also sore loser is literally a descriptive term . if you call someone sore and they proceed to rage or be mad, then . ... :/// dude (point here is, your actions you take in regards of situations or things- can be controlled after your initial emotional reaction. that's entirely up to you. you can do impulsive things and stuff, but impulsivity can also be relied on your self discipline to be controlled) /// coming from another person with ADHD
(i mean, yes of course some can't help it sometimes, and learning is well , learning. the way i put my ADHD is just like , well i have this thing that causes me some problems so to deal with those problems -- sucky attention span, impulsivity, unable to read social cues etc etc.
i learn the solutions to dealing with em to lessen the damage it can do. attention span sucky? learn what makes me pay attention longer and apply it as much as I could.
impulsivity? pick a few dates of a month to indulge in my impulsivity, but otherwise, keep it as mellow as possible and if i really can't help it, indulge a little.
unable to read social cues? just ask for their intentions, basically. and if they refuse, then ask someone else or just go ehhh h h h oh well.
ofc, not like everyone experiences and deals with ADHD the same, but I'm just saying, that, personal opinion at least: ADHD is manageable and ones emotional reaction may not be controlled, but how they display it or their actions after can be controlled).
-curry. (i do apologize if i offended anyone. i don't have any intentions to be ableist or offensive, and I'm sorry if my words made it seem so.)
NO WORRIES I FEEL U SM CURRY!!! like ofc like. i know in particular when i was young i was ANGRY and acted on such feelings because i didnt know any other way to manage those emotions. but we’re talking bout grown ppl here. managing emotions and not letting them affect your actions is just. something everyone learns over time, that we all gotta do n figure out so we dont hurt people around us. its Basic and something conventional. Obviously there’s exceptions when we ARENT in control of ourselves, but rsd isnt one of those exceptions.
theres ways to manage things, emotions, and technically speaking other methods of communication skills that we can fill in when we miss some (i learned to read body language lmao) jus like u said with Asking. n like management n coping aint Always easy or entirely attainable. but thats no reasoning to act poorly, to treat others badly or Act in potentially harmful ways.
its no free pass.
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not to bring ur day back to dumb twitter shit but I have ADHD and autism and I have TERRIBLE rsd, it's a huge problem and it makes it so hard to play games with friends. but also. I dont lash out because of it, I dont get pissy on twitter, etc. obviously nd people can't control symptoms and it's very hard to control emotions, but we're always in control of our behavior. so yes. it's fine to call dream a sore loser. cause he is. and implying he's completely out of control of his own actions is stupid af.
yooo fuck ya thankyou anon. like my own rsd is Weird cuz a whole lot of reasons so im always like. idk When its a thing or What feelings fit in there or not. but i DO know, even when i would feel horrible at the slightest ‘i cant hang out today’ in highschool, or any such. i dont blow up. like control over emotions and what sets u off is HARD. but i dont jus let myself take that out on ppl???????
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