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When you’re involved in a genuine conversation, you’re listening, and talking—but mostly listening. Listening is paying attention. It’s amazing what people will tell you if you listen.

Jordan B. Peterson, 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos

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We must each adopt as much responsibility as possible for individual life, society and the world.

Dr. Jordan B Peterson, 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos

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But no; that’s not the way it is! To do evil a human being must first of all believe that what he’s doing is good, or else that it’s a well-considered act in conformity with natural law. | Fortunately, it is in the nature of the human being to seek a justification for his actions. | Macbeth’s self-justifications were feeble—and his conscience devoured him. Yes, even Iago was a little lamb too. The imagination and the spiritual strength of Shakespeare’s evildoers stopped short at a dozen corpses. Because they had no ideology. | Ideology—that is what gives evildoing its long-sought justification and gives the evildoer the necessary steadfastness and determination. | That is the social theory which helps to make his acts seem good instead of bad in his own and others’ eyes, so that he won’t hear reproaches and curses but will receive praise and honors. | That was how the agents of the Inquisition fortified their wills: by invoking Christianity; the conquerors of foreign lands, by extolling the grandeur of their Motherland; the colonizers, by civilization; the Nazis, by race; and the Jacobins (early and late), by equality, brotherhood, and the happiness of future generations. | Thanks to ideology, the twentieth century was fated to experience evildoing on a scale calculated in the millions. This cannot be denied, nor passed over, nor suppressed. | How, then, do we dare insist that evildoers do not exist? And who was it that destroyed these millions? | Without evildoers there would have been no Archipelago. | Solzhenitsyn, Aleksandr. The Gulag Archipelago [Volume 1]: An Experiment in Literary Investigation (pp. 173-174)

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Conflict—and Territory

Over the millennia, animals who must co-habit with others in the same territories have in consequence learned many tricks to establish dominance, while risking the least amount of possible damage. A defeated wolf, for example, will roll over on its back, exposing its throat to the victor, who will not then deign to tear it out. The now-dominant wolf may still require a future hunting partner, after all, even one as pathetic as his now-defeated foe. Bearded dragons, remarkable social lizards, wave their front legs peaceably at one another to indicate their wish for continued social harmony. Dolphins produce specialized sound pulses while hunting and during other times of high excitement to reduce potential conflict among dominant and subordinate group members. Such behavior is endemic in the community of living things.

Lobsters, scuttling around on the ocean floor, are no exception.5 If you catch a few dozen, and transport them to a new location, you can observe their status-forming rituals and techniques. Each lobster will first begin to explore the new territory, partly to map its details, and partly to find a good place for shelter. Lobsters learn a lot about where they live, and they remember what they learn. If you startle one near its nest, it will quickly zip back and hide there. If you startle it some distance away, however, it will immediately dart towards the nearest suitable shelter, previously identified and now remembered.

A lobster needs a safe hiding place to rest, free from predators and the forces of nature. Furthermore, as lobsters grow, they moult, or shed their shells, which leaves them soft and vulnerable for extended periods of time. A burrow under a rock makes a good lobster home, particularly if it is located where shells and other detritus can be dragged into place to cover the entrance, once the lobster is snugly ensconced inside. However, there may be only a small number of high-quality shelters or hiding places in each new territory. They are scarce and valuable. Other lobsters continually seek them out.

This means that lobsters often encounter one another when out exploring. Researchers have demonstrated that even a lobster raised in isolation knows what to do when such a thing happens.6 It has complex defensive and aggressive behaviours built right into its nervous system. It begins to dance around, like a boxer, opening and raising its claws, moving backward, forward, and side to side, mirroring its opponent, waving its opened claws back and forth. At the same time, it employs special jets under its eyes to direct. streams of liquid at its opponent. The liquid spray contains a mix of chemicals that tell the other lobster about its size, sex, health, and mood.

