#Trans Identified Males

[msclaritea]

How the trans activists fooled Ireland - UnHerd

Ireland is the trans activists’s trump card. Whenever debate flares up about self-identification or the Gender Recognition Act or transgender rights, campaigners can say “There has never been any trouble in Ireland.” And governments believe them.

The Irish “success story” has been trotted out and swallowed down whole. Ireland was an early adopter of “self-ID”: since 2015 the state has allowed individuals to change their “gender” — their legal sex, effectively — just because they want to. There are no background checks and no medical reports.

Let’s be clear, that is an affront to safeguarding. But that has not stopped activists claiming Ireland to be an example of “international best practice”, and framing it as a great model for Westminster and Holyrood. But while politicians may still be lapping up whatever activists tell them, recent polling suggests that the Irish public is not convinced.

It does not take a legal expert to see the dangers. If biological males can access women’s single-sex spaces including hospital wards and prisons simply by making a statutory declaration, it was only a matter of time before there was an outrage. In fact, there have been at least two in one prison.

Barbie Kardashian is a troubled teenager who was “born a male but identifies as female”, and has a history of particularly nasty physical and sexual violence towards women. Having previously torn the eyelids from a female care worker, Kardashian was jailed last year in the women’s wing of Limerick prison following threats of violence against two individuals. According to the court report, Kardashian was “very anxious she be detained in a prison facility for females, as she identifies as a female”.

Already there was a “pre-operative, pre-hormone therapy”, male-to-female transgender prisoner who had been convicted of ten counts of sexual assault and one count of cruelty against a child.

Whatever Irish politicians had been thinking when they waved through the 2015 Gender Recognition Act, there had not been any proper public debate to inform the new legislation. But that is not surprising; the law was changed swiftly and quietly, just the way the activists like it.

“Nobody spoke about the GRA,” says the Irish writer Stella O’Malley. It wasn’t even mentioned in the media: “We were all about the gay marriage referendum and the GRA just didn’t come up. I’ve always been interested in trans issues and I would have noticed if it had.”

This strategy is straight from an activists’ handbook, or to be precise the “Denton’s Document”. This guidance – officially titled, Only adults? Good practices in legal gender recognition for youth – was published two years ago. Backed by an unlikely triumvirate of Dentons (the world’s largest law firm by number of lawyers), Thomson Reuters Foundation and IGLYO – the International Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer and Intersex Youth & Student Organisation – it was an instruction manual for lobbying groups who wanted to extend gender recognition to young people with or without their parents’ permission.

The tactics are detailed in full within the handbook, including the instruction to “avoid excessive press coverage and exposure.” And specific reference was made to Ireland where, “activists have directly lobbied individual politicians and tried to keep press coverage to a minimum.”

O’Malley was right: the events of 2015 had been carefully managed.

“In Ireland, Denmark and Norway, changes to the law on legal gender recognition were put through at the same time as other more popular reforms such as marriage equality legislation. This provided a veil of protection, particularly in Ireland, where marriage equality was strongly supported, but gender identity remained a more difficult issue to win public support for.”

It’s only now, six years on from the Irish Gender Recognition Act, that the public has been consulted. Not by the government, even now, but by The Countess, an Irish campaign to restore the privacy, dignity and safety of women and children in schools, workplaces, sport, changing rooms, toilets, hospitals, prisons and refuges. Opinion polling carried out for them by Red C – found that respondents were not impressed.

Only 17% agreed with the 2015 law that allows someone to change their birth certificate as soon as they self-identify as the opposite sex. Rather more (34%) thought it should be permitted once a trans person has partially or fully transitioned through hormone treatment and/or genital surgery. But 28% felt that individuals should not be allowed to change the sex on their birth certificates at all.

Even younger people (aged 18-34) favoured no changes to birth certificates, as opposed to the laissez-faire approach that was pushed through parliament. Overall, men were more cautious than women — perhaps because they better understand what men can be like.

Birth certificates are the last line of defence for service providers trying to maintain single-sex provision for women. If these can be changed on demand, then the safeguards become worthless. We can probably safely assume that few men would ever seek a Gender Recognition Certificate but mixed in with those suffering from gender dysphoria — a diagnosable medical condition — would be those who women need to worry about most. There’s little point of locking a door if a potential abuser can cut his own key.

