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uncanny-tranny · 9 months

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I'm still thinking about how ashamed I was (and am) with being open about my pain because I am so young. It's so hard to feel worthy of having your pain taken seriously when the people around you insist that young bodies are always in pristine, untouched condition and that you must earn your pain through aging. Never is it considered that young people aren't lying or being a hypochondriac for expressing their pain.

Young people can be in life-altering pain. Young people can have debilitating pain. It doesn't matter what age it happens because pain doesn't discriminate. Complaining about pain and doing things to prevent needless pain aren't something you have to "earn" through aging.

If you want young people to be in less or lesser pain, then encourage them to do whatever they can to minimize it. Don't downplay what they're experiencing. Not everything is a lie, not every experience that is different than yours is exaggeration or deceit.

#disability #ableism #ableism tw #this is one of the big reasons i was ashamed of admitting when i am in pain #and it's one of the reasons i was ashamed to address the pain i have #and i'm angry about that actually! nobody should fear being labeled as essentially having munchausen syndrome because...#...'young people NEVER have pain or disabilities and you're a liar!'#i really do want to start addressing my pain because i know it's not normal but holy shit batman it can suck sometimes #i honestly like talking to my dad about this because he also has a lot of pain (moreso than i do now) but he actually TRIES to listen...#putting this in the disability tag but i still don't feel right about labeling my own pain as such...#...but i know so many people with disabling pain who would relate...#...maybe it's internalized ableism on my part or maybe i just want to be respectful of people with worse pain #this is me really just reflecting on m the fact that i haven't ever had an amazing body in a lot of ways (though i am lucky still)#i'm still thinking about having an emergency cane to help me get up when my pain is bad but idk if it's worth the investment #so if anybody reading this has suggestions (esp. for those with back pain)... please hook me up i will platonically love you forever

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mayomkun · 3 months

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Insane how many social cues humans have and you're supposed to know them all without being told

#and how they varies in different cultures #people and their funny complicated social structures are interesting to observe but not when you're in the situations #a group of people that fit together is a wonder to me because people are so so different #there are so many hidden rules they know but don't talk about and they just. know how the water flow and go along with it #and most of the time people seem to know how to do that so naturally #truly amazing when you think about it #meanwhile I think it's one of the most difficult thing to deal with #a single gesture or sentence could mean a lot of things and there are endless ways to response to it #I never meant to be offensive or unpleasant but then before I knew it I already did something wrong asfgjk #it's not their fault they misunderstood because I didn't get the hint. I just wish people tell me things directly sometimes #I study people like a bug but I'm also. a bug #delete later

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kimtaegis · 2 years

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the (softest) chaos duo ♡ for @jiniekook [insp.]

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themoonking · 11 months

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it’s not actually that weird that people are saying “harry potter was never good, actually” after joanne went full mask off, and no it doesn’t mean that we all secretly think harry potter is amazing but don’t want to admit it. it’s pretty simple actually: most people read harry potter when they were children, when they hadn’t read a lot of other books and therefore didn’t have a lot to compare it to. then every time you reread it as an adult, you’re looking through pretty hefty nostalgia goggles. then, after you’ve realized that joanne is a violent bigot that wants you and / or people you love and care for dead, those goggles are broken and when you attempt to look at hp again you’re more likely to see it’s flaws. it’s not rocket science.

#like don't get me wrong people have pointed out stuff wrong with hp since the beginning #both the bigoted aspects of it and the simply bad writing aspects #but it was in bits and pieces and far less vocal #whereas now you see its more 'wait a minute the entire series is lowkey shit' and is a lot more people saying it #also for people like myself #you read a lot of fanfiction and saw a lot of fan discussion and so whenever you reread harry potter #that stuff was in the back of your mind whether you meant it to be or not #and it maybe caused you to think that what you were reading was a lot deeper than it actually was #because you were taking all this fan content as canon even if nothing of what you were actually read in the text suggested it #but then when everything fell apart you hadn't even thought about harry potter for a good while and that fan stuff wasn't in your head #and you could see the text for the mess it was without the bolstering and hole filling that fandom had done for it #i speak #anti jk rowling #and there's also the point that when harry potter was at its peak popularity the entire world was reinforcing the fact that this is amazing #so you're less inclined to find flaws because somethign this big cant POSSIBLY be bad