Sometimes one lobster can tell immediately from the display of claw size that it is much smaller than its opponent, and will back down without a fight. The chemical information exchanged in the spray can have the same effect, convincing a less healthy or less aggressive lobster to retreat. That’s dispute resolution Level 1.7 If the two lobsters are very close in size and apparent ability, however, or if the exchange of liquid has been insufficiently informative, they will proceed to dispute resolution Level 2. With antennae whipping madly and claws folded downward, one will advance, and the other retreat.

Then the defender will advance, and the aggressor retreat. After a couple of rounds of this behaviour, the more nervous of the lobsters may feel that continuing is not in his best interest. He will flick his tail reflexively, dart backwards, and vanish, to try his luck elsewhere. If neither blinks, however, the lobsters move to Level 3, which involves genuine combat.

This time, the now enraged lobsters come at each other viciously, with their claws. extended, to grapple. Each tries to flip the other on its back. A successfully flipped lobster will conclude that its opponent is capable of inflicting serious damage. It generally gives up and leaves (although it harbours intense resentment and gossips endlessly about the victor behind its back). If neither can overturn the other—or if one will not quit despite being flipped—the lobsters move to Level 4. Doing so involves extreme risk, and is not. something to be engaged in without forethought: one or both lobsters will emerge damaged from the ensuing fray, perhaps fatally.

The animals advance on each other, with increasing speed. Their claws are open, so they can grab a leg, or antenna, or an eye-stalk, or anything else exposed and vulnerable.

Once a body part has been successfully grabbed, the grabber will tail-flick backwards, sharply, with claw clamped firmly shut, and try to tear it off. Disputes that have escalated to this point typically create a clear winner and loser. The loser is unlikely to survive, particularly if he or she remains in the territory occupied by the winner, now a mortal enemy.

In the aftermath of a losing battle, regardless of how aggressively a lobster has behaved, it becomes unwilling to fight further, even against another, previously defeated opponent.

A vanquished competitor loses confidence, sometimes for days. Sometimes the defeat can have even more severe consequences. If a dominant lobster is badly defeated, its brain basically dissolves. Then it grows a new, subordinate’s brain—one more appropriate to its new, lowly position.8 Its original brain just isn’t sophisticated to manage the transformation from king to bottom dog without virtually complete dissolution and regrowth. Anyone who has experienced a painful transformation after a serious defeat in romance or career may feel some sense of kinship with the once successful crustacean.

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“It is for this reason that every good example is a fateful challenge, and every hero, a judge. Michelangelo’s great perfect marble David cries out to its observer: “You could be more than you are.” When you dare aspire upward, you reveal the inadequacy of the present and the promise of the future. Then you disturb others, in the depths of their souls, where they understand that their cynicism and immobility are unjustifiable. You play Abel to their Cain. You remind them that they ceased caring not because of life’s horrors, which are undeniable, but because they do not want to lift the world up on to their shoulders, where it belongs.”

- Jordan B. Peterson, 12 Rules for Life: an Antidote to Chaos

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“Antes de criticar al mundo, ordena perfectamente tu casa”

Jordan Peterson 

Jordan Bernt Peterson es un psicólogo clínico, crítico cultural y profesor de psicología canadiense, nacido en Alberta en junio de 1962, y especialista en la psicología de las creencias religiosas e ideológicas y la evaluación y mejora de la personalidad y el rendimiento laboral.

Su madre era bibliotecaria y su padre maestro de escuela, y es el mayor de tres hermanos.

Estudió ciencias políticas y literatura inglesa y en 1982, obtuvo un Bachiller en artes en la Universidad de Alberta.

Al terminar sus estudios viajó por Europa, en donde desarrolló un interés particular por los orígenes psicológicos de la guerra fría y sobre los totalitarismos europeos del siglo XX. Como resultado de esto, Jordan comenzó a preocuparse y razonar sobre la capacidad del hombre para el mal y la destrucción, profundizando su estudio de las obras de Carl Jung, Friedrich Nietzsche, Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn y Fiodor Dostoyevsky.

En 1984 se licenció en psicología, y en 1991, obtuvo su doctorado en psicología clínica y permaneció como investigador postdoctoral en el hospital Douglas de McGill hasta 1993.