As the polls show, while Irish politicians were captured by the transgender activist lobbying, the Irish public understands the dangers. When asked about transgender people who had not been through gender reassignment surgery, more people than not opposed their inclusion in changing rooms, sports, refuges and prisons. Clearly, the naïve government policy that led to the outrage in Limerick women’s prison is not supported by the electorate.

Laoise Uí Aodha de Brún, founder of The Countess said, “This is the first time the public has been given a say on gender self-identification. When the government passed the Gender Recognition Act in 2015 it did so with little thought of the effect it would have on the wider community, let alone consultation with groups that would be most affected, particularly women.”

This does not mean that The Countess and the Irish public are transphobic. Rather they are pro-science, and supportive of the rights of women to defend their own boundaries. As a transgender person myself, I know transphobia when I see it and this is not it. It is not hateful to make factual claims such as “transwomen are not female and therefore not women”, nor is it transphobic to apply safeguarding procedures appropriate to an individual’s biological sex. That is necessary to protect everyone’s welfare. Accusations of transphobia are thrown around far too easily and they deflect attention from genuine hate.

Unfortunately, though, the Irish self-identification “success story” has been misrepresented and disseminated by activists who are desperate to extend it far and wide. On this side of the Irish sea, the Westminster government has, to their credit, thrown out self-identification, despite the howls of protest from some quarters — but gender recognition is a devolved matter. North of the border, Nicola Sturgeon’s SNP government seems determined to make the same mistakes as the Irish one, despite the furore surrounding the debate. Scotland has already cited alignment with “international best practice” as a rationale for introducing self-identification, using Ireland as an example.

All these leaders have been hoodwinked by a narrow group of self-interested activists who have seized the agenda and are loath to let go. I’m a teacher and my pupils are taught to think critically. Some of our politicians need to learn a similar lesson. Instead of following blindly, then need to start asking themselves some hard questions. I suggest they kick off with “Who told us that self-ID was international best practice and why did we believe them?” Because this polling suggests that their electorates would like some answers.

#Transgender Movement #Ireland #Women's Rights #Cillian Murphy #Andrew Scott #Barry Keoghan #Colin Farrell #The New Masculinity #Irish Times #Irish Independent #Trans Identified Males #Child Safety #McGuinness

[uncanny-tranny]

The weirdest double standard is trans people can only ever "identify as" and cis people just "are," and the more time goes on and people start realizing this, I hope this will change

#trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #mtf #nonbinary #at this point somebody saying 'you identify as male' to me is an instant red flag #because 'identify as' language is a good way to say 'well you just IDENTIFY that way that doesn't mean you ARE' #do i identify as trans? sure if you want to dig and dig at me to get me to say. but i also AM male and AM so much #this goes double for when somebody just assumes they know how you want to be referred to as #i think trans liberation will start to happen when trans people can just 'be' in the same way which everybody else can #when being trans matters perhaps but it matters in the same way people wear glasses or have grey eyes or are left-handed #being trans CAN matter but people amplify somebody's transness in often insidious ways

[nai-te]

You can't even say that men wrote laws that oppressed women throughout history without someone trying to make it up to be transphobic

You're called a terf for addressing the patriarchy

#Kinda sus that trans women identify with oppressive males throughout history #radical feminist safe #radblr #radical feminism #Transgender

[butch-reidentified]

to feel that you are a woman wrongfully born into a male body is, by its very nature, an exclusively male experience. to hate your male body, to hate being recognized as male, to desire to be recognized as female, are things that only a male could feel. a male cannot ever be certain that he "feels like a woman," because he cannot ever truly know how any natal woman feels (our womanhood isn't based on any feeling, anyway), just as these tiktok "therians" cannot "shift" into the mind of a fox/cat/wolf/hamster/whatever because no human can actually know what it feels to be any animal. it is fundamentally and undeniably true that only a male human could ever experience a disconnect with his male body which he wishes to be female, that only a male human could ever long to shed his maleness. in order to be a "trans woman," one must first understand, recognize, and reject his maleness, must comprehend that his natural state lacks that which is female. to attempt to transition to female bears the prerequisite of knowing you are male.

#mine #gender identity ideology #radblr #GII #gender critical #trans-identified males

[niiwa-angel]

This has gotta be one of the stupidest things I've ever seen. The lady is 100% correct that the kid was born as something, they're either male or female. This comic tries to make it look like she's the bad guy but she's 100% correct.