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yuriyuruandyuraart · 9 months

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AFTERMARE WEEK: Day 7- the end of a beginning/ the beginning of the end

make me believe and raise my hopes up one last time, then haunt my dreams for the rest of my life

aftermare week is hosted by @bluepallilworld

#art #illustration #my art #aftermare week 2023 #aftermare week #nightmare #nightmare sans #fem!nightmare #this was actually the first piece i finished!! before the week even started cause i thought i was a literal month late ahhh hhh xD #geno isn't a ghost here night is just reminiscing about old memories :)#i have lots and lots of headcanons surrounding human!nightmare's corruption process but just so you know her appearance changes slightly #istg when i posted the grass wip i did NOT expect it to get 30+ notes like wow! i'm so glad you guys thought it looked good hhh :'D #hope it's not? underwhelming? i didn't expect to participate in all the prompts but this is the first!! week challenge i completed perfectl #last cryptic quote for the week wooo!! try to see how it's related to the prompts cause i'm curious to hear your interpretations >:D #i have a dentist appointment on the 17th so this is queued! i'll reblog everyone's art once i come back so don't worry >:'D #btw thank you so much for hosting this event blue!! the prompts were literally ALLL a 10 outta 10 just howww >:"0 #i hope you're having an amazing day miss >:3 <3333

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phoenixcatch7 · 11 months

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Man I am just SO CONFUSED. About the time line of this game.

No one is telling me how long links been gone! Or how long the botw-totk timeskip was! They all just started selling my stuff again lol. I'm going to have to get everything redyed!

Me: hey random stranger! Lore dump? You look like a lore dumper.

Kindly npc: why hullo there, link ^^! My, I haven't seen you in a while since the calamity ended! I was so worried when they said you and the princess had gone missing! But it's good to see you're well.

Me: aw, thanks. How long has it actually been tho.

Kindly npc: ^u^

#Having a great time btw I've just been chased across a near sea of miasma by stal riders and more! 10/10 nearly died in a high speed chase #Made it out relatively unscathed which is truly amazing lmao #Spoilers ahead: I have had the funniest time doing the great plateau quest chain. Once I sucked it up and made nice with the creepy statue.#He's(?) been alright. Fair trader. Good deals. I've mostly been terrorising kohga in between absolutely failing to craft working vehicles X #His new boss fights are so much easier than the first one lol. Less fun I'll admit but the music is groovy. You can probably make a #Machine and try and dog fight him but with few exceptions the turning circles are decrepit so I just stuck to mild dodging and shooting him #And running over to hit him some more. Kinda bland for a boss fight I'll say. Could have done with a lot more pizazz. It's kohga come on.#Anyway I do feel kinda bad because apparently he's been stuck down there for however many months/years and I AM kinda cheating with the arm #After the first fight he fled to the gerudo mine and the steward very nicely showed me how to get there but never underestimate #My procrastination because I'd already found it by just exploring so I just teleported. In game it must have been terrifying lmao #Racing across an endless void filled only by the light of your rapidly running out of battery glider and the red glow of the gloom away fro #The apparently immortal ancient warrior who beat you up and tossed you down there and there's no sign of perusal so you're probably safe #But you get there and he's already sitting there poking some bananas having wiped out your goons and plundered your supplies.#Like sorry man but the arm comes with the hero territory I can't exactly take it off.#Maybe if you stopped terrorising the people purah would let you have one of her long distance teleportation slates. It comes with photos?#It can't have been long since botw link hasn't grown an inch XD. Also I've been turning the lore timeline over in my head and still no idea #Are we not sure Rauru isn't from some alternate timeline that got fused with the main loz timeline by accident??#loz #legend of zelda #totk #loz totk #tears of the kingdom #loz tears of the kingdom #totk spoilers

