#( and her mental health honestly )

[sillycathorrors]

doing one of these cause i think it would be funny !!

If this post gets 5k notes, ill finally completely cut ties with my toxic ‘friend’ who constantly victimises herself and is honestly the most infuriating person on the planet

#dont know how to tag this #notes game #toxic friend #??? #sorrens rambles #id have already done it tbh but shes been hanging with her other friends so i havent seen too much of her #and a lot of my friends have advised against it lest it cause a friendgroup wide split #but i think i need to do it tbh #for my own mental health honestly #this year i am prioritising myself over anything and i have no mental space or energy for toxic friends who dont leave me feeling uplifted #and loved and cared about after every convo

[genghisthebrain]

have decided that wednesday shares the canon mummy issues experience of feeling love towards middle aged females who express any interest or pride in you whatsoever

#wait_no on ao3 #wednesday 2022 #wednesday addams #larissa weems #marilyn thornhill #mommy issues #mummy issues #SORRY IF THE MUMMY IS JARRING TO YOU AMERICANS #honestly the same goes for her girlfriend miss enid sinclair #enid sinclair #wenclair #everything is wenclair #even mental health issues

[shesmymausoleum]

Greasy weasel woman

Art by me :)

#ianthe tridentarius #the locked tomb #tlt #i honestly hate ianthe so much she is awful (well written though #she seems like the kinda person who complains about her mental health for attention #htn fanart #saint of awe #art #locked tomb art

[kranom]

well, now I like Jodi

#stardew valley spoilers #I was entirely ambivalent about her but I like that she's worried about someone we never really see her interact with. #I hope Marnie also has a new line or two about Shane. I honestly found it a little jarring that she doesn't say anything to the farmer #about his mental health after his scene at the cliffs.

[aho-dapa]

This fandom is honestly...

Like, there is something to be said about fandoms in general and how they've changed as a whole generally but

There's also something about how the acotar fandom is especially toxic like

The idea that a post is surprised a murder hasn't happened yet and I found myself agreeing??? Is honestly telling

Like, also. A massive part of this is shipping and maybe it's because I have my corner of this fandom, but even then shipping the "wrong" thing in general has become something I honestly have to take in consideration when thinking of my mental health and if I can personally be prepared for any backlash??

This fandom at large doesn't feel safe and that's majorly concerning tbh

Maybe instead of saying shippers as a group are doing harm, we should just disavow harmful actions in general and not be complicit in it idk???

#anyway #just having thoughts #anti sjm #like I'm also pro Tamlin? and that doesn't help #i had to stop making intensive tamlin posts because my mental health honestly couldn't handle the constant discourse #which is sad when people genuinely come with the intent to discuss but since its all horrible in general I end up not having a lot of #emotional space to have a good conversation most of the time sighhhh #i also just end up blocking people in general when my timeline messes up my interests but #i have yet to block main ship tags because I still want to interact with my side of fandom on it but I'm sooooooo close to blocking #main tags because some people are vile on here #don't even get me started on gwyn because people end up saying shit they shouldn't be just because of shipping #and I don't have any personal feelings about gwyn but the way people say she's not important as a character gives me the ick tbh #like I get it from a sjm is a terrible writer standpoint #but gwyn did have narrative importance in acosf despite however I feel about how it coulf have been better written #and also as a character that is very explicitly a SA survivor some people here need to THINK about how they talk about her

[janamensch]

Juliett bouncy hair animation!!!

#oc #my ocs #juliett #spidersona #this isn’t something that happens in her spidersona au #I just wanted to draw the bouncy hair :) #I don’t think this Juliett’s mental health could take having her identity revealed honestly #When she’s visiting other spider universes that’d be fine of course but not in her own dimension

[rubenesque-as-fuck]

Anybody else slowly disassociating more and more as you slowly lose all of your touchstones in this world?

