#abusive stepfather

[poisoned-sugar-cookies]

due to my father i’m evil now

#deadbeat dad #dysfunctional family #oedipus complex #electra complex #daddy issues #mommy issues #revenge #narcissistic dad #toxic people #toxic household #toxic parents #toxic father #abusive stepfather #abusive father #psycho

[kinziethings]

REVIEW: The Best Hardcore Band in Pa by Bill Elenbark

The Best Hardcore Band in PA is the coming of age story of Cyrus, Jeff, and Mindy as misfit teens in a place where they’ll never be considered “normal”—Cyrus for being gay and losing his mother at age twelve; Jeff for playing hardcore music featuring the “devil’s lyrics” and questioning his sexuality in this town filled with churches; and Mindy for being Korean in a place where anyone non-white…

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[milkbreadtoast]

thinking abt how the original QPB trio wouldve been just 3 mentally unwell adults w lifetimes of trauma and KdjfksjdKFJJS...

#no wonder they were beefing /j #they need yeseo... AHAH #idk like #i still dont know ga-in's full deal but from what ive seen... #def parental (and workplace) abuse going on... #cedric... self explanatory #and jesse like... being an illegitimate child ooh and his stepfather dedicating every min to trying to ruin his life umm #yeah... #not that i dont think yeseos also had a perfect life... im keeping my eyes open at the bits of foreshadowing for him i wanna know his deal #cant stop thinking abt how he almost never mentions his parents? whats up w that #twsb #twsb spoilers #(just for the ga-in bit)m #i wanna know more abt jesse tho... #sigh will never stop losing my mind that cedric went from beefing w jesse as a love rival #to falling in love with him (but its actually a diff guy. our yeseo...🤧 #im crazy for this but cant stop thinking abt QPB cedjess..... #esp since apparently they couldve gotten along if it werent for the circumstances... ough #idc abt romantic cedchris at all tho like thank u for resetting the timeline <3 #i wanna know what... that last moment was like... #when jesse sacrificed himself to save cedric.... #jesse telling him to be happy with christelle/take care of her... #what was cedric's reaction... what was the look on both of their faces in that moment... #ghhHHH i would want to see og cedjesschris but not as a love triangle w chris at the center like it was before... #i'd just wanna see platonic shenanigans #but the og novel wasnt like that... 😔 #actually it makes me wild considering that the original QPB trio didnt have/use powers #like thats wild to me. they were so different..... #the genre switch was so good for them <3 #went from shoujo to shounen /j

[grimbeak]

Ok but Kevin AFTER the mudstone abyss is so funny to me. Like he's a mass murderer. He has severe trauma. He was abused as a kid. His crush left him after ten years with a letter. He's obsessed with blood. He's the prophet of his own religion. He built an entire town by himself and everyone in it hates him. He's a former capitalist. But he also knits and is a loving boyfriend and stepfather. Funniest character ever.

#diversity win! the man who killed probably hundreds of people is a loving and caring stepfather #kevin wtnv #child abuse tw

[incorrect-sunflower-sibs]

No one:

Commodus:

Apollo:

Meg: I KNOW WHAT YOU ARE.

#S: Tumblr #trials of apollo #incorrect quotes #incorrect riordanverse #lester papadopoulos #meg mccaffrey #toa commodus #Imagine being Meg and all you know about this Commodus guys is that he’s your abusive stepfather’s business partner #and then you live with him for a few weeks and he’s super intimidating and awful #and the. you meet up with your new god buddy and within 24 hours you learn that the two of them are exes #and your immortal servant actually murdered Commodus due to telanovela levels of tragedy and suffering #like that’s gotta be wild right #pretty zany if you ask me

[strix-mix]

Hey when you first developed suicidal thoughts did your parents try to scare you into not being suicidal by threatening you or was that just mine

#parents in heavy airquotes #it was my mother and stepfather #cw: abuse

[everysongineverykey]

being a sherlock holmes canon fan sucks. what the fuck is "i have never loved, watson, but if i did and if the woman i loved met such a fate, i might act even as [that story's murderer] had done" and "by the lord, it is as well for you. if you had killed watson, you would not have got out of this room alive."

#sherlock holmes #acd canon #holmes/watson #what! is! that! sir! #he'd kill for watson! he'd literally kill for him! #i want a sherlock holmes adaptation where someone mortally wounds/tries to kill watson #(or even successfully kills him) #and holmes tracks them down and instead of his regular self-assured pride and calm turning over of the criminal to the police #he just kills them. he's funny like that! he doesn't really often obey the law! he obeys justice! #he lets a thief go because it's christmas and he doesn't feel the man's really a danger to society. #he lets a murderer go because the deed was justified. (that's where the first quote in this post comes from.) #he threatens to attack an abusive stepfather with a riding crop. #hell he threw moriarty off a cliff! because he knew the man was a menace! #i would love to see an adaptation where the murder/attempted murder of watson drives him to kill. #or attempt to kill. and then realize he no longer cares. i'd love to see what could get him to that point! #where's that 'fuck you *goes back to old fandoms*' post. feeling that pretty hard right now

[jedi-bird]

Get yourself a partner that let's you have hobbies. I'm serious. They don't need to understand that that hobby, or even necessarily enjoy it. They don't need to do it along with you, though that is a nice bonus. They just need to let you enjoy it.

