with a classic YA low drama but high angst and an earnest depth. Full review here.
Ai no Kotodama (Gaga) 
Be Loved In House: I Do (Viki) 
Cherry Blossoms After Winter (Viki warning dub con) - it’s here because a lot of people (like me) love it, but there are objections. Review here.
Cherry Magic (Japan, indie subbed) AKA Doutei dato Mahoutsukai ni narerurashii - the sweetest, fluffiest, most charming bit of adorable ever, full of found family and pastry and serious slapstick, the characters are utter spazzes, but so cute about it. Still that aspect makes me a little tense so I don’t find it as cozy as others do.  
Craving You (Viki) 
Destiny Seeker (grey) - see 2 Moons Ambassador 
DNA Says Love You (Gaga) - particularly the last few episodes. 
La Cuisine (GaGa) - sweet and kind of pure show, and like Thai desserts perhaps requires too much patience for a layperson. Because of the pacing and the focus on the bad girl character, I did dock it. But if you like stuff in the Oxygen vein, then this show is for you, and far better than most Thai BL pulps. That said, I suspect that I enjoyed it more than many would. Full review. 
Meet Me Outside (Gaga) 
Meow Ears Up (Gaga) 
Mr. Heart (Viki) 
Mr. Unlucky has no Choice but to Kiss (Viki) 
Nitiman (Thailand YouTube) - This Thai BL pulp had sympathetic characters, a solid tsundere uke redemption arc, and a fantastic pining seme who yearned without bullying, grooming, or gaslighting. Plus when they were together, they were ridiculously soft. But it also had a realistic portrayal of university life, bisexual awakening, and friendship groups. Ending is okay but a victim of lockdown.
Old Fashion Cupcake (Viki) 
Ocean Likes Me (Viki) 
Roommates of 304 (Viki) 
Wish You (Korea - Netflix or Viki, you want the movie version) AKA Wish You: Your Melody in My Heart - low stakes high pining romance about a pianist who falls in love with a busker who is on his way to being the next big idol.
There was quite a lively discussion coming up with this list, since everyone defines cozy differently but I am not alone in my top 10 choices, these mostly got the most votes. 
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absolutebl · 2 years
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Hi there! Me and my friend are looking for a thai BL to watch, but we have no idea where to start. Do you have any recommendations? We both like things that are more fluffy and sweet rather than angsty. Thanks!
Hi hi!! WELCOME!
Fluffy Sweet Soft Thai BL 
Comfort babies! Low angst very gentle BL recommendations list (don’t worry, they won’t hurt you)  
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Oxygen (YouTube) - softest seme in the universe sings his affection to the older boy at the cafe. Let the slow burn courting commence. There is a tiny bit of angst at the end, and one storyline is naff (the doctors) but this is high production Thai softness so I forgive it. There are some who find it too slow and stiff, tho. 
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2gether & Still 2gether (YouTube) - this show is ABSURD. But if you can suspend your disbelief and get through the first few episodes it is delightful to watch Sarawat pine after Tine and the levels to which Tine will go to remain willfully oblivious. Just ridiculous.
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Ingredients (YouTube) - if all you want is two soft boys being domestic, cooking together, cuddling on the couch, cat sitting, and babysitting - just put this on and be comfy. It’s a lockdown project and the ending is amorphous but we all know they will end up together. AKA “the emotion support connivence store advertisement” 
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Love By Chance (YouTube? Viki) - AePete’s meet cute is one of the best ever put on screen! They are just so genuine and soft with each other, its hard not to love them from the first moment. Many of the side couples are... difficult, but you can’t fault the leads. They will remain in your heart a really long time. Now there is some  abusive ex action, but it’s victoriously dealt with by our tiny crass love muffin hero. 
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Love Stage!! (YouTube) - This BL surprised me with its charm. The acting was good, the leads were appealing, support cast on point, and the production values high. It followed the original manga story arc relatively closely: boy falls in love with girl as a child, grows up to discover girl is actually a very pretty boy. Although there are some quintessentially Thai changes that mellowed, softened, and extended the romance arc. One of the things I’ve always appreciated about this story is that the climax is about coming out as a celebrity couple as well as gay. I like the examination of the nature of celebrity versus privacy, and the contrasting kinds of closets. And I love that they depicted two couples with two different versions of this choice. A solid and enjoyable show.