#it can't be just me right #also i am stoned and can't sleep why is it already past 2am damn #disassociation #no close family any more #one half sister where we have a weird relationship because i basically raised her for a while #so when we're around each other we just remind each other of our horrific childhoods and various mental health issues from that #all of my friends either live too far away are too busy with their own lives and loves (understandable) or have just forgotten me #starting to feel like I imagined that whole fling with d #but geez it'd be pretty pathetic if even a romance I made up in my head didn't end up with someone choosing me #then again I have trouble enjoying fantasies too far from the realm of possibility and maybe it's just not realistic to have someone want me #as more than a passing entertainment lol #anyway every day i feel less like a real person and more like a ghost or something imaginary or like a stranger in my own body #dang man i wish i could afford therapy i probably could use some huh #although my last therapist was pretty lackluster honestly #mental health #life of faye

[flygefisk]

ohh maybe i'll pick up this ugly primal aether and scatter her-

OUGH

#asdfdssafdds shes fantastic and i love her #i think im going w the 1st scry but. yells. #had a bad mental health day so that. honestly kinda helps lmao #flight rising #plague primal

[silasbug]

my mother called me träge, and she's right.

#tbf. she said it about both me and my sister #and it's not really an insult. just a fact. #i live so fucking slowly that i can't keep up with anything #i really am a human slug. ha #frankly i'm glad we were able to talk about it on those terms- where she says something like this and i am able to agree #because i think it makes her realize that it is something i am aware of and struggling with- that it's not something i want or do on purpos #and honestly? her saying that was one of the first times she's ever made me feel seen. #she's always been... quick to assume one does things out out of malice. but for once it didn't feel like that. #it felt like a smidge of understanding when it's always just been her taking my mental health struggles personally. #bug.txt

[francy-sketches]

i know she's not saying this bc she actually cares about what's best for him but she kinda went off so true queen. he is just a little guy he should not be in charge of a country

#.txt #broken clock etc #get my boy away from that ugly ass chair asap 🔫 #its not good for his mental health i think #monarchy is bad for exploiting peasants or whatever but more importantly it makes the king sad :( the king who is just a little boy :( #like honestly if she wasnt abusive she would not be doing anything wrong imo #god forbid she wants to rule for a little bit -_- let her be a girlboss #'but he should be learning how to rule' he's 8 he's not even done learning his multiplication tables

[old-memoria]

The mortal ordeal of working with boomers

#in case you’re wondering what I’ve been up to for these 6 tumblr-free months: I have a new job #the previous place was nice and my ex-colleagues were the best ppl honestly but the bosses were total shitbags #like no lmao we won’t respect your opinion work-life balance and mental health you WILL work from 10 to 20 and we’ll call you on Mondays #because you work in PR!! the clients are our top priority!! #like the boss called my colleague on January the 1st cause her old senile ass didn’t know how to book a flight to the Milan FW #my new company is fine we don’t overwork the bosses are super nice and understanding corporate lunches are great too BUT THE COWORKERS #the literal hell

[shizuu-chann]

Welp, finally finished BG3 for the first time in three playthroughs 😅 everything I read was right: I'm not satisfied with the ending at all! 🙃 Even the "good" ending is bittersweet and I'm not for it.

Time to replay from the beginning and mentally rewrite the ending~

#bg3 #bg3 spoilers #Karlach exploded #Wyll didn't say - well - anything #Lae'zel left on orpheus's dragons to kill vlaakith #I took her departure as an 'I'll see you later bc we're friends now like it or not' #I'm assuming we can still hang out with Astarion but only at night or in sun-concealed places #Halsin (my love!) departs with a 'I have go look after the orphans. Please come see me when you can. I'll miss you' which is fine honestly #I do not mind that #That's just a 'we both have important things to do but I love you and want to be with you #'Until we meet again (hopefully soon) I'll be thinking/dreaming of you' #Healthy and beautiful #I just assume my Tav shadow and gale hang out as a trio for the foreseeable future #For my mental health

[kaeyaphile]

if anyone knows anything re: filing for disability (or whatever the proper term is) in the usa i’d appreciate any help or advice because i just got fired from my job and it has gotten to the point that i think i am way too chronically ill to work for the time being and i honestly have no idea what to do

#kayleigh.txt #i have an appointment with my rheumatologist on halloween so i may just wait and ask her honestly #but like. i have been severely depressed and stressed for months and it is taking an astronomical toll on both my physical and mental health #and now i have been fired which. is making everything so much worse #because stress + chronic illnesses = death basically especially in my case #i plan on reapplying to the job i just got fired from once i’ve gotten shit under control #but it has been a downhill spiral all year and i genuinely want to die lmfao #definitely do not want to be on disability permanently but i need SOME form of income while we figure out actual treatment plans

[vesperione]

Have swifties considered that the tortured poets department isn’t “misunderstood bcs casual listeners don’t get the lyrics” but is simply a shit album.

