#because IT IS ruining lives and careers

[tamelee]

Happy 3/7day 🥰~! 'One day we'll look back on all these memories and smile about it'

Process + detail:

#my art #sasunaru #sns #sasuke x naruto #sasunaru day #sasunaru fanart #I'll post this for now since it's a special day~ #but I'm seriously going to think about this whole art posting... #regarding ai and all #I mentioned it briefly before #but ai literally ruined the 2 biggest projects I was asked to work on #and another that I was going to work on #I had another opportunity here where I was going to get paid #for drawings somewhat regularly #but instead the offer changed to paying for my art #only to be trained for ai #so that didn't happen either #I shall not complain too much #I'm just amazed at the careless way some talk about it #because IT IS ruining lives and careers #ai IS already very advanced #:((

[sciderman]

How do you feel about the increase in really weird NSFW ads on here (advertising panels that look like sexual encounters, and AI art apps that pride themselves on porn) but will take down NSFW posts from their users, even if it isn't technically sexual.

i hate all social media and it's consistent prioritising the advertisers over the users and the internet simply was a better place before capitalism sunk its hooks into it

#i could write essays about how capitalism ruined the internet. #i was actually talking to someone earlier today about how youtube was kind of effectively ruined by monetisation. #and they were raised in the soviet union and we had a bit of a talk about how art was better because it wasn't for profit. #the people who made art made it because they wanted to do it and because they loved it. #she said that communism was terrible for every aspect of life for her. people's lives under communism wasn't pretty. #but the art was better. and i feel like it's true for the internet – it was better when it was a free-for-all. #the companies didn't know how to exploit it yet and turn it into a neverending profit-driven hellscape. #people created content because they wanted to. because they wanted to make something silly to make people laugh. #not for profit. not for gain. not for numbers. not to further their career. #i miss the days of newgrounds and youtube before monetisation. #capitalism has soiled everything that's joyful and good in this world. #people should be able to share whatever they want. #people should be able to tell any story they want without the fear of being silenced by advertisers. #that's what made the internet so beautiful before. anyone could do anything and we all had equal footing. #but now we're victims of the algorithm. and it makes me sick. #i'm quitting my job in social media. i'm quitting it. it makes me too depressed. i have an existential crisis every freaking day. #every day i wake up and say "ah. this is the fucking hell we live in #i'm so sorry i feel so passionate about this. #social media is a black hole and it is actively destroying humanity. forget ai. social media is what's doing it. #i miss how beautiful the internet used to be. it should've been a tool for good. but it's corrupt and evil now. #sci speaks

[violentdelightsandviolentends]

I physically shake with rage every time that I see j*s verstappen on my tv screen

I don’t even have the words to describe my hatred for that man

#I really can’t stand him #like severely #he’s going to ruin his own sons career because he’s got a big ass mouth #stop living life through your son and get your own #it makes me furious #how max has such a big heart is an absolute wonder #murph talks f1 #max verstappen #mv1 #formula one #formula 1 #f1 #mv33

[lesbiansanemi]

I am so fucking sick of living with my roommate and his fuck ass boyfriend. Also watching my roommate burn every single one of his (already rather minimal, I might add) bridges for this guy is also kind of painful but also his relationship with me is one of said bridges so I'm almost past the point of even feeling bad for him lmao

