#accidental gender euphoria

[genderless-crisis]

STORYTIME!

My dad is in his early 60’s and adopted me when he was in his 40’s. He loves learning new slang and overusing it. The problem is he overuses it incorrectly and is too stubborn to be corrected.

For the past few months, that word was simp.

Last night, I taught him about himbos. We were watching Doctor who, and Jack Harkness was being his usual bisexual disaster self. My dad went “What is wrong with him? He keeps flirting with people when he’s about to get killed!”

So I said:”Oh that? He’s a ✨himbo✨.”

Cue today where I joked about eating something I’m allergic to, and he goes: “Don’t be a himbo.”

HES TECHNICALLY NOT WRONG, AND THATS LIKE THE ONLY TIME HES SAID SOMETHING THAT GAVE ME ACTUAL GENDER EUPHORIA, BUT WHAT THE FUCK?!

#doctor who #himbo #jack harkness #captain jack harkness #torchwood #gender euphoria #accidental gender euphoria #thanks i guess

[boneinator]

*holds my hand out like a poor English boy* Please Mr… could I get a dead end job doodle?

They're so cutes ,,,

(reblogs > likes !!)

#requests are probably going to have minimal colors now my mind is too clogged to put a lot of effort into things #also this is the first time I've been called mr. accidental gender euphoria moment :] #dhmis #dont hug me i'm scared #coffin dhmis #briefcase dhmis #dead end job #traditional art #bone's singular crumb

[bli-o]

i was given a blessedly deep voice and once when i had my head down, I spoke to someone standing next to me and he said “Woah, I thought you were a girl” and even though thats kinda fucked up to say to someone and this same guy called me a faggot once i had to restrain myself from squealing. my poor, poor enby heart.

#accidental ally #trans joy #trans positivity #gender euphoria #trans #transgender pride #transgender #trans community #protect trans kids #protect trans youth #lgbtq #lgbt #lgbt community #lgbt pride #lgbtqia #lgbtqplus #lgbtq community #lgbtq positivity #lgbtq pride #lgbtq+ #lgbtqa #lgbtqia+ #queer #gender queer #nonbinary #queer community #enby

[robinsnest2111]

the overwhelming happiness I feel when ppl give me nicknames based on my chosen name <333

#never felt this way about my birthname and its many nickname variations #(except JJ. that one will keep a special place in my heart. not the others tho) #anyway i like feeling bits and pieces of joy and gender euphoria like this #also tfw my father accidentally said poor little guy when i told him i had to work today #he 'corrected' himself and said poor girlie but we'll ignore that #also also a coworker coming in to watch a movie on her day off and calling me the masc version of sweetie <333333 #like even when i doubt my gender identity sometimes because i'm not 100% perfectly masc presenting #whenever i get referred to with masc terms i feel SO GOOD <333 #also the Papa Robin bit. still gets me in my feels augh <333

[literalite]

anyways about the profile pic change i am in fact growing out my hair to cosplay kenma at the next con i go to (i have his uniform!!) but the deal with longer hair is i get sorta dysphoric even tho its cute so i just have to keep hitting myself over the head with the fact that i am basically irl kenma. complete with hq rewatch of only the episodes that he appears in

#big moment for me when i was rewatching the kenma episodes sometime in 2020 i think because i needed it for roughly the same reasons #but my mum also was present and she was like. ?? you??? when she saw kenma #accidental gender euphoria from my mother (reluctant begrudging unaware source of it sometimes) is just like that for me #seph.txt

[born-to-lose]

I regret to inform you I am a manspreader 😔

#was sitting on the bus earlier and yeah i've been doing that for years i just never really noticed #kinda unrelated but i just remembered that time my scottish teacher accidentally yelled 'atta boy' at me when i made a good point in class #maybe. that's where the regularly occuring gender confusion since last year comes from. #like i know he said it in a neutral way bx he didn't want to say 'good girl' and he apologized but it did give me a bit of gender euphoria #mel talks

[psychomorphary]

"You have a mustache!"

Transphobe, that's not the insult you think it is. Breaking gender norms is my goal.

