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My version of the “do it scared” post is: do it scared and don’t wait until you feel absolutely ready or wait until you feel you have the perfect opportunity.

Anxiety usually makes us procrastinate because we fear failure, or because we fear facing certain things that induce anxiety, and it’s a snowball effect. It tells you to do things at the right moment, when you have all figured out, when you have prepared yourself the most, but if you’re a perfectionist like I am, you might be waiting until you can finally execute things perfectly.

Perfection doesn’t exist and doing your best realistically means doing what you can in face of the circumstances in your life, instead pushing yourself to give more than you can. Do it scared, don’t wait until you feel perfectly prepared, don’t try to make whatever project you’re working on perfect either. Whatever you’ve managed to do, be done with it and move on, don’t overdo it. You don’t have to be perfect. You’re enough as you are.

Do it scared. Don’t wait. Do it in a way that’s manageable and respects your needs. Don’t ignore those needs trying to be perfect. You already are capable, you already are good enough. You’re not a failure if you’re not perfect. You are more than capable of doing this. I believe in you.

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#Needed this #Reminder #Do it at capacity

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"So my office is overflowing with flowers..." "Really?"

Thank you so much to @heeeygracie (twitter/ko-fi) for taking my commission!! I always find myself wanting more of this scene, since we only ever hear Kara talk about it. Thank you, Gracie, for bringing this to life!! ❤️

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i know they lacked compassion and empathy with you, but that does not mean you should do the same to yourself, okay?

#This #Self beating

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the problem with being creative is that you start to feel very guilty when you haven’t created anything in a while

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I know this isn't a new thought at all, but how many people at CatCo do we think know Kara's secret? I'm not talking about the Nia/James/Cat/Winn people, but random others.

Does Ed the janitor sigh in frustration everytime he finds Kara's clothes ripped off in the middle of the hallway, only to fold them nicely and hide them behind the nearest plant? (Kara still hasn't quite caught on that they aren't landing there naturally when she throws them to the side)

Does Taylor in security casually loop footage and cut out the moments where Kara dramatically displays the House of El symbol?

Does Lindsay from accounting just so happen to sit across from a balcony Supergirl likes to use to fly in and out of, hidden enough that Kara doesnt think twice about what shes doing?

And Eric, from HR. He noticed that Kara's excessively late clock ins and very early clock outs lined up perfectly with Supergirl helping with massive fights and emergencies. He casually reroutes all the automated emails to Kara's bosses that should be reminding them to write her up.

Even bringing it outside of CatCo. Is there young a barista at Noonan's who always slips Kara an extra couple of sticky buns. Because she saw Kara become Supergirl in the alleyway behind the building one time, and Supergirl saved her sister during an alien attack. It's not much, but it's what a girl living off of tips can do, and saving the city must be hungry work.

The young couple living across the street from Kara's loft have seen her fly in the window carrying ridiculous amounts of takeout on so many late nights.

All these people, the normal citizens of National City. Connected by a secret they didn't mean to learn and would never tell, or even confront her about. They're all just content to keep the secret, and if Kara finds doughnuts on her desk after a particularly hard fight, or her favorite sweater that was discarded pre flight dry cleaned and delivered to her door? That'll just be their little way of saying thank you

#supergirl #love this #kara danvers

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Please quit ignoring your own boundaries. If you keep doing so (to not be a bother or whatever else) for someone, it can damage your relationship long term and may cause resentment to build no matter how much you don’t mean for it to happen.

It is good for your relationships and yourself to have and enforce boundaries.

#Boundaries #boundaries are important #Emotional health #relationships

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Having an easier time after struggling doesn’t mean you faked your mental illness. It’s normal for these things to fluctuate.

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#picardedit #trekedit #worf #Raffi Musiker #st pic: 3x03 #I want a cop show with these two #good cop bad cop #Comedy tho

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There's a few important tips for folks whether or not theyre staying in the relationships (and some folks can't or won't leave, and she's not shaming you)

My favorite one is the way we look at personality traits.

#dr ramani #narcissism #Narcissistic abuse #Survivors #Acceptance #Thoughts #Another skill set #Skill set #compilation #Youtube

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joyfulsmolthings

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I cant find my own writing in my own blog. (Did Tumblr change a function or something?)

#Tumblr #Writing #What?

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cats and terrible memes drawpile with @sango-blep this afternoon! it was really nice to get back to drawing together, hopefully Life Stuff has calmed enough for us to do this more regularly!

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#WHERE IS MY TIGER!?? #mental health #crying #tears #stress #stress cycle #release

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y’all remind yourselves your account is your space. you’re not a performance. you’re not annoying by being yourself. if people aren’t into it they can leave. you’re not obligated to please anyone, especially at the cost of your personal expression. the worst thing you can do for your online enjoyment is to filter or censor yourself.

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hmmm why does my uterus hurt and why do i feel kinda off. weird. surely these are not the warning symptoms of a predictable biological process that occurs on a regular schedule. anyway. im going to wear white pants today.

#🤣🤣🤣 #lfmao

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unavoidable that you will be the villain in someone else's story. You will be painted in an unfavorable light. You will be the irredeemable one. and all of this will happen despite how nice you might usually be or how kind or how respectful or how warm. and you will just have to move on.

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one thing that so many students forget is that, a win is a win. if you planned on doing english homework but instead you finished your history essay, celebrate that, don’t be upset taht you didn’t sick to your plan, at least you got SOMETHING DONE. a win is a fucking win and don’t let anyone tell you different.