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oreegaanoo · 18 days

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Once again I am fueled by comments from my thesis supervisor and feel like I can actually do this thing hell YEAAAAHHHH

I CAN WRITE THIS THING!!! I CAN DO IT!!!!! AAAAAAAHHHH

#imagine a drawing of me going all feral that's me rn #I get so hyped every time I meet him even though all his comments are like “this is okay” and “what did you mean by this”--#then followed up by discussions and improvement suggestions and I get so excited about writing it all suddenly #like!!! what is this!!!!#it's probably because I get to actually talk about my thesis and in detail with someone who understands it? probably?#most likely now that I think about it. I don't have a lot of friends who study the same thing so I can't talk about these things in depth #(but I'm also very happy to have those friends who don't understand but listen to my ramblings about it <3 )#p #and also also like. I am about 45 pages into this thing. I am so far. I have wanted to just drop it for the past month or so but!! I'm so--#--far!!! holy shit!!! that's amazing my guy!!! you're doing well!! just need the clean up and some clearer explanations and that's it #it's not going to be two more years of this it's going te 6 months MAX #most likely 4 months of work with 1-2 months after for the grading and checking process when i don't have to do shit #I only have this thesis; one essay that is 75% done; and one spanish course I'm taking end I'm done!!!! I will cry when that happens!!

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shima-draws · 8 months

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Also kinda related to my last post but. When I went to get my orthopedic consultation it was in this HUGE medical building with a whole ass physical therapy division. I can’t really describe what I felt when I walked into the gym and saw all these people working with specialists to help train their muscles or to walk again or to strengthen parts of their bodies that had undergone trauma from an accident or whatever else. It was kinda sad but also very hopeful to see?? Idk I just felt really emotional seeing that nfjkandvnj

#Shima speaks #It's about the human nature of wanting to help others. You know??#It's about seeing all those people work so hard and being like. Yeah. You guys are AWESOME. You went through smth to get to this point #Probably a lot of pain and suffering #And now you're doing smth to make it better and there's someone with you to guide you on that path #It gave me the warm fuzzies. I wanted to give a hug to all the people in there and tell them they're doing so so fantastic and great #People are amazing!! Humans are really very resilient creatures!! Smth bad happens and we fall down but we get back up again!#Sometimes with a bit of help!! And that's okay too!! Bc that's part of our nature! We help people!!!#Catch me being emo on a Friday morning about the PT division. Pshh

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rainymoodlet · 2 years

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the main players of rainymoodlet.tumblr.com, courtesy of @buglaur 💛

#ts4 #ts4 edit #ts4 screenshots #ts4 cas #sim: siha #sim: gor'shak #sim: zara #sim: daniel #sim: blue #sim: bee #zara looks so pale hhg gfkdfs #the way gor's goatee looks is just amazing oh my god i love it #my bc babies up on the top i love them so much #i cannot wait to get back to posting oh my god #still working on sim requests!! goin thru a lot rn holy shit #i love you all~#laur you're amazing this is so good

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kaesaaurelia · 4 months

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My mom's spent a bunch of time arguing with me about how I should be a lawyer and I keep telling her I fucking hate arguing and conflict and the fact that I'm arguing at all is being used against me. :\

Also she keeps insisting I could do it because I'm sooo smart. There's thousands of lawyers out there who are dumber than me, that isn't the issue, the issue is do I have the temperament and how much more can my mental health take.

