#because you're fragile

[freakwiththeknifecollection]

The sick feeling you get in your stomach as an undiagnosed/closeted autistic hearing friends/loved ones make fun of or talk about "what's wrong with" the openly autistic people you know

#sometimes I think about telling certain people and then I'm reminded why I shouldn't <3 #em rambles #autism #autistic #actually autistic #autistic things #ableism #even the people who do know are still iffy sometimes like you may think 'I usually don't get along with autistic people' is a compliment bu #it just makes me uncomfortable lmao #idk it's just like. yeah I don't 'seem' autistic with great intentionality around certain people because they've shown #me how unsafe it is lmao #I just hate that people think you're just quirky and different until you put the autistic label on it then there's something WRONG with you #or say you couldn't be autistic because there's nothing WRONG with you you're not THAT bad you're not LIKE THAT #I mean like. ideally I would like me telling people to expand people's ideas of what an autistic person looks/acts like but the sad reality #is that it'll just end in either disbelief or bullying #most likely #you know in ratatouille when remi thinks humans aren't so bad and then his dad shows him that shop with the dead rats and rat poison and #traps and the next morning remi tries walking down the street and people scream and throw stuff at him and call rats disgusting creatures #and he says 'I was reminded how fragile it all was' #that's the vibe as a closeted autistic lmao #you find people who accept you and think maybe it's not that dangerous. maybe it'd be okay #and then other people remind you why you mask in the first place #my autism is the rat hiding inside my hat

[sevicia]

I never know what to do when my sister sends me older sibling guilt related posts because what do I say. What am I supposed to say? You fucked me up already and there's just nothing you can do to take it back, that's not how it works. How many times do I have to forgive you? I hope the guilt stays with you forever.

#diary #and I love you. I follow you because I love you; I let you choose because I love you; I can't tell you how badly you hurt me #because I know you're fragile. and I love you.

[zexonyte]

yeah i made him a fish lookin thang whatcha gonna do about it

#mother series #giegue #earthbound beginnings #yeah im proud of this so im putting it on tumblr too. hiii mother times server how yall doing #ignore that he doesnt have a back leg i tried but it looked kinda weird and cramped #anyways i gave giegue gill things and a more fish-esque appearance because i hc his species is aquatic #like they come from an oceanic? aquatic? unsure. well its a planet that is almost entirely water im talkin subnautica levels of sea #that's why he had that capsule orb thing in mother 1. he needs it to live and the weird engine-esque things at his side are like purifiers #making sure the liquid is suitable. not too focused on much else (why bother when you're a super powerful psychic) but isn't exactly fragil #like the material is flexible and rubbery even. you hit it and it bounces back a good amount #we don't really get an explanation for why earth itself was chosen to get invaded. at least i don't remember if there was one sorry 😭 BUT #i hc also that the reason giegue's species decided to invade here specifically was because of territory. i mean we've got a lot of water #maybe they took george and maria to test humanity in a sense. if they reacted positively to an alien child mayybe they wouldnt have needed #to straight up eradicate humanity maybe this time we wont need to fight too much. would be inconvenient to waste firepower on these #simple creatures. they're not even that smart. can't even use our epic brain powers lol (aged real well) #once again they aint found him yet but when they do they gon be surprised #anyways its like 4 in the morning i cant keep doing this. thanks for reading my brainworms over a game ive never played 🤙

[daemonicdorset]

Do you ever just

#I've talked about the subject of this image before #but it's not going to stop me from talking about it again. #Because god FORBID we draw women anything other than size zero hourglass figure flawless skin delicate little nose right? #God forbid we draw characters who are buff as men the same way as women. #Because women fragile!!! Women dainty!!!! She can be holding weights and/or food but that's IT. She can't have MUSCLES wdym??????? #Everyone knows that all women (or AFAB people in general) have metabolisms faster than Usain fucking Bolt. We all know that. #Yeah we can give her pants and a smaller chest. BUT you have to trade it for her shirt showing off her Tiny Womanely Physique. #We can give her pants BUT she has to have a belt to show her Itty Bitty Little (Small) Femaile Waist. #How else are we going to know she's a girl?????????? #(sarcasm) #I'm aware that it's just fanart. But how you interpret the details of a character that are very cut-and-dry in canon does say things. #If you take a larger (even relatively for the media) character and slim them down it SAYS things about you. #Honestly. I don't know how I manage to forget how fandoms can be until I'm reminded by things like this. #Anyways. As I said before. If you're afraid to draw buff women and you make them stick-thin instead you're a coward. #daedor sundry