Entre 1993 y 1998 trabajó como profesor e investigador en el departamento de psicología de la Universidad de Harvard, en donde estudió la influencia del abuso de las drogas y el alcohol y el aumento del comportamiento agresivo de las personas.

Entre sus obras mas destacadas figuran “Maps of Meaning; The Architecture of Belief”, un libro que Peterson tardó 13 años en escribir y que describe una teoría exhaustiva de como las personas constituyen sus ideas y creencias, basándose en la figura mitológica del héroe explorador. Una interpretación de los modelos religiosos y míticos de la realidad, acompañados de una interpretación científica de cómo funciona el cerebro.

En 2018, se publica su segundo libro “12 Rules of life: An Antidote for Chaos”, cuyo contenido aborda principios éticos sobre la vida, en un estilo mas accesible que Maps of meaning, alcanzando, ser numero uno en ventas de libros de Amazon en los Estados Unidos y Canadá y el numero cuatro en el Reino Unido.

En abril de 2019, su esposa Tammy es diagnosticada con un cancer terminal y Peterson experimentó lo que había hablado extensamente en sus libros y conferencias; un colapso del orden y a aparición del caos. Ante tan terribles noticias la ansiedad de Peterson se disparó. Llevaba mucho tiempo tomando medicamentos para la ansiedad y ante el aumento de la dosis, Peterson generó una peligrosa dependencia física, desarrollando una condición llamada acatisia, sufriendo delirios y alucinaciones. 

Peterson ha sido catalogado políticamente como un Liberal Clásico y un observador tradicionalista. 

Peterson afirma que las universidades en Estados Unidos y Europa, son en gran parte responsables de una ola de lo “políticamente correcto”, destacándose este fenómeno a partir de la década de 1990, en donde la “cultura apropiada”, se ha visto afectada por el posmodernismo y el neomarxismo, abarcando temas como el feminismo, la teoría critica de la raza, el supremacismo blanco y el ecologismo.

Peterson afirma, que existe una “crisis de masculinidad”, y una reacción violenta contra la masculinidad, en donde la izquierda caracteriza a la jerarquía social existente como un patriarcado opresivo, que no admite que la jerarquía actual podría basarse en la competencia.

Fuente Wikipedia y fundacionales.org

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And if you think tough men are dangerous, wait until you see what weak men are capable of.

Jordan B. Peterson, 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos

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"12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos" by Jordan Peterson is a self-help book that provides guidance on how to live a meaningful and fulfilling life. The book draws on a range of sources, including mythology, religion, and psychology, to provide a holistic view of personal growth and self-improvement.

In the book, Peterson lays out 12 rules that can help individuals to navigate the challenges and uncertainties of life. The rules range from the importance of standing up straight with your shoulders back, to taking responsibility for your own life and pursuing meaning and purpose. Throughout the book, Peterson provides practical advice and relatable examples to help illustrate each rule.

One of the strengths of "12 Rules for Life" is its integration of various philosophical and psychological ideas into a cohesive framework. Peterson presents a compelling case for the importance of taking personal responsibility, developing self-awareness, and seeking meaning in life. The book is written in an accessible and engaging style, making it easy for readers to understand and apply the principles outlined.

Additionally, the book provides a refreshing perspective on the role of tradition and cultural heritage in shaping our lives. Peterson argues that our traditional values and beliefs, despite their flaws, provide a necessary foundation for our individual and collective wellbeing.

In conclusion, "12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos" is a thought-provoking and insightful book that provides practical guidance for navigating the complexities of life. Whether you're seeking self-improvement or just looking for a new perspective, this book is definitely worth checking out.

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How to Invest in Yourself Like a Weirdo

There is nothing more rewarding than the feeling of working hard to accomplish something. Giving your all in an endeavor because you believe that you will succeed. That is precisely how we should treat the task of investing in ourselves. There is no greater project in life than becoming the best version of yourself, becoming more weirder and sexier. I take full pride in investing in my weirdness and so should you, true greatness lies within the madness that we intensely try to suppress. Here’s how to invest in yourself like a weirdo and hopefully become the best version of yourself.