I'd also point out just how well this adds to the theory that most "trans kids" are just victims of Munchausen by Proxy. How is this kid going to know if they're a boy or a girl if not by sex? Stereotypes. Boys like trucks and getting messy and nerf guns and steak and climbing trees and the colour blue! Girls like dolls and dresses and tea parties and baking and pink! So progressive y'all!!!

This is like the opposite of gender equality. Instead of teaching the kid that they're a boy/girl and that doesn't stop them from liking or disliking anything, we're going to sit here and pretend a little kid has any idea what a gender identity is

#trans identified males are the most misogynistic poss ever #misogyny #trans misogyny #trans child abuse #protect trans kids #from TRAs #trans kids are victims #Munchausen by Proxy #gender critical #radical feminists please interact #radfem safe #radfems olease touch #radfems please respond #radfems please touch #gender critical feminism #feminism #trans women are men #trans men are women

[burningtheroots]

#women deserve better #radfem #radblr #radical feminism #feminism #radfems do touch #radfems do interact #radfems please touch #womens rights #sex based rights #transgender #tra receipts #peak trans #transwomen are men #trans identified male #trans identity #gender ideology #trans cult #gender critical #women first #I could post stuff like this 24/7 for the next ten years so be grateful that I‘ve got other stuff to do as well #these males are scum #old but gold

[horse-head-farms]

Cleo and her various t4t relationships

#sorry hypno/xb fans its the monthly cleo post from me #gotta ride the cletho hype by promoting my t4t cleo agenda #so my headcanons for each: #cleo is trans fem nonbinary. evil genderqueer woman #etho is either trans masc as hell or trans fem in denial. haven’t decided which i prefer #bdubs is a trans man #joe is joe #jevin is an asexual species (slime) which culture doesn’t have a concept of gender but he himself identifies as male so is trans #(agender -> male) #but trans man jevin is also kinda neat. hmm #hermitcraft #traffic series #hermitshipping #trafficshipping #hermitshipblr #trafficshipblr #my art #zombie cleo #ethoslab #bdoubleo100 #joe hills #ijevin #cletho #clethubs #cledubs #jleo #jevleo

[autistic-and-radical]

I have no doubt that you will fight to ban transwomen from entering female spaces, but in the end it will be futile. Transwomen are constantly being given access to female spaces and women's attempts to stop them are constantly failing. Anti hate crime laws will also get you labelled as transphobic and targeted. The female sex will be erased and there is nothing you can do to stop it, no matter how hard you fight :)

This. This is peak misogyny. I want libs and TRAs of Tumblr to see this bc that's what your movement is doing

Also, from my knowledge it's the Y chromosome that's degrading so it's males that will go extinct

#radfem #radical feminism #feminist #feminism #radblr #radfems do interact #radical feminist #women deserve better #rad fem #terf #terf safe #terfblr #terfsafe #trans exclusionary radical feminist #sex not gender #gender cult #gender ideology #lgb without the t #trans identified male #misogyny #anti woke

[unrvlybutch]

Your pain, their fetish.

I feel for the women who trust talking to this man about their chest issues, jealousy should never be a response to a woman's pain.

I recently had a friend go through a drastic breast reduction surgery, and her life changed entirely. She could stand at her job for 7 hours now without back pain, something she'd been formerly unable to do since the age of 13. The damage to her spine may cause her issues later in life.

I hope someone kicks this creep right in the spine.

#radical feminist safe #radical feminists do interact #terfblr #radical feminism #radblr #terfsafe #terfs do interact #terfs please touch #trans receipts #trans identified male

[msclaritea]

Cyclist slams ‘ridiculous’ outrage after losing to two trans athletes

Cisgender cyclist slams ‘ridiculous’ anti-trans outrage after placing third behind two trans athletes

Dec 08

Written by Ali Condon

"A cisgender cyclist who lost a race to two trans athletes has slammed transphobic critics.

A cisgender cyclist who placed third in an amateur cycling championship behind two transgender athletes is calling out “ridiculous” anti-trans outrage.

Kristen Chalmers missed out on winning the Illinois cycling championships when two of her transgender co-competitors, Tessa Johnson and Evelyn Williamson took home the gold and silver..."