[chemdisaster]

think we need to bring back "if you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all". because like, as much as that saying gets used by stuffy older relatives to shut up anyone who has an issue with anything they do, and as much as it's healthy to complain sometimes, i personally prefer to always try to find something positive about any given thing, and i've found that i'm happier for it. complaining is fun and all, but the way that people will go out of their way to nitpick every little detail, the way that they'll end up repeating all the same old things day in day out just sucks all the joy out of everything. like okay, we get it, you hate this thing - have you considered shutting up about it any time soon? or maybe instead of harping on about how much you hate it, go, "huh, i don't like this, but it's great that different people find joy in different things". it's not hard. or ask yourself if you do hate it at all, and are not just shitting on it over and over in an attempt to feel something in your pathetic, boring, miserable life.

#this is about all the people whining about decked out and martyn's lore and desert duo angst #AND. again. stop calling every angsty desert duo depiction you see abusive #stop fucking misusing the word abuse #i don't care if you can't handle a fic where the characters' emotions are any more complex than a fucking cup of water #stop accusing authors of mistagging fics just because you're oh so sensitive and fragile #stop calling every relationship you see abusive #the word abuse is not your fucking buzzword to make people agree with you #it has real meaning beyond just 'relationship bad relationship hurty' #so shut the fuck up about abuse #prattledisaster

[traumacatholic]

Something that I would strongly recommend, for anyone that is able. Is that if you're interested in any topics surrounding mental health issues, sexual violence, disability, housing issues, or anything like that is to actually turn to real life examples in your area. Look up news articles, look for real people talking about their experiences. If your area is too small, then expand that search out a bit. But always look at how people are actually impacted in your area.

Something that is often pointed out in the UK during mental health awareness campaigns is that the biggest issue impacting a lot of people isn't necessarily awareness of the existence of mental health struggles, it's accessibility and waiting times for resources. Resources that might just straight up not exist in some areas causing them to be redirected to a service in another area which means bigger waiting times.

Spend some time looking at resources in your area, look up waiting times that someone might experience if they're pursuing a diagnosis or trying to find accommodation. Look at the price tag of accessing some resources. Look to charities from the perspective of being a vulnerable person seeking their support, and see how often a simple bullet point can be the make or break between them being a resource you can use or not.

Even medical professionals I've spoken with on a purely personal level have been shocked by the barriers I've experienced when trying to access resources. And I think more people need to be confronted by these things. I think more people need to be confronted with how a lot of resources are purely theoretical and inaccessible for the person in need of them.

#Also this isn't to say you shouldn't still direct people to these resources #Or that you shouldn't support resources #Some resources would be able to operate much better if they had more volunteers or financial backing #But we should be confronted with how isolated and vulnerable people can be #I think if you're interested in these topics you should be able to actually name resources in your area and be familiar on some level with #Because when you're in a position of helping someone you are often the one that has to look up resources for them and filter them #because incredibly vulnerable and fragile people are often in a position where they can't

[hearts-hunger]

if i had all the time in the world i would write a vampire danny fic and it would be about the two of you building a life together and him loving you more even as you get older and he stays the same

#and the soundtrack would be ''if we were vampires'' but the noah kahan cover #idk there's SOMETHING about a vampire lover who sees something beautiful in their mortal partner's fragility and temporality #and something especially about a beautiful immortal man loving his wife more deeply the older she gets #NOT in a milfy way :( but like in a ''you're the woman i love and your face shows wisdom and all the years of joy we've spent together'' #and ''there is something so intrinsically beautiful about seeing how the years have loved you and made you worn and grey and gentle'' #because what is love if it does not love more deeply after having abided with you for years and years!!!! #idk i am so mentally ill abt this rn <3 #maddie.txt

[angrybatart]

Something I'm working on. First time drawing Antiquarian fanart. Technically second as there was another drawing before this, but it's not as good as this panel. 💜 Tried to refrain from posting until the comic is finished, but she just looks so good!!!

Stay tuned for the final product.

#fanart #sketch #sneak peek #Darkest Dungeon #DD Antiquarian #Josephine #used to hate this class tbh #still kinda do because of how fragile they are defense-wise #but man do they pack a punch with that Nervous Stab #best to put them in parties that have a Houndmaster or Man-at-Arms #or Highwayman if you're daring enough #supposed to be a lip ring on her mouth but I may have not drawn it right

[momentsofamberclarity]

"they're just pixels on a screen" when i see a picture of a cute puppy i do not think "oh cute pixels", i think "oh cute puppy"

those "pixels" are depictions of children being raped, they are depictions of siblings dating, they are depictions of serious fucking crimes portrayed positively.

stay away from kids, if you told someone who has never been in any fandom you liked fanfiction where kids are raped they would want to stay the fuck away from you

Is it really that hard for you to accept that there are people who aren't proshippers for the sake of porn? Because if you can't grasp that from me quite literally telling you last night that I am a sex repulsed ace, you are proving exactly what's wrong with the anti community; the assumption that fans can't consume fictional content for non-sexual reasons and/or believing that proshippers condone what they consume in fiction in real life.