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Nitiman (unknown, but might now be on YT) - This Thai BL pulp had sympathetic characters, a solid tsundere uke redemption arc, and a fantastic pining seme who yearned without bullying, grooming, or gaslighting. Plus when they were together, they were ridiculously soft. But it also had a realistic portrayal of university life, bisexual awakening, and friendship groups. Ending is okay but a victim of lockdown.
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Puppy Honey 1 & 2 (YouTube) - BL sub plot and then BL shared lead. This is the origin of OffGun but they are only a side couple in a het romcom. Unlike PeteKao and the Kiss series, GMMTV has never cut out a BL version because in the first season the two story arcs are inexorably linked. So you gotta watch both, which is a buy in. But I think it's worth it. PickRome are STILL my absolute favorite OffGun pair. Pick is the poster child for tsundere seme (Off’s part in all their series) and Gun the best boy self actualized out gay uke who is not afraid of asking for what he wants. It has some early BL growing pains around chemistry, but no problematic tropes and together they two are oddly soft, in its own way it is a CLASSIC. 
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En of Love: Tossera (YouTube) - younger boy wants to court older boy and does and… that’s it. No really that’s the WHOLE STORY. There is actually no angst, drama, or, indeed plot. But are they the softest bois ever to BL as a main couple? Yes they are.
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My Ride (GaGa) - Thai BL grew up with this pulp - a truly lovely and special little show featuring the extremely rare pairing of sunshine/sunshine AKA a cinnamon roll couple. Mature explorations of relationships using one of the softest, sweetest and most innocent friends to lovers vehicles. Kindly, overworked doctor meets broken-hearted motorcycle taxi driver in an “other side of the tracks” slow burn romance. The support cast is excellent, making for great friendship groups and family dynamics. With honest queer rep that adds to, but doesn’t impede the story, and genuine conversation about the nature of class, wealth, and classism, not to mention communication, honesty, and respect for boundaries, you can’t go wrong with this show. In other news, I am a sucker for a single dimple. Full review.
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La Cuisine (GaGa) - sweet and kind of pure show, and like Thai desserts perhaps requires too much patience for a layperson. Because of the pacing and the focus on the bad girl character, I did dock it. But if you like stuff in the Oxygen vein, then this show is for you, and far better than most Thai BL pulps. That said, I suspect that I enjoyed it more than many would. Full review. 
I have a few more blog lists that might be what you are looking for:
Top 10 Cutest BLs (cheerful upbeat)
Top 10 Most Romantic BLs for Valentine’s Day
GENTLE & Soft BL
But these are mixed country of origin, not just Thai. So you’ll see soem of the same recs but also quite  few from Korea, Vietnam, and Japan. 
list current as of may 2022 
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absolutebl · 2 years
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Top 10 Whipped Boyfriends in Thai BL
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Fighter for Tutor - Why R U? 
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Wat for Tine - 2gether
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Kong for Arthit - SOTUS S 
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Sky for Jao - Secret Crush on You 
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Solo for Gui - Oxygen
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Bbomb for Jin - Nitiman 
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Tee for Fuse - Make it Right 
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King for Ram - My Engineer 
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Gun for Bar - Tossera 
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Forth for Beam - 2 Moons 2 
BONUS 
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AePete for each other - Love By Chance 
This post as of mid 2022, not responsible for the ultra whipped to come after that date, although feel free to leave a comment with your favs. 
After ep 3 I might have to add Takara for Amagi onto this list: 
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absolutebl · 1 year
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Hello ABL! The Future series has peaked my interest since you've been talking about it, but do I need to watch the other Love mechanic installments to understand it?
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Hum.
Yesss....?
I mean, I have watched them all, so it's hard to judge what it would feel like not having watched... so to speak.
Anytime there are groups of friends Future might not make sense.
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HOWEVER, I would say you are totally safe just watching:
The En Of Love: Tossera (main characters will be on screen in Future but played by different actors)
The En of Love: Love Mechanics (main characters will be off screen referenced, so probably not vital, but it's my favorite installment, so watch it for YinWar's amazing chemistry anyway)
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Both these are super short for Thai BL. And if you don't watch at least Tossera you'll find all the extra characters in Future confusing.
