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Does anybodys npd make them egotistical but only internal? I dont really show my npd its more of “YES IM THE BEST EVERYONE ELSE SUCKS” but then i actually interact with people and all they see is a anxious idiot in a sweater and shorts listening to shitty vocaloid music

#YESS #this is what our NPD is like 99% of the time #with the exception of two of our alters that are overt about it #otherwise we only think we're better internally and cry any time we need to talk to people #everyone thinks we have no self confidence but we just dont know how to show it #or something like that #npd #npd positivity #npd safe #npd traits #npd posting #npd things

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You know it’s really annoying that I’m getting a bunch of hate anons about me ‘destroying/erasing womenhood’ or whatever the fuck and then I see a post on my dash saying that transphobes don’t think trans men are attacking traditional masculinity/femininity.

way to make a post that just screams “I ignore transphobia faced by trans men because it doesn’t fit whatever weird ideas I have about trans men’s experiences as a non-trans man”

Transphobes have written whole books about trans men supposably ‘grooming young girls to hate themselves to transition to destroy womenhood’ , politicians have made speeches about how pregnant trans men are ‘destroying masculinity and the idea of manhood’, and y’all still just say “oh no. Trans men are invisible! Transphobes don’t target trans men!” . Fuck off.

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I’m thinking about that person who asked me “ugh why would your parents want you to be attracted to men? Wouldn’t that make you gay? You men try to make everything about yourself” when I made a post about how I feel pressured to be a women who likes men because I grew up being told I’d be a woman who would marry a man and I asked if that counted as comphet. And people just couldn’t wrap their head around the fact that trans guys experience the misogynistic and heteronormative pressure to be women who likes men.

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Recently diagnosed with ADHD and going to be very annoying about it

#ngl i headcannon him with NPD #because like 1. i have NPD and hes very relatable (technically thats cuz im. a fivtive of him but shush) #and 2. he fits all the symptoms ngl #:3 #- zim

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Never use Surfshark VPN

I just wanted to make this post to warn yall about it, I am not a tech genius but I wanted to get a vpn and surfshark was one I knew about so i subscribed to them because it seemed ok, that was where I fucked up.

fast forward a year and now I am trying to cancel my yearly auto-renewing subscription which costs 70 fuckin bucks, didnt find much use in surfshark as it was too laggy when using its vpn services so i go to billing and try to cancel.

there was no cancel button so that was odd, and you cant turn off auto-renew so i figure ill just get rid of my card info so it cant charge me.

i cant or at least i cant figure out how.

I go to help and find the cancellation area after scrolling past why you should keep the subscription and it tells me to contact their live support to cancel, It requires my name and gmail, I know for a fact my gmail is correct but it says its wrong and that my name is wrong no matter how many ways I enter it and I cant find a possible username anywhere on the site i could use. Its for all practical reasons impossible for me to cancel, not just the fact I cant even talk to customer support, but the people on reddit that do, talk to a bot and then the agents take months to actually turn off the subscription so it charges again and there is no refunds.

dont use surfshark VPN

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What’s the real harm done by someone who became plural due to being a writer, which is actually an incredibly common experience?

What’s the real harm done by someone whose religious or spiritual practices involve plurality due to sharing their mind with those who they worship?

What’s the real harm in someone who views their imaginary friends as headmates in order to cope with loneliness, isolation, or mental illness?

This blog is not doing the good you think it is. Being anti-endo is not such a noble thing, and it actually comes across as bigoted in a lot of ways, the very least of which is dismissive to those of other spiritual beliefs and ableist to those who are literally disabled who still experience plurality without trauma.

Being plural by writing is not a common experience.

I have never seen any other spiritual practices need someone or make someone become plural.

The harm doesn’t come by imaginary friends.

The real harm that all of what you said does is the further demonization of endogenics, “non-traumagenic system,” and people like you do to a disorder that is cherry picked from. The harm is that you will always scream “bigot” and “ableist” like a boy that will always cry wolf because you’re not getting your way. The harm is that the more endogenics, “non-traumagenics,” tulpagenics, and people that support these people take away resources from OSDDID systems.

I cannot find a therapist that supports what I need. I cannot find a therapist that will openly say that they will support OSDD or DID. I cannot find a therapist that will help support me to heal from OEA. The more people fake, the worse it becomes for systems. The harm done to genuine systems who cannot get out of endo and pro-endo spaces because of this sort of thing that you do.

