#adhd!brian

[my-autism-adhd-blog]

Walking through why I can't just DO the THING

NeuroWild

#autism #adhd #taking care of things #you are not lazy if you can’t do the thing #you have an AuDHD Brian #neurodivergence #neurodiversity #actually neurodivergent #feel free to share/reblog #NeuroWild (Facebook)

[chawliekin]

and if I said that dennis’ insistence on being the breadwinner/provider despite literally being a pampered princess who dgaf about traditional roles of masculinity in every other regard (aside from ego) is because his mom only stayed with/chose frank for his wealth and dennis is highly aware that he’s difficult to love and unable to show his emotions openly so he has to be contributing something to the relationship materially in order to feel like he’s worth staying for… and mac grew up with parents who were extremely ambivalent to him and eachother so he has to overcompensate by proving his worth at every given moment and seeking praise/validation from people (and religious icons) who will never demonstrate the same amount of dedication to him but he has no idea how else to desperately keep himself close to those he loves other than by eroding himself into something they’ll approve of… dear god they’re both exactly what the other needs — someone who can’t and won’t leave them even if they try — and they don’t even see it…

#dennis thinks he’s losing his edge and mac thinks he’s perfect anyway #mac feels like no one in his life has ever needed him enough to stay but dennis can’t stay away #IM ILLLLLL about these men from the world’s stupidest sitcom #sorry if this got a little freudian I don’t LITERALLY mean it in the sense that mac/dennis are seeking something that reminds them of their #parents (gross) (although pretty character accurate to the SINNED system) #but rather that our childhoods teach us what we should expect and look out for in life #and it never really leaves us #this all stemmed from me contemplating MADMTTS and how it would’ve made way more sense for mac (high energy adhd) to be out in the world #and dennis (bpd anger issues) to be indoors free from the triggers of the world #but they INSISTED on mac being housewife dennis being breadwinner #same as their little battle over supposed roles/dynamics as hugh honey/vic vinegar/brian lefevre etc #you are two queer men why on earth do you care about sticking to heterosexual gender roles #but it was never about the gender roles it was about what they self-assign their value to… #mac and dennis #mac mcdonald #dennis reynolds #iasip #it’s always sunny in philadelphia #its always sunny #macdennis #macden

[cranberryculprit]

Mable hanets anyeon

#marble hornets #slenderverse #alex kralie #brian thomas #tim wright #jay merrick #Fun fact I would post more if I cared less about the quality of the art #But because I care too much I end up doing nothing in fear of it not being good enough in my eyes #And my adhd doesn't help #So to retaliate here are some silly doodles! I hope you guys enjoy the silliness as much as I do #Also #Skully #And fat cat kralie

[hamletthedane]

Me: okay brain, I’m really gonna need you to focus. This is a big deal and we have to SIT STILL and PAY ATTENTION today.

My last four brain cells:

#shut up e #adhd #Why yes that is #queen #Brian May trying to take off into orbit 🤝 my hyperactivity brain cell getting the zoomies again

[emiko-matsui]

does riz bite everything because he's a goblin or cause he has adhd

#dimension 20 fantasy high #dimension 20 #fantasy high #d20 #riz gukgak #brian murphy #fantasy high sophomore year #fhsy #adhd #d20 fh #d20 fhsy

[kanditvofficial]

Me: *watching entry 84 of marble hornets bc I'm interested in animating it at some point* :3

Brian: *appears*

Me, instincively:

#guys i tink i have a problem #marble hornets #brian thomas #I REALLY DO WANNA ANIMATE THIS ENTRY BUT MY ADHD TAKES OVER SO BAD WHEN I SEE BRIAN I JUST EXPLODE /POS #idk if i lll be able to function if i try animating it but i really wanna #😭😭😭

[waystarresourceco]

Alan Ruck doing the most for the neurodivergent Connor club/discussing Connor having ADHD and his dynamic in the family. (x)

Bonus discussion of further neurodivergence under the cut.

I think it's questionable how much Brian understands about either of these (ASD and ADHD), but Alan seems pretty strongly on the "Connor has ADHD" train. (x)

First excerpt from an interview with Alan Ruck for Vulture - Nov. 22, 2021

Second Excerpt from an interview with Alan Ruck for Vulture - June 1, 2023

#I tend to fall on the “connor probably has ADHD” side of things #genuinely not sure Brian knows autism and delusions are not the same thing... #alan ruck #connor roy #hbo succession #cast interviews #succession

[vimbry]

this poor person who's on the radar rn fighting for their life in the replies about the characters they drew actually being firefighters because a bunch of people saw a vaguely similar uniform and came in like "umm, acab ://"

#starting to think some of you don't actually care about things and like spouting slogans to look good.. #I actually searched up kitsuragi and columbo on some of these users' blogs and you'll never guess who I found on there #someone said ''I hope these pigs get shot'' LMAO I mean. yes I despise the police but that is a drawing. those are not real policemen #also they're firefighters #reminds me of when someone ranted about being glad brian died because he's a transphobic piece of shit #yeah those jokes from family guy are awful and enable viewers' very real perceptions of trans people but brian the dog is not real #I didn't know who those characters are but you know I. looked things up first. I'm sorry I know that sounds really superior but #you have Got to get into the habit of 5 second research before you start blowing up at people #admittedly I clicked on it bc I'd assumed like ''is this astronaut rpf or something??'' #saying this as someone w/ adhd who misreads stuff so easily and downloaded a spell/grammar checker because of it #and like. failed parts of modules because I missed chunks of instructions. you have to try a Little.