But if you just want Fuse & Ana's love story, you'll be fine. The additional characters (and their backstories) don't impact that part of the plot (such as it is) at all. Not so far, anyway.
No need to watch The En of Love: This is Love Story or Love Mechanics (the full series).
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absolutebl · 2 years
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how many en of love / love mechanics shows are there? I thought it was just one thing but there's more? and do I need to watch all of them?
The En of Love: Tossera
The En of Love: Love Mechanics
The En of Love: This is Love Story
You need to watch the first two in that order. The 3rd one isn't worth it. But these are short, only 4 eps each? Something like that.
Then Love Mechanics is a full length ret-con re-treatment of TEoL: Love Mechanics with the same main couple but different rest of cast.
You can watch that as well, if you love YinWar. 
Or you can watch it instead of TEOL, if you’d rather just tuck into one long series. 
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absolutebl · 1 year
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Hii. Can you tell that I'm always camping on your Tumblr 🤣🤣 I'm so sorry but you are becoming like my ultimate informant about anything bl related!!! Anyway
Any bls where the main leads are already an established couple??? I've watched so many bls and I do like them but I want to watch something different than the same thing like 2 guys falling in love.
BLs That Feature an Established Couple
Yes there are quite a few (I am assuming you don't want reunion romances, like Our Dating Sim, or you would have said). There aren't a lot of GOOD ones though. Unless otherwise stated, I wouldn't recommend any of these. So I have put RECOMMENDED next to the few I actually think you might enjoy.
In the mainstay BLs out of Thailand etc... this is usually handed off to a side couple (or a pair established in a previous series):
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Yes, but it's the side couple
Top Secret Together (cafe advice gays = pair is an IRL couple)
My Secret Love (ParkLee)
Ai Long Nhai (dads are played by IRL couple)
Love Stage!!! (Thai version) RECOMMENDED
My Ride (uncles) RECOMMENDED
TonhonChonlatee (AiNhai, connected to the characters of Ai Long Nhai, different actors)
2 Moons 3 (3 side couples previously established in 2 Moons 2, different actors)
The En of Love universe will established a couple in one sequence, like GunBar in Tossera, and then show them together in all subsequent ones like Love Mechanics and Future the series, often played by different actors. - SOMEWHAT RECOMMENDED
DNA Says Love You - HIGHLY RECOMMENDED
My Lascivious Boss - RECOMMENDED
There are a few where they are an established couple (and everyone else knows) they just idiots. I'm thinking about couples like PaperFah in Second Chance, under appreciated little gem of a Thai pulp you might want to try (especially if you are a KP fan).
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They Together, They Just Idiots
Second Chance - RECOMMENDED
Cupid's Last Wish
My Only 12%
Cutie Pie - RECOMMENDED
Puppy Honey 2 (couple established as sides in Puppy Honey)
Friend Forever
I Am Your King
Ingredients - RECOMMENDED
My Secret Love (TimMai crumbs)
Theory of Love
Kimi no Koto Dake Mite Itai
Peach of Time
Where Your Eyes Linger - RECOMMENDED
Because of You (sides)
Plus and Minus - RECOMMENDED
Cupcakes & Him
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BLs That FEATURE Established Couples
Takara & Amagi (sort of, it opens on a confession) HIGHLY RECOMMENDED
What Did You Eat Yesterday? HIGHLY RECOMMENDED (this is probably what you are looking for)
Eternal Yesterday
Jack o'Frost
Takumi-Kun 2-6 (or however many their are, same actors from 2 on)
My Beautiful Man 2 (couple established in My Beautiful Man) - RECOMMENDED
Happy Ending Romance (but the LTR is toxic and doesn't last)
To My Star 2 (couple established in To My Star)
Faded (short) - RECOMMENDED
HIStory Obsessed
Papa & Daddy 1 & 2
Goodbye Mother
Monster in Law
That's My Candy
Close Friend 2 (couples established in Close Friend, same actors)
Dark Blue Kiss (couple established as BL side in Kiss series, same actors) - RECOMMENDED
Don't Say No (couple established in TharnType 2, same actors)
TharnType 2 (couple established in TharnType, same actors, plus new side couple in established relationship)
SOTUS S (couple established in SOTUS) - RECOMMENDED
Together With Me The Next Chapter (couple established in Together With Me)
Reminders (couples sort of established in Love By Chance and Love Sick, same actors)
All the Our Skyys (of course)
Gen Y 2 (main and side couple established in Gen Y, same actors)
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This post dated early 2023, not responsible for updating with BLs that finished their runs AFTER this date. Reunion Romances & Friends w Benefits tropes not included.