#kaesa op #venty post #i know there's kinds of law where you don't have to do confrontation but a lot of it is incredibly boring #I'd be banking on being fascinated by one of those limited areas of law #and I'd be spending a LOT of time and money and energy on it #and i barely have the energy to keep applying for jobs and occasionally feeding myself #like it is genuinely a fucking struggle #the past few years have been some of the roughest on my mental health and it feels like people are like “why don't you just try harder!#you're doing so great!#you had six interviews in twelve months and the economy is amazing!“#and they get mad at me for feeling hopeless #meanwhile im asked to explain my resume gap #by people who want to pay me $20k less a year than what the Think Positive people claim i should be making #and they're like hmm it looks like you were unwilling to kill your grandmother to keep doing your shitty minimum wage job #people just don't want to work #id love to work but if you don't believe me id also love to take a vegetable peeler to your dick actually

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ficsforeren · 4 months

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This isn't really a question, but I JUST got into AOT and happened to look up some fanart, which somehow led me here. And good LORD, I'm so happy that it did. I only just found this and your JJK blog, but I am literally dying to read all these stories.

I always knew I'd love Eren (before watching) and now that I am (currently on s2), I'm 100% for him. I am certain reading your stories will only make me love him more. Sorry, I'm not sure how to end this, but please keep up the good work 🥰

hi, darling! 💕💕💕

AWWWWW THANK YOU!!! I'm so glad you found my blog too 😭😭😭 I hope you'll like my fanfics and my version of eren hehe 🥰 (I have like 10 different versions of him LMAO but ANYWAY he was really fun to write about, and I've been missing him badly these last few days 😭

HAPPY READING MY DARLING!!!

#you're currently on season 2? i'm so jealous i wish i could experience watching it for the first time again that season was AMAZING #the ending aka AOT final season part 3 part 2 ruined the series and eren's character for me BUT #I really hope that you'll like it so you won't have to suffer like me LMAO 😭#I hope you'll enjoy the ride till the end!#i'm curious about this fanart you were talking about 👀#I've been following a lot of JJK artists these days so all I see on my timeline now is just yuuta and gojo fanarts 😭#i miss eren SO MUCH AAAA #kana answers stuff #kana gets some love!

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mobius-m-mobius · 6 months

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When Mobius said you think the TVA is going to miss a tired washed up old analysts with a heart of gold…

I was like IAM. What r u talking about!

RIGHT!???

Was watching that scene and going through it all over again since even though Mobius leaving crushed me I completely get the reasoning, his own glorious purpose had shifted from the work to Loki and this was the only option available to try to... keep him company. Share his burden in some way 🥺😭

Still, Mobius deserved to hear and know how important he is when he constantly jokes about and deflects his feelings but his heart of gold is the reason every person in existence is alive right now and I'm still holding out for the confession he didn't the chance to fully hear this season! I miss him terribly already, there's never going to be anyone else like him or anyone who could bring him to life the way Owen has 💖

#honestly when will we see him again...#he deserves to be HAPPY and LOVED!!!!#i'm telling you there are so many lines from owen this season that resonate in my very soul he and mobius are EVERTHING to me #and tysm for this ask because the timing is amazing?? just had this scene on my mind for the daily set!#lots of love and hope you're having a great day 💖#and if anyone else who sent asks is reading i've got too many to get to today but will be catching up asap so thank y'all as well <3333 #loki spoilers #ask

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favoritejohn · 2 years

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johnny comforting taeyong after his speech 🥺

#i love them so much pls #when i saw this i like kinda broke down lol #johnny really is that friend uh #the one who's always there to cheer you up when you're down #and who never wants to see you sad :((#taeyong bubu #:(((#i think everyone here knows how much i love taeyong by now #and how important johnyong's friendship is to me #i hope they'll keep this connection forever #they're the bestest of friends tbh #😭😭😭#i'm getting emo again #no but taeyong saying he lacked a lot as a leader???#my brother in christ you are the best leader we could hope for #he's honestly the sweetest most caring most amazing person on the planet to me like i admire him so much #and he's doing such a good job with nct + his solo career + everything he has to deal with #taeyong best leader #johnny #johnny suh #johnny seo #johnny nct #suh youngho #nct johnny #taeyong #lee taeyong #nct #nct 127 #nct 127 concert #johnyong

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pawsitivevibe · 7 months

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Man some of these "sport dog" breeders will have a whole alphabet soup of titles on their dogs but when you look at them they're like all novice/beginner titles. Or things like CGN. Easy stuff. I want to see Excellent and Masters titles, even if that means your dog has fewer letters after their name.