Tulpagenics have taken away a practice so dear to those that participated and has offended a culture. You cannot be so daft as to think that anti-endos are the ones causing harm.

I’m here as a means of giving community to people like me a place to get away from people like you. If you can’t accept that, block me and move on. You can believe what you want to believe but do not put it here.

I don’t care if I’m being noble or not, I don’t care if someone sees me as doing something amazing. I care on having a community that won’t shove things down my throat as a means of conforming to the masses. I’m used to being infamous with a terrible reputation, I don’t care if that never changes. It will be expected of me to do bad things so I’m as free as I’ll ever need to be.

And I can continue being free from the muck you’ve spilled here.

You cannot be plural without trauma. Just because some don’t remember their trauma doesn’t mean that those that know are noble either.

You’re not noble for coming here.

You and the people that want to scream what you do are the ones that treat a disorder like a gender identity and the ones that want to harm others and tell others terrible things because you can’t handle it.

You can’t get everything you want in life. Best to learn it young.

Get off of my blog, my page, and away from my people. Go ass kiss to yours and I’ll continue treating mine like royalty.

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Gonna say it again because I’ve met yet another disgusting group of people,,,,

ENDOGENIC “SYSTEMS” ARE NOT VALID

YOU CAN NOT BE A SYSTEM WITHOUT TRAUMA!! THE WHOLE DEFINITION OF A SYSTEM IS WHEN A BRAIN FRAGMENTS BECAUSE OF SEVERE CHILDHOOD TRAUMA!!!

Maybe you don’t remember your trauma, or it’s being blocked from you, and in that case you’re still a system, but only deluding yourself by using the term “endogenic”. If not, literally go fuck yourself.

I will not apologize. There is no real evidence that endogenic “systems” are real or can exist. Stop treating a serious mental disorder as some fun roleplay experience. Just shut up, admit you were wrong, apologize, and move on.

“So you’re saying I don’t exist?!?!?” Piss off I know you as a person exist, but the way you label yourself as a “system” is just factually wrong.

“You’re being ABLIEST!!!” No, YOU’RE the ableist one for appropriating something that devastates people and flooding the system community with false info and harmful caricatures of who we are .

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"I respect you and won't stop you from being who you are" and "I'm not ready to call you by a new name and pronouns because it hurts me" can not co-exist when the speaker is your parent who has a huge amount of control over your life.

#nod #endos dni

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One thing I often see to say Zim is an adult is that he's an invader and they wouldn't send kids to do that but like yes the tallest would send kids especially Zim who they hate. Also the invaders they send are still growing

And Zim grows throughout the show

Episode one next to skoodge

Hobo 13 next to skoodge

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Everytime someone repeats the myth that trans men can’t reclaim tranny because it was a word coined by trans women and trans men never used it back then makes me realize they don’t think trans men are part of the trans community. Because there’s so much documented proof of trans men in the 80s/90s calling themselves tranny, existing in spaces with trans women, people using the term to apply to both trans men and trans women as a show of unity.

Sometimes people think trans men just sat around and did nothing for the trans community. And I’m getting kind of annoyed with it.

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As a transmasc I'm tired of people forgetting about me

I'm tired of people acting like my suffering doesn't exist. Like I have it easy or like I'm just fine

I'm bullied constantly, I literally cannot leave the house without someone saying something about me or to me that makes me feel unsafe or unhappy or hurt.

I can't go online without seeing "men are horrible" or "fuck all men", it makes me feel guilty for identifying this way. No I'm not completely a man, but I'm part man. I know men. I don't care if they're trans or cis. I know men that are good.

Please stop acting like because I'm masculine I don't get to suffer. I've seen people say trans-mascs can't say tranny, as if I haven't been called that 50 times already. As if people don't discriminate against us too.

This post probably doesn't make sense but I'm honestly so tired and pissed. Please stop acting like trans men or transmascs have it easy. We do not. You are not helping. You're making things worse for us.

#transandrophobia #trans #transmasc #transphobia #cw transphobia mention #? #endos dni #vent

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Headcanon that the Tallest act like they don’t want Zim’s love because they take it for granted and get off on withholding affection, but the instant they perceive that he might like someone else (Dib) they get insanely jealous and start throwing out little scraps of validation just to keep him wrapped around their fingers.