Fiction is fantasy for a reason. So if you ship all of your ships sexually and purely for the sake of reading smut about them or seeing sexy pics of them, that is a you problem, not a me problem.

#ambers.ask #proship safe #paraphile safe #anti censorship #anti harassment #I also told you I that I fully support people engaging with content as they see fit #which means I respectfully support your right to block me if you think I'm dangerous. which I've already stated. #but here you are still harassing me for some reason. #like I've targeted *you* and not the other way around. #you're not protecting anyone but your own fragile ego because you're not getting the reaction you want from me. #you came to me on anon saying 'proshippers send death threats too!!' and I'm telling you if you blocked me right now #I'd fully support you and I'd never even think of you again because you're anonymous. lmao #you can't hate me nearly as much as I don't care because you're literally anonymous and I'm the one posting on my own blog.

[icewindandboringhorror]

Some recent pressed leaves and stuff to add to the collection :0

#LOV giant nasturtium leaves #and they press weirdly thin like when they dry out it's almost like a super super fragile sheet of tracing paper or something #I also just really enjoy collecting textures and patterns and stuff. like it's not really about them looking pretty but more just #something notable. like the cool dotted pattern or the stripey veiny looking one #I have so much I want to get done by the end of the year but have been so unproductive still lol ToT #I've had new costumes and like Actual Stuff To Post for probably 2 months now but they just sit in a folder and I forget about #them and like walk in circles talking to myself all day instead or something hhh #I think it's the classic cycle of like 'I am too stressed to be productive > the fact that i'm not being productive stresses me out > i am #even more stressed and no more productive > being unproductive stresses me out > so on and so forth forever' lol #or the 'I have so many goals in life and so much motivation and so many things I love and want to do > there are too many things to do #at once and it's overwhelming > do none of them instead' cycle lol #I think my main focuses in the new year though are to finally finish the worldbuilding slideshow. Do more costumes. And do more sculptures #since I haven't done a lot of those in a while. And still work on my games and short stories and stuff that takes place in my worldbuilding #world but those are more difficult longterm tasks so I think they should be like. not the MAIN main focus or else I'll never feel like I do #anything. I think that was the problem for the past while is that the things I had delegated as my Main Focuses That Go Above All Else #are so long and difficult and tedious that you never feel like you're making progress so it's like you're ignoring all the other stuff you #could be doing in favor of a thing that feels like you're not doing anything thus you get a chronic feeling of never finishing anything ever #Whereas like. I can do a sculpture in a day or two. and I can do costumes in a day or less. Having a steadier flow of Small Things i can fee #l like I'm actually accomplishing will maybe help it not just be like 'okay I spent a whole day doing somehting and have nothing tangible to #show for it because it's just text in a word document that probably nothing will ever even come of because it will take me years to finish' #The biggest insurmountable task at the moment is the worldbuilding slideshow but I am chugging through.. slowly lol.. It takes me about #2 hours to read 25 slides (they're not bullet points it's like little paragraphs on each slide). and I have about 800 to go. so thats.. #naur.. i shant even calculate it... plus editing one hour of vidoe usually takes about 2 hours so you double it. if I have that much recordi #ng of me reading slides to edit. then turning them all into a final video should take.... i cannot say. i shall not think of it #And I've just had a very stressful few weeks HOWEVER I just always like tp start the new year with stuff cleared like.. all of my messages I #haven't answered in 3+ weeks responded to. all of my emails to my doctors checked. house cleaned and organized. photos cleared and organized #off of the computer. everyting backed up in some sort of physical storage. clear out drafts. rewrite all of my main todo lists. decide prio #rities and yearly/monthly/weekly goals. consider the trajectory of my life and what I need to do. etc. etc. So I feel like I don't have any #time to waste and can't rest. yet.. alas.. It doesn't help that I feel sick out of nowehre like 50% of the time #I know some poeple can work/focus on tasks with body aches and etc. but my brain is just always like 'No. :)' .. grrrbb

[dmumt]

driving is so fun apart from the horrors (parking)