I crochet; my partner does not and doesn't really understand it. But they enjoy watching me take a pile of string and make a thing. My mom and grandma both crocheted. Both of their partners hated it and actively tried to make them stop. My grandma was tougher than my mom and just kept doing it anyway; my stepfather forced my mom to sit in the garage if she wanted to crochet and even then still threw a fit until she stopped.

Never settle for someone who can't accept you as you. This includes friendships because they to are a type of relationship. Hobbies are healthy and fun and should be encouraged. So don't let someone steal that joy from you.

#weird thought day apparently #i was thinking about this while working on a blanket today #my stepfather used to scream at us and threaten to burn all of our things if he ever found another crochet hook in our bags #i don't know why this upset him so much and i don't care #it was abusive and undeserved #i know i got lucky with my partner #in fact they've bought me fancy yarn in the past because they liked it and wanted to see what I'd do with it

[lilywhisperer]

not daddy issues not mommy issues but a secret third thing (grandpa issues).

#𓇬 ⸝ txt. 🕊️ #personal tag #literally none of the men that could’ve been my grandpas were good people. they all sucked #I had a grandpa for a few years in the worst conditions of my life because he wasn’t actually my grandpa by blood but rather my— #—ex-stepfather’s father #you know #the man that had a toxic/abusive relationship with my mother and who my grandma theorizes broke my arm? #in any way #all is good now. I was thinking about Scrooge and Louie

[adamshallperish]

just found out the last time john darnielle played song for my stepfather live was on my birthday last year

#now listen #that's some kind of good fortune or providence or just the universe letting me know i wasn't alone #but that makes me like weirdly emotional #like he played one of the greatest songs about parental abuse on my first birthday after being kicked out #god #tmg #the mountain goats #john darnielle #song for my stepfather #the sunset tree #mine

[poisoned-sugar-cookies]

As bad as their relationship was, I can only imagine the love Norman possessed for his late mother Norma. (And I'm not talking "Soulbates" Ew). I'm talking about the undying familial love between a mother and her child, even from beyond the grave.

#psycho 1960 #alfred hitchcock’s psycho #norman bates #norma bates #dysfunctional family #love #mother and child #family #oedipus complex #electra complex #revenge #daddy issues #abusive stepfather #abusive father #deadbeat dad #absent father #personal #rants

[jackdelroyfan69]

anyone else up remembering abuse they went through lol

#i have been hurt by so many people i cant even laugh #a girl i thought was my friend for years sexually abused me. that wasnt fair even if she was traumatized it wasnt fair #my stepfather abused me and i know they werent the only ones. my brain isnt ready to remember everything else ive forgotten #god help me please forgive me for losing my virginity so young and letting it happen again and again

[cutesilyo]

so deeply obsessed with the thought of trans boy edward elric and trans girl percy jackson

#me #theyre very gender to me. in my head. #trans boy edward elric who is obsessed with the thought of becoming strong #and independent and fierce #who craves for the strength to protect his brother #who feels more powerful and in control as a man. more sure that he can take on impossible odds #and trans girl percy jackson who loathes masculinity. hates it. from a father who abandoned her and a stepfather who abused her #who grows uncomfortable with the thought of being a boy. of being a man like them #who adores her mother's strength and annabeth's hope #who thinks that being uncomfortable with her body is something she'll just have to live with. i mean. everybody's been telling her she'd #die at sixteen anyway. #anyway. yeah yeah yeah thoughts

[chainslobber]

Well...this has been a strange day.

There's nothing more humbling and disheartening for someone really excited for their comm and happily talking about it and loving every step of the process but then they get the final image and go radio silent only to show up two weeks later, saying 'thanks', and then blocking you on everything. Even more humbling and disheartening is since everyone changed their Discord names and stuff, they didn't recognize me in a certain server and told everybody it 'wasn't what they wanted'. Like, it's one thing that my art never does well on social media, but for someone to blatantly lie about the artwork so now people think I'm someone hard to work with is...I dunno. I've had it happen maybe twice in the almost fourteen years of doing freelance and it's more confusing than upsetting. But the thing is, that shit is damaging to your reputation, even if the customer's in the wrong. Just sitting here waiting for the inevitable chargeback that costs ME money just so that they get free art they 'didn't even like' out of it.

#tay talks #wasp's words #happy father's day #much like like my stepfather the abuse today has been real and unwarranted #I think I need to find an actual job that'll take me

[waywardvictorianconfessions]

She reminds me of my mother who used to act awful and say horrible things to me but then call me a disrespectful brat when I tried to stand up for myself. That’s what she reminds me of when she acts the way she does and then calls everyone haters and bullies for their justified criticism.

#wayward victorian confessions #faerie admin #I feel like this needs a tw of some kind but idk what #I'm sorry op #I had a stepfather like that #abuse tw

[bunkernine]

U don't need a tragic backstory to have a good one LOL

#'percys wasnt tragic enough' ????? 'poor' with a single mom then abusive stepfather and failing the school systems?!?!?!?! #is that not unfortunate????? regardless. even if it wasnt tragic or whatever ... trauma ≠ a good backstory LOL