#Invader Zim #almighty tallest #zadr #prazr #they are just very threatened when everything doesn’t revolve around them #<- prev tags #very much agree with this idea

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Introduction post —

★ system name : the moths nest

★ collective name(s) : moth or bug

★ collective pronouns : he/it/they/xe

★ collective terms : masc , neu & non human

★ alter terms : pupmates , headmates , alters or parts

★ system terms : system or plural

Before you Interact —

★ we have about 400+ pupmates

★ we are a C-DID / polyfragmented system

★ we are questioning NPD and autism

★ we may need tone tags sometimes

★ we take criticism as an attack, so if you're going to criticise us please try be as kind as possible because it's hard for us to tell the difference between criticism and insults

Do not interact —

★ endos or pro endos

★ trans-ID or pro trans-ID

★ narc-abuse believers (or any other disordered abuse)

★ those who believe in "doubles"

★ anti recovery IRLs / DAs (we experience delusions and you are not helping)

★ basic DNI

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Who makes the porn bots. Where do they come from. What do they hope to achieve.

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do you have any tips on how to do plain text and image descriptions correctly? like how descriptive should I be/not be when describing the image and stuff? I want to be as accessible as I can for people but I'm not sure how exactly to go about it. sorry if this ask is weird or anything, I'm just horrible at describing/explaining things and don't want to look stupid 😭

Absolutely! I'll leave them under the cut as this will be quite long, though ^^

PLAIN TEXT

[PT: Plain Text. END PT.]

When adding plain text, you can add it before or after your message, but adding it before your message renders the actual message kind of useless! I'd personally recommend adding it before. However, directly after still works.

They can be written in a few different ways, some including:

[PT: text. END PT.]

[pt: text. end pt.]

PT: text. END PT.

pt: text. end pt.

You should drop all TQs and type with proper grammar when typing out a plain text. For example, "Hewwo! Nyice tu mweet yu!! Mwy name is [X]" would become "PT: Hello! Nice to meet you! My name is [X]" or "H♡w are y♡u t♡day?" would become "PT: How are you today? END PT."

You should never put the plain text (or image ID) under the cut as when accounts are deactivated, which happens often in the MOGAIblr community, you are no longer able to access the 'Read More' section. This is why most archive blogs add in the under the cut text when reblogging posts.

IMAGE IDS

[PT: Image IDs. END PT.]

When making an image ID, you can put the ID in either the alt text feature (accessible in the three dots present on the image on mobile or the three dots that appear when you hover over it on PC) or after the image in the post.

There's a few ways you can write out IDs, whether in alt text or just the post.

[IMAGE ID: text. END ID.]

[ID: text. END ID.]

ID: text. END ID.

id: text. end id.

[id: text. end id.]

I usually try to be descriptive enough to get the point across when making my image IDs! For example, with this image: ( AC: @petasawa )

[IMAGE ID: A pale, white-haired girl with pastel pink eyes and glasses is sitting on her knees looking up at the camera. She has one hand up, with a ring/bandaid on her middle finger. Her hair is tied into two short pigtails and she's wearing a primarily white-and-black beret. She has a loose, short-sleeved vest-like top with a baggy white shirt underneath that has cuffed sleeves. She's wearing a tie, tucked into her vest, and a white, frilled skirt. END ID.]

You describe enough to get the point across, you should spend most of your time describing the subject of the photo (if there is one), then their foreground, and then their background. This may change depending on the composition of the photo. I would personally do it in order of what catches the person's eye when they see the photo.

For flags, I'll use the transmasc flag as an example.

[ID: A 7-striped flag, that starting from the second stripe to the 6th, gradients from a light blue to a bright blue and then back again. The outermost stripes are bright pink. END ID.]

Most commonly, I describe the number of stripes and then the colors. It makes it a lot easier to describe if you use 'gradient' rather than just listing off every color, if your flag is a gradient. Some short templates you could follow could be:

A #-striped flag that gradients from [X] to [X].

A #-striped flag that from top to bottom is colored [X], [X], [X], [X].

If the flag has a symbol, you would just describe it like something in a normal image ID!

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I wish the internet was a safe place because I so desperately wanna explain the whole lore of my system

MY SYSTEM IS MY HYPERFIXATION

#did system #system #dissociative system #sysblr #traumagenic system #did #did osdd #system stuff #actually did #endos dni #anti endo