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absolutebl · 2 years
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Younger Gay Identifying Elder Gay as MINE
I JUST LOVE IT OKAY!!!!! Favorite trope forever! 
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Minato’s Laundromat 
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Old Fashion Cupcake 
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Guardian 
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Private Lessons 
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Some More 
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Tasty Florida 
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HIStory 2: Crossing the Line 
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HIStory 3: Make Our Days Count 
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HIStory 4: Close to You (yeah yeah bite me) 
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En of Love: Tossera 
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Gen Y 
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2 Moons 2 
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Lovely Writer 
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Manner of Death 
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Oxygen 
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Puppy Honey 
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SOTUS 
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Top Secret Together 
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Until We Meet Again 
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Y-Destiny 
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You’re My Sky 
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Brothers 
AKA my CATNIP 
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absolutebl · 6 months
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Hey! So I'm watching destiny seeker and it's so cute that it makes me want to watch more university bl. The problem is that i think I've already watched most of the known ones. Are there some lesser known uni bl that you'd recommend?
( Off the top of my head, ive atleast checked out sotus, bad buddy, we best love, kiss me again, 2gether, futs (I can't remember if that was high school or uni tbh), semantic error, tharntype, lita, blueming,eighth sense, stay by my side (I don't remember if this was uni or high school either), theory of love, his:2 crossing the line, and be my favorite if that counts. Oh and I've never been able to make it through oxygen)
Exhaustive List of University BLs as of late 2023
This list is by my ranking off the Spreadsheet of Doom. Best (by my standards) first. I treid to pick only those that are set in university and revolved around it as the primary drivers. He's Coming to Me got knocked off, for example, but UWMA stayed on.
Title - Country & Year
MY FAVORITE UNI BLS - WATCH THEM NOW - 10/10
Semantic Error - Korea 2022 Until We Meet Again- Thai 2019 We Best Love - Taiwan 2021
THESE ARE PRETTY GREAT TOO - 9/10
Bad Buddy - Thai 2022 Blueming - Korea 2022 Oxygen the series - Thai 2020 The Eighth Sense - Korea 2023
THESE ARE GOOD BUT TROUBLE ME IN SOME WAY - 8/10
2gether & Still 2gether - Thai 2020 Be My Favorite - Thai 2023 Between Us - Thai 2023 Dark Blue Kiss - Thai 2019 (prequels = Kiss Me Again et al, watch guide here) Destiny Seeker - Thai 2023 Hidden Agenda - Thai 2023 HIStory 2: Right or Wrong - Taiwan 2018 (teacher/student) Love By Chance - Thai 2018 (Mame warning) Love Class - Korea 2022 Love Class Season 2 - Korea 2023 Mr. Unlucky Can Only Kiss AKA Fukou-kun wa Kiss Suru Shikanai! - Japan 2022 SOTUS - Thai 2016 Star in My Mind - Thai 2022 Stay By My Side - Taiwan 2023 TharnType - Thai 2019 Theory of Love - Thai 2019 Why R U? (Korean remake) - Korea 2023 Why R U? - Thai 2020
IT'S FINE 7/10
2 Moons 2 - Thai 2019 2 Moons The Ambassador (2 Moons 3) - Thai 2022 En of Love: Love Mechanics - Thai 2020 Enchanté - Thai 2022 Future the series - Thai 2023 Love in the Air - Thai 2022 (Mame warning) Mr. Heart - Korea 2020 My Engineer - Thai 2020 My Type - Taiwan 2021 Nitiman - Thai 2021 Private Lessons - Korea 2019 (teacher/student) Secret Crush On You - Thai 2022 Silhouette of Your Voice AKA Hidamari ga Kikoeru - Japan 2017 Step For You - Korea 2018