#i have had to piss for probably the better part of an hour now #because they decided to take a shower together and have been in there for well OVER an hour now #and this is a nightly occurence atp sometimes MULTIPLE times a day #we have one bathroom.... can yall not be considerate enough to not be in there for up to TWO HOURS AT A TIME??? #also it's such a waste of fucking water.... #idk we've hit a point where i literally hear the bf doing anything and i get pissed off #but also tell me why i'm sitting in my room (which shares a wall with the bathroom) and i can hear this man hacking and spitting shit up #and this is also something that happens multiple times a day #like.... dude.... why are you spitting up toothpaste so fucking loudly oh my fucking god #but yeah no i'm like my roommate's only friend atp and he's about to not have me lmao like we're about to reach #'i'm cutting you off when i move out' levels of me being pissed off with this whole situation type shit #and apparently the bf convinced him to come out to his family which his mom was chill which is good #his dad's side of the family though....? not great. and my roommate KNEW that would be the case cuz we'd talked about it before #also love that my roommate has constantly talked about moving out of the city we live in because he hates and also there's no good career #opportunities for him here (which is true) #and now. MAGICALLY. he's like 'idk i think it'd be best for me to stay here' #like oh my GOD???? are you hearing yourself???? are you fucking stupid???? you fucking hate it here??? #but sure throw your life away and ruin all your meaningful relationships for a guy you met six months ago jfc #and the thing is i *know* my roommate we've been close CLOSE friends for nearly a decade now #i know he is not like this.... like yeah he's being insane by allowing this but also i know these aren't the kinds of decisions he would ma #and also i know he wouldn't treat me like this all on his own #it's the deranged fucking control freak of a guy he decided to date and my roommate has too many of his own issues to put his foot down #about certain things and tell the guy no so he's just allowing him to completely take over his life #and fuck everything up until the bf is the only thing he has left once it's all said and done #and yeah. it's painful to watch. but also wtf am i supposed to do because obviously my opinion is not respected nor wanted regarding this #that has been made PAINFULLY clear #ugh this is so fucking horrendous #what is it with ppl who start to date someone and then go clinically fucking insane and destroy their lives all for this one person #who. realistically. they barely know in comparison to all the other ppl in their life #like explain it to me jfc

[bobzora]

it's always funny to me when people misunderstand akechi's main/only motivation/plan to be like. just killing his father because dude if that Was his plan everyone would be in a much better position. like everyone would be way better off. Instead,

#bobtalk #p5 spoilers #very very common misunderstanding. however *insert engine room scene here* #like that would be the typical way of going about things yes. and very probably way way easier also. however. when is he ever typical #the plan is so so so so so so so so so so so so stupid. and has so much collateral damage. it's all very tragic you know. lol. #akc voice im going to bring him to the peak of his career and reveal that im his son! he couldnt do any of this without me!! #ill ruin him forever!! #shido voice cant wait to have him killed <-knew he was his son from the beginning because he looks just like his mother. #it was utterly doomed from the very start. he killed all those people and ruined all those lives for a whole lot of nothing(tm) #akc voice i am in control here. i am in control of this. i've one over on him. <-does he know (he does not know) #akc voice look at me!! look at me!! no look away!! i cant stand you!! look at me!! #like hm. yeah you made this plan when you were 15 or so didn't you. #i think about him like an unordinary amount. if you were curious. i have lots of thoughts about this guy. #a lot of them. a lot a lot of them. hope this helps

[tricksterlatte]

The Online Fandom 7 Deadly Sins

sloth: complaining about how no one writes the tropes or pairings you like and bashing what's already out there, while refusing to create anything you desire yourself

greed: zine and other finance-related scandals with zero remorse for those negatively affected

gluttony: spending rent money on merch, experiencing buyer's remorse, then repeating the same process next month

wrath: anon hate over literally everything under the sun, even harassing official writers and threatening them if they don't make your ship canon

pride: devaluing other's characterizations and ships to praise yours as better, whether through a canon perspective or a moral perspective, when neither matter in the long run when it comes to your own enjoyment

envy: trash talking others' fandom creations or saying you won't bother creating anything because it'll never be as good as them

lust: fighting over who tops or bottoms because of your personal preferences when one, both, or neither could happen, especially when most of these characters never even kiss canonically nor have most people fighting done any of these things irl themselves

#parker says things #i'm not exempt I've definitely done a few of the things listed #especially pride and envy god those really go hand in hand and it's sad #but seriously...guys does any of this matter in the long run #just have fun #if someone is having fun in a way that clashes with your own type of enjoyment just hit da bricks! #that guy's got horns! well not gonna ruin my day! #live like Yusuke guys #i've been afk because I'm dealing with some intense depression but fandom has actively hurt more than helped me #and I know plenty of ppl myself included think discussion of meta is enjoyable but I think things reach a point where it's only stewing #the inherent focus on adhering to a singular strict perspective is toxic to ourselves in the long run #have fun! be self indulgent #almost everything posted is gonna be ooc to some people even if it's 100 percent accurate to others #and just in general idk I think we should focus on fandom as a sense of fun instead of a marketing ploy #most of us are not here to make fanart or writing a career #I'm not really a community person and I've learned that the hard way over a decade and more #but i just hope people will find what sparks joy and enjoy themselves again #I don't think I'll be active in fandoms much anymore as I focus more on my personal life and recover from some things #but I wish everyone much love and hope for the best for people #even if we've had some bad interactions I do not wish ill upon anyone #i got off topic but these tags are just me saying I'll stick to lurking publicly and replying to my DMs and writing in private #will still post some things to my AO3!! maybe #anyways tag yourself I'm a recovering glutton/envy