Learn how to learn

Learning is the key to discoveries. The door to opportunities and adventures beyond our wildest imaginations. But do you know what’s even better than learning: learning how to learn (that’s right, you can learn how to learn)? The road to greatness starts here. This is a step that one cannot skip. You have to spend a substantial amount of time figuring out how to learn properly and efficiently. Learn how to read and retain information. Learn where to find the information that you need and how to use it effectively. Learn how to read faster and focus better. Learn how to listen to others and how to learn from them as well.

“Every bit of learning is a little death. Every bit of new information challenges a previous conception, forcing it to dissolve into chaos before it can be reborn as something better. Sometimes such deaths virtually destroy us.”

― Jordan B. Peterson, 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos

I cannot emphasize this idea enough: If you want to get weirder, you have to learn weirder (that sounds wrong but you get the point). Learning is the cornerstone of evolution. The better you are at it, the faster you evolve, and the more value you produce. Learning is a skill, and like all skills, it can be improved through knowledge and practice. One can master anything as long as they have weaponized learning.

Master the art of seduction

Life and death are in the power of the tongue. Every conversation, every dispute, and every negotiation hinges on your ability to persuade others. Closing sales, getting that big contract, obtaining that desired salary, and wooing your crush are all acts of persuasion. We practice the art of persuasion every day, every minute, every second. We even have to persuade ourselves constantly to get things done. But this extends beyond mere persuasion. It’s also about politeness, gentleness, and chivalry. Being able to say “hi”, “sorry”, and “thank you”. It is said that a sweet response is like a kiss on the lips and balm applied to a sore. I hope you can understand the profoundness of that adage.

“Life is negotiation. The majority of the interactions we have at work and at home are negotiations that boil down to the expression of a simple, animalistic urge: I want.”

— Christopher Voss and Tahl Raz

If ever the heavens could bestow upon me a superpower, I wish that it would be that of seduction. To be able to respond sweetly, coherently, and with much consideration to every word that I release. To be able to sell air for millions due to the craftiness of my tongue. Life becomes so much better when you have adequate control of your tongue. Master the art of seduction, and see how walls and barriers simply fade away.

Beautify thyself

No matter what you say or think, it is an undeniable fact that the perception of beauty has great privileges in the world we live in. As a result, millions of dollars are spent yearly on beauty products and plastic surgery. We all come from different walks of life with different scars and defaults but time and money offer a chance for improvement. You do not need exuberant amounts of money to beautify thyself. The cheapest and most potent tool is your smile (if it’s a bit unappealing, get it fixed). Wear a smile everywhere you go, it will cost you nothing but might give you everything).

“It is my firm belief that the best way to fix the world — a handyman’s dream, if ever there was one — is to fix yourself,”

― Jordan B. Peterson, 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos

Go to the gym, take a walk, jog, exercise, stay in shape, broaden those shoulders, push that chest out and walk with your head held up. Take a shower and invest in a good bottle of body cream, deodorant, and hair trimmer. Men, be masculine and strong and dress sensibly. Women, be feminine and gentle and dress modestly. The better you look, the more confident you feel and behave. Beautifying yourself is life’s ultimate cheat code for getting people to like you.

How to invest in yourself like a weirdo is that simple. Learn, seduce and beatify (I hope this sounds as dope as it sounded in my head). Remember, you are the prize, you are the goal, and you are the dream. You must give yourself every chance to succeed in this world. Therefore, invest your time and effort in becoming the best version of yourself.

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Jordan Peterson, ‘12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos’ (2018)

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Feeling Lost in the Chaos? ⚔️** 12 Rules for Life** Might Be Your Dragon Slayer ️

Feeling adrift? Like life's one big existential shrug? We've all been there. But what if I told you there's a battle plan? A guide to navigating the inevitable chaos and finding meaning?

Enter Dr. Jordan B. Peterson's 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos. This book isn't a box of sunshine and kittens. It's a powerful, no-nonsense approach to taking responsibility, setting goals, and finding your purpose.