I HAVE CONCERNS OR MEH - 6/10
2 Moons - Thai 2017 Ai Long Nhai - Thai 2022 En of Love: This is Love Story - Thai 2020 En of Love: Tossera - Thai 2020 Friend or Lover - Taiwan 2016 Gen Y - Thai 2021 Love By Chance 2: A Chance at Love - Thai 2020 Love Mechanics - Thai 2022 My Secret Love - Thai 2022 Starstruck- Korea 2023 Together with Me - Thai 2017 Tonhon Chonlatee - Thai 2021 You're My Sky - Thai 2022
WELL IF YOU HAVE NOTHING BETTER TO DO - 5/10
4 Days - Pinoy 2016 Don’t Say No - Thai 2021 Friend or Lover - Taiwan 2021 Gen Y 2 - Thai 2022 Itsuka no Kimi e - Japan 2007 Like Love 1 AKA I Love You As A Man: Part 1 - China 2014 With Love - Thai 2019
YOU MAY REGRET YOUR LIFE CHOICES
4/10 Fish Upon the Sky - Thai 2021 Nabang Spark - Korea 2011 Our Days - Thai 2022 Pastsenger - Thai 2023
3/10 Coming Out AKA Kamingu Auto - Japan 2014 Melody of Our Love AKA Bokura no Ai no Kanade - Japan 2008 Our Memory - Taiwan 2020 Reminders - Thai 2019 The Cupid Coach - Thai 2021 Together with Me the Next Chapter - Thai 2018
2/10 From Here to There - HK 2012 The Effect - Thai 2019
1/10 A Round Trip to Love - China 2016
Here's an older post I did:
Slightly more recent:
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absolutebl · 2 years
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Hello ABL,
I always enjoy your Trope lists. They are like BL Bingo to me. I count out how many of the shows I've seen, how many I've heard of and sometimes I find some new ones as well. Thank you for the archiving.
Lap sitting (sexual/nonsexual) is one of my favourite tropes. Do you have a list for it? If not, it should be made. What do you think?
Hello darling!
Yes I do, I mocked it up originally for @heretherebedork since it is one of their favorites too!
Here you go:
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Top 10 Softest Couples in Thai BL
This one is a bit of a judgement call on what is meant by “soft.” So I’m going to specify that there needs to be physical gentleness and tender gestures of protection and consolation, as well as a certain amount of domesticity for them to make my list. The couple can’t also have a cat/mouse dynamic or dub-con start (TharnType, I’m glaring at you). Also it needs to go both ways, so if one half of the couple is super stand-offish, they didn’t make the list. 
Brothers - side couple KhunKaow only 
The En of Love: Tossera 
Friend Forever - SeaTin mostly 
Ingredients the series 
Love By Chance - AePete only 
Lovely Writer 
Oxygen - SoloGui only 
Top Secret Together - definitely BothNewyear, probably CopyNampu too 
Until We Meet Again - DeanPharm mainly 
Why R You? - SaifahZon only 
Softest Couples Outside of Thailand
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Be Love In House: I Do (Taiwan) - both couples 
HIStory 3: Trapped (Taiwan) - side couple JackZhao mostly
HIStory 4: Close to You (Taiwan) - LichengMuren only
Papa & Daddy (Taiwan) 
My Day the Series (Pinoy) 
While Korea & Japan put a lot of cute couples on the screen, their lack of physical affection and almost total absence of non-romantic touch means I don’t tend to qualify their couples as particularly soft, for all they can get domestic. 
Honorable Mention
The magical combination of softest + toughest deadly peanuts and my personal favorites from Long Time No See: 
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More like this?
Top 10 Cinnamon Roll Seme Characters in BL 
Top 10 Uke Cinnamon Roll Characters in BL
Gay Domesticity 
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romance in the kitchen
just a setting I always love seeing in BL 
Usually it’s the uke who’s the chef (nash) but I have a particular fondness when it’s the seme. 
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Outside Thailand... 
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Also, I gotta say, To My Star = best kitchen design in BL? I think so. 