Kristen Chalmers is a retched liar, evidenced by her using, the by now, universally known slur, CIS. It is incorrect and insulting in every regard. In addition, when you consider that Chicago, Illinois turned itself over to Socialists, I'm sure it wouldn't be difficult to find enough local Feminists and Trans Identified Males tp sign her petition. These people are criminals for lying to the public over what Trans really is. Pink News is majority male-run and almost doesn't even acknowledge Lesbians.

#Trans Identified Males #Kristen Chalmers #Ringer #Chicago is Socialist #Large Jewish Community #Afam Kadmon #The World Now Knows That CIS Is A Slur #Used Against Men and Women #Gender Ideology Cult

[rottmnt-residuum]

So, I had to look up the meaning of Theseus Risk… and I think it means, like, they think he’s threatening or aggressive or something? Did I get that right? Also I was wondering what S:F means. The only thing I can think of is female, and I know some people think Leo is a girl, but I was just wondering… :>

No, you got it. That's a bio sex marker, the logic for why is in this post, but leo is just trans in this comic

#residual asks #not that he knows that hvgcvgjvv #no clue how you came to that conclusion for theseus risk #but you're not wrong lmao #to be clear leo is a trans man. which means he identifies as male

[angel-archivist]

It's so interesting and so exceedingly frustrating how agab is being utilized now within the queer community as a way to isolate and sort nonbinary and genderqueer folks into binary boxes that determine their moral purity levels, and their authority to do and write and exist.

The way nonbinary writers are being put under accusation of fetishizing gay men while their AGAB is continually brought up in a way that feels like queer-space-approved misgendering.

The way feminist circles that are supposedly trans-inclusive will use the word AFAB in a way that implicitly but intentionally isolates nonbinary people who aren't AFAB from joining. It's for women*.

The way the language is already flawed and leaves out intersex folks from the conversations while focusing on a binary of sex that isn't truthful.

The constant obsessing over whether someone is AFAB or AMAB and whether or not that gives them the privilege to join, do, write, or be present in certain spaces really really concerns me. How are we supposed to dismantle a binary system of gender if we can't even move past forcibly assigning and focusing on people's genders assigned at birth?

#and yes i understand! that agab language can in some circumstances be helpful in inclusive language and in the medical world but ultimately #is misgendering and unnecessary it should be up to the person to disclose their agab not an expectation of them to give up freely #I think that inclusive language shouldnt be misgendering in nature and agab as far as i can tell should only be used in select discussions #and certainly not as a way to frame a nonbinary writer as a “biological woman” but in a way where the queer community will nod along and sa #“oh they have a point” because you used the word AFAB instead #honestly afab is the term i see used most frequently and most harmfully towards other nonbinary people who don't identify w the label #to exclude trans women and amab nonbinary people #to frame nonbinary people as “still women” because of their assigned gender at birth #also i understand its not as simple as “not using” these terms bc they still serve a purpose and are important #but as they leave the queer community and as they enter the hands of cis queer people they become weapons #i wish i could like manifest my thoughts super clearly but i really cant bc its a difficult situation #its just another example of misogyny and bio-essentialism creeping into the queer community #because the patriarchy impacts all things including our discussions of trans oppression and gender we need to stop viewing it #as a strict binary of male female and oh sometimes we'll mention nonbinary people but we're all afab and amabs at the end of the day <3 #like flames literal flames #if you wanna like chip into the conversation just shoot me an ask or respond to the post i'd love to hear other peoples perspectives #im not infalliable so if i said anything you view as incorrect especially in regards to intersex folks and how you all would like to be #included in these discussions as im not intersex but am aware of how agab is a subject that leans into the idea of a binary of sex #so yeah rant over <3 #retro.bullshit #rant

[coochiequeens]

When I say "Stop transing minors" I don't just mean medically transitioning, I also mean stop exposing kids to overly sexualized situations.

By Shay Woulahan April 24, 2024

A 14-year-old girl who identifies as a “drag king” and is being transitioned to a “boy” has reportedly been performing sexually suggestive shows at LGBT clubs and bars across Vancouver, Canada. The minor, who is disabled and autistic, goes by “he/him/they/it” pronouns and is taking testosterone under the permission of her mother.

