Kinda weird when people get upset when they see someone who identifies the same as them (gender or sexuality or both)but the other person expresses it in a way that they don’t like or disagree with.Like they take it as some kind of personal attack that not everyone will fall under their very specific checklist of what they think everyone should look/act like. It’s not very cash myoney if you ask me.
Similar to the concept of fluid orientation flag, this is a flag for when one's gender identity is fluid. This doesn't mean one necessarily that one identifies as genderfluid, but they can if they want to. It can be considered the auingender/autonomique version of idingender.
The word amplusian is more ample and encompasses fluid genders, but it's a label, and unlabeled people can have fluid gender experiences. Genderflux people can consider their gender experience fluid, for example, even if they have a static gender (fluxstatic/genderfumy). Transgender people can consider their "change" or transition as a fluid experience too.
Would anyone who considers themself genderfluid be willing to talk to me about their experience?
I consider myself genderfluid as my perception of myself and gender changes in a near constant basis, though I don't change pronouns. I have a top surgery consultation coming up (I'm afab). I'm just worried cause my gender fluctuates SO MUCH I'm worried I'll have regrets even tho I'm at least 90% sure I don't want boobs and would be fine with breast forms of I ever wanted to present like I have them
But I'm also just curious about how other people experience their gender in such a fluid way because I feel like I'm constantly having a crisis and often have "what if I'm just cis" fears when I am leaning more femme.
Would i get burned for saying that sometimes I feel validated and comfortable with using the asexual/aromantic labels; and other times i hate them and feel like they're a curse that limits me? I'm still using them now, secondary to 'Queer,' but if the day comes I don't need them anymore, I'll let them go. This is my journey, and I am wrestling all the way through.
I loathe the idea of being held up as an example of what a thing is or isn't and what other people are or aren't or should be. The part--the wrestling and talking about it--that makes this hard is the fear of this situation. I don't want to be used to invalidate someone else's experience. That is theirs, not mine.