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Have you heard of the album Everywhere Until The End of Time by The Caretaker? Can I request angst with a S/O who has dementia with the demon brothers ? If you don't want to that's understandable, thank you!

I have not! But I can certainly do my best to provide on this prompt! I hope that this came out to your liking, nonnie! I did my best with information from the internet as well as personal experience))

MC with Dementia

Lucifer

Does his best to help MC out with remembering things that they will forget

Makes little notes for them on information they need to remember and puts it them all around the home so they’ve got constant reminder about the things they asked Lucifer to note.

Very careful with them, especially if they’re having a moment where they’re struggling to remember something or if they’re having struggles communicating. Will wait no matter how long it takes for them to say something and will help them if he can.

Very gentle, helping them out without acting condescending or talking down to them. He wants MC to trust him and not be afraid or ashamed to need help sometimes. However, he won’t coddle them, especially if they explain that they don’t want him to be overprotective with them.

Offers them all of his love regardless and makes sure they’re always aware that he’ll be there to support MC through all stages and with whatever they might need. They are his #1 priority

Mammon

Poor baby doesn’t understand fully at first, but definitely does his best to offer his help

If MC repeats a question they just asked, sometimes Mammon can forget what he answered the first time and just...stares blankly for a minute. Then with an ‘oh-!’ he repeats it with no issue.

Mammon is surprisingly one of the best brothers if MC goes through mood swings or a personality change. He knows it isn’t their fault and adapts well to their needs and current state.

If they misplace something and forget where it was, Mammon will stop at absolutely nothing to track it down and return it to his precious MC. Hell or high water.

No matter what stage of dimentia MC is in, Mammon will love them and do his best to give them whatever they need, whenever they need it. If he can’t do it himself, he’ll make sure one of his brothers can.

Leviathan

I have to admit, I think Leviathan would be one of the brothers that don’t fully..understand it? He struggles a little with understanding what MC needs and what happens with them, but is quick to learn once one of his brothers can tell him what he sort-of needs to do

Tries to offer a safe-space for MC. He tries to offer them safety and relaxation so they can focus less on trying to struggle and cope, and more on enjoying themselves.

Will teach MC how to play a game no matter what. If they forget it? Perfectly fine, he’ll gladly teach you again just as gentle as the first time. Motor skills or mind becoming disoriented. With your permission, he can gently hold your hands and guide you back through it or just offer physical support.

Once he fully grasps it, Leviathan becomes soft and gentle toward MC. Usually he would get frustrated if someone forgot something important to him, but he has no problem repeating it as long as MC asks him.

From what I read, dimentia can cause problems in communication, which is something Leviathan struggles with to his own extent. I feel like he would probably try to put aside his own struggles to help MC remember the right words or assist them (with their permission) into saying what they’re struggling to say.

Satan

Satan is second only to Lucifer with how tender and careful he is with MC. He reads every book, studies every medical journal, consults every database on the disease and ultimately does his 100% best to properly care for MC when they need it.

Does MC need a reminder here and there? If Lucifer hasn’t done it, Satan is nearly always first. Problems with more abstract thoughts and thinking? Satan is happy to offer whatever MC asks of him.

If MC’s condition ever causes a loss of initiative or depression, he’s there to offer various things for them to try or ways to make it more desirable. He wants to let them know that he’ll help them live an amazing life with him, regardless of their condition.

Will read any book to them, no matter how many times he has to reread anything from a sentence to the entire book. I remember my grandmother hyperfixiated on a cookbook when she had dimentia, so if MC got that way then Satan would have 0 objections to reading with them.

Overall so tender with MC, but definitely trying to help them with their own independence. He wants to see them smile and be as happy as they possibly can be, and he’s willing to do anything for them to ensure that.

Asmodeus

Another brother I feel like might struggle in understanding things. He wouldn’t be neglectful, but I feel like he’d start out not fully grasping what it all means. Once he learns the different effects and stages dimentia can have, he’s much more careful about how he approaches the situation.

Will idly chat with MC if they’d like him to, hoping to pull their mind off of more complex thoughts that their mind may have trouble piecing together and just letting them have a bit of ease.

If MC has a problem completing a task that they used to before, Asmo has no problem helping them (if they ask). If not, then he will try his best to still support MC while they go about their schedule and do their tasks.

Still loves cuddling and snuggling with them, as his love language is physical touch. If MC would like, he’d love to give them a gentle back rub and facemask so he can ease them into peace. Even if he’s not as informed about MC’s condition, he’ll still find ways to make things easier while also sticking up for their independence.

Is definitely more of someone who tries to help in ways that are more indirect. He doesn’t want to try and make them feel bad or guilty for their condition and instead offers time and love when they need it. He always lets his MC know that his door is open anytime they want to wind down.

Beelzebub

Extremely soft and understanding, even if he doesn’t fully get everything that dementia can effect or cause. MC is a part of Beel’s family, and he’s a firm believer that family supports each other no matter what happens. MC is no different.

Similar to Mammon, Beel will adapt to whatever MC needs or wants at any given point. If they want him to be with them, he’s happy to scoop them up in his arms and tell them stories. If they want space, he gives it to them. MC knows he’s always going to support them.

Shows a lot of his understanding through acts of service. If MC loses place of something, he’ll get it. If MC hyperfixiates on a particular food, clothing, tv show, movie, or whatever else? Beel will make sure that they get it with no complaint. He may not be the best with fully using his own words, but he’s at MC’s beck and call in a heartbeat.

If MC becomes disoriented, Beel will try to ease them into a place that they can recooperate and get back on track. He’ll let them hold onto his arm, carry them, or just walk by them in case they need something. He’s strong, so he’ll do anything physical MC might need.

Beel may not be as educated on MC’s disorder as Satan or Lucifer might be, but he does his best to learn and look out for things that may hint that MC is struggling. He wants them to be happy and live their best life, so he offers as much support as a whole room filled with pillars.

Belphegor

Belphegor, in my 100% honest opinion, would probably be the worst of the brothers at first. He’s the baby of the family and a bit of a brat, so he’s used to everything being about him. Not only, but he’s lazy and sleeps a lot, which could be an issue for someone with a cognitive disorder that involves sleep issues, motor issues, struggling with basic things and repeating information. However, he does love MC with all of his heart. After seeing them struggle and deal with self-frustration, Belphegor will get over his act real quick and start being more helpful.

Although he does enjoy his 22 hours of daily sleep, Belphegor will be with MC if their dimentia is causing them to have sleeping problems. He’ll lay with them in the observatory and talk about the starts until they fall asleep. If they don’t or can’t sleep, he’ll just lay with them. Sure, he might get drowsy, but he’ll stay up if it means seeing to MC’s health.

If MC starts having more psychological issues, such as paranoia, depression, loneliness, or irritability, Belphegor is actually rather good at trying to soothe them. Even if they cannot be fully convinced, he’s patient and kind with them. If they’re lonely, he’ll welcome them with open arms to lie with him. He’ll rub their back and try to coo to them if they’re paranoid and try to assure MC that they’re safe.

If MC has issues recognizing things, Belphegor will gently remind them . He’s not rude or snobby with it and does his best to help MC with remembering if they can on their own. However, if they’re in the later stages of dementia and are struggling with it, he’ll softly help them with whatever it is they’re having a problem with.

All in all, Belphegor softens up with MC the longer he hangs around and understands what’s going on. If MC needs help or just a nice, long nap after a long day, his bed has an extra MC-shaped space for them to be in. He understands that it’s hard to live with something like this, but he loves them so much that he doesn’t mind the journey.

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