#nonbinary #trans #transgender #trans pride #agender #gender identity #gender euphoria #accidental ally #transphobia #gender diversity #gender norms #fuck gender norms

[rikamae]

Omg please call me sir and dude and guy and bro and all those cool nicknames men throw at each other yes YESSSSSS

#Ahem #Ignore me #Got called sir in a dismissive way and accidentally felt a rush of gender euphoria whoops #Pretty rich that he assumed I was a trans woman instead of [male first name]'s spouse but thanks for validation

[ohnotheclownisback]

bro i’ve had constant dysphoria for an entire month. what is this shit

#this is the worst it’s ever been #and i have no clue why #everything that normally brings euphoria doesn’t work anymore #i didn’t even feel anything when some guy i accidentally outed myself to said he thought i was a cis guy #it’s mostly the voice and chest but what the fuck #i want to unsubscribe from the dysphoria service please and thank you #but genuinely #if anyone knows anything that can help #please tell me #trans #transgender #vent #vent post #gender dysphoria #ftm dysphoria #help #please #if you can

[spiicemilf]

One of the first scenes from EEAAO that made me feel like this film sucked up my life and put it on a screen (that I keep seeing people confused over and I feel the biggest need to explain) was when Evelyn used “he” for Becky. I forget that this detail that means so much to me makes so little sense to other people, but my mum (first generation Chinese immigrant) after 20 or so years since she moved still gets he and she pronoun sets confused. “Ta” is a pronoun in mandarin that is spoken the same for both male and female subjects (written 他，她), and it’s a difficult change to adjust to when speaking in English. I didn’t expect this to be seen anywhere in media, and honestly now im more aware than ever about all things in this movie that resonates with me other people may have missed

#if you have similar feelings about things from EEAAO PLS SOUND OFF IN REBLOGS OR TAGS #there’s so much I can talk about #sometimes my mum would use pronouns that aren’t she her for me and it would be like accidental gender euphoria lmao #sometimes she would correctly gender my friends bc she would switch the pronouns #i saw people confused over this and I realised #god I need to tell this to the void #EEAAO #everything everywhere all at once #confesshens

[hellofastudysession]

doki doki liveblog real. this is of course going to expose how little i've gamed but it's really different to have the characters looking at you you know? saying your name and being terribly kind and open with you. i can understand now why a bunch of people like it!! also it's nice that i can play it casually while doing other things like listening to its music and monika compliment your silly poem while reading

#i've quit the game like five times by now and also accidentally recycled it i'm so sorry monika #personal #i've joked about this with my friend but naming the mc 'norrie' is like the opposite of gender euphoria

[endless-nightshift]

No sleep - a pro con list

Cons:

can feel all my muscles and nerves

am clammy and shaky

75% more easily angered for good & no good reasons

20% more likely to express the anger outwardly

Speech is significantly harder than normal.

Sight is significantly worse than normal (it's normally shit)

Spelling/typing abilities heavily decreased (than god for auto correct)

The brain body disconnects worse than normal - I'm writing this instead of doing what I should/want to be but I can't convince my self to move (actually I don't want to do the thing. I want to go to sleep but that is not an option)

Pros:

No energy = lack of care for unconsciously modulating my voice = near permanent gravely morning voice ✨gender euphoria✨

A pretty equal exchange if you ask me

#trans #trans guy #sleep deprived af #i wanna sleeeeep #i managed to accidentally pull an all nighter the only day i absolutely couldn't just sleep though the day #gender vibes #gender euphoria #voice dysphoria #am tired #Cal bites words

[tendergutzz]

sumtimes i am shocked and a little in awe at how much ive transitioned into visibly appearing male to like. feeling a dude in the space i take up, like i mean this in its totally the opposite of what my own internalized transphobia tells me at times so its soooooooo ;-;;

#am stoned and am pontificaitng #the inexplicable gender euphoria of accidentally perceiving urself as you genuinely would want to be perceived #w.o an underlying stigma of othering urself and still feeling different and conscious of why ur different #........

[marnanel]

Just remembering that time someone changed a Wikipedia caption from

"A person with psoriasis"

to

"A woman with psoriasis"

and commented

"It's only in the US that a woman is a "person"."

(the photo is of me and I wasn't out as trans)

#gender euphoria #accidental though #are women people

[lavendergerard]

.

#was at a gig on saturday #and some bloke accidentally elbowed me and then like weirdly touched my arm to apologise #and i pulled my arm away and then his girlfriend got confused #so he started to explain #‘oh i elbowed him by mistake and tried to say sorry’ #and his girlfriend lets out an exasperated sigh #and says #‘THEY’ #and it’s like no thank u for the gender euphoria strange drunk man

[musings-from-mars]

Experiencing gender euphoria as a nonbinary something-or-other is really funny because a lot of the time it happens on accident. Like today I wore a jacket over a tank top, and later in the day my open jacket kinda falls off one shoulder. And idk why but that accidental off-the-shoulder look gave me that good gender feel. Didn’t make me feel any more masc or fem or anything really, just the look make me yippee inside

#nonbinary #trans #enby #transgender #lgbtq