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artinvain · 2 days

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ₓ˚. ୭ ˚○◦˚.˚◦○˚ ୧ .˚ₓpretty “girls” make graves ₓ˚. ୭ ˚○◦˚.˚◦○˚

#me mine #lesbian #stoner lesbian #im really pretty btw #the face card MY GOD THE FACE CARD #black femme lesbian

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princessefemmelesbian · 3 months

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Not to be rude but a lot of white lesbians on here will see an attractive white(and especially if they're skinny, conventionally attractive, cis, and feminine) woman and go "omg she's so pretty and gorgeous and elegant, gosh, why are women so beautiful! I want her to hold me and hug me and kiss me!" but the second you see an attractive non-white woman(especially if they are fat, trans, dark-skinned, or butch, but lbr y'all do this to femmes of color as well due to how masculinized we are), suddenly y'all's brains short-circuit and you don't know how to complement us without depriving us of our humanity because you still internalized the idea that woc are wild impure animals and so out comes the "omg I want her to step on me and choke me and slap me across the face and make me her slave!!!" and y'all think it's okay because you're making yourself "subservient" to us but really all you're doing is reinforcing harmful stereotypes of woc as more aggressive, sexual, violent, inhumane, and less feminine, sweet, loving, and/or gentle than white women, and you guys think it's a compliment but it's really fucking not and I'm here to tell you that being a lesbian doesn't invalidate your white privilege if you talk about and fetishize lesbian woc this way. 😡

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thisismisogynoir · 1 year

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Sometimes I think back to when I first realized I was a lesbian and how all the blossoms in my stomach bloomed and the petals flew around everywhere and I feel giddy and happy. And I feel the petals flying in my stomach all over again. It’s such a wonderful feeling.

#lesbian #sometimes i reread the comphet masterdoc just to remember that i'm a lesbian whenever i'm feeling distressed #and i feel at peace #positivity #femme lesbian #black lesbian #black femme lesbian #lesbian positivity

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violottie · 2 months

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omg i lost all all fellow black lesbian blogs i was following before tumblr bopped violettfae into the ether

if youre a black lesbian, please do something to this post !!!! we gotta know we're out here too !!!

🖤🤎❤️🧡🤍🩷💖

#lesbian #lesbian pride #black lesbian #black lesbian pride #black femme lesbian #black butch #stud #stud lesbian #black dyke #lesbian community #lesbian joy #aro lesbian #ace lesbian #aroace lesbian

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ellsss · 4 months

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personal post:

okay so like, i'm about to get super personal on here in terms of like dating, and romance so if you don't like those topics just scroll along.

but tbh, im just painfully sad and i feel really hopeless. i have only really had real, honest feelings for one person in my life and i saw a future with her and she said she wasn't ready to commit her time to a relationship.

it hurts so much because she was so perfect and i had a lot of respect for her, and she was amazing for communicating her feelings and being honest with me.

to top it off, i haven't been in a relationship my whole life, or kissed anyone, guys haven't found me attractive, and still don't which shouldn't matter as a lesbian, but unfortunately, because of social conditioning, as a woman i care about it so much.

and to make things worse, i thought sapphic women would be way more accepting and better than men, but it turns out their standards are just like men's. the fatphobia, the superficiality, and the pure racism just makes it worse.

as a black woman, whose bigger than the conventional standard of attractiveness, and as a femme black woman, i am masculinised by both white and black men, white women and white sapphic women/afab people. it feels like black women are always pushed out of femininity, especially by white counterparts.

because of the fact that i have been single my whole life AND the issues in both heterosexual and sapphic spaces, i just don't feel loveable, pretty, sexy or feminine enough, and my loneliness and low self esteem have just been amplified because of it.

it makes me want to cry because i so badly want to be perceived as feminine and sexy as i feel sometimes on the inside and it just feels like it may never be the case. despite the fact i am a cis woman, i do experience a level of gender dysphoria because i feel as though i'm constantly not perceived to be feminine enough for both men and sapphic women and afab people.

i have felt this way for a really long time and i've never really known how to put it into words until now tbh. i guess i wish i felt confident enough to do and be who i feel i am on the inside, and i wish people saw the femme side in me that i see in myself...

it's got to the point in terms of dating where i have people blocked and i've unfollowed, not because they are bad people but because they are so beautiful and everyone sees their femininity and most if not all are in an ideal relationship with my ideal dynamic (if you know me you know that soft butch/masc/studs are my typeee, unfortunately for most of them i've had experiences where they don't see me the same way).

it's almost really emotionally triggering for me, because it just continually amplifies my feelings of loneliness and undesirability in regards to how others have felt about me my whole life, and how i feel about myself. i want to be able to see that stuff and not be affected, but fuck, its so hard..

anyways, thats my rant i guess, if you got to the end, thank you💕💕

#ellsss' rambles #personal post #do not reblog #sapphic yearning #tw fatphobia #tw racism #feeling alone #yeah... just want a gf/partner already tbh #being a black woman #black sapphic #black femme lesbian

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black-femme-goddess · 8 months

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Where are the tall (5’9 and up) studs at???