[tiredkirisimp]

I would just like to say I have been in the monster prom fandom for a year and a half so for all of you getting into it now bc of ranboo i have seniority.

(Also i’m very happy there are more fans bc this is something i’m very passionate about and have had brainrot of it for as long as i’ve known about it but if you’re on my page please do not associate it with ranboo or the dsmp. i enjoy ranboo except i don’t like the dsmp or when things i’m passionate about or hyperfixate on are linked to it by other people.)

#i’m gonna gatekeep #if you associate this with the dsmp i will cry #adhd #monster prom #damien lavey #scott howl #liam de lioncourt #miranda vanderbilt #polly geist #vera oberlin #milo belladonna #vicky monster prom #brian monster prom #its the neurodivergency #oz monster prom #amira monster prom #monster camp

[newwwwusername]

Hey! I had seen your Breakfast Club fanfics on ao3, and they are great! I was hoping you could do one with a BenderxBrian pair

Ship: BenderxBrian

Headcanons: ADHD!Bender , Autistic!Brian

Prompt: Bender is very self conscious about having ADHD, not wanting anyone to find out about it. When Brian innocently asks a question regarding neurodivergency, Bender gets really mad. Brian tells Bender he’s autistic, and he helps Brian not feel so alone with his ADHD.

Warning : The r-word is used multiple times out of dialogue but from the perspective of an ableist, abusive parent so just keep that in mind Chronology : Post-canon Pairing : Brian/Bender Headcanons : Bender has ADHD, Autistic!Brian, they have math class together, Bender's dad is ableist (although that's hardly a headcanon cause there's no way in hell that man would be NOT ableist) Author's note : I use the term "Asperger's" here because it's more accurate to what Brian probably would've been diagnosed with given the diagnosis, however this is your friendly reminder that Asperger's is, in fact, just an outdated term for part of the Autism spectrum. Similarly, Bender's ADHD is just called ADD here.

When the doctor told Bender he had ADD, he quickly took steps to make sure no one else found out. His dad's reaction to his fuck-up son being a retard on top of everything else was bad enough. He didn't need to get the same treatment from his peers.

He was so careful with this information that when Brian innocently asked him a question about it, he flipped his shit.

"Hey" the blonde had said as he sat next to the other boy during science class. Bender was too surprised by the fact that, of all people, the nerd was talking to him during class that he didn't even manage to get a shitty remark in before the boy continued. "Sorry if this is a bit random, but I've been picking up on certain things you've been doing and, I was wondering if you maybe have, like, Attention Deficit Disorder or something, because-"

Bender kicked the boy in the shin hard and gave him a very scary look. Brian seemingly took the hint and stopped talking.

After class, Bender roughly grabbed him by the arm and dragged him to the nearest bathroom. He shoved the smaller boy into the biggest stall and locked the door. Brian looked up at him as though fearing for his life but didn't dare say anything. Once the brunet was sure that the door was locked properly, he pinned his scrawny classmate against the gross tile wall, much to Brian's dismay, and leaned in really close to make sure no passing-through students heard.

"Who the fuck told you?"

"Huh?" Brian asked, confused. Bender almost smacked him but refrained, instead just holding a very stern glare toward the boy as he elaborated.

"Who the fuck told you I have that... Thing?"

"What, Attention Defici-"

"Who. Fucking. Told. You?"

"No one" Brian told him, eyes wide with fear. Bender let up his grip a little bit because he didn't want the kid to be that afraid of him. "No one told me. I figured it out on my own"

"How?"

"Well, I, uh..." Brian sighed. He figured there was no use in hiding this information considering he was in deep shit regardless. Besides, maybe it would help Bender be less ashamed of his own disorder. "I have Asperger's"

"Holy shit" Bender said, a bit surprised. He'd been tested for that as well, but he himself wasn't diagnosed with it. However, that had still triggered a whole slew of rants from his father about how retarded those kids were and how he was glad that, if his son was gonna be a retard, it was better that he had a less extreme case of it. He never thought of Brian as retarded, though. Just kind of annoying. "Holy shit"

"What?"

"You're, like, normal" Bender chuckled. Then, seemingly realizing how he was coming across, he shook his head and forced back on his tough guy persona. If Brian wasn't still being pinned to a wall, he probably would've chuckled. "Regardless, you don't tell anyone about this, got it?" the taller boy demanded. Brian nodded earnestly. "If I hear one of your little math nerd friends so much as breathe the word 'ADD' near me, you're dead, got it?"

