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Damn,

First boyfriend at 17,

First love at 18,

First partner at 18,

First heartbreak at 18,

What next?

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Lmaoo I'm now in my full omni era, let's gooooo

Abro culture is being in your ___ era

Currently I have phased into my asexual/homoromantic era and am living my best life.

Who knows about tomorrow?

Maybe I'll fall into an omnisexual/heteromantic era? Or possibly my full ace era? Ya never know...

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I think I found the perfect person tho :))

I asked them out and they said maybe, which will hopefully become a yes?

I'm doing my best to lay off tho because I really like him and don't want to scare them off :"(

I met him less than a week ago, but it feels like I've known them for years. They said they feel the same way but idk I'm nervous because of my last relationship :"(

I really hope we get together

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Shiiit

A LOT has happened for me these last few days wtf

#wtf

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Ok, but like consider, I am hilarious because every time I come out as abro the person's first question is "like magic?"

Y'all think you're so funny, but I've learned and adapted and say the joke before your histerical 1/100 joke making ass.

... No i do not go to therapy

(Nothing wrong with therapy tho)

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Abro culture is being in your ___ era

Currently I have phased into my asexual/homoromantic era and am living my best life.

Who knows about tomorrow?

Maybe I'll fall into an omnisexual/heteromantic era? Or possibly my full ace era? Ya never know...

#omnisexual #homoromantic #abro #abrosexual #queer #living my best life #asexual #aromantic #fluidity

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This

So much of the queer community Hates fluidity. Identifying as genderfluid or abrosexual is fine until you actually specify what genders or sexualities you're fluid between then it's "you're not a REAL lesbian" "you're not a REAL girl" etc.

Unironically it's "you can say you're fluid but saying how you're fluid immediately invalidates it" which is backwards ass binary bullshit.

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And to think I told this guy I loved him.

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Also just found out my shitty ex was emotionally cheating on me if not straight up cheating by the end of our 5 month relationship in which I gaslit myself into thinking he liked me cuz "Ofc he likes you he's your boyfriend???" But it turned out he was just dating me to impress his mom (love you, MM).

I'm so incredibly mad and have no clue how to move on. I know I will with time, but most of our friends are mutuals and talk about him. Every time I learn more about him and how he acts with people around us, I go back to being furious with him and myself.

#angry #idfk man #i'm just so tired #bad relationships #bad boyfriend

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Something I am cursed with is constantly getting crushes on people and then the second there's a big fuss of it I no longer do.

For example: I crush on my bestie, I tell a friend and then feel imense guilt for it, and then make cringe ass posts of it. Jump to present day, that crush is either now gone or has been squashed into the tiny crevasse of my mind in which I keep all my friendship ending things.

I would ask if this had something to do with me being Abro but I think it's just me being attention starved and seeking, as well as being a freaky bitch :/

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Okay anyways. Pumpkin carving, we love it, we slay it, we could make mashed pumpkin with the scraps?

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I feel bad tho, I think I'm gonna get over this crush, but i feel bad having feelings for my best friend. Like I feel like I'm making them uncomfortable or betraying them. I think this is just me finding it difficult to differentiate between platonic and romantic feelings. I will not drop hints to me liking them. I will not cross boundaries. I will not push my luck. I respect them and their feelings and respect their decisions.

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Not my best friend and kinda sorta crush telling me that we should pretend to be dating to go to a couples party together 💀

#fake dating #crush #bestfriend #save me

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My name is Pico, but I'm far from tiny

My pronouns are whatever

I'm 18

I go to university for classical language type stuff

I am in too many fandoms, but right now I'm a big Smosh and Friendly Jordies watcher

I'm trying to learn to form good habits and lose bad ones, so I will write about my experiences here and just my day to day stuff, too.

#vlog #maybe? #i might #gtkm2023 #hi im new here #but not really

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Ok, but can we talk about how 2 queer coded best friends are like an awesome trope? Whether they're romantic intrests or not doesn't matter, they're perfect all the same.

#2 bros #gay #not gay #doesn't matter #good tropes #is bras the feminine for bros? #can we normalize that?

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First semester of Uni and burnout is already kicking my ass even though I just watch Smosh for 9 hours a day

#burnout #smosh