[julielilac]

If you still believe that Poi/Poy is a victim and not an abuser, watch these two excerpts from a 43 minute voice record: https://twitter.com/__yakibbb/status/1621503393167720450 https://twitter.com/__yakibbb/status/1621504866773536769

You can listen the full voice record here: https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=735491641248430,

And read translation of the voice record here: https://www.facebook.com/khunthao2557/posts/pfbid036kWc3E9WAFY6Sz1EKpq3ytoGuAdoLdfiDRS84EJRSh2E3qVwiKvjaeDUeQYdQnPsl

This is just part of the evidence against her, go to twitter if you want to know more.

UPD. Full translation of the voice record:

https://twitter.com/B_I_A_H_bbb/status/1621639983353192449?s=20&t=8yV3DsdzCZv8UFoxx7PA3Q

#build jakapan #my soul hurts and my heart is broken into a million pieces #he was abused manipulated and gaslighted by her for months #he thought giving her everything he had would stop her #but she decided to ruin his career and life in society #just because he rejected her obsessive feelings for him #men can be abused too and I'm so sorry that happened to him #I hope he gets justice and that horrible woman ends up behind bars #I'm horrified that everyone was so quick to believe her fake evidence she took from Pinterest #but when it came to the REAL evidence which shows who the real victim is (Build) everyone for some reason decided to be deaf and blind #if you still support her because she's a woman or whatever excuse you use to hide that you just hate Build #that doesn't change the fact that you support the abuser and you don't care about the victim #I hope none of you have to go through the Hell that he went through and still lives in

[britneyshakespeare]

james somerton is just one of those people who wants to do whatever he wants and cannot stand the consequences of their own actions, which they willingly chose to do. entitled and self-absorbed motherfuckers. and that's the only way you can think to do the things he's done in the first place. having no base respect for the people you steal from and your audience, of course you think you can somehow do something to win them back. you can't. no one but an egomaniac would do what he's done in the first place, and only an egomaniac would think they can come back from that and still deserve to be praised and respected and have your cozy career like you did before you were exposed for what you've done. people like this cannot be worked with in the public eye.

#as a human i dont wish for his life to be ruined but as a 'professional' creator he absolutely does not deserve a career #he only had it because of theft. theft which he did because he felt he was owed riches and privilege that the ppl who stole from #apparently did not. #theft and lies! and his lies are another can of worms entirely #monstrous venomous worms #text post #he just needs to go away and his personal problems need to only affect himself and the ppl around him. #the online lgbtq/cultural commentary community should have nothing to do with him. #he's done nothing for anybody else in the digital space. he NEEDS. to LEAVE #nobody here should ever have to think about him again. as a human being w a drop of compassion. #bc he was never really in community with anybody in fact he's actively been hostile to the idea that he's not on an island #where he makes the most important and best queer content. #let him be a lesson and close the book on him #he should genuinely be banned from all platforms so he never has access to steal from or manipulate anyone ever again. #he should NOT BE A PUBLIC PROBLEM ANYMORE. #the only way he can exist in public after all he's done is as a menace. and that's his and his doing only. so goodbye james. go away #you learn how to live with those thoughts by yourself. it's not *our* issue

[cresneta]

Wheeler is about to find out why you don't threaten the life of a yandere's love interest spy's trainer when the yandere spy is still around

#spy x family #spy x family manga spoilers #spy x family spoilers #sxf spoilers #spoilers #spy x family speculation #chapter 83 #Winston Wheeler #nightfall #this might be a bad take #she gonna end his career one way or another #or maybe it's just a hot take #I'm only half joking when i call Nightfall a yandere #Nightfall wants to ruin the lives of the nurses who admire Twilight at the hospital but doesn't because it might hurt his mission #Nightfall needs more character development so I cam stop wondering if she has crossed the line into yandere turf or not #mole arc

[newt-and-salamander]

Okay, so. I said I would use this blog for more personal purposes as well and yesterday I stopped myself from complaining on here about how Amazon Prime doesn't let me watch almost anything in the original language and instead I have to endure the annoying German dubbing all of the time. [Disclaimer: I hate Amazon anyway but at the same time I'm a hypocrite because my parents let me use their account so I can watch movies so yeah won't complain about that.] But I didn't want to start on here with bad vibes, so I was very brave and kept my mouth shut.