#second day in a row i’ve had to drive my sister to the post office because her car has a flat #and the car park there is so teensy tiny and it’s full these days because everyone is doing all their post xmas returns and whatnot #bear in mind that my car is also teensy tiny i have a micra this shouldn't be a problem for me 😭 but the fear is never-ending #it's the same feeling i get when im in a very narrow shop that sells lots of fragile (and expensive) trinkets 😭 does anyone else get this #pls say yes. idk just that feeling of not being able to move because if you're even slightly uncontrolled you'll end up breaking everything #and then feeling claustrophobic because of it .. i think this is just anxiety but it ruins my life i would go out a lot more but #the thought of having to park in a place that isn't just my drive or a friend's drive gives me hives . anyway i did it today pls be proud ! #.txt

[awlumii]

can't help but think about how cyno and xiao both handle you like you're made of the most fragile glass, so precious and destined to fall apart at their touch

#[ 🗣— chit chat! ] #just... #it might be annoying because you're not that fragile #but neither of them want to mess up

[xserpx]

Here I am finishing Heartstopper with all its joy and acceptance and love, meanwhile my Mum talks about needing a new umbrella because she doesn't want to use the rainbow coloured one we have. It's not even a gay pride rainbow, Mum, oh my god.

#she has always been homophobic but fucking hell #yes mum because your qanon conspiracy friends will TOTALLY think you're siding with the groomers if you take an umbrella along #smh smh #the fragility is insane #it's so fucking sad

[noisyspirits]

           ❝  — But flowers DO have meanings.  ❞  

The agronomy midterm Leah and Jill are supposed to be studying for is in two hours. Things are going pretty well. They’re staying very much on topic and making a lot of progress.

♰. ░ @donutcryforme​. 」

#You might have asked for this a long time ago or it may have just been a random idea I put in my drafts. #Either way I never posted it but am suddenly in the mood to play Jill Seagram so. Posting. #⌞ 𝘭𝘪𝘭𝘺 𝘱𝘢𝘥 ╱ 𝘤𝘢𝘤𝘵𝘶𝘴 —— SEAGRAM & THOMAS. ⌝ #I guarantee you the reason I didn't post this is because I was trying to come up with a better tag for them. #I think the idea was that #Leah is very guarded and defensive but she stands very strong and grows flowers and can be nourishing if you're patient and tactful with her #While Jill is very inviting and almost courts you to try to stand on her but she's ultimately unreliable. Her leaves are flaky and fragile. #Could have gotten more creative than that though. There's a lot you can do with two hippie botanists with wildly different demeanors. #I don't remember any other ideas I had for them though.

[iwantyoursexmp3]

this post really is the blueprint for RR felix vs lover boy felix 

#literally RR felix is like an annoying piece of shit at first because he thinks hes got his life under control #and then he realises he doesnt and hes like omg everything is falling apart nothing matters let me get hedonistic and silly with it #then hes like wait no i want my life to be okay i want to be a good person :( #ASTRONIMIC crisis over that because he thinks hes gone past a line #(so much of RR thematically is feeling like you're a 'lost cause' bc of childhood trauma hehe) #and then lover boy felix is like oh i made positive progress with myself #but its just made me feel fragile because i feel like i have more to lose #mfs with trauma will finally reach a sense of peace in their life and its the opposite of peace because it makes them so scared #but its still funny because RR felix is like doing cocaine in the bathtub on a wednesday afternoon #lover boy felix works at a kindergarten and is probably well hydrated #i dont think he realises how much progress he's made and when he does that's when he gets scared #especially because now hes more intentionally unpacking his trauma which is a lot #but like instead of fucking people and fighting people and breaking into houses to cope he like gets a caramel frappe and has a cry #LMAO #because he's like one wrong move and ill go back to how i was and ruin everything (which he does almost do exactly that BUT) #he will return to being messy at some point though....gotta have him falter which will scare him so much #also has a mild gender crisis between all of this too #that's my infodump on tumblr of the day so many thoughts in my head that i cant do anything with #thats really cool dallon have you been evaluated for autism #lover boy is like the normal spongebob of my wips because its tragic and emotional #but the characters dont feel like theyre basically or literally fighting for their lives every day LOL #it's refreshing i cant lie

[vyragosa]

i keep calling quiet fragile by accident and i feel like im cheating on both of them and i feel so bad how do i apologize to the women in my tv.

#no because you do know that fragile's design was apparently leaked by quiet's actress #and she was supposed to play her or sm and didn't? #like this is hilarious what you're saying here anon #you live in the alternate timeline where she does play both quiet and fragile it seems #no need to apologize to women #anonymous