Here's a taste of what you'll get:

** Tame the Dragons Within:** Learn to conquer procrastination, bad habits, and negativity.

** Stand Up Straight with Your Shoulders Back:** Develop self-discipline and take control of your life.

** Befriend the Truth, Even When It Hurts:** Because facing reality is the first step to changing it.

** Slay the Societal Dragons:** Challenge destructive ideologies and find your own path.

This book is more than self-help, it's a call to action. It's for anyone who wants to stop struggling and start thriving. Ready to rise above the chaos? Grab your copy of 12 Rules for Life today!

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P.S. What's your biggest struggle right now? Share in the comments below!

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A Thoughtful Exploration of Life's Complexity: A Review of "12 Rules for Life" by Jordan B. Peterson

Love Him or Hate Him, He Does Bring Valid Points!!!

Jordan B. Peterson’s “12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos” is a thought-provoking exploration of human existence, offering practical advice for navigating life’s complexities. In this review, we’ll delve into eight key points that make this book a compelling read.

Insightful Analysis of Human Behavior: Peterson delves into the depths of human psychology, drawing from a rich tapestry of scientific research, literature, and personal anecdotes to illuminate the intricacies of human behavior. His insights shed light on why people behave the way they do, offering readers a deeper understanding of themselves and others.

2. Practical Guidance for Personal Growth: Each of Peterson’s twelve rules serves as a blueprint for personal growth and self-improvement. From “Stand Up Straight with Your Shoulders Back” to “Tell the Truth — or, at Least, Don’t Lie,” these rules provide practical guidance for overcoming life’s challenges and building a more meaningful existence.

3. Integration of Philosophy and Psychology: Peterson seamlessly integrates philosophical concepts with psychological principles, creating a holistic framework for understanding human existence. By drawing from diverse sources ranging from Nietzsche to Jung, he offers readers a multidimensional perspective on the human condition.

4. Emphasis on Responsibility and Meaning: Central to Peterson’s philosophy is the idea of responsibility and meaning. He argues that embracing responsibility is essential for finding purpose and meaning in life, urging readers to take control of their destiny rather than succumb to chaos and despair.

5. Engaging Writing Style: Peterson’s writing is both engaging and accessible, making complex ideas understandable to readers from all walks of life. His conversational tone and vivid storytelling keep readers captivated from start to finish, ensuring that even the most abstract concepts resonate on a personal level.

6. Critique of Postmodernism and Ideological Extremism: Throughout the book, Peterson offers a critique of postmodernism and ideological extremism, warning against the dangers of dogmatism and tribalism. He argues for the importance of individual autonomy and critical thinking in the face of ideological tyranny.

7. Integration of Mythology and Religion: Drawing from ancient myths and religious traditions, Peterson explores the timeless wisdom embedded in these cultural narratives. He argues that myths serve as archetypal templates for navigating life’s challenges, offering timeless lessons on virtue, courage, and redemption.

8. Controversy and Cultural Impact: “12 Rules for Life” has sparked controversy and debate since its publication, with Peterson’s views on topics such as gender, political correctness, and identity politics generating both praise and criticism. Regardless of one’s stance on these issues, the book has undeniably made a significant cultural impact, igniting discussions about the nature of truth, freedom, and moral responsibility.

In conclusion, “12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos” is a profound and thought-provoking book that offers valuable insights into the human condition. Peterson’s blend of psychology, philosophy, and practical advice makes this book a must-read for anyone seeking guidance on the journey of self-discovery and personal growth. Whether you agree or disagree with his views, there’s no denying the impact that “12 Rules for Life” has had on readers around the world, sparking important conversations about the nature of existence and the pursuit of meaning in an increasingly chaotic world.

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Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today.

Jordan B. Peterson, 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos

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Review: Tell the Truth - or, at least, Don't Lie

Leviticus 19:11 ‘Do not steal. Do not lie. Do not deceive one another. Continuing our Chapter-by-Chapter review of Dr. Jordan Peterson’s book, 12 Rules of Life – An Antidote to Chaos, we move into a simple truth – known by ethics, philosophies, and religions throughout the all the world and through all time – Thou Shalt not Lie. It is interesting that Dr. Peterson should take on such a simple…

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