So INSTEAD, I will start this off today with screaming because TODAY WAS THE BEST DAY I HAD IN A VERY VERY LONG TIME and I have already told every single one of my friends but I want to tell more people SO THIS IS WHAT HAPPENED:

I have this professor I absolutely admire because she's super kind and funny and a really good teacher and I'm super interested in her research topics, and she writes essays one can actually read and understand. If that isn't clear I adore her, but I also have a lot of respect because she is so smart. She's kind of my celebrity crush. So today, out of the blue I got a mail from her. She said she remembered my bachelor thesis which I wrote 1.5 years ago and there was this job as a student assistant at her new research project and if I was interested. Then she asked if I was interested in doing a PhD on that topic and if yes that I could base my master thesis on that new research procet if I wanted her as my supervisor.

And I don't even know what to think because this is so PERFECT and unreal and ... do things like this really happen? Of course, I wrote back and said yes to everything because I had wanted her as my supervisor anyway and had wanted to ask her about a PhD for ages but I couldn't quite muster the courage. I'm a bit afraid to be so elated because things can always go wrong some way. But I've known her for over 4 years now and at least I know she's a very fair person so I can't find it in me to mistrust the situation.

So yeiiii! :)

#don't expect this to become a diary #I think most of my non FB posts will be more like 'there is a robin at my bird feeder' or 'I hate the sounds my washing mashine makes' #I'm a simple person #except today today i'm a very happy person #don't tell my i don't really want a research career because it's not payed well and I will spend my live sitting around in archives #and ruining my eyes and get contracts that never last more than a year #I'm still at the point where I find all of this romantic #does this make me a pessimist or an optimist? #personal post

[princeanxious]

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#hi yes i cant be the only young adult that has no fucking clue what to do with their life right? #not even playing the ‘haha same’ card rn but genuinely actually no idea what interests me ‘career-wise’ #‘i’m just worried about you. what to you want to do with your life?’ LIKE #FUCK I DONT KNOW I STILL GENUINELY NEVER EXPECTED GETTING THIS FAR #i dont like *anything* specifically enough to want to base a whole life on it. #i dont. *love* things #outside of art anyway. and we already know art aint a viable career in america unless u grind like hell- #-and let me tell u i do not love life enough to grind like hell just to live off the biggest thing that gives me joy #because then it would stop giving me joy #like once upon a time i thought i might do good as a baker and now that i know i cant eat gluten most food is ruined for me #i hate food and making food. eating is a chore and i do not enjoy it. i gave up baking. #like. there are more examples but every avenue i’ve tried to take that i like has failed me in a way that sucks all the joy out of it #having a career feels meaningless to me. going back to college just feels like a pointless and indebting endeavor. #am i just depressed? is my brain just still way off base chemically? #it’s pissing me off and stressing me out honestly. #luka vents #delete later

[woundedheartwithin]

Y’all ever just get randomly fucked up about Sugiura and Okubo and how Shono completely fucking destroyed their lives?

#yakuza #judgment #judgment spoilers #spoilers #sugiura fumiya #okubo shinpei #shono yoji #I was listening to poison by my city my secret and just fucking BOOM #I’m emo about Emi and her boys like #damn #and like he also high key destroyed Yagami too #and Kaito and Higashi as well #like Kuroiwa didn’t kill Emi but all of this was set in motion by Shono #so ostensibly Shono is ALSO responsible for Matsugane’s death #and like Yagami’s career and confidence #too #like one piece of shit ruined so many fucking lives and for what? #a drug that doesn’t fucking work #and god the fucking poetic justice of him being killed by his own fruitless effort in front of the people he ruined #and I’m not absolving Kuroiwa he was actually fucking worse because he was just a goddamn psychopath #but shono man wtf #fuck that guy #judgment is so fucking good y’all #and I have FEELINGS today #I hope so fucking much that Kimura leaves his agency so that a third game can happen #like without all the drama #and let there be karaoke