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absolutebl · 3 years
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Sex-positive* BL Couples
Sib & Gene - Lovely Writer (Thailand) 
Gun & Bar - The En of Love: Tossera (Thailand) 
Sun & Sky - Golden Blood (Thailand) 
Khun & Kaow - Brothers the series, side couple (Thailand)
Damian & Jerry - Papa & Daddy (Taiwan)
Yu Zhen & Shi Lei - Be Loved in House: I Do (Taiwan) 
Ootani & Tachibana - Ai no Kotodama (Japan) 
Ace & Sky - My Day the series (Pinoy)
Pat & Pran - Bad Buddy (Thai) 
Sean & White - Not Me (Thai) 
* For me “sex positivity” means the relationship starts (if depicted starting) with communication and consent. Also the actors need to be good at portraying physical chemistry which means that both characters, seme/uke or not, express an interest in sex with each other. There's no outright reluctance, cringing, blushing maiden, or dubious consent. 
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I have questions, but they probably still qualify
Mark & Kit - Gen Y the series (Thailand)
Tan & Bun - Manner of Death (Thailand)
Yi Jie & Sheng Zhe - History 2: Right or Wrong (Taiwan)
Muren & Licheng - History 4: Close to You (Taiwan), remarkable for actually talking about sex, positions, lube, condoms, and seeking advice from other gays
Min Soo & Seok Yi - Just Friends? (Korea)
Wild Dog & Flying Dagger - Long Time No See (Korea)
Cairo & Gavreel - Gameboys (Pinoy)
There are some couples that we can predict got there, (Cherry Magic, Seven Days, Most Peaceful Place) but the narrative didn’t ever really show it.
thank you for the inspiration @iblanc who also said that James & Ait from Call it What You Want (Thailand) qualify, but I haven’t watched that one all the way through.
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Visual trope du jour 
Cute boys in glasses from Thai BL. 
Bonus the sun glasses contingent: 
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Our King 
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Bonus from Vietnamese BL (Hey Rival, I Love You) 
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And Japan (Stage of Love) 
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Tropes that are seme/uke loyal
So because of this ask from a while back I got intersted in exploring visual tropes that when executed in a BL tend to always favor either the seme or the uke. 
Filming seme/uke
So BL visual markers of seme/uke are pretty country dependent. And sometimes setting or narrative dependent. For example when Korea features older characters they often don't bother with seme/uke and seem to have a they-just-gay approach (To My Star, Wish You) but when Korea goes to high school (Mr Heart, Light On Me) they lean into seme/uke usually with cuteness and height differences.
That said there are traits of seme/uke that come directly from yaoi and any country that produced BL may play with them:  
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The uke = cute/small/slight/sweet, the seme = handsome/tall/bulkier/more reserved. Here’s me talking about a few of these and their repercussions: 
Extreme height difference
Blushing maiden/virginal innocent trope (issues with sex negativity and seme/uke)
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In BL there’s other stuff that’s done to do with profession, setting, and appearance to emphasis seme/uke: 
the props that character is given to hold or depicted with (little yellow backpack anyone? pink milk?) can signal seme or uke 
the location of a character’s safe space (kitchen, library, reading/studying in bedroom for uke, physical outdoor or sporting activity for seme) 
aggression or lack thereof (body positioning & posture)
skin color (ukes = more pale) as well as hair & makeup and sometimes wardrobe, for example uke characters are often shown with more pigmented & glossier lips
All of this is to visually trigger “masculinity” for the seme and “femininity” for the uke. (I talk about how all this stems from heterosexual dysmorphia in this post, so I’m not going to queer critique this here, I’m just intersted in tropes this time around.) 
One of the best markers we have for who is acting the part of seme or uke in a BL is bifurcated visual tropes. So while plenty of BL tropes are shared equally (like meeting on a bridge or feeding each other which the seme can do to the uke, or uke to seme) there are some tropes that strongly favor a seme/uke dynamic. 
For example USUALLY:
crash into me (the uke is the clumsy one and the seme catches him)
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wound tending (seme is the injured one unless the uke is VERY tsundere or very clumsy) but for illness tending (the uke is the sick one)
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the seme has his head in the uke’s lap but the uke puts his head on the seme’s shoulder 
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seme forehead kisses uke but uke cheek kisses seme
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uke is the messy eater 
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seme drinks from the water bottle (and takes his shirt off) 
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seme hair tousles uke and also dries his boy’s hair (seme’s are bag fans of hair touching and forehead kissing - they like the head area, so to speak) 
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seme does the looming (especially against walls) and head cradling while hugging 
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seme threatens to sexually “punish” the uke 
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Semes are mostly going to enact paternalistic gestures of affection onto ukes. Until We Meet Again is pretty classic in all executions of seme/uke tropes for the main couple DeamPharm.  