#though even among novice titles some do mean a little more than others #like a novice sprinter or dock diving or trick dog or a CGN compared to a novice agility or obedience title is very different #you are putting a lot more work into some #But still if you're trying to prove to me that you're producing amazing sport dogs then maybe some of your dogs should have big titles ...#The excuse is often 'I don't have time to compete.' But like ... if you are trying to produce sport dogs you better be finding the #time to sport them y'know?#If I want a puppy to take to the high levels of sport why on earth would I get one from parents who have only ever done the baby levels?#Your dog can have all the 'potential' you want but like ... prove it #I find this is very common with Border Collie breeders ...

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goldkirk · 10 months

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I just wanted you to know that your stories and then your documenting your journey lead me to getting therapy and to my own processing of my abuse.

Thank you so much for sharing this with me! It really means more than I can say to hear that my own writing or journey or sharing was able to help someone else, or give someone a realization. It was a long series of other people doing that for me that helped me start healing, and I so amazed and honored that I get to do it now in turn. Thank you for taking the time and energy to let me know you've been starting your own journey. I'm so proud of you! This takes a lot of guts and I hope you love the progress you make along the way!

#anonymous #katie answers asks #seriously thank you so much #I never stop getting shocked and amazed that something from me helped someone else #it brings a lot more ease to my attempts to make meaning out of suffering etc etc #i love you all who are on this journey no matter where you are along it #i love you and i'm proud of you and you're doing way better than you think you are. and also you're so brave

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imminent-danger-came · 7 months

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totally agree with you on lmks pacing, it works for me because pretty much every plot element thats supposed to matter, even if it only lasts for 2 or so episodes (i.e possessed wukong) is treated with weight

that and there arent characters/scenes that take away a substantial amount of spotlight from other things that could be focused on (smartie kid not withstanding)

YES EXACTLY. EXACTLY

Like, with possessed Wukong specifically I got everything I could have wanted from it. We had him attack MK no less than 3 times, we had MK trying to reason with him (and failing), we had MK believing in SWK (and getting him back), we had possessed Wukong fighting Macaque, it retroactively added to Wukong's "reaching for more power/immortality" arc in sick and twisted ways. I love it here.

And, look. I said *maybe* you could cut Smartie Kid from s3, with tears in my eyes, because honestly I love that episode and what it contributes. It shows us how Wukong is going to gain his strength back, and most importantly it re-establishes MK's powers and shows us how he's feeling about not having those powers. That and 3x03 takes a big bright highlighter to the fact that MK's "someone special"/"hey it's not normal that he can lift the staff", and I love that MK get's his powers back playing a rigged game. I also love that MK literally bets his friends in order to force himself to win (aka "going too far in the pursuit of power", because that's what monkeys do). MK deciding he was going to be the "smart one" after losing his sense of identity as the "Monkie Kid" is such a him choice. That was so MK of him. Plus, I think it's a nice transition episode between "The Great Grand Dragon of the East" and "The Winning Side".

#I think about ''He's in no state to waste his time on mere mortals—especially now that I don't have my powers'' a lot #Like it's so wrong in every way #MK you're not even a mere mortal. And even if you were SWK fucking loves you dude #They are just so *gestures*#Wukong you gotta regain your strength I get it. But why are you being an asshole about it asfdasdfasfd #OH MAN I DIDN'T EVEN MENTION MK'S LIKE. ''SMARTIE KID''/PLAN MAN ARC #MK using his brain since 1x10 to try and make it safer for his friends <3 #Like it's kinda a background thing in s2 and s3 but 3x03 adds to it nicely #And then when they called him the plan man in 4x12 I fucking cheered #LIKE OMG. THE CHARACTERS HAVE NOTICED THE THING I NOTICED #MK the plan guy. The man with the plan.#be amazed by how much I can overthink the lego show #lmk #lego monkie kid #lmk MK #lmk analysis #asks #imp's a little feisty #not really but I'll add it to that tag

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