The child, who was born female but identifies as a “boy,” uses the stage name “Nova Tropica” and has performed in at least three LGBT bars in Vancouver, all of which are adult venues that serve alcohol. Among the clubs Nova has danced at are The Fountainhead Pub, Steamworks brewpub, and The Junction.

According to Gays Against Groomers, during her performance at The Foundationhead Pub, a gay bar located on Davie Street, the child danced with only tape covering the front of her breasts.

The child as seen in an uncensored video posted to Instagram.

Nova maintains a YouTube channel where she often uploads footage of her performances.

In August of 2023, she shared a video of her dancing on stage in a bar to the song “Bubblegum B*tch” and is seen collecting dollar bills from audience members. In another video, Nova is seen dancing alone to the Britney Spears’ controversial song “If U Seek Amy,” which is intended to sound out the letters “F-U-C-K me.”

In some of the videos posted to her YouTube account, she is seen dancing to an adult crowd wearing only a cut-out bathing suit, an outfit she has also posed in for photos shared to her social media while wearing clear, stiletto “pleasers,” a form of platform high-heel most frequently associated with stripping, pole dancing, and the sex trade.

As well as posting footage of her performances to YouTube, Nova also maintains an Instagram page where she posts clips of herself dancing on stage while exclusively adult crowds cheer her on. In many of the videos, Nova is wearing revealing clothing and, during one performance, she even spreads her legs for the audience.

On her Instagram, which was made private shortly after her activities were first exposed by Gays Against Groomers, Nova also frequently posted about her mental health struggles, though continuously insisted her “neurodivergence” was unrelated to her desire to transition.

“The only way they could even correlate is through the way I view my gender,” Nova said in the caption of one post where she described herself as a “demon boy” and said she’s “everything Lucifer wants her to be.”

In another post, in which she wears a cut-out swimsuit she has performed in, Nova said she “loves” how testosterone is starting to affect her muscle definition.

Nova’s transition has been supported by her mother Chrysta. On her own Instagram page, Chrysta posted about how she had been struggling to access hormones for her daughter since she was just 11 years old.

In the post, Chrysta acknowledges that Nova is experiencing poor mental health, but attributes her condition to “being born in the wrong body.” She also condemns the Canadian political parties attempting to pass legislation which would protect children from medical transitioning.

“I will not allow any government to MURDER my child,” Chrysta said in one post. “Forcing a child to live in a body that is not authentic to their person is MURDER.”

The post was made in reference to the People’s Party of Canada, which developed a 7-point plan to protect women and children from the harmful effects of gender ideology, such as banning men from women’s spaces and sports and banning genital mutilation surgeries and cross-sex hormones for minors.

Not only has Chrysta facilitated Nova’s transition, but she also confesses to monitoring her social media, meaning she is aware of the inappropriate videos and photos being posted online of her minor daughter.

In one post, she addressed rumors that an adult Drag King had behaved inappropriately in messages with her young daughter, claiming the concerns were “false accusations.”

But her notice was not the only suggestion that Nova has been in contact with adult drag performers.

On Instagram, Nova spoke about attending a youth summer “drag camp” hosted by “Rose Butch” and “DeeDee LaCraze.”

DeeDee LaCraze also operates a YouTube channel called “Drag4Kids” where he has made multiple videos in full drag singing nursery rhymes. LaCraze hosts his youth drag camp along side Rose Butch, a trans identified female who calls herself a “non-binary drag thing.”

The summer camp, held in July 2023, was made available for children as young as 7.

There has been an uptick in the number of children performing drag, often in bars and clubs, in recent years. Last April, a video went viral showing a young “drag queen” dancing at a party sponsored by a gay hookup app.

Arguably one of the most well-known “drag kids” is Desmond Napoles, who goes by the name “Desmond is Amazing.” Desmond rose to fame at only 11 years old in 2017 after being featured on RuPaul’s Drag Race. Soon after, the child appeared in YouTube and Facebook streams alongside adult men, and was even filmed joking about snorting ketamine.

With the increase in “drag kids” has come further scrutiny of the sexual predators involved in the drag scene. In 2022, a “drag kid” mentor and a former elementary school teaching assistant faced child pornography charges following an investigation into exploitative material shared on the internet.