When a couple is very relationship soft with each other, these tropes get switched around or modified, as if the tropes themselves have become verse, see: Oxygen, The En of Love: Tossera, Ingredients, Be Loved In House. It might be argued that the couple is more likely to also be verse under those circumstances (see FighterTutor in Why R U?) but I hesitate to draw the correlation because personally does not equal sexual position/preference.
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Oxygen is particularly soft because while Solo is clearly the seme and the aggressor in the relationship, he is younger than Gui and so gentle and shy that they trade tropes all the time. Mutual care is a big one for these two, so is asking for permission. Both the visual elements and the story narrative emphasize Solo’s near constant non-verbal need for consent and it’s done though trope manipulation - it’s really clever and beautiful. Tossera does this too. And Be Loved In House. The more equal the couple in aggression, the more likely these tropes are to be shared between the two, or swapped from the norm. 
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BL couples where there is no Seme/uke
An example where these tropes are being used to entirely subvert seme/uke and relay to the audience that there actually is NONE AT ALL, is Bad Buddy particularly in episode 7. 
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What are some bls with like domestic theme like ingredients or stupid boy stupid love, you know, soft no angst and also fluffy.
Hum, well here's Top 10 BLs set primarily in the home and here's a bunch of tiny gay families, but if you mean primarily family and domesticity, with plot built around that, which I would call Ingredients. More like setting up house together? Then...
Domestic AF BLs
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Ingredients (Thailand)
Still 2gether (Thailand - 2nd season)
TharnType 2 (Thailand - 2nd season)
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HIStory 2: Right or Wrong (Taiwan)
Papa & Daddy (Taiwan - amorphous ending)
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Monster in Law AKA Mẹ Chồn Dâu Cáo (Vietnam - amorphous ending)
Nation's Brother (Vietnam)
Most Peaceful Place (Vietnam)
Tien Bromance EXTRA (Vietnam - very odd)
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Like In The Movies AKA Gaya Sa Pelikula (Pinoy)
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What Did You Eat Yesterday? AKA Kinou Nani Tabeta? (Japan)
His the movie (Japan)
Ai no Kotodama (Japan)
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BLs With Strong Domesticity Components
Generally due to cohabitation and caring/feeding.
To My Star (Korea)
Nobleman Ryu's Wedding (Korea)
Be Loved In House: I Do (Taiwan)
HIStory 3: Trapped (Taiwan)
En of Love: Tossera (Thailand)
My Ride (Thailand)
Friend Forever (Thailand)
Present Perfect (Thailand/Japan)
Restart After Come Back Home (Japan)
Does the Flower Bloom? (Japan)
Shape of Happiness series (Japan)
Mr. CEO is Falling in Love with Him (China - bromance)
Addicted Heroin (China - censored mid series)
Word of Honor (China - bromance)
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Top 10 most epic LTP in BL (long term pining)
We Best Love (Gao Shi De): since childhood 
Love By Chance 2 (Hin): since childhood 
Tonhon Chonlatee (Chon): since childhood 
Manner of Death (Tan): for 8 years 
Cherry Magic (Kurosawa): for 7 years
TharnType 2 (Doc): for 7 years 
My Gear & Your Gown (Pai): since high school 
2gether (Sarawat): since high school
2Moons (Wayo): since high school 
Love O2O (K.O.): since that online gaming debacle
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New Additions 
Lovely Writer (Nibsub): since childhood 
HIStory 4: Close To You (YongJie): since childhood
Word of Honor (Ke Xing): since childhood 
Cutie Pie (Lian): since childhood 
Dear Doctor, I'm Coming for Soul (reaper): since (sort of) childhood 
Cherry Blossoms After Winter (TaeSung): since childhood 
Enchanté (Aek): since childhood 
You're My Sky (Thom): since childhood 
En of Love: Tossera (Gun): since childhood 
Old Fashion Cupcake (Togawa); since he was hired 
Minato’s Laundromat (Shin); 10 years, since childhood 
Most epic of all?
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Until We Meet Again (Dean): For 30+ years and 2 lifetimes 
WAIT
I take it back. 
Most epic?
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Guardian (Ye Zun): 10,000 years! 
Boys. 
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