"Absolutely" Brian assured him. "But, uh, for the record, it's nothing to be ashamed of"

"Well that's easy for you to say when you have something way more serious" Bender told him. Brian just seemed sad at this and it was only then that it dawned on Bender that he wasn't actually alone in this anymore. Sure, ADD and Asperger's weren't the same thing but surely they were at least similar if his doctor felt the need to test him for both at the same time. "Don't speak of this out loud, however... Notes, I'm fine with"

Brian's frown gave way to a small smile. He's trying, he thought to himself. This is hard for him, but he's trying.

"Now..." Bender spoke up again, releasing his hold on the smaller boy. "Get the fuck out of here"

"Yes, of course"

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#fanfiction #fanfic #requests open #this was a request #the breakfast club #john bender has adhd #autistic brian johnson #brian x bender #brian johnson x john bender #john bender x brian johnson #adhd #autism #ableist language cw #and also #outdated language cw #a double whammy

[funkylildragonfella]

They're The Autistic Quartet and you cannot convince me otherwise.

#autistic!doctor #autistic amy pond #autistic rory williams #autistic brian williams #adhd doctor #audhd doctor #actually autistic #autism #autistic #adhd #audhd #doctor who #the autistic trio #the autistic quartet

[brennacedria]

So the anesthesiologist was in the room when I got back here, and after a minute he and Brian were just chatting about Brian's stones and we're they like, recessive or what? And I just bust out, after 5 minutes in the room completely silent, "you know, like the peas" with no context whatsoever.

Thank God I remembered Mendel's name after a second to explain myself, cause at first I'm like, "...you know, like in 10th grade?" Also thank God to the anesthesiologist for remembering it enough then to be "wait wait I remember this kind of" and pulling it up on wiki on his phone to read up really fast

But sure, my brain's COMPLETELY normal 😆 just pulling 10th grade bio out of thin air

#afterward brian was like “damn that was some kinda adhd of you” and laughing #except no i think it was the autism #or both #first time I've had a Moment and noticed it while it was happening #not in retrospect days later

[eithernich]

#i hate adhd man i set out my stuff to do my tshot like 12 hours ago and i still haven't even drawn it up #i have however done 2 loads of laundry listened to 3 brian eno albums and watched secretary #and probably spent a good half hour staring at the wall dwelling on e edward grey and our unfortunate many similarities #. emotionally speaking . at least. for i am not a lawyer #i should hire a secretary for the sole purpose of doing my shot actually #or i should get an adderall prescription #Spotify

[petrifiedchild]

"He was going to be screened for psychosis... He's on sertraline that is an anxiety med..." And he struggled with homicidal thoughts until he gave in? I've googled this before when I suffered psychosis and homocidal thoughts when I was taking sertraline, and there was one girl who got off on an insanity plea for her homicidal thoughts on setraline and others have shared their experiences of homicidal thoughts on sertraline, but its not big enough symptom to be on the bottle as its not mass reported or anything ig?

But after I made the connection I got on a different med and the homicidal thoughts stopped. I still have delusions but I've always been that way and avoided thoughts well, but I'm not losing touch like I was when I had Psychosis. It's a serious concern; watch out for dark thoughts on Sertraline.

#sertraline #zoloft #depression #anxiety #adhd #autism #homocidal thoughts #brian cohee

[gaasubap]

My Youtube playlist Disability and (Dis)Ableism (systems, vocabulary, voices) I'm still not fully happy with it. It's still cluttered at the end and there's some longer videos I still need to rewatch. But it's the last day of Disability Pride month! I'm not gonna let perfection come before progress!

#disability pride month #leslie exp #chloe hayden #scishow #brian david gilbert #trey the explainer #jessica kellgren fozard #that dang dad #ponderful #vox #twin rabbit #salari #rowan ellis #how to adhd #oakwyrm #solidarity #youtube #lefttube #my playlists #youtube playlist

[katieschnooze]

Bdgs new video really hit me today, and just made me think about my relationship with other people as someone with adhd i think???

The way the neighbor talked about “i thought youd want a bigger part in it” and the seemingly arbitrary rules and snipes at my behavior (im talking about the POV character as myself because i really related to le feeling) while also showing concern for health at the same time hit me so close to home.

like it constantly feels like my adhd and depression makes it harder to follow exact instructions and upkeep certain things like dishes and washing and just completing necessary tasks, and when i try to explain this to neurotypical people they make remarks that feel like a disregard to my real inability to do these seemingly easy tasks but still show concern cause its clear that im in at least some distress

and the video just hits that dread of feeling like a burden while also being disregarded really strongly for me, like the annoyance in his voice when saying “wednesday MORNING ok??” like PLEASE i wish i could know for a fact i have the motivation to get up let alone do a more menial task like moving bins in the morning.

the axe part really felt cathartic like an outburst of feeling when ive been forced to bottle things and not live in a way that works for me but, the realisation and breakdown that it ensues that no ones ever working with malice makes me sob, like theyre saying they just wanted me to be apart of the neighborly family but i just couldnt live up to the standards. ive had situations where i become more rude and mean because of all those little things building up to me not dealing with it in a proper way, and maybe causing hurt where i didnt mean to.

idk if any of this makes sense but yeah this video just really made me feel seen and i cant stop replaying it

#BDG #adhd #tw vent #depression #I related way too hard to a silly video about a neighbor huh #brian david gilbert