#Canada #The woke way to exploit girls #Drag is adult entertainment #Drag kids is an example of child abuse #The trans and autism connection #The Fountainhead Pub should lose their business permit #Steamworks brewpub should lose their business permit #The Junction should lose their business petmit #The girl identifies as a male yet is still being sexually exploited #Either she's receiving 5 10 or higher tips or visiting Americans are giving her dollar tips #Youtube

[i-used-to-be-an-anti-feminist]

You can read one book and identify as a bookworm. You can see yourself as someone who loves books, and you can ask other people to refer to you as a bookworm. If someone who reads two books a day spends time with you and observes that you only watch movies, they may think you aren't a real lover of books, at least not in the same way they are. They may (out of courtesy to you) continue to affirm you are a bookworm by referring to you as one, but that does not change how they actually perceive you or what you actually are.

A female can dislike her breasts and identify as someone without breasts. She can have her breasts surgically removed, and have others participate in her identity as a breastless woman by observing that she does not have breasts and referring to her as such. However, she has not changed the material reality that she is someone who grows breasts, or she would not have needed to remove them in the first place.

A man can make observations about women's behavior and identify with them. He can then transition into the socially expected affectations of womanhood. He can wear clothes typically worn by women, he can adopt stereotypically feminine behaviors, and he can even alter his body such that external observers may not always identify that he is male. External observers may (out of courtesy for him or a genuine belief that he is female) refer to him as a woman. However, this does not change their genuine perception of his maleness, nor the material reality that he is male. While it is possible to identify with gender (which is a set of behaviors typically assigned to one's sex) it is physically impossible to identify out of one's actual sex. Males can become transwomen, but they can never become female, or they would be female and would not by definition have needed to transition.

This fact does not make transwomen less worthy of respect, human rights, bodily autonomy, adequate healthcare, or freedom from harassment. But it does not grant them the right to demand that others participate in a lie that they are female. It does not grant them universal access to spaces reserved for females, nor does it grant them the right to shame or police a female's personal observations and preferences. Transgender individuals deserve to be treated with kindness, courtesy, and human dignity, but they do not deserve to be treated like gods.

#i don't care if you're transgender #i'm not going to go out of my way to misgender you #i will advocate for your existence to be free of discrimination in areas you should be protected #by i will not happily welcome males #whether they identify as women or not #into spaced where my i am meant to protected from males #i am not going to be bullied into pretending sex is the same thing as gender #and that i have a special privilege because i chose to identify with my own oppression #if i could have identified out of it i would have #i had body dysmorphia #i tried #it doesn't work because you can't change your sex #and people who aren't delusional know that #wwnf #female #my post #trans rights #not a radfem #but terfs do interact #terf friendly #gender ideology #nonbinary

[beebfreeb]

falling to my knees and begging please talk about your dimentio gender headcannon more

Dimentio is the character of all time to me. I see a design that is entirely covered head to toe in fabric with a mask on top and I go aha you want complete control over how other people perceive you!

I don't think he'd be all that familiar with the concept of being trans, and that it'd be unlikely that anyone would bring it up to him directly during the events of the game. This is what convoluted post-canon AUs that I have yet to meaningfully illustrate are for!

He is so focused on how he appears to other people that he'd fail to recognize what he wants from it (beyond just having that control) even if it would be extremely obvious if he were to ever verbalize it.

Anyway silly joke images upon you all:

#spm #funny talking tag #He based his identity around playing roles. He's not normal. #he came up with the name Dimentio when he was 16 and pretends he is not attatched to it at all #Also he would struggle to identify with the concept at first because while I DO think he is Transmasc #I do not think he is Man (binary) I think he's Dimentio (I like him he's some flavor of agender) #It is also very funny to say ''yeah this canonically male character. I think he is trans. By that I mean if you asked he'd say he's a girl'' #''Then in game he blows up and dies without ever figuring it out.''

[bb-fennelposting]

happy lesbian visibility week from one lesbian to all the others!

friendly reminder that we accept ALL lesbians here, including mspec and he/him lesbians! all queer identities made in good faith and valid, and all queers should be allowed to express themselves in whatever way makes them hapliness! we aint no time for your exclusionary bullshit.

#moss meows #after doing some exploration i found out i am genderfluid!! yippee!!!!!! 🎉 #still some flavor of female 80% of the time but there were days were i legitimately identified as a trans male #temporarily IDing as a man has made me all the more hellbent on supporting fellow mspec lesbians and he/him lesbians #you rock!!! i love u guys!!!