#lesbian #wlw #black wlw #black girl magic #black lgbt #femme for stud #fem for stud #femme4stud #fem4stud #black femme lesbian #single black lesbian #black lesbian

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i-love-sufjan-stevens · 7 months

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Photos of Black Lesbians in The Past

Because if we have a past, we'll sure as hell have a future

#lesbian #sapphic #wlw #wlw love #femme #butch #black women #black #queer #black queer #qpoc #black tumblr #queer poc #black lesbian

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the-sappho-of-lesbos · 23 days

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Source: butch/femme; Inside Lesbian Gender - editor Sally R. Munt , photo editor Cherry Smyth

#lesbian history #lesbian fashion #butch femme #butch #femme #butch lesbian #femme lesbian #black lesbian positivity #lesbian positivity #black lesbian history #lgbt #image #lesbian #personal

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farmerlesbian · 1 year

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Boot Black Bike, 2020 Suzanne M. Shifflett Website | Portfolio | Instagram | @smshifflett

#art #boot blacking #leather #leatherdyke #motorcycles #lgbtq+#lesbian #queer #queer artist #butch femme #butch #femme #dykes on bikes #smshifflett #sm shifflett #suzanne shifflett

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sigmahimejoshi · 4 months

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Femme sub with acrylics who cant finger themselves with their nails on but they're lucky to have such a sweet butch who'll finger the femme and make them cum harder than if they do it themselves, so they make sure to always wear nails so their butch can be the one to finger them!

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princessefemmelesbian · 6 months

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Anyway normalize Black women and girls being cute, bubbly, girly, innocent, wearing pastels/Lolita/cottagecore/other girly styles, being soft and vulnerable, being into cute/childish things like stuffed animals and dolls, and other stuff that people tell Black women that we're "not allowed/able" to be or else we're "acting white". Destroy the idea that Black women can only be loud, sassy, aggressive, masculine, or overly sexual. Ik everybody else has said this but idfc it needs repeating. Let us be whatever the hell we want to be. 💖

#black femme lesbian #idk i'm lazy #op #misogynoir #tw flashing lights

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thisismisogynoir · 1 day

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If i may hope into your inbox rq to rant,i think there's a special kind of masculinazation queer black women go through specifically.There's this weird thing white cis wlw have where they automatically assume 'black women with a queer gender/orientation=masculine presentation' even if the bw in question is blatantly femme(remember the tomboy Megan Thee Stallion allegations💀)and it's highkey insane how they can't wrap their heads around the fact that black women can be girlypops and softgirls as much as any other queer women and i can only imagine how much worse it is for femme black trans women

Like for me i'm bigender and genderfluid along with being bi so i understand why people would assume i want to be masc on first meeting but a quick look at my blog or talking with me will make it very obvious i'm a dude but not the slightest bit masculine and that's absolutely influenced by my black womanhood but white woman fragility makes the idea of unlearning misogynoir 'scary'🙄Ntm my white trans girl friends have been way more normal about me and guys like me than cis girls so that adds to my opinion that transfem and black woman friendships are almost inherent and the overlap between transmisogyny and misogynoir.They think it's 'allyship' but the thing is almost no black woman ever asks to be masculineized

All of this is so true!!!

And then there's the fact that whenever you see Black wlw rep in media, they are almost always butch/stud or on the androgynous/masculine side, and while that does deserve rep, you hardly see femme Black wlw nearly as much, especially when they're paired with a non-Black or lighter-skinned Black girl who will almost always be the femme to their butch, it feels like Black wlw almost never get to be the feminine one.

A lot of white wlw I've seen tend to assume that Black wlw must be masculine, often so that they can be the more feminine one and it's unfair. Plus I feel like Black femme lesbians in particular face a DOUBLE form of femme invisibility that other femmes do not, because while femmes in general are read as straight or seen as having straight-passing privilege(which we do not), Black femmes often face both where we are assumed to be straight feminine girls or we are seen as not being "lesbian" enough because we're femme when Black lesbians must be studs. And it's unfair. And also I wish there was a term specifically for Black femme lesbians the way Black masc lesbians have stud, that was common and widespread, but I also just know that if a term like that did exist, then it would just be co-opted by non-Black femmes anyway, just like non-Black mascs try to do with stud.

I feel too that my femmeness is def influenced by my Black womanhood as well so I see where you're coming from. And I also agree that Black girls and trans girls(esp Black trans girls) should be friends because our oppression, although not identical, has a lot in common on the grounds that we are both denied womanhood by the white gender binarist society.

I wish this was a thing people talked about more, a lot of people act like femmes don't have any unique problems or that we are privileged for being straight-"passing" or having "so much representation" in media, when that is not the case and especially ignores the reality of being a femme of color, especially a Black femme who has to fight to be allowed to embrace her femininity and not be seen as man-lite due to white supremacy. I feel like only other femmes and butch lesbians care about our struggles but that the wider non-lesbian/non-wlw society doesn't? Especially with a lot of lgbt men/male-aligned people saying that the lgbt community has a "fear of/aversion to" masculinity which is complete bullshit(unless you're referring to butch/masc/stud women of course). But we need to start having this conversation! So thank you for bringing it to my attention!

#black women #misogynoir #lesbian #black femininity #black girls #black female representation #black lesbian #lesbophobianoir #masculinization of black women #femme invisibility #black femme lesbian

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dawuukie · 1 month

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love a black fem today love a black fem tomorrow LOVE A BLACK FEM FOREVER