[cinnamontoads]

man

#i fucking hate my college i hate the town i hate being here i hate all the people here #everyone who goes here is fucking mean and unwilling to make friends so im never going to make any friends it’s been like two years #and when you don’t have friends to room with you cant get an apartment and you arent allowed to live off campus so im #never fucking getting an apartment and will have to live alone in a dorm where i just sit and cry every day after class because im so lonely #no wonder so many people who go here kill themselves #👍 #vent #personal #and the only reason i go here is ebcause my parents forced me to go to college even when i begged to take a gap year because #covid fucking ruined my mental and physical health and they refused so im twice as miserable as i would have been #and i didnt want to pick a school so i just picked this one because i also grew up here and ive fucking hated living here this entire time #i dont know what to do #and i was going to transfer this semester but now i’m in the film program and it’s a top film tv school in the country so i feel like #id be making a worse choice career wise if i were to transfer but im so miserable im so fucking miserable man i cant do it anymore

[woomycritiques543]

Reposting this for everyone in the back that’s still prioritizing fandom mentality instead of doing their research:

-again, I have nothing to hide, and the thread slandering Erin Frost by claiming that she’s a “TERF!” without even knowing what it means, I posted as much receipts as I could so they would have a harder time getting away with slander, so all of the info I posted is in the thread if you scroll past what Jayman said and the receipts are there if you click on each of the comments I put below, the receipts are there if you need them for either legal reasons or just to create a post.

Thank you.

Here are the tags. This is all I have energy to do, and how Jayman has treated me has caused harm towards my health far more than the imagination can see.

Please help protect these people, their families, and their homes. They need their jobs, and slandering freelance artists the way Nico, Jayman and Ignis Morgana is doing to people is going to do far more harm than just “Not watching a cartoon!”

These people are being slandered, their lives, potentially ruined! Please speak out and spread the word about Jayman’s behavior as much as you can! These people are saying that Erin’s husband “DOES NOT EXIST!” just because she doesnt like how the trans community is being treated. This is literal slander! PLEASE HELP!

#helluva boss #hazbin hotel #helluva boss critical #this isnt about Helluva Boss just using this to archive what happened. #post archive #just to make this easier to read #please actually see what Erin said #because it is NOTHING like what Jayman is trying #to manipulate you into #the full post is actually nothing like the snippets they posted. #please dont feed into this kind of behavior #THE CARTOON ISNT THE ONLY THING THAT MATTERS! OTHER PEOPLE STILL DESERVE TO BE TREATED HUMANELY! SLANDER IS INHUMANE! #Research is just so important especially a time- #Where people are trying to ruin these people’s careers. They’re trying to slander them to #ruin their career. at their lives! please do something! #anything! even just a post or a share will help. PLEASE PROTECT THE EX SPINDLEHORSE ARTISTS #They need somewhere to live they need to be able to afford food. Slander solves NOTHING!

[gideonisms]

I don't hate it when girls die I just hate it when they don't come back after

#gideon! get back here this instant!! #in other news. i made a 108 on my final for my summer class. i don't think that was the curve even. i think that was someone else's curve #she went with the second highest grade for the last 2 exams. because the highest was mine and it ruined things for everyone else #anyway. i am celebrating the end of the class by! a) getting drunk. this wine tastes bad! and b) watching a korean romance show called. hm. #something about a first love or life. #i love to watch hapless career women go through a series of improbable circumstances and find love. when i am drunk #will she ever have a boyfriend?? she is 30??? will she stand up to her shitty boss? and most importantly! #will she find a good place to live #what i like about kdrama romances is that they understand. cheap safe housing is the most important romantic gift you could give a girl #for a rent of 300 a month i would marry him too

[inthelittlegenny]

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#i'm so lost in the dream situation rn #tbh i've not been invested in dsmp for a bit; as you can tell from the influx of fire emblem on my blog (so i've only just heard abt this) #but apparently dream was grooming someone? or multiple people idk #all my dash are just people leaving the fandom #apart from the victims who i feel sorry for.. i just feel bad for george #that guy moved countries to live with dream and built his career with him #and this will 100% affect him. though he'll probably continue to live with dream and sap but still #anyway... definitely lost respect for dream for the (at minimum) flirting and likely grooming #no matter if it's proven fake or real; this is kinda career ruining #i hate people lmao #i'm used to jumping ship though; my past fandoms have basically just been this #yogscast then achievement hunter now dsmp #i'm crying lmao why are people so dumb (@creators not victims) #anyway i'll hold off anything drastic until there's a conclusion because i'm confused #just wanted to ramble a bit i guess #genny rambles