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ADHD

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It makes me happy when they listen

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It’s important to remember that your best varies day to day. Some days, your best means you may knock off several tasks. Some days, your best may mean you cannot even get out of bed.

When you hear “do your best” please remember that your best varies and that’s okay.

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Very gentle reminder that no one is watching you. No one is waiting outside to hurt you, mock you, belittle you, or cause you harm. People are walking around in their own heads probably worrying about their own issues and worrying if anyone is noticing them. They're too busy wondering the same things to think any differently about you.

And even if they were, you're a pretty awesome person anyway. They're probably thinking really good things about you. Like how nice your shirt looks, or how cool ur hoodie is. People are actually a lot nicer than you'd think. 🌸

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The duality of "If you even imply that being aro or ace condemns someone to a sad and lonely life I will fucking fight you"

and

"being aro and ace is the most isolating thing I will ever experience"

#aromantic #asexual #Yeah this is exactly it.

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Yuma is so very ADHD/ADHD-coded, and I love him so much as a character.

Do you know this (noncanon) ADHD character?

Evidence below the cut!

Oh boy.

- Have you seen this boy move? He does ridiculous acrobatics and moves around a lot in general in a way that could be read as hyperactive

- Yuma's whole thing is feeling the flow and high fiving the sky. He does ridiculous stunts and dares just because he can.

- Yuma sleeps in front of the gate so he'll be able to get into the tournament on time, but he forgets his heart pieces (the proof that he's a semi-finalist). He also forgot to sign up for the World Duel Carnival originally, and the only reason he got in is because Kite saw him.

- Yuma literally threw himself in front of a truck to push his friend, Tori, out of the way; this is an impulsive thing to do and also shows how ride or die he is for his friends.

- He definitely forgot a whole argument that he had just had with Tori in one episode.

- It's Yu-Gi-Oh, so hyperfixations and special interests in card games are par for the course, and Yuma definitely is focused solely on card game dueling (to the detriment of other things).

- The way Yuma handles friendships (if we duel, we're friends!) feels kinda ADHD to me

- there are definitely other examples of him having ADHD traits that I'm missing

#yugioh zexal #yuma tsukumo #Yu-Gi-Oh Zexal

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Like I just don't think the way towards effective disability solidarity is doubling down on how all disabilities are basically the same. I think what we need to do to get anywhere is take a step back and listen when someone who is disabled in a different way than we are has different experiences and needs. Because while ALL disabilities are real, valid and serious, there are differences in lived experiences worth acknowledging and exploring between, let's say, being a wheelchair user and being autistic and being psychotic. There are even differences worth noting between being a low support needs autistic person and a high support needs autistic person. We're not all the same. And our solidarity should not depend on claiming that we are

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It’s so valid if you aren’t up to being positive. It’s okay to feel negative things. It’s okay to feel negative about things. You aren’t a failure. You don’t need to be positive all the time. In fact, it can be counterproductive.

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Experiencing burnout in an area you love doesn’t mean you are no longer passionate about that thing, or are any less good at it. It’s often an indication that there are other parts of your life that need your care. A garden looks most beautiful when every flower is watered, and you deserve to nourish yourself in the same way. You will flourish again.

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btw disabled people. please make things easier for yourself in any way you can. shit is hard enough already we don’t need to refuse ourselves any help we can get

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I'm in a mood. Please send me some asks, anon or not!

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Reblog to let your followers know that despite your current obsession your previous obsessions still exist and are simply lying dormant until they awaken and strike again

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They are not the only one who will love you. There are so many people you have yet to meet who will love you. This isn’t the end.

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Knight of Pentacles, Ten of Cups, and Six of Swords are all nice cards. (I do not have a favorite wands card for some reason.) I guess it's because the Ten of Cups and Six of Swords are both very hopeful cards for me. King of Cups is cool too.

The Major Arcana get too much press. What are yall's favorite Minor Arcana?

#tarot

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🎶✨when u get this, list 5 songs u like to listen to, publish. then, send this ask to 10 of your favourite followers (positivity is cool)🎶✨

Thanks for the ask!

Black Sheep by Mori Calliope (if it wasn't obvious because of my blog title) https://youtu.be/EQnXz-QYRms?si=n5umR0tIk4vooVev

Moonlight by Harumaki Gohan and Tatsuya Kitani (specifically the Vivid BAD SQUAD version of the song) https://youtu.be/E5Wu8Ir6kdQ?si=AOQI-q7hkt0GpZfe

Self Proclaimed Angel by KAT is a more recent favorite of mine https://youtu.be/oKyqHbk_WlU?si=_YVQ2-VsStggHTjr

VICTORY by DIVELA https://youtu.be/qvfUN8rIxgU?si=NRiex-V6xwkBp7uA

Goodbye April Doppel by nekobolo https://youtu.be/-fSZTvMLIEs?si=yoP4XRBMQiicxefR

I have a lot of songs I listen to, so it was a bit hard to narrow it down to five. My music taste is a bit all over the place too, which also makes it hard.

#ask tag

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I dunno, sometimes it feels much better to have a neutral word to describe a neutral reality rather than being defaulted to "gay" at best and "frigid bitch" at worst

#asexual #It's nice to have words to describe your experiences.