#hi August if u see this bcs u won’t x #the AUDACITY of this FIFTEEN YEAR OLD CHILD messaging me saying #‘going from a borderline fan to then attacking her bcs she felt comfortable enough to talk abt her mental health’ #one. you never even met her. #two. that is an entire parasocial relationship. #three. this was over the fact I called out certain female celeb for everrrrything negative she’s done #AND THEN SAID FIFTEEN YEAR OLD CHILD #SENT THAT MESSAGE #AND BLOCKED ME. #BCS THEY ARE CLEARLY TOO COWARDLY TO FINISH SMTH THEY STARTED #fuck the internet honestly.

[wewontbesleeping]

my hot take is that if you knowingly fuck someone else's boyfriend you shouldn't be allowed to have a private instagram

#all of your social media should be public #i mean thank god her instagram isn't public for my own mental health lol #but like. #she was so proud about it at the time so idk why she's shy all of a sudden #sorry idk why sometimes i just think about it and get sad again #i really need to see a therapist because no amount of telling myself i'm over it will make me be over it #and this week has been fucking hard with all the discussion about joever and ttpd #and i KNOW the album is going to be fucking torture to listen to quite honestly

[swordmaid]

tav shri’iia is THE canon for me obvi but I also really like the idea of tav wren with yves still being part of the dead three as bhaal’s chosen. the thing with wren is that he was yves’ childhood friend who was pursuing his bard career and severely flopping. one night when he was supposed to escort yves home from the graveyard he chose to perform in some tavern instead, and that night is when the bhaalists came and killed her. for him, one of his closest friends just went missing the night he was supposed to look after her, and when she returns 2 weeks later all beaten up and bloody with no memory of herself ofc he felt guilty….! and he couldn’t even bear to look at her because it’s all his fault u know … if only he didn’t ditched her maybe this wouldn’t have happened so one night he just decides to leave bc he couldn’t take it anymore. it’s always been his dream to be a travelling bard anyway and maybe his career will pick up in some other city than baldur’s gate, so he leaves her and his home and sets out to salvage what he can of his career. and in the most part he was mildly successful. he also ends up making a pact with some fae and they help with his bard career too lol but the guilt of yves is still in his mind- he just got better at ignoring it.

SO. imagine his surprise when he gets tadpoled and goes to moonrise to find a cure and he sees his friend - the girl that’s been haunting his dreams and the source of his guilt and shame - a part of the evil cult that’s been enslaving people with parasites. and now he’s meant to kill her? but how could he when he’s the one who left her behind and maybe it’s his fault that she turned out like this … but anyway I love the idea of wren being like noooo that’s NOT yves she would never do that!! and they’re just like girl ur delusional ur friend is literally chopping people up forcing us to find the parts like some treasure hunt

#but durge era yves is so similar to glados to me where she is so mild about everything and instead of forcing you to test #she forces you to figure out the murder mysteries around the lower city and present ur case in the murder tribunal #like as she says. the only thing better than murder is getting away with it and what’s more fun than to watch someone figure out the puzzle #you set for them u kno 🤭🤭 #and her proposition to ally w her is that she wants u to figure out the whole absolute ploy and how it started and what role she plays #and the only way to get those answers is to break in gortash’s place which betrays his trust … so it’s like a fun whodunit for her..!! #also i think wren finds out what actually happens to her that night .. learning that his real friend died and got replaced with this other o #other one who’s essentially just wearing her skin … reconciling with the truth that if he was with her she would’ve lived … killing this #yves for his friend so she can have some peace finally .. etc etc. it’s really about ween #wren*s survivor’s guilt bc I like to imagine they had another friend who he left with to look after yves #and when he finally returned after how many years he learns that friend has been dead (bc yves killed him) and allegedly yves’ mental #health went downhill when their friend died so she had to be sent away #which in truth she just left for the bhaal temple lol #anyway just thinking abt this three.. def wanna do a wren playthrough one day ..!! #also their other friend’s name is pan (full name xaphan) and they’re a tiefling but idk abt their appearance yet #making them a tiefling so yves’ first kill post lobotomy links back to her og friends where - if #it’s alfira she’s a bard like wren and tiefling like pan … but honestly pan could be Dragonborn too if she ends up killing quill lol #shut up about bg3. #bg3