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gay-dumpsterfire · 2 years
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I keep all of the compliments you’ve given me tucked away inside my head. Because every time I doubt myself, your kind words pick me up again. I’ve never believed when people say nice things about me, but I trust you so deeply that even the most unbelievable compliments, I accept as undoubtable truths. This, to me, is what true love is.
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gay-dumpsterfire · 2 years
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I have scars from my chest to my ankles and everywhere in-between. Some buried deep, some like mountains atop my skin. I often burn myself on the grills at work or slice my hands on boxes. I’ve given myself razor and rug burns. I fall more often than I’d like to admit. I’ve had surgery and broken bones. I have piercings and tattoos. All of that combined will never hurt as much as trying to let myself love men after everything I’ve been through. I’ve been bullied and harassed for everything from my gender to my weight to the clothes that I wear. I’ve been sexually harassed and assaulted by my male peers when I was in elementary school. The men in power have been dangling my rights above my head since the moment I was conceived. I can count the good men in my life on one hand. Yet still, I try to see the good. I write love letters to men who don’t even exist, because I hope someday when I find one who needs a little cheering up, my words can put a smile on their face. I write about the beauty in all shapes and sizes so they can know that they are loved, because it’s hard for me to feel loved. I go out of my way to compliment men because I know genuine compliments are not normalcy for them. I try to be the man I wish I had had in my life, but I struggle to allow myself the freedom to love men without guilt or fear. Especially now.
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gay-dumpsterfire · 2 years
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I’m finally working through the fact that I survived SA as a child. I started drawing these to cope. They’re not great, but I’ve accepted them for what they are. There will be many more to come.
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gay-dumpsterfire · 2 years
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I want a large man who can block out the world and make me feel safe. Someone who’s confident and caring and is proud to say I’m theirs. I also want to be that man for someone else. I want a man who’s small and innocent whose eyes light up at the smallest compliment. A man who’s shy and goofy with an addictive smile. I want a man with long fingers to hold my hands and make me feel small and precious. I want to hold a man and watch as the wall he’s built slowly fades away because he feels safe in my arms. I want a man I can go on cute little dates with. Take my dog for a walk and talk about whatever random ADHD thought I have. Make out at the mall to spite homophobes. I want to take a man out to dinner and pull out his chair, compliment him, and just make sure he knows he’s loved. I want a man to not only talk about his hobbies, but teach me how to do them as well. I want forehead kisses and innocent hugs from behind. I want to play dumb games like cornhole so we can laugh about how bad I am at it. I just want to feel loved and make someone else feel loved as well.
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gay-dumpsterfire · 2 years
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I love when men have large hands that fully encase my own. I love the goofy grins they get when they’re proud and embarrassed at the same time. The shy smiles that fill my stomach with butterflies. I love tall men, how their bodies wrap around me and I feel safe and warm. I love short men who are just my size because I too, am short. I love thin men. They look like they could break so easily, but they’re spitfires instead. I love chunky men, especially when they have a belly. They’re so soft and comfortable and warm. I love men with long hair that effortlessly falls just right and the way it blows in the breeze. I love men with short hair whose beautiful faces aren’t hidden from the world to see. I love confident men who aren’t afraid to say what they think. I love shy men who smile at every compliment. How I wish words could make them see how beautiful they really are. I just. Love. Men.
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gay-dumpsterfire · 4 years
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Listen I just wanna see the Gold Bond man bust through a door and be like “Nurture your fucking skin. GOLD BOND!”
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gay-dumpsterfire · 4 years
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How long do you have?
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gay-dumpsterfire · 4 years
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pArDnEr
whats the gender neutral word for cowboy/cowgirl.. just cause the gender binary dont call to ya doesnt mean that the lush fields and blue texas sky cant either
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gay-dumpsterfire · 4 years
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🎶I want a church girl that go to church..and read her biiible🎶
This Disembodied Robotic Mouth is Reciting Algorithmically Generated Prayers and Basically? You’re Fucking Stupid
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gay-dumpsterfire · 5 years
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whenever I get sad, I just think about dan from florida
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thanks, dan
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gay-dumpsterfire · 5 years
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Him: So do you have a penis?
Me: I’m not discussing my genitals with you??
Him: What are you biologically?
Me: I am biologically a toaster.
Him: That makes no sense.
Me: Makes more sense than you asking a guy you barely know about his genitalia.
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gay-dumpsterfire · 5 years
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a very good moist boy
time to call otters “moist boys”
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gay-dumpsterfire · 5 years
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What a shame the poor groom’s bride is a whore
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gay-dumpsterfire · 5 years
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Said a bridesmaid to a waiter
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gay-dumpsterfire · 5 years
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Me: *fixes friend’s hair*
Friend: *twitches* bwwhaaat are you doing?
Me: *continues fixing her hair* Making your hair straight unlike my sexuality.
Friend: *rolling her eyes* Wow, ANOTHER gay joke.
Me: *proud of my stupid ass* Yep!
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gay-dumpsterfire · 5 years
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“I scream! You scream! We all scream for communism!”
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gay-dumpsterfire · 5 years
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Friend: We need to get me tested to see if I actually have ADD or ADHD.
Me: *very excited like* I have ADHD! *realises how fucked up that is* Wow, I got really